9 must-read self help books like But You're Still So Young: How Thirtysomethings Are Redefining Adulthood by Kayleen Schaefer

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But You're Still So Young: How Thirtysomethings Are Redefining Adulthood

By: Kayleen Schaefer

3.32

Format: 240 pages, Hardcover

From the author of Text Me When You Get Home, an investigation into what it means to be in your th…

"There is this delay of the full implementation of adulthood at the beginning of the life cycle, but there is also an extension at the end...The proportion of the population living to 80 or 90 is continuing to go up, so adulthood is shrinking at the younger ages, but extending at the older ages. It's a way I don't hear expressed very often, but if you didn't start adulthood until you were in your thirties, you would still have as many years of adulthood now as you would have in the 1950s or 60s. It's not just a delay, but it's a shift, too. The delay is the more important part of the story, but it's also an upward shift in the life cycle."

-Kayleen Schaefer, But You're Still So Young: How Thirtysomethings Are Redefining Adulthood

"There is this delay of the full implementation of adulthood at the beginning of the life cycle, but there is also an extension at the end...The proportion of the population living to 80 or 90 is continuing to go up, so adulthood is shrinking at the younger ages, but extending at the older ages. It's a way I don't hear expressed very often, but if you didn't start adulthood until you were in your thirties, you would still have as many years of adulthood now as you would have in the 1950s or 60s. It's not just a delay, but it's a shift, too. The delay is the more important part of the story, but it's also an upward shift in the life cycle."

-Kayleen Schaefer, But You're Still So Young: How Thirtysomethings Are Redefining Adulthood

If you liked the self help plot in But You're Still So Young: How Thirtysomethings Are Redefining Adulthood by Kayleen Schaefer , here is a list of 9 books like this:

Cover of The Omnivore's Dilemma: The Secrets Behind What You Eat by Richie Chevat, Michael Pollan

1. The Omnivore's Dilemma: The Secrets Behind What You Eat

By: Richie Chevat , Michael Pollan

4.03

Format: 298 pages, Hardcover

The New York Times bestseller that's changing America's diet is now perfect for young readers. "Wha… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
"The curse of the omnivore is that when it comes to figuring which of those things are safe to eat, he's pretty much on his own."

-Richie Chevat, The Omnivore's Dilemma: The Secrets Behind What You Eat

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2. Bright Lights, Big Ass: A Self-Indulgent, Surly, Ex-Sorority Girl's Guide to Why It Often Sucks in the City, or Who Are These Idiots and Why Do They All Live Next Door to Me?

By: Jen Lancaster

4.32

Format: 632 pages, Paperback

Jen Lancaster hates to burst your happy little bubble, but life in the big