15 Top nonfiction books like I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes from the End of the World by Kai Cheng Thom

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I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes from the End of the World

By: Kai Cheng Thom

4.44

Format: 155 pages, Paperback

What can we hope for at the end of the world? What can we trust in when community has broken our he…

"When you live in a community of queers, anarchists, & activists, crisis is the baseline and stability an outlier."

-Kai Cheng Thom, I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes from the End of the World

"When you live in a community of queers, anarchists, & activists, crisis is the baseline and stability an outlier."

-Kai Cheng Thom, I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes from the End of the World

"Models of justice that centre punishment do not prevent abuse but only react to it, and they don't offer a pathway toward healing for either perpetrators or survivors. Nor do they acknowledge the dual reality that a great many perpetrators are themselves survivors."

-Kai Cheng Thom, I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes from the End of the World

"Models of justice that centre punishment do not prevent abuse but only react to it, and they don't offer a pathway toward healing for either perpetrators or survivors. Nor do they acknowledge the dual reality that a great many perpetrators are themselves survivors."

-Kai Cheng Thom, I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes from the End of the World

If you liked the nonfiction plot in I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes from the End of the World by Kai Cheng Thom , here is a list of 15 books like this:

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1. Drag King Dreams

By: Leslie Feinberg

3.74

Format: 302 pages, Paperback

From award-winning and best-selling author, Leslie Feinberg, comes Drag King Dreams, the story of M… read more

Similar categories in Leslie Feinberg's Drag King Dreams book and Kai Cheng Thom's I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes from the End of the World

  • transgender
  • lgbt
  • feminism
  • gender
  • queer
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2. The Faggots and Their Friends Between Revolutions

By: Larry Mitchell , Ned Asta

4.50

Format: 114 pages, Paperback

The Faggots and Their Friends Between Revolutions is a beloved queer utopian text written by Larry … read more

Similar categories in Larry Mitchell's The Faggots and Their Friends Between Revolutions book and Kai Cheng Thom's I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes from the End of the World

  • poetry
  • queer
  • transgender
  • lgbt
"The strong women told the faggots that the more you share, the less you need."

-Larry Mitchell, The Faggots and Their Friends Between Revolutions

"The women who love women wrote a song for the faggots. It was called, "Anything you do that the men don't like is o.k. by us."

-Larry Mitchell, The Faggots and Their Friends Between Revolutions

"Ramrod has an empire. They have not had it very long yet already it is shabby and disreputable. Everyday the faggots and their friends can see, hear, and feel Ramrod's empire disintegrating as the me…"

-Larry Mitchell, The Faggots and Their Friends Between Revolutions

"Nothing can defeat the spirit of the earth. The fairies know that the earth will not tolerate the men much longer. The earth, scarred and gouged and stripped and bombed, will deny life to the men in …"

-Larry Mitchell, The Faggots and Their Friends Between Revolutions

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3. I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes from the End of the World

By: Kai Cheng Thom

4.44

Format: 155 pages, Paperback

What can we hope for at the end of the world? What can we trust in when community has broken our he… read more

Similar categories in Kai Cheng Thom's I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes from the End of the World book and Kai Cheng Thom's I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes from the End of the World

  • poetry
  • memoir
  • transgender
  • lgbt
  • feminism
  • gender
  • nonfiction
  • social justice
  • essays
  • queer
"When you live in a community of queers, anarchists, & activists, crisis is the baseline and stability an outlier."

-Kai Cheng Thom, I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes from the End of the World

"Models of justice that centre punishment do not prevent abuse but only react to it, and they don't offer a pathway toward healing for either perpetrators or survivors. Nor do they acknowledge the dua…"

-Kai Cheng Thom, I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes from the End of the World

"That in a loving place, I am able to hear a friend disagree with me and know that they still care for me. That I can receive their advice and know that I don't have to follow it. That there is enough…"

-Kai Cheng Thom, I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes from the End of the World

"Transition is a fundamental right that all trans people, of all ages, should have access to. But I believe that transition, ideally, should be offered to us as one option of many for bodily autonomy …"

-Kai Cheng Thom, I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes from the End of the World

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4. Hijab Butch Blues

By: Lamya H.

