7 must-read memoir books like The After: A Veteran's Notes on Coming Home by Michael Ramos

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The After: A Veteran's Notes on Coming Home

By: Michael Ramos

4.27

Format: 156 pages, Paperback

When Michael Ramos enlisted in the Navy and was assigned to serve as a chaplain’s bodyguard thirtee…

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1. Bobcat and Other Stories

By: Rebecca Lee

3.89

Format: 209 pages, Paperback

Rebecca Lee, one of our most gifted and original short story writers, guides readers into a range o… read more

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"A woman reading is a grave temptation."

-Rebecca Lee, Bobcat and Other Stories

"She put her hand on my shoulder, and her eyes let me know, just crouch down, hold tight, there's a little bit of pain for you, but not too much."

-Rebecca Lee, Bobcat and Other Stories

"Strain on the community -- That's a ridiculous arguement. Then nobody in the world should have children. I think asking people not to have children is just another form of genocide."

-Rebecca Lee, Bobcat and Other Stories

"One thing about her," I said, "that often gets lost in all the scripts is that she can love unconditionally. She can love people that don't love her back." "That's a superpower?" Andy said. "No morta…"

-Rebecca Lee, Bobcat and Other Stories

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2. Things We Lost in the Fire

By: Mariana Enríquez , Megan McDowell

4.06

Format: 192 pages, Hardcover

In these wildly imaginative, devilishly daring tales of the macabre, internationally bestselling au… read more

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"El problema es que no nos creen."

-Mariana Enríquez, Things We Lost in the Fire

"Hace años que Lala decidió ser mujer y brasileña, pero había nacido varón y uruguayo."

-Mariana Enríquez, Things We Lost in the Fire

"Me acuerdo de la risa de mi madre, de lo joven que era esa tarde de verano, del olor a champú de limón de su pelo y de la carcajada de chicle de menta."

-Mariana Enríquez, Things We Lost in the Fire

"Apagábamos las luces y jugábamos en la oscuridad con inciensos encendidos; parecían luciérnagas y a mí me hacían llorar, me hacían acordar a una casa de tejas con parque lejos de la ciudad, una casa …"

-Mariana Enríquez, Things We Lost in the Fire

3. Going After Cacciato

By: Tim O'Brien

3.78

Format: 80 pages, Paperback

Alternate cover for this ISBN can be found  Winner of the 1979 National Book Award, Going After Ca… read more

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4. Motherthing

By: Ainslie Hogarth

3.67

Format: 288 pages, Paperback

A darkly funny domestic horror novel about a woman who must take drastic measures to save her husba… read more

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"Too much human touching will change a thing."

-Ainslie Hogarth, Motherthing

"A Good Woman butchers her meat properly, without cruelty."

-Ainslie Hogarth, Motherthing

"I can save you. With Secrets of a Famous Chef I can save you."

-Ainslie Hogarth, Motherthing

"I bubble again with blinding-hot, spine-severing cumshitkill."

-Ainslie Hogarth, Motherthing

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5. I Am Homeless If This Is Not My Home

By: Lorrie Moore

3.31

Format: 193 pages, Hardcover

Lorrie Moore's first novel since A Gate at the Stairs--a daring, meditative exploration of love and… read more

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"I've become. An object of dismay. I guess."

-Lorrie Moore, I Am Homeless If This Is Not My Home

"Do I jar you?" he asks with his sly charm. "No," I say. “I am braced at every turn for disenchantment."

-Lorrie Moore, I Am Homeless If This Is Not My Home

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6. Tracy Flick Can't Win

By: Tom Perrotta

3.64

Format: 259 pages, Hardcover

Soon to be a major motion picture starring Reese Witherspoon “Tom Perrotta is…one of the great w… read more

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"But it wasn't really about her looks; there was just this current running between us, a really strong connection. Her absence always felt abrupt and unfair when we parted at the end of the day, like …"

-Tom Perrotta, Tracy Flick Can't Win

"I try not to think too much about those days now - let the past be past. The truth is, we're all prisoners of our historical context. Anybody who says morality is absolute, that right and wrong don't…"

