13 Best memoir books like Dear Damage by Ashley Farmer

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Dear Damage

By: Ashley Farmer

4.38

Format: 200 pages, Paperback

Two weeks before her grandfather purchased a gun, Ashley Marie Farmer’s grandmother tripped as she …

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1. The Opposite of Loneliness: Essays and Stories (An Inspirational Bestseller)

By: Marina Keegan

3.85

Format: 208 pages, Hardcover

An affecting and hope-filled posthumous collection of essays and stories from the talented young Ya… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • memoir
  • essays
"I will live for love, and the rest will take care of itself."

-Marina Keegan, The Opposite of Loneliness: Essays and Stories (An Inspirational Bestseller)

"Aging is harder for beautiful people, and Anna was beautiful."

-Marina Keegan, The Opposite of Loneliness: Essays and Stories (An Inspirational Bestseller)

"I saw everything in the world build up and then everything in the world fall down again."

-Marina Keegan, The Opposite of Loneliness: Essays and Stories (An Inspirational Bestseller)

"We're so young. We can't, we MUST not loose this sense of possibility because in the end, it's all we have."

-Marina Keegan, The Opposite of Loneliness: Essays and Stories (An Inspirational Bestseller)

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2. Treasure Island!!!

By: Sara Levine

3.34

Format: 172 pages, Paperback

When a college graduate with a history of hapless jobs (ice cream scooper; gift wrapper; laziest ev… read more

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"Grief is a wound that needs attention in order to heal. We can have pancakes."

-Sara Levine, Treasure Island!!!

"Don't tell me you're reading it,' she said, as if I were doing something to the book, whereas in fact the book was doing something to me."

-Sara Levine, Treasure Island!!!

"If life were a sea adventure, I knew: I wouldn't be sailor, pirate, or cabin boy but more likely a barnacle clinging to the side of the boat."

-Sara Levine, Treasure Island!!!

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3. Shortcomings

By: Adrian Tomine

3.20

Format: 144 pages, Hardcover

FROM THE PREEMINENT CARTOONIST OF HIS GENERATION, THE MOST ANTICIPATED GRAPHIC NOVEL OF 2007 Shortc… read more

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4. The Lonely Passion of Judith Hearne

By: Brian Moore

3.76

Format: 234 pages,

'The Lonely Passion of Judith Hearne' launched Brian Moore's distinguished literary career and also… read more

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5. Forest Primeval

By: Vievee Francis

4.08

Format: 320 pages, Paperback

"Another Anti-Pastoral," the opening poem of Forest Primeval, confesses that sometimes "words fail.… read more

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6. Silencer

By: Marcus Wicker

4.19

Format: 45 pages, Paperback

"Tough talk for tough times. Silenceris both lyrical and merciless-Wicker's mind hums in overdrive,… read more

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7. Quiet Girl in a Noisy World: An Introvert's Story

By: Debbie Tung

0.00

Format: None pages, Paperback

Sweet, funny, and quietlypoignant, Debbie Tung's comics reveal the ups and downs of coming of age a… read more

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8. Real Friends

By: Shannon Hale , LeUyen Pham

4.18

Format: 368 pages, Hardcover

When best friends are not forever . . . Shannon and Adrienne have been best friends ever since the… read more

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9. Hocus Pocus

By: Kurt Vonnegut Jr.

4.26

Format: None pages, Paperback

From the author of Timequake, this "irresistible" novel (Cleveland Plain Dealer) tells the story of… read more

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10. I Will Judge You by Your Bookshelf

By: Grant Snider

3.74

Format: 128 pages, Hardcover

A look at the culture and fanaticism of book lovers, from the beloved New York Times illustrator … read more

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  • nonfiction
"A book closed is just a block of paper."

-Grant Snider, I Will Judge You by Your Bookshelf

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11. Grief Is for People

By: Sloane Crosley

3.91

Format: 208 pages, Hardcover

Following the death of her closest friend, Sloane Crosley explores multiple kinds of loss in this d… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • memoir
  • essays
"Grief is for people, not things."

-Sloane Crosley, Grief Is for People

"Suicide is a tax on human consciousness."

-Sloane Crosley, Grief Is for People

"How will he know you loved him," she asks, "unless you try to destroy yourself?"

-Sloane Crosley, Grief Is for People

"Pictures should be of what you see, not of what the world sees when it sees you."

-Sloane Crosley, Grief Is for People

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12. Heart Berries

By: Terese Marie Mailhot

3.84

Format: 143 pages, Hardcover

Heart Berries is a powerful, poetic memoir of a woman's coming of age on the Seabird Island Indian … read more

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  • nonfiction
  • memoir
"Pain expanded my heart."

-Terese Marie Mailhot, Heart Berries

"You are such a home to me."

-Terese Marie Mailhot, Heart Berries

"Romanticism requires bravery and risk."

-Terese Marie Mailhot, Heart Berries

"Sometimes suicidality doesn’t seem dark; it seems fair."

