12 Best memoir books like You Don't Look Adopted by Anne Heffron

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You Don't Look Adopted

By: Anne Heffron

4.27

Format: 261 pages, Paperback

Can writing your story save your life? I should have come with a manual. My parents thought they we…

"Most of my life I have felt both real and not real."

-Anne Heffron, You Don't Look Adopted

"The problem is that part of my brain likes the ache of longing more than it likes the safety of your company."

-Anne Heffron, You Don't Look Adopted

"Adopted people aren’t much different from non-adopted people. They just live with more questions. They are the human experience intensified."

-Anne Heffron, You Don't Look Adopted

"Even if I don’t like you much, I have to keep trying to convince you to love me because the force controlling the wheel in my brain is telling me this is an urgent matter."

-Anne Heffron, You Don't Look Adopted

If you liked the memoir plot in You Don't Look Adopted by Anne Heffron , here is a list of 12 books like this:

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1. The Girls Who Went Away: The Hidden History of Women Who Surrendered Children for Adoption in the Decades Before Roe v. Wade

By: Ann Fessler

4.24

Format: 354 pages, Hardcover

A powerful and groundbreaking revelation of the secret history of the 1.5 million women who surrend… read more

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  • memoir
  • adoption
"Secrets keep families sick. You never keep secrets in families because even if the child doesn't know what the secret is, they will always know there is a secret."

-Ann Fessler, The Girls Who Went Away: The Hidden History of Women Who Surrendered Children for Adoption in the Decades Before Roe v. Wade

"We were not criminals. We're mothers. The difference was I was not an authenticated mother. I was an illegal mother. I was a denied mother. And I had to come home and live my life after being robbed …"

-Ann Fessler, The Girls Who Went Away: The Hidden History of Women Who Surrendered Children for Adoption in the Decades Before Roe v. Wade

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2. Before I Met You

By: Lisa Jewell

2.00

Format: 238 pages, Paperback

After her grandmother Arlette's death, Betty is finally ready to begin her life. She had forfeited … read more

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3. Bastards

By: Mary Anna King

3.86

Format: None pages, Paperback

In the early 1980s, Mary Hall is a little girl growing up in poverty in Camden, New Jersey, with he… read more

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  • memoir
  • adoption
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4. All You Can Ever Know

By: Nicole Chung

3.77

Format: 300 pages,

All You Can Ever Know (Catapult, Fall 2018) spans Nicole Chung's transracial adoption, her upbringi… read more

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  • memoir
  • adoption
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5. The Yes Brain: How to Cultivate Courage, Curiosity, and Resilience in Your Child

By: Daniel J. Siegel , Tina Payne Bryson , None

4.19

Format: 208 pages, Hardcover

From the authors of The Whole-Brain Child and No-Drama Discipline, an indispensable guide to unlock… read more

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6. Code Name Verity (Code Name Verity, #1)

By: Elizabeth Wein

4.26

Format: 112 pages, Paperback

Oct. 11th, 1943 - A British spy plane crashes in Nazi-occupied France. Its pilot and passenger are … read more

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7. The Other Einstein

By: Marie Benedict

3.68

Format: 420 pages, Hardcover

A vivid and mesmerizing novel about the extraordinary woman who married and worked with one of the … read more

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8. Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love

By: Sue Johnson

4.50

Format: 158 pages, Hardcover

Heralded by the New York Timesand Timeas the couples therapy with the highest rate of success, Emot… read more

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9. The Primal Wound: Understanding The Adopted Child

By: Nancy Verrier

4.05

Format: 256 pages, Paperback

The Primal Wound is a seminal work which revolutionizes the way we think about adoption. It describ… read more

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  • adoption
Cover of Signs: The Secret Language of the Universe by Laura Lynne Jackson

10. Signs: The Secret Language of the Universe

By: Laura Lynne Jackson

4.16

Format: 288 pages, Hardcover

NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER - A renowned psychic medium teaches us how to recognize and interpret the… read more

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"We are all leaves on different branches of the same tree."