-Tom Perrotta, Tracy Flick Can't Win

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7. Wandering Stars

By: Tommy Orange

3.89

Format: 315 pages, Hardcover

The eagerly awaited follow-up to Pulitzer Prize-finalist Tommy Orange’s breakout best seller There … read more

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"And in the year 1924 Indian citizenship will have been granted, even though they will mean to dissolve tribes by giving citizenship, dissolve being another word for disappearance, a kind of chemical …"

-Tommy Orange, Wandering Stars

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8. Absolution

By: Alice McDermott

3.81

Format: 324 pages, Hardcover

A riveting account of women’s lives on the margins of the Vietnam War. In Saigon in 1963, two yo… read more

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  • war
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9. World of Wonders: In Praise of Fireflies, Whale Sharks, and Other Astonishments

By: Aimee Nezhukumatathil

4.06

Format: 165 pages, Hardcover

From beloved, award-winning poet Aimee Nezhukumatathil comes a debut work of nonfiction--a collecti… read more

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  • memoir
"It is this way with wonder: it takes a bit of patience, and it takes putting yourself in the right place at the right time. It requires that we be curious enough to forgo our small distractions in or…"

-Aimee Nezhukumatathil, World of Wonders: In Praise of Fireflies, Whale Sharks, and Other Astonishments

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10. The Dangers of Smoking in Bed

By: Mariana Enríquez

3.81

Format: 208 pages, Hardcover

Following the "propulsive and mesmerizing" (New York Times Book Review) Things We Lost in the Fire … read more

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"A friend of ours was arrested because he painted a slogan that said, 'Tourists, you're the terrorists."

-Mariana Enríquez, The Dangers of Smoking in Bed

"Ahora tampoco se puede fumar en los bares. Sí, ya sé que eso pasa en todo el mundo, pero un bar no es un lugar sano, santa Madre de Dios. Es para conspirar, para relajarse, para ponerse en pedo."

-Mariana Enríquez, The Dangers of Smoking in Bed

"esa edad suena música en la cabeza, todo el tiempo, como si transmitiera una radio en la nuca, bajo el cráneo. Esa música un día empieza a bajar de volumen o sencillamente se detiene. Cuando eso pasa…"

-Mariana Enríquez, The Dangers of Smoking in Bed

"Julieta finì di bere il caffè e abbassò la voce. «Non bisogna fare figli a Barcellona. Hai sentito quello che ci ha raccontato Manuel ieri sera? Qui non bisogna fare figli.» «Che cosa?» «Dammi retta.…"

-Mariana Enríquez, The Dangers of Smoking in Bed

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11. The Hero of This Book

By: Elizabeth McCracken

3.77

Format: 192 pages, Hardcover

A taut, groundbreaking new novel from bestselling and award-winning author Elizabeth McCracken, abo… read more

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"As for me, I don't think writing is that hard, as long as you're comfortable with failure on every single level."

-Elizabeth McCracken, The Hero of This Book

"My mother's favorite cats were male and nervous and needed her. "Come to Mommy," my mother would say to one of them. "Yes, I love you, too." "You are not that cat's mother," I said, sitting on the so…"

-Elizabeth McCracken, The Hero of This Book

"I've always hated the notion, in life or in fiction, that the human personality is a puzzle to be solved, that we are a single flashback away from understanding why this person is cruel to her childr…"

-Elizabeth McCracken, The Hero of This Book

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12. Keep Moving: Notes on Loss, Creativity, and Change

By: Maggie Smith

3.89

Format: 214 pages, Hardcover

Marie Claire’s The 2020 Books You Should Pre-Order Now The Washington Post’s What to Read in 2020 B… read more

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  • memoir
"Do not be ashamed of the intensity of your emotion. That's your humanity. Grief can be feral, wild, frightening. Give it a safe place to live."

-Maggie Smith, Keep Moving: Notes on Loss, Creativity, and Change

"Everything is temporary. You can't keep a white-knuckled hold on what you love or on what has hurt you. Loosen your grip on your grief today, if only a bit."

-Maggie Smith, Keep Moving: Notes on Loss, Creativity, and Change

"Stop calling your heart broken; your heart works just fine. If you are feeling--love, anger, gratitude, grief--it is because your heart is doing its work. Let it."

