15 must-read memoir books like You Gotta Be You: How to Embrace This Messy Life and Step Into Who You Really Are by Brandon Kyle Goodman

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You Gotta Be You: How to Embrace This Messy Life and Step Into Who You Really Are

By: Brandon Kyle Goodman

4.59

Format: 224 pages, Hardcover

Audible's Best of the Year in Well-Being YOU ARE ENOUGH EXACTLY AS YOU ARE. ​           From the …

If you liked the memoir plot in You Gotta Be You: How to Embrace This Messy Life and Step Into Who You Really Are by Brandon Kyle Goodman , here is a list of 15 books like this:

1. White Girl Problems

By: Babe Walker

3.32

Format: 240 pages, Paperback

Babe Walker, center of the universe, is a painstakingly manicured white girl with an expensive smoo… read more

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2. My Mother and Other Wild Animals

By: Andrew Sean Greer

3.90

Format: 35 pages, Kindle Edition

A mother and son embark on the road trip of a lifetime in a charming, poignant essay about making m… read more

Similar categories in Andrew Sean Greer's My Mother and Other Wild Animals book and Brandon Kyle Goodman's You Gotta Be You: How to Embrace This Messy Life and Step Into Who You Really Are

  • nonfiction
  • biography
  • memoir
  • audiobook
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3. Viral Justice: How We Grow the World We Want

By: Ruha Benjamin

4.47

Format: 392 pages, Hardcover

An inspiring vision of how we can build a more just world--one small change at a time Long befor… read more

Similar categories in Ruha Benjamin's Viral Justice: How We Grow the World We Want book and Brandon Kyle Goodman's You Gotta Be You: How to Embrace This Messy Life and Step Into Who You Really Are

  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
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4. Against Technoableism: Rethinking Who Needs Improvement

By: Ashley Shew

4.30

Format: 160 pages, Hardcover

A manifesto exploding what we think we know about disability, and arguing that disabled people are … read more

Similar categories in Ashley Shew's Against Technoableism: Rethinking Who Needs Improvement book and Brandon Kyle Goodman's You Gotta Be You: How to Embrace This Messy Life and Step Into Who You Really Are

  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
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5. Alive At The End Of The World

By: Saeed Jones

4.35

Format: 104 pages, Paperback

Pierced by grief and charged with history, this new poetry collection from the award-winning author… read more

Similar categories in Saeed Jones's Alive At The End Of The World book and Brandon Kyle Goodman's You Gotta Be You: How to Embrace This Messy Life and Step Into Who You Really Are

  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • queer
  • audiobook
"The end of the world was mistaken for just another midday massacre in America."

-Saeed Jones, Alive At The End Of The World

"I wish I knew a woman who was both the light and every shadow the light pierces."

-Saeed Jones, Alive At The End Of The World

"I'm most dangerous when I'm hungry. I'm most hungry when I'm hurting. Seems like I'm always hurting."

-Saeed Jones, Alive At The End Of The World

"A few months and many deaths ago, I asked someone "how are you doing" and felt, in the way her eye fell, how I had failed her before I had even reached the end of my question. I've hurt many people b…"

-Saeed Jones, Alive At The End Of The World

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6. Hijab Butch Blues

By: Lamya H.

4.48

Format: 284 pages, Hardcover

A queer hijabi Muslim immigrant survives her coming-of-age by drawing strength and hope from storie… read more

Similar categories in Lamya H.'s Hijab Butch Blues book and Brandon Kyle Goodman's You Gotta Be You: How to Embrace This Messy Life and Step Into Who You Really Are

  • audiobook
  • biography
  • memoir
  • lgbt
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • queer
"Sort of?"

-Lamya H., Hijab Butch Blues

"Queer indispensability?"

-Lamya H., Hijab Butch Blues

"I feel tired. Or reckless. Or maybe brave."

-Lamya H., Hijab Butch Blues

"I want to figure her out, this girl, and I want to know everything about her."