-Laura Lynne Jackson, Signs: The Secret Language of the Universe

"Sometimes, the sign is the whisper in our heart, the deep and undeniable pull, the inherent knowing that the answer is already there.... If we are open to this, it will truly enrich our lives. Becaus…"

-Laura Lynne Jackson, Signs: The Secret Language of the Universe

"Souls have deep connections and unique contracts that span centuries, exist back and forth in time, and bind us in ways we can't really understand.... These connections are ancient and everlasting, a…"

-Laura Lynne Jackson, Signs: The Secret Language of the Universe

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11. Everything Sad Is Untrue

By: Daniel Nayeri

4.32

Format: 368 pages, Hardcover

At the front of a middle school classroom in Oklahoma, a boy named Khosrou (whom everyone calls "Da… read more

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"Every story is the sound of a storyteller begging to stay alive."

-Daniel Nayeri, Everything Sad Is Untrue

"I won't tell you about her yet, because sometimes love has to be kept secret. If other people find out, they will attack it."

-Daniel Nayeri, Everything Sad Is Untrue

"Sometimes you just want somebody to look at a thing with you and say, "Yes. That is a thing you're looking at. You haven't lied to yourself."

-Daniel Nayeri, Everything Sad Is Untrue

"Maybe there isn’t just one person designated for everybody. Maybe there’s a lot more to it---maybe you choose and you practice, and that’s what makes the love true."

-Daniel Nayeri, Everything Sad Is Untrue

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12. Oath and Honor: A Memoir and a Warning

By: Liz Cheney

4.60

Format: 381 pages, Kindle Edition

A gripping first-hand account from inside the halls of Congress as Donald Trump and his enablers be… read more

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  • memoir
Cover of A Living Remedy: A Memoir by Nicole Chung

13. A Living Remedy: A Memoir

By: Nicole Chung

4.01

Format: 256 pages, Hardcover

A searing memoir of family, class and grief—a daughter’s search to understand the lives her adoptiv… read more

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  • memoir
  • adoption
"How do you learn to cherish yourself, your life, when grief has made it unrecognizable? I am starting to feel that we do so not by trying to fill a void that can never be filled but by living as best…"

-Nicole Chung, A Living Remedy: A Memoir

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14. Raising Good Humans: A Mindful Guide to Breaking the Cycle of Reactive Parenting and Raising Kind, Confident Kids

By: Hunter Clarke-Fields

3.95

Format: 184 pages, Paperback

“A wise and fresh approach to mindful parenting.” —Tara Brach, author of Radical Acceptance A k… read more

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"The only way out of our difficult feelings is through."

-Hunter Clarke-Fields, Raising Good Humans: A Mindful Guide to Breaking the Cycle of Reactive Parenting and Raising Kind, Confident Kids

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15. Dolly Parton, Songteller: My Life in Lyrics

By: Dolly Parton

4.03

Format: 380 pages, Hardcover

New York Times bestseller Dolly Parton, Songteller: My Life in Lyrics is a landmark celebration of … read more

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  • memoir
"My coat of many colors that my mama made for me, Made only from rags, but I wore it so proudly. Now I know we had no money, but I was rich as I could be. In my coat of many colors my mama made for me…"

-Dolly Parton, Dolly Parton, Songteller: My Life in Lyrics

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16. American Baby: A Mother, a Child, and the Shadow History of Adoption

By: Gabrielle Glaser

4.34

Format: 352 pages, Hardcover

The truth about postwar adoption in America, told through the bittersweet story of one teenager, th… read more

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  • memoir
  • adoption
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17. If You Would Have Told Me

By: John Stamos

3.81

Format: 333 pages, Hardcover

If you would have told a young John Stamos flipping burgers at his dad’s fast-food joint that one d… read more

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  • memoir
Cover of The Memory Librarian: And Other Stories of Dirty Computer by Janelle Monáe

18. The Memory Librarian: And Other Stories of Dirty Computer

By: Janelle Monáe

3.76

Format: 321 pages, Hardcover

In The Memory Librarian: And Other Stories of Dirty Computer, singer-songwriter, actor, fashion ico… read more

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"Dreams aren't memories. They are memories' voices."