4.48

Format: 284 pages, Hardcover

A queer hijabi Muslim immigrant survives her coming-of-age by drawing strength and hope from storie… read more

Similar categories in Lamya H.'s Hijab Butch Blues book and Kai Cheng Thom's I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes from the End of the World

  • memoir
  • lgbt
  • feminism
  • nonfiction
  • queer
"Sort of?"

-Lamya H., Hijab Butch Blues

"Queer indispensability?"

-Lamya H., Hijab Butch Blues

"I feel tired. Or reckless. Or maybe brave."

-Lamya H., Hijab Butch Blues

"I want to figure her out, this girl, and I want to know everything about her."

-Lamya H., Hijab Butch Blues

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5. Little Fish

By: Casey Plett

3.86

Format: 320 pages, Paperback

WINNER, Lambda Literary Award; Firecracker Award for Fiction; $60,000 Amazon Canada First Novel Awa… read more

Similar categories in Casey Plett's Little Fish book and Kai Cheng Thom's I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes from the End of the World

  • gender
  • queer
  • transgender
  • lgbt
"Maybe living through it isn't the only hard part. Maybe being in the world afterward is also the hard part."

-Casey Plett, Little Fish

"Wendy knew how to deal with looking cis and she knew how to deal with looking trans, but she would never, ever figure out how to be both. How the world could treat her so differently—within days or h…"

-Casey Plett, Little Fish

"What kind of world does the core of your brain expect that you, you personally get to live in? Wendy wanted to be loved. However easily she might have abandoned or ruined her prospects, Wendy did sti…"

-Casey Plett, Little Fish

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6. A Dream of a Woman

By: Casey Plett

4.31

Format: 279 pages, Paperback

Casey Plett's 2018 novel Little Fish won a Lambda Literary Award, the Firecracker Award for Fiction… read more

Similar categories in Casey Plett's A Dream of a Woman book and Kai Cheng Thom's I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes from the End of the World

  • queer
  • transgender
  • lgbt
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7. Care Work: Dreaming Disability Justice

By: Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha

4.55

Format: 264 pages, Paperback

In this collection of essays, Lambda Literary Award-winning writer and longtime activist and perfor… read more

Similar categories in Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha's Care Work: Dreaming Disability Justice book and Kai Cheng Thom's I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes from the End of the World

  • lgbt
  • feminism
  • nonfiction
  • social justice
  • essays
  • queer
"It [i.e. disability justice] means we are not left behind; we are beloved, kindred, needed."

-Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha, Care Work: Dreaming Disability Justice

"To me, one quality of disability justice culture is that it is simultaneously beautiful and practical. Poetry and dance are as valuable as a blog post about access hacks - because they're equally imp…"

-Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha, Care Work: Dreaming Disability Justice

"Disability Justice allowed me to understand that me writing from my sickbed wasn't me being week or uncool or not a real writer but a time-honoured crip creative practice. And that understanding allo…"

-Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha, Care Work: Dreaming Disability Justice

"One of the central loves of my life is coaching and supporting other writers. Specifically, writers who identify as BIPOC, sick/Mad/disabled, queer/trans, femme, working-class/poor, or some or all of…"

-Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha, Care Work: Dreaming Disability Justice

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8. I'm Afraid of Men

By: Vivek Shraya

4.23

Format: 96 pages, Hardcover

A trans artist explores how masculinity was imposed on her as a boy and continues to haunt her as a… read more

Similar categories in Vivek Shraya's I'm Afraid of Men book and Kai Cheng Thom's I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes from the End of the World

  • memoir
  • transgender
  • lgbt
  • feminism
  • gender
  • nonfiction
  • essays
  • queer
"Queerness is associated with freedom from boundaries."