-Lamya H., Hijab Butch Blues

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7. Pageboy

By: Elliot Page

3.75

Format: 271 pages, None

Pageboy is a groundbreaking coming-of-age memoir from the Academy Award-nominated actor Elliot Page… read more

Similar categories in Elliot Page's Pageboy book and Brandon Kyle Goodman's You Gotta Be You: How to Embrace This Messy Life and Step Into Who You Really Are

  • audiobook
  • biography
  • memoir
  • lgbt
  • autobiography
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • queer
"Her visibility meant the world to me. I think about this as I walk through the world now."

-Elliot Page, Pageboy

"How do people do it? How do they shut off the noise? And I don't mean "happy", they may not be happy, but they seem to be able to exist at least."

-Elliot Page, Pageboy

"In a world where queerness all too often alienates us from blood, I am grateful to Julia, and the family I have chosen. Without them, I wouldn't be here."

-Elliot Page, Pageboy

"I could block myself out, I was a person I didn't know, I'd gaze into what felt like the universe, my eye a planet of its own. I must be somewhere in there, I'd think."

-Elliot Page, Pageboy

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8. Before We Were Trans: A New History of Gender

By: Kit Heyam

4.30

Format: 343 pages, Hardcover

A groundbreaking global history of gender nonconformity   Today’s narratives about trans people … read more

Similar categories in Kit Heyam's Before We Were Trans: A New History of Gender book and Brandon Kyle Goodman's You Gotta Be You: How to Embrace This Messy Life and Step Into Who You Really Are

  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • queer
  • audiobook
"It’s not as simple as saying that ‘while the terminology is new, the experiences are not.’ The advent of new terminology can genuinely shift how we think about gender, as well as what names we give t…"

-Kit Heyam, Before We Were Trans: A New History of Gender

"It's important that we, as historians or as queer people, don't treat gender and sexuality as two things that use to be entangled but have now been teased apart. There can be a tendency in white quee…"

-Kit Heyam, Before We Were Trans: A New History of Gender

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9. Unreliable Narrator: Me, Myself, and Impostor Syndrome

By: Aparna Nancherla

3.60

Format: 304 pages, Hardcover

A hilarious and insightful collection of essays exploring impostor syndrome, from the inside and ou… read more

Similar categories in Aparna Nancherla's Unreliable Narrator: Me, Myself, and Impostor Syndrome book and Brandon Kyle Goodman's You Gotta Be You: How to Embrace This Messy Life and Step Into Who You Really Are

  • biography
  • memoir
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
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10. This Boy We Made: A Memoir of Motherhood, Genetics, and Facing the Unknown

By: Taylor Harris

3.96

Format: 272 pages, Hardcover

A Black mother bumps up against the limits of everything she thought she believed—about science and… read more

Similar categories in Taylor Harris's This Boy We Made: A Memoir of Motherhood, Genetics, and Facing the Unknown book and Brandon Kyle Goodman's You Gotta Be You: How to Embrace This Messy Life and Step Into Who You Really Are

  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • biography
  • memoir
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11. Punished for Dreaming: How School Reform Harms Black Children and How We Heal

By: Bettina L. Love

4.41

Format: 352 pages, Hardcover

“I am an eighties baby who grew to hate school. I never fully understood why. Until now. Until Bett… read more

Similar categories in Bettina L. Love's Punished for Dreaming: How School Reform Harms Black Children and How We Heal book and Brandon Kyle Goodman's You Gotta Be You: How to Embrace This Messy Life and Step Into Who You Really Are

  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
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12. Dyscalculia: A Love Story of Epic Miscalculation

By: Camonghne Felix

3.83

Format: 240 pages, Hardcover

 When Camonghne Felix goes through a monumental breakup, culminating in a hospital stay, everything… read more

Similar categories in Camonghne Felix's Dyscalculia: A Love Story of Epic Miscalculation book and Brandon Kyle Goodman's You Gotta Be You: How to Embrace This Messy Life and Step Into Who You Really Are

  • audiobook
  • biography
  • memoir
  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • queer
"It is through living, then dying, and living to die again that we discover what being alive is supposed to mean at all."