-Terese Marie Mailhot, Heart Berries

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13. If I Survive You

By: Jonathan Escoffery

3.69

Format: 260 pages, Hardcover

In the 1970s, Topper and Sanya flee to Miami as political violence consumes their native Kingston. … read more

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"Why don't stars make any sounds in the winter? What sounds? Ethan said."

-Jonathan Escoffery, If I Survive You

"What does Whiteness feel like?... I imagine it's like walking barefoot…"

-Jonathan Escoffery, If I Survive You

"Every boy deserves to believe him father is good, but if each father were good, we’d be living in a different kind of world."

-Jonathan Escoffery, If I Survive You

"I imagined I could have begged an old girlfriend from college to send money; enough of them had expressed ambivalence about their trust funds that this seemed a plausible path down which I might drag…"

-Jonathan Escoffery, If I Survive You

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14. Happy-Go-Lucky

By: David Sedaris

4.17

Format: 272 pages, Hardcover

David Sedaris, the “champion storyteller,” ( Los Angeles Times ) returns with his first new collect… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • memoir
  • essays
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15. The Hurting Kind: Poems

By: Ada Limon

4.34

Format: 120 pages, Hardcover

An astonishing collection about interconnectedness—between the human and nonhuman, ancestors and ou… read more

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  • nonfiction
"There is a solitude in this world I cannot pierce. I would die for it."

-Ada Limon, The Hurting Kind: Poems

"Before, the only thing I was interested in was love, how it grips you, how it terrifies you, how it annihilates and resuscitates you. I didn’t know then that it wasn’t even love that I was interested…"

-Ada Limon, The Hurting Kind: Poems

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16. Death Valley

By: Melissa Broder

3.49

Format: 240 pages, Hardcover

A woman arrives alone at a Best Western seeking respite from an emptiness that plagues her. She has… read more

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"My body is the real problem here. If I could be bodiless - or at least, senseless - I’d be better off."

-Melissa Broder, Death Valley

"This is the problem with human relationships: you come to a person with one feeling and they’re having another."

-Melissa Broder, Death Valley

"I am going to die out here. I might. I could. Die. All this time I should have been practising for dying. What was I doing instead? Reading reviews for sweatpants."

-Melissa Broder, Death Valley

"Stop placing so much value on the known, I tell myself. Fake like this is the hero’s journey. It’s good to get lost. Good for the soul. But how lost is the good amount of lost? If I die here, is that…"

-Melissa Broder, Death Valley

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17. Easy Beauty

By: Chloé Cooper Jones

4.12

Format: 272 pages, Hardcover

From Chloé Cooper Jones—Pulitzer Prize finalist, philosophy professor, Whiting Creative Nonfiction … read more

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  • nonfiction
  • memoir
  • essays
"Beauty is what we're told is beautiful and what we're told becomes the truth."

-Chloé Cooper Jones, Easy Beauty

"Maybe then I would submit to it's rigid ideals if I were recognized as worthy of experiencing them."

-Chloé Cooper Jones, Easy Beauty

"I care if you are happy. I'm in love with your happiness. My focus is on how you feel not what you do."

-Chloé Cooper Jones, Easy Beauty

"You could have made me come home," I say. "No, I can only try to be the person you want to come home to."

-Chloé Cooper Jones, Easy Beauty

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18. The Perfect Other: A Memoir of My Sister

By: Kyleigh Leddy

4.06

Format: 304 pages, Hardcover

All Kait Leddy had ever wanted was a little sister. When Kyleigh was born, they were inseparable; K… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • memoir
"Only after we relinquish what is lost are we truly healed."

-Kyleigh Leddy, The Perfect Other: A Memoir of My Sister

"For better and for worse, hope proves itself to be surprisingly resilient."

-Kyleigh Leddy, The Perfect Other: A Memoir of My Sister

"No one tells you what a precious, fragile gift your mind is in the first place. No one tells you it can be lost."

-Kyleigh Leddy, The Perfect Other: A Memoir of My Sister

"You wish there was an adequate term for what you are—like orphan or widower—a term that says “I once meant something to somebody."

-Kyleigh Leddy, The Perfect Other: A Memoir of My Sister

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19. Body Work: The Radical Power of Personal Narrative

By: Melissa Febos

4.24

Format: 171 pages, Paperback

Memoir meets craft masterclass in this “daring, honest, psychologically insightful” exploration of … read more

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  • nonfiction
  • memoir
  • essays
"Writing is a form of freedom more accessible than many"

-Melissa Febos, Body Work: The Radical Power of Personal Narrative

"...The more we believe we ought to be something that we are not, the more money we will spend in that mission."

-Melissa Febos, Body Work: The Radical Power of Personal Narrative

"Every single thing I have created worth a damn has been a practice of love, healing, and redemption. I know this process to be divine."

-Melissa Febos, Body Work: The Radical Power of Personal Narrative

"I have found that a fulfilling writing life is one in which the creative process merges with the other necessary processes of good living, which only the individual can define."

