18 best-selling nonfiction books like You're Not the Problem: The Impact of Narcissism and Emotional Abuse and How to Heal by Helen Villiers

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You're Not the Problem: The Impact of Narcissism and Emotional Abuse and How to Heal

By: Helen Villiers

4.67

Format: 352 pages, Paperback

Two popular psychotherapists explore narcissism in family of origin, unpacking the fallout from bei…

If you liked the nonfiction plot in You're Not the Problem: The Impact of Narcissism and Emotional Abuse and How to Heal by Helen Villiers , here is a list of 18 books like this:

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1. Becoming the Narcissist’s Nightmare: How to Devalue and Discard the Narcissist While Supplying Yourself

By: Shahida Arabi

4.18

Format: 598 pages, Kindle Edition

Although clinical research has been conducted on narcissism as a disorder, less is known about its … read more

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  • audiobook
  • psychology
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • self help
"A child that’s being abused by its parents doesn’t stop loving its parents, it stops loving itself."

-Shahida Arabi, Becoming the Narcissist’s Nightmare: How to Devalue and Discard the Narcissist While Supplying Yourself

"People pleasing does make it easier to ignore the red flags of abusive relationships at the very early stages especially with covert manipulators. We can also become conditioned to continually “please"

-Shahida Arabi, Becoming the Narcissist’s Nightmare: How to Devalue and Discard the Narcissist While Supplying Yourself

"(a quote from a survivor) Information was key. Once you begin waking up to what has been happening around you the whole time you can begin stopping the cycle which angers the Narcissist to an interes…"

-Shahida Arabi, Becoming the Narcissist’s Nightmare: How to Devalue and Discard the Narcissist While Supplying Yourself

"(a quote from a survivor) Read up on the psychology of abuse. Listen to music. Being alone to process without chatter. Usually outside doing something physical, doing these things helps you believe y…"

-Shahida Arabi, Becoming the Narcissist’s Nightmare: How to Devalue and Discard the Narcissist While Supplying Yourself

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2. Stop Caretaking the Borderline or Narcissist: How to End the Drama and Get on with Life

By: Margalis Fjelstad

3.63

Format: 371 pages, ebook

People with Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorders are master manipulators; Caretakers fa… read more

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  • self help
  • nonfiction
  • psychology
  • mental health

3. Psychopath Free (Expanded Edition): Recovering from Emotionally Abusive Relationships With Narcissists, Sociopaths, and Other Toxic People

By: Jackson MacKenzie

5.00

Format: 120 pages,

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4. The Swans of Harlem: Five Black Ballerinas, Fifty Years of Sisterhood, and Their Reclamation of a Groundbreaking History

By: Karen Valby

4.31

Format: 304 pages, Hardcover

The forgotten story of a pioneering group of five Black ballerinas and their fifty-year sisterhood,… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
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5. Untypical: How the World Isn’t Built for Autistic People and What We Should All Do About it

By: Pete Wharmby

4.35

Format: 256 pages, Paperback

It’s time to remake the world – the ground-breaking book on what steps we should all be taking for … read more

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  • psychology
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • self help
"By the time I entered education in the late 1980s, schools were about as well adapted for my neurotype as a set of stairs is adapted for the use by a Dalek."

-Pete Wharmby, Untypical: How the World Isn’t Built for Autistic People and What We Should All Do About it

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6. It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People

By: Ramani Durvasula

4.58

Format: 362 pages, Kindle Edition

A transformative guide to protecting and healing yourself from the narcissism you can’t see, from p… read more

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  • psychology
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • self help
"You may have had the belief that to forgive is divine but have come to learn that to discern may be transcendent."

-Ramani Durvasula, It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People

"Radical acceptance of the injustice is part of this process-it not fair, I cannot change it; I can, however, chart a different and authentic course forward and learn from this. Be kind to yourself, t…"

-Ramani Durvasula, It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People

"I am tired of people calling those of us who get stuck in these cycles "codependent" or "addicted" to the narcissistic relationship. It's not that. If you have any empathy, have normal cognitive func…"

-Ramani Durvasula, It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People

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7. The Islanders

By: Caroline Mitchell

4.05

Format: 285 pages, Kindle Edition

She thinks the island will keep her safe—she is wrong. Traumatised by the death of a child in her … read more

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  • audiobook
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8. A Rival Most Vial: Potioneering for Love and Profit (Side Quest Row, #1)

By: R.K. Ashwick

4.20

Format: 340 pages, Paperback

Two potion shops, one heated rivalry…until hate bubbles over into something else. Any adventurer… read more

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9. The Menopause Brain: New Science Empowers Women to Navigate the Pivotal Transition with Knowledge and Confidence

By: Lisa Mosconi

4.05

Format: 320 pages, Hardcover

The New York Times bestselling author of The XX Brain shows women how to navigate menopause success… read more

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  • self help
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
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10. Dirty Laundry: Why Adults with ADHD Are So Ashamed and What We Can Do to Help

By: Richard Pink

4.07

Format: 144 pages, Paperback

An empowering and witty guide to banishing shame and living your fullest life with ADHD—plus tips f… read more

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  • audiobook
  • psychology
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • self help
"No one can hate themselves into a version of themselves that they like"

-Richard Pink, Dirty Laundry: Why Adults with ADHD Are So Ashamed and What We Can Do to Help

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11. "Don't You Know Who I Am?": How to Stay Sane in an Era of Narcissism, Entitlement, and Incivility

By: Ramani Durvasula

4.42

Format: 400 pages, Hardcover

It’s time to take our lives back from a world of narcissism, entitlement, and toxic relationships. … read more

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  • audiobook
  • psychology
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • self help
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12. Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships

By: Dedeker Winston

4.52

Format: 326 pages, Paperback

Relationships aren't "one-size-fits-all" so why should relationship advice be? Multiamory offers pr… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • psychology
  • self help
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13. Adult Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers: Quiet the Critical Voice in Your Head, Heal Self-Doubt, and Live the Life You Deserve

By: Stephanie M. Kriesberg

3.98

Format: 184 pages, Paperback

Were you raised by a narcissist? This essential guide will show you how to stop feeling invisible, … read more

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  • self help
  • nonfiction
  • psychology
  • audiobook
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14. Whole Again: Healing Your Heart and Rediscovering Your True Self After Toxic Relationships and Emotional Abuse

By: Jackson MacKenzie

4.20

Format: 304 pages, Paperback

From a leading voice on recovering from toxic relationships, a deeply insightful guide to getting b… read more

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  • psychology
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • self help
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15. Stop People Pleasing: And Find Your Power

By: Hailey Paige Magee

4.44

Format: 352 pages, Hardcover

A viral life coach offers a practical, empathetic, and inspiring guide to breaking people-pleasing … read more

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  • psychology
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • self help
"Imagine how different the world would be if little girls were taught to set boundaries as often as they were taught to be polite."

-Hailey Paige Magee, Stop People Pleasing: And Find Your Power

"As concepts like people-pleasing and self-care become more mainstream, complex ideas like boundaries are often diluted in ways that ultimately discourage us from building healthy relationships. We’re…"

-Hailey Paige Magee, Stop People Pleasing: And Find Your Power

"This healing isn’t a one-time event; it is a process of rededicating ourselves to ourselves, over and over again. Every time we redirect our attention back to our feelings, our desires, and our dream…"

-Hailey Paige Magee, Stop People Pleasing: And Find Your Power

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16. Will the Drama Ever End?: Untangling and Healing from the Harmful Effects of Parental Narcissism

By: Karyl McBride

4.40

Format: 272 pages, Paperback

“A welcome companion book from a brilliant therapist” (Maren Cooper, author of Finding Grace ), thi… read more

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  • self help
  • nonfiction
  • psychology
  • audiobook
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17. Keeping Finance Personal: Ditch the “Shoulds” and the Shame and Rewrite Your Money Story

By: Ellyce Fulmore

4.23

Format: 352 pages, Hardcover

An intersectional approach to personal finance from queer, neurodivergent personal finance educator… read more

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  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
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18. Should I Stay or Should I Go?: Surviving a Relationship with a Narcissist

By: Ramani Durvasula

4.45

Format: 157 pages, ebook

Narcissism is a modern epidemic, and it’s spreading rapidly. But how do you know if you are in a re… read more

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  • psychology
  • mental health
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  • self help
"His definition of “I love you"

-Ramani Durvasula, Should I Stay or Should I Go?: Surviving a Relationship with a Narcissist

"Narcissism is, indeed, the new world order."

-Ramani Durvasula, Should I Stay or Should I Go?: Surviving a Relationship with a Narcissist

"When these red flags appeared early on, the narrative was “shaped"

-Ramani Durvasula, Should I Stay or Should I Go?: Surviving a Relationship with a Narcissist

"In a healthy relationship, your partner is a great “dream-catcher."

-Ramani Durvasula, Should I Stay or Should I Go?: Surviving a Relationship with a Narcissist

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19. The Ritual Effect: From Habit to Ritual, Harness the Surprising Power of Everyday Actions

By: Michael Norton

3.50

Format: 288 pages, Hardcover

In the bestselling tradition of Charles Duhigg’s The Power of Habit and Angela Duckworth’s Grit, a … read more

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  • psychology
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • self help
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20. You're Not the Problem: The Impact of Narcissism and Emotional Abuse and How to Heal

By: Helen Villiers

4.67

Format: 352 pages, Paperback

Two popular psychotherapists explore narcissism in family of origin, unpacking the fallout from bei… read more

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  • self help
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21. Just About Coping: A Real-Life Drama from the Psychotherapist's Chair

By: Natalie Cawley

4.17

Format: 296 pages, Kindle Edition

'I loved this witty, insightful journey into the world of psychotherapy' – Raynor Winn, bestselling… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • mental health

16 must-read audiobook books like You're Not the Problem: The Impact of Narcissism and Emotional Abuse and How to Heal by Helen Villiers

Transform Your Habits

Becoming the Narcissist’s Nightmare: How to Devalue and Discard the Narcissist While Supplying Yourself

Shahida Arabi

4.18

Transform Your Habits

The Swans of Harlem: Five Black Ballerinas, Fifty Years of Sisterhood, and Their Reclamation of a Groundbreaking History

Karen Valby

4.31

Transform Your Habits

Untypical: How the World Isn’t Built for Autistic People and What We Should All Do About it

Pete Wharmby

4.35

Transform Your Habits

It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People

Ramani Durvasula

4.58

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20 Best audiobook books like Adult Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers: Quiet the Critical Voice in Your Head, Heal Self-Doubt, and Live the Life You Deserve by Stephanie M. Kriesberg

Transform Your Habits

Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents

Lindsay C. Gibson

4.39

Transform Your Habits

Disentangling from Emotionally Immature People: Avoid Emotional Traps, Stand Up for Your Self, and Transform Your Relationships as an Adult Child of Emotionally Immature Parents

Lindsay C. Gibson

4.49

Transform Your Habits

Tits Up: What Sex Workers, Milk Bankers, Plastic Surgeons, Bra Designers, and Witches Tell Us about Breasts

Sarah Thornton

3.77

Transform Your Habits

Mother Hunger: How Adult Daughters Can Understand and Heal from Lost Nurturance, Protection, and Guidance

Kelly McDaniel

4.15

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