-Vivek Shraya, I'm Afraid of Men

"Do these parts still exist somewhere inside of me with the capacity to be reactivated?"

-Vivek Shraya, I'm Afraid of Men

"Why is being touch by strangers — strangers who refuse to identify themselves — a form of flattery?"

-Vivek Shraya, I'm Afraid of Men

"My brownness turns out to be a form of queerness in and of itself and makes me too queer for gay men."

-Vivek Shraya, I'm Afraid of Men

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9. Who's Afraid of Gender?

By: Judith Butler

4.02

Format: 320 pages, Hardcover

From a global icon, a bold, essential account of how a fear of gender is fueling reactionary politi… read more

Similar categories in Judith Butler's Who's Afraid of Gender? book and Kai Cheng Thom's I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes from the End of the World

  • lgbt
  • feminism
  • gender
  • nonfiction
  • queer
"Imagine if you were Jewish and someone tells you that you are not. Imagine if you are lesbian and someone laughs in your face and says you are confused since you are really heterosexual. Imagine if y…"

-Judith Butler, Who's Afraid of Gender?

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10. Beyond Survival: Strategies and Stories from the Transformative Justice Movement

By: Ejeris Dixon

4.54

Format: 347 pages, Paperback

Afraid to call 911 but not sure what to do instead? Transformative justice and other community-base… read more

Similar categories in Ejeris Dixon's Beyond Survival: Strategies and Stories from the Transformative Justice Movement book and Kai Cheng Thom's I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes from the End of the World

  • feminism
  • nonfiction
  • social justice
  • essays
"I know for a fact that we can't heal or hurt alone. We must heal or hurt in relationship with other people. (Mariame Kaba)"

-Ejeris Dixon, Beyond Survival: Strategies and Stories from the Transformative Justice Movement

"I needed so much tenderness, love, and support. I needed a team of adults who could keep me safe while honoring my agency and autonomy. Instead, I got the state: two white social workers in my living…"

-Ejeris Dixon, Beyond Survival: Strategies and Stories from the Transformative Justice Movement

"When we define ourselves, the result is complexity. We are none of us one thing, neither good nor bad. We are complex surviving organisms. We do appalling things to each other, rooted in trauma. We s…"

-Ejeris Dixon, Beyond Survival: Strategies and Stories from the Transformative Justice Movement

"First you hunger for the taste of a stranger, then your enemy, then anyone called a leader, then any small difference will do. Your hands become sharp and your words become sharp and the only move av…"

-Ejeris Dixon, Beyond Survival: Strategies and Stories from the Transformative Justice Movement

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11. A Short History of Trans Misogyny

By: Jules Gill-Peterson

4.47

Format: 182 pages, Hardcover

An accessible, bold new vision for the future of intersectional trans feminism, called "one of the … read more

Similar categories in Jules Gill-Peterson's A Short History of Trans Misogyny book and Kai Cheng Thom's I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes from the End of the World

  • transgender
  • lgbt
  • feminism
  • gender
  • nonfiction
  • queer
Cover of The Future Is Disabled: Prophecies, Love Notes, and Mourning Songs by Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha

12. The Future Is Disabled: Prophecies, Love Notes, and Mourning Songs

By: Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha

4.46

Format: 333 pages, Paperback

Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha follows up their incredible book Care Work with The Future Is Disa… read more

Similar categories in Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha's The Future Is Disabled: Prophecies, Love Notes, and Mourning Songs book and Kai Cheng Thom's I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes from the End of the World

  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • social justice
  • essays
  • queer
"There is no one disabled future. But in mine, there is guaranteed income, housing, access, food, water, and education for all—or money has been abolished. I get paid to write from my bed. The births …"

-Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha, The Future Is Disabled: Prophecies, Love Notes, and Mourning Songs

"Sometimes I feel impatient about how much ableism has forced us to emphasize accessibility to get people to pay even a modicum of attention to it. Collective access is revolutionary because disabled …"

-Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha, The Future Is Disabled: Prophecies, Love Notes, and Mourning Songs

"A future where disability justice won looks like queer, trans, Black, Indigenous, folks of colour, and women, girls, and nonbinary humans are living in a world where disability is the norm, and where…"

-Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha, The Future Is Disabled: Prophecies, Love Notes, and Mourning Songs

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13. Little Blue Encyclopedia (for Vivian)

By: Hazel Jane Plante

4.31

Format: 200 pages, Paperback

Fiction. LGBTQIA Studies. The playful and poignant novel LITTLE BLUE ENCYCLOPEDIA (FOR VIVIAN) sift… read more

Similar categories in Hazel Jane Plante's Little Blue Encyclopedia (for Vivian) book and Kai Cheng Thom's I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes from the End of the World

  • queer
  • transgender
  • lgbt
"Ranjit: I'm sorry, Ian. I still love Captain Alphonse. Ian: But he's a dirty disappearing dog. Ranjit: You may be right. But we love the dog we love, dirt and all."

-Hazel Jane Plante, Little Blue Encyclopedia (for Vivian)

"If you spend hundreds of hours with someone, you have a catalogue of tiny memories. As you live your life, those tiny memories snap and crackle your synapses. It can be overwhelming, like the world i…"

-Hazel Jane Plante, Little Blue Encyclopedia (for Vivian)

"I'd started jotting down my memories of Vivian. There was so much about her that I knew might be forgotten if I didn't try to preserve it. I didn't want her to disappear from this world, unremembered…"

-Hazel Jane Plante, Little Blue Encyclopedia (for Vivian)

"When Vivian died, my world collapsed. I wept for what felt like days, weeks, months. Everything and everyone around me receded. Objects blurred. Colours drained. Sounds muffled. Vivian was my favorit…"

-Hazel Jane Plante, Little Blue Encyclopedia (for Vivian)

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14. A History of My Brief Body

By: Billy-Ray Belcourt

4.20

Format: 192 pages, Kindle Edition

The youngest-ever winner of the Griffin Prize mines his personal history in a brilliant new essay c… read more

Similar categories in Billy-Ray Belcourt's A History of My Brief Body book and Kai Cheng Thom's I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes from the End of the World

  • poetry
  • memoir
  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • essays
  • queer
"I'm as lonely and as brief as a country."

-Billy-Ray Belcourt, A History of My Brief Body

"Living in a world where people are guns is a brutal legacy."

-Billy-Ray Belcourt, A History of My Brief Body

"Regardless, I forgive them just as I forgive naive versions of myself."

-Billy-Ray Belcourt, A History of My Brief Body

"Teens don't read for beauty, but to practice the art of disappearance."

-Billy-Ray Belcourt, A History of My Brief Body

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15. Trans Care

By: Hil Malatino

4.37

Format: 72 pages, Paperback

What does it mean for trans people to show up for one another, to care deeply for one another? How … read more

Similar categories in Hil Malatino's Trans Care book and Kai Cheng Thom's I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes from the End of the World

  • transgender
  • lgbt
  • gender
  • nonfiction
  • essays
  • queer
Cover of Love After the End: An Anthology of Two-Spirit and Indigiqueer Speculative Fiction by Joshua Whitehead

16. Love After the End: An Anthology of Two-Spirit and Indigiqueer Speculative Fiction

By: Joshua Whitehead

4.18

Format: 120 pages, ebook

Love After the End is a new young adult anthology edited by Joshua Whitehead (Lambda Literary Award… read more

Similar categories in Joshua Whitehead's Love After the End: An Anthology of Two-Spirit and Indigiqueer Speculative Fiction book and Kai Cheng Thom's I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes from the End of the World

  • queer
  • lgbt
"Humans aren’t animals. You’re meant for more than survival."