-Camonghne Felix, Dyscalculia: A Love Story of Epic Miscalculation

"Pythagoreans believed that there are three ways humanity improves, one of which is dying. Death is biological, but where it is also metaphysical is where I find delight."

-Camonghne Felix, Dyscalculia: A Love Story of Epic Miscalculation

"Math is a form of faith, a faith of its own dynamic and complex language system, and to speak it is to agree to its principles: Input begets output. One becomes the other. One variable is subject to …"

-Camonghne Felix, Dyscalculia: A Love Story of Epic Miscalculation

"Nobody has to care about what hurts you because that's not their job. It's not the world's job to understand you, it's your job to understand the world. And the more you understand it, the more you l…"

-Camonghne Felix, Dyscalculia: A Love Story of Epic Miscalculation

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13. Congratulations, the Best is Over!

By: R. Eric Thomas

4.07

Format: 240 pages, Hardcover

The beloved bestselling author of Here for It presents a collection of heartening, thoughtful, and … read more

Similar categories in R. Eric Thomas's Congratulations, the Best is Over! book and Brandon Kyle Goodman's You Gotta Be You: How to Embrace This Messy Life and Step Into Who You Really Are

  • audiobook
  • biography
  • memoir
  • lgbt
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • queer
"If I'm not heading toward a place where I can feel joy, then hope in the present has nothing to hold on to."

-R. Eric Thomas, Congratulations, the Best is Over!

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14. We See Each Other: A Black, Trans Journey Through TV and Film

By: Tre’vell Anderson

4.44

Format: 240 pages, Hardcover

A groundbreaking look at the history of transgender representation in TV and film, by an of-the-mom… read more

Similar categories in Tre’vell Anderson's We See Each Other: A Black, Trans Journey Through TV and Film book and Brandon Kyle Goodman's You Gotta Be You: How to Embrace This Messy Life and Step Into Who You Really Are

  • audiobook
  • memoir
  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • queer
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15. Dear Black Girls: How to Be True to You

By: A'ja Wilson

4.58

Format: 192 pages, Hardcover

From Olympic gold medalist and two-time professional basketball MVP A’ja Wilson comes an inspiratio… read more

Similar categories in A'ja Wilson's Dear Black Girls: How to Be True to You book and Brandon Kyle Goodman's You Gotta Be You: How to Embrace This Messy Life and Step Into Who You Really Are

  • biography
  • memoir
  • autobiography
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
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16. Uncle of the Year: And Other Debatable Triumphs

By: Andrew Rannells

4.05

Format: 272 pages, Hardcover

Candid, hilarious essays from the star of The Book of Mormon, Girls, and Big Mouth on anxiety, ambi… read more

Similar categories in Andrew Rannells's Uncle of the Year: And Other Debatable Triumphs book and Brandon Kyle Goodman's You Gotta Be You: How to Embrace This Messy Life and Step Into Who You Really Are

  • audiobook
  • biography
  • memoir
  • lgbt
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • queer
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17. Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto

By: Zachary Zane

3.82

Format: 240 pages, Hardcover

Named a Most Anticipated LGBTQ+ Book of the Year by Buzzfeed A sex and relationship columnist b… read more

Similar categories in Zachary Zane's Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto book and Brandon Kyle Goodman's You Gotta Be You: How to Embrace This Messy Life and Step Into Who You Really Are

  • audiobook
  • biography
  • memoir
  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • queer
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18. The 2000s Made Me Gay: Essays on Pop Culture

By: Grace Perry

3.85

Format: 256 pages, Paperback

From The Onion and Reductress contributor, this collection of essays is a hilarious nostalgic trip … read more

Similar categories in Grace Perry's The 2000s Made Me Gay: Essays on Pop Culture book and Brandon Kyle Goodman's You Gotta Be You: How to Embrace This Messy Life and Step Into Who You Really Are

  • audiobook
  • memoir
  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • queer
"That’s the thing about being a queer millennial: it’s not about things getting better in any linear fashion but holding a painful past and an optimistic future together, one in each hand, at the same…"