-Janelle Monáe, The Memory Librarian: And Other Stories of Dirty Computer

"Some days Artis had to remind himself that his dad actually existed, that his mother was not a phantom. Remembering the dead was hard work."

-Janelle Monáe, The Memory Librarian: And Other Stories of Dirty Computer

"Hearing her name, she gathered herself within the span of normalcy, just barely escaping the extra beat that would have made it weird. "Hey," she said. "I'm good, good."

-Janelle Monáe, The Memory Librarian: And Other Stories of Dirty Computer

"Grandpapa and even Artis's friends believed that New Dawn was the most dangerous thing in their world. But Artis knew that wasn't true. Hope was. Having too much, having too little. Trying to work ou…"

-Janelle Monáe, The Memory Librarian: And Other Stories of Dirty Computer

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19. Stranger Care

By: Sarah Sentilles

4.27

Format: 400 pages, Kindle Edition

After their decision not to have a biological child, Sarah Sentilles and her husband, Eric, decide … read more

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  • memoir
  • adoption
"Do you have kids?" strangers asked almost every day. "No," I said, not wanting to explain, because, really, it's an unimaginative question, full of their beliefs about what family means, about who co…"

-Sarah Sentilles, Stranger Care

"People who learned Eric and I wanted to adopt a child often told us stories of adoptions gone wrong. The adopted child incapable of attachment. Who became a drug addict, a runaway, who drained bank a…"

-Sarah Sentilles, Stranger Care

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20. Probably Ruby

By: Lisa Bird-Wilson

3.49

Format: 288 pages, Hardcover

An Indigenous woman adopted by white parents goes in search of her identity in this unforgettable d… read more

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  • adoption
Cover of "You Should Be Grateful": Stories of Race, Identity, and Transracial Adoption by Angela Tucker

21. "You Should Be Grateful": Stories of Race, Identity, and Transracial Adoption

By: Angela Tucker

4.60

Format: 208 pages, Hardcover

An adoption expert and transracial adoptee herself examines the unique perspectives and challenges … read more

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  • memoir
  • adoption
Cover of I Would Meet You Anywhere: A Memoir by Susan Kiyo Ito

22. I Would Meet You Anywhere: A Memoir

By: Susan Kiyo Ito

4.61

Format: 262 pages, Paperback

“Susan Kiyo Ito is like a surgeon operating on herself. She is delicate, precise, and at times cutt… read more

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  • memoir
  • adoption
Cover of Journey of the Adopted Self: A Quest for Wholeness by Betty Jean Lifton

23. Journey of the Adopted Self: A Quest for Wholeness

By: Betty Jean Lifton

4.21

Format: 328 pages, Paperback

Betty Jean Lifton, whose Lost and Found has become a bible to adoptees and to those who would under… read more

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  • adoption
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24. You Don't Look Adopted

By: Anne Heffron

4.27

Format: 261 pages, Paperback

Can writing your story save your life? I should have come with a manual. My parents thought they we… read more

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  • memoir
  • adoption
"Most of my life I have felt both real and not real."

-Anne Heffron, You Don't Look Adopted

"The problem is that part of my brain likes the ache of longing more than it likes the safety of your company."

-Anne Heffron, You Don't Look Adopted

"Adopted people aren’t much different from non-adopted people. They just live with more questions. They are the human experience intensified."

-Anne Heffron, You Don't Look Adopted

"Even if I don’t like you much, I have to keep trying to convince you to love me because the force controlling the wheel in my brain is telling me this is an urgent matter."

-Anne Heffron, You Don't Look Adopted

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Ann Fessler

4.24

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3.86

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All You Can Ever Know

Nicole Chung

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Jesmyn Ward

3.70

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4.01

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Tommy Orange

3.89

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