-Maggie Smith, Keep Moving: Notes on Loss, Creativity, and Change

"It is not your job to make other people comfortable with who you are. Be wary of those who don't want you to change or grow. Grow anyway--there is no alternative."

-Maggie Smith, Keep Moving: Notes on Loss, Creativity, and Change

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13. The Scandalous Confessions of Lydia Bennet, Witch

By: Melinda Taub

3.81

Format: 400 pages, Hardcover

A sparkling, witchy reimagining of Pride and Prejudice, told from the perspective of the troublesom… read more

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14. Wild and Distant Seas

By: Tara Karr Roberts

3.73

Format: 304 pages, Hardcover

A gorgeous debut, laced through with magic, following four generations of women as they seek to cha… read more

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15. Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections

By: Emily Nagoski

4.14

Format: 368 pages, Hardcover

An illuminating exploration of how to maintain a happy sex life in a long-term relationship, from t… read more

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16. Carry: A Memoir of Survival on Stolen Land

By: Toni Jensen

4.25

Format: 294 pages, Hardcover

A powerful, poetic memoir about what it means to exist as an indigenous woman in America, told in s… read more

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  • memoir
"When we police a woman's affect, when we privilege it or equate it with her actions, with what she actually does, we're engaging in our most pervasive and yet our most quiet form of sexism, our most …"

-Toni Jensen, Carry: A Memoir of Survival on Stolen Land

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17. Double Knot

By: Mac Caltrider

4.94

Format: 182 pages, Kindle Edition

In Double Knot, Mac Caltrider takes us to the front lines of Afghanistan during the most violent pe… read more

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18. Tiny Beautiful Things: Advice from Dear Sugar

By: Cheryl Strayed

4.16

Format: 400 pages, Paperback

An alternative cover edition for this ISBN can be found here. An anniversary edition of the best… read more

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  • memoir
"This is how you get unstuck. You reach."

-Cheryl Strayed, Tiny Beautiful Things: Advice from Dear Sugar

"You get to define the terms of your life."

-Cheryl Strayed, Tiny Beautiful Things: Advice from Dear Sugar

"Be fearless enough to let love transform you."

-Cheryl Strayed, Tiny Beautiful Things: Advice from Dear Sugar

"Don’t listen to those people who suggest you should be “over"

-Cheryl Strayed, Tiny Beautiful Things: Advice from Dear Sugar

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19. The Wise Hours: A Journey into the Wild and Secret World of Owls

By: Miriam Darlington

3.62

Format: 336 pages, Hardcover

One minute I was sipping my tea by the window. There was nothing but the palest edge of grey light … read more

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  • memoir
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20. Sleepovers: Stories

By: Ashleigh Bryant Phillips

4.15

Format: 191 pages, Paperback

Hailed by Lauren Groff as “fully committed to the truth no matter how dark or difficult or complica… read more

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21. The Burial Plot

By: Elizabeth Macneal

4.02

Format: 256 pages, Kindle Edition

From the Sunday Times bestselling author of The Doll Factory, The Burial Plot is an unstoppable his… read more

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22. The North Woods

By: Douglass Hoover

4.24

Format: 274 pages, Kindle Edition

Over three million acres of dense woodlands make up the North Maine Woods. There are no major towns… read more

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23. Wildcat

By: Amelia P. Morris

3.18

Format: 304 pages, Hardcover

An uproariously funny, surprisingly touching story of one woman's journey through motherhood and fe… read more

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24. Khabaar: An Immigrant Journey of Food, Memory and Family

By: Madhushree Ghosh

3.99

Format: 212 pages, Paperback

Khabaar is a food memoir and personal narrative that braids the global journeys of South Asian food… read more

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  • memoir
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25. A Traveler's Guide to the End of the World: Tales of Fire, Wind, and Water

By: David Gessner

4.10

Format: 320 pages, Paperback

"A meditative and elegiac look at a country on the brink." —PUBLISHERS WEEKLY Bestselling author Da… read more

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26. The After: A Veteran's Notes on Coming Home

By: Michael Ramos

4.27

Format: 156 pages, Paperback

When Michael Ramos enlisted in the Navy and was assigned to serve as a chaplain’s bodyguard thirtee… read more

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  • war
  • memoir

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