-Grace Perry, The 2000s Made Me Gay: Essays on Pop Culture

"God, how much easier it would be, I felt, if coming out were something that just happened to me . For queerness to seek me out, and not the other way around. To be a passive observer in my personal j…"

-Grace Perry, The 2000s Made Me Gay: Essays on Pop Culture

"Dressing femme to the nines and then hanging on the arm of another woman all night—a fuck-you to straight men—can feel electrifying. And butch confidence, the grit to invert every traditional way a w…"

-Grace Perry, The 2000s Made Me Gay: Essays on Pop Culture

" The closet implies a literal, physical boundary dividing one’s life before publicly declaring queerness, and after. It’s a threshold impossible to recross, two distinct places to live: in the darkne…"

-Grace Perry, The 2000s Made Me Gay: Essays on Pop Culture

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19. My Name’s Yours, What’s Alaska?: A Memoir

By: Alaska Thunderfuck 5000

4.25

Format: 264 pages, Hardcover

Alaska Thunderfuck spills the tea on her meteoric rise from timid Pennsylvania kid to drag supersta… read more

Similar categories in Alaska Thunderfuck 5000's My Name’s Yours, What’s Alaska?: A Memoir book and Brandon Kyle Goodman's You Gotta Be You: How to Embrace This Messy Life and Step Into Who You Really Are

  • audiobook
  • biography
  • memoir
  • lgbt
  • autobiography
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • queer
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20. I Curse You With Joy

By: Tiffany Haddish

3.95

Format: 269 pages, Kindle Edition

Tiffany Haddish is back with her highly anticipated new essay collection, I Curse You With Joy … read more

Similar categories in Tiffany Haddish's I Curse You With Joy book and Brandon Kyle Goodman's You Gotta Be You: How to Embrace This Messy Life and Step Into Who You Really Are

  • biography
  • memoir
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
"Representation isn’t just checking off boxes, it’s validating experience."

-Tiffany Haddish, I Curse You With Joy

"What I was learning was, in its own fucked up way, no feelings was as bad as too many."

-Tiffany Haddish, I Curse You With Joy

"I wish that men got endometriosis. If it was painful when they ejaculated, you know they would find a cure immediately and every doctor would know what to do to make it less painful, even a foot doct…"

-Tiffany Haddish, I Curse You With Joy

"Going through all that, taught me that you get to choose your response when you are afraid. You might not be able to control everything that happens to you but you do get to control how you respond t…"

-Tiffany Haddish, I Curse You With Joy

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21. You Gotta Be You: How to Embrace This Messy Life and Step Into Who You Really Are

By: Brandon Kyle Goodman

4.59

Format: 224 pages, Hardcover

Audible's Best of the Year in Well-Being YOU ARE ENOUGH EXACTLY AS YOU ARE. ​           From the … read more

Similar categories in Brandon Kyle Goodman's You Gotta Be You: How to Embrace This Messy Life and Step Into Who You Really Are book and Brandon Kyle Goodman's You Gotta Be You: How to Embrace This Messy Life and Step Into Who You Really Are

  • audiobook
  • self help
  • biography
  • memoir
  • lgbt
  • autobiography
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • queer

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Transform Your Habits

My Mother and Other Wild Animals

Andrew Sean Greer

3.90

Transform Your Habits

Viral Justice: How We Grow the World We Want

Ruha Benjamin

4.47

Transform Your Habits

Against Technoableism: Rethinking Who Needs Improvement

Ashley Shew

4.30

Transform Your Habits

Alive At The End Of The World

Saeed Jones

4.35

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18 Top audiobook books like Dear Black Girls: How to Be True to You by A'ja Wilson

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This Could Be Us (Skyland, #2)

Kennedy Ryan

4.42

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A Love Song for Ricki Wilde

Tia Williams

4.04

Transform Your Habits

Brooklyn

Tracy Brown

4.07

Transform Your Habits

Undefeated: Changing the Rules and Winning on My Own Terms

Shaunie Henderson

3.84

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