-Melissa Febos, Body Work: The Radical Power of Personal Narrative

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20. Everything Is OK

By: Debbie Tung

4.31

Format: 189 pages, Paperback

From the bestselling author of Quiet Girl in a Noisy World comes a gently humorous and poignant col… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • memoir
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21. Book Love

By: Debbie Tung

4.29

Format: 137 pages, Hardcover

Bookworms rejoice! These charming comics capture exactly what it feels like to be head-over-heels f… read more

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  • nonfiction
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22. You Could Make This Place Beautiful

By: Maggie Smith

4.08

Format: 320 pages, Hardcover

In her memoir You Could Make This Place Beautiful, poet Maggie Smith explores the disintegration of… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • memoir
  • essays
"At our wedding, our college creative writing professor read a poem—John Ciardi’s “Most Like an Arch This Marriage."

-Maggie Smith, You Could Make This Place Beautiful

"How I picture it: We are all nesting dolls, carrying the earlier iterations of ourselves inside. We carry the past inside us. We take ourselves–all of our selves–wherever we go. Inside forty-somethin…"

-Maggie Smith, You Could Make This Place Beautiful

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23. My Friends

By: Hisham Matar

4.34

Format: 399 pages, Hardcover

From the Pulitzer Prize-winning author of The Return , a luminous novel of friendship, family, and … read more

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"A vast distance exists between a protester and his slogan; the entire history of politics exists in that gap."

-Hisham Matar, My Friends

"For a writer, exile is prison, a severing from the source, and so, courageous or not, he dies in front of our eyes."

-Hisham Matar, My Friends

"She was older and all the more beautiful, had the weary tiredness of one who, in surrendering to her life, was ennobled by it."

-Hisham Matar, My Friends

"I walked off feeling an emptiness well up inside me. It seemed, for all the emptiness that it was, a presence. It made me want to run away, dive deeper into myself, into that cold desolation, to the …"

-Hisham Matar, My Friends

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24. The Furrows

By: Namwali Serpell

3.21

Format: 288 pages, Hardcover

How do you grieve an absence? A brilliantly inventive novel about loss and belonging, from the awar… read more

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25. The Wrong End of the Telescope

By: Rabih Alameddine

4.04

Format: 354 pages, Hardcover

By National Book Award and the National Book Critics’ Circle Award finalist for An Unnecessary Woma… read more

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"Writing one’s story narcotizes it. Literature today is an opiate."

-Rabih Alameddine, The Wrong End of the Telescope

"You still cling to romantic notions about writing, that you’ll be able to figure things out, that you will understand life, as if life is understandable, as if art is understandable. When has writing…"

-Rabih Alameddine, The Wrong End of the Telescope

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26. Dirtbag, Massachusetts: A Confessional

By: Isaac Fitzgerald

3.59

Format: 256 pages, Hardcover

Isaac Fitzgerald has lived many lives. He's been an altar boy, a bartender, a fat kid, a smuggler, … read more

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  • nonfiction
  • memoir
  • essays
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27. Sugar Street

By: Jonathan Dee

3.51

Format: 208 pages, Hardcover

Publishing for the first time with Grove Atlantic, Pulitzer Prize finalist and celebrated author of… read more

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28. Happily: A Personal History-with Fairy Tales

By: Sabrina Orah Mark

3.89

Format: 224 pages, Hardcover

A beautifully written memoir-in-essays on fairy tales and their surprising relevance to modern life… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • memoir
  • essays
"We ask the child to drag around the unwieldy weight of magic. To clap wildly. To believe in what we believe in no longer. We ask the child to keep the awe we forgot how to hold. The fairy isn't the f…"

-Sabrina Orah Mark, Happily: A Personal History-with Fairy Tales

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29. Little Rabbit

By: Alyssa Songsiridej

3.74

Format: 256 pages, Hardcover

When the unnamed narrator of Little Rabbit first meets the choreographer at an artists' residency i… read more

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30. Meet Me Tonight in Atlantic City

By: Jane Wong

4.03

Format: 288 pages, Hardcover

An incandescent, exquisitely written memoir about family, food, girlhood, resistance, and growing u… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • memoir
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31. Dear Damage

By: Ashley Farmer

4.38

Format: 200 pages, Paperback

Two weeks before her grandfather purchased a gun, Ashley Marie Farmer’s grandmother tripped as she … read more

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  • nonfiction
  • memoir
  • essays

16 Best nonfiction books like Dear Damage by Ashley Farmer

Transform Your Habits

The Opposite of Loneliness: Essays and Stories (An Inspirational Bestseller)

Marina Keegan

3.85

Transform Your Habits

I Will Judge You by Your Bookshelf

Grant Snider

3.74

Transform Your Habits

Grief Is for People

Sloane Crosley

3.91

Transform Your Habits

Heart Berries

Terese Marie Mailhot

3.84

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15 Top nonfiction books like Happily: A Personal History-with Fairy Tales by Sabrina Orah Mark

Transform Your Habits

Notes from No Man's Land

Eula Biss

4.18

Transform Your Habits

Brutalities: A Love Story

Margo Steines

4.16

Transform Your Habits

Creep: Accusations and Confessions

Myriam Gurba

4.37

Transform Your Habits

Without Children: The Long History of Not Being a Mother

Peggy O'Donnell Heffington

3.77

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