-Joshua Whitehead, Love After the End: An Anthology of Two-Spirit and Indigiqueer Speculative Fiction

"centuries ago, people were more likely to prepare for the end of the world than attempt to save it"

-Joshua Whitehead, Love After the End: An Anthology of Two-Spirit and Indigiqueer Speculative Fiction

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17. Miss Major Speaks: Conversations with a Black Trans Revolutionary

By: Miss Major Griffin-Gracy

4.65

Format: 176 pages, Paperback

The future of Black, queer, and trans liberation explored by a legendary transgender elder and acti… read more

Similar categories in Miss Major Griffin-Gracy's Miss Major Speaks: Conversations with a Black Trans Revolutionary book and Kai Cheng Thom's I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes from the End of the World

  • memoir
  • transgender
  • lgbt
  • feminism
  • nonfiction
  • queer
"I would hope that someone would step away from this book recognising that "transgender" does not encompass just one type of person."

-Miss Major Griffin-Gracy, Miss Major Speaks: Conversations with a Black Trans Revolutionary

"If self-hatred was hammered into you when you were young, Major wants you to know that you're important - that being an outsider helps you develop skin that's both tough and pliable in social situati…"

-Miss Major Griffin-Gracy, Miss Major Speaks: Conversations with a Black Trans Revolutionary

"The Powers That Be: the corporate, government, and nonprofit actors who work to preserve the status quo, and the forces in the world who want us all to fit into our proper places in an established so…"

-Miss Major Griffin-Gracy, Miss Major Speaks: Conversations with a Black Trans Revolutionary

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18. On Community (Field Notes, #8)

By: Casey Plett

4.41

Format: 184 pages, Paperback

ONE OF CBC BOOKS CANADIAN NONFICTION TO READ IN THE FALL We need community to live. But what doe… read more

Similar categories in Casey Plett's On Community (Field Notes, #8) book and Kai Cheng Thom's I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes from the End of the World

  • memoir
  • transgender
  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • essays
  • queer
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19. Rebent Sinner

By: Ivan E. Coyote

4.58

Format: 224 pages, Paperback

Ivan Coyote is one of North America's preeminent storytellers and performers; they are the author, … read more

Similar categories in Ivan E. Coyote's Rebent Sinner book and Kai Cheng Thom's I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes from the End of the World

  • memoir
  • transgender
  • lgbt
  • gender
  • nonfiction
  • essays
  • queer
Cover of Transland: Consent, Kink, and Pleasure by Mx. Sly

20. Transland: Consent, Kink, and Pleasure

By: Mx. Sly

4.26

Format: 320 pages, Paperback

A memoir of transformation and self-discovery that explores fetish communities from a gender divers… read more

Similar categories in Mx. Sly's Transland: Consent, Kink, and Pleasure book and Kai Cheng Thom's I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes from the End of the World

  • memoir
  • transgender
  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • queer
Cover of Gender Magic: Live Shamelessly, Reclaim Your Joy, & Step into Your Most Authentic Self by Rae  McDaniel

21. Gender Magic: Live Shamelessly, Reclaim Your Joy, & Step into Your Most Authentic Self

By: Rae McDaniel

4.44

Format: 304 pages, Hardcover

A first-of-its-kind practical guide to achieving gender freedom with joy, curiosity, and pleasure f… read more

Similar categories in Rae McDaniel's Gender Magic: Live Shamelessly, Reclaim Your Joy, & Step into Your Most Authentic Self book and Kai Cheng Thom's I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes from the End of the World

  • transgender
  • lgbt
  • gender
  • nonfiction
  • queer

9 Best essays books like I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes from the End of the World by Kai Cheng Thom

Transform Your Habits

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Kai Cheng Thom

4.44

Transform Your Habits

Care Work: Dreaming Disability Justice

Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha

4.55

Transform Your Habits

I'm Afraid of Men

Vivek Shraya

4.23

Transform Your Habits

Beyond Survival: Strategies and Stories from the Transformative Justice Movement

Ejeris Dixon

4.54

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Olivia Laing

4.07

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Naomi Klein

4.22

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Cynthia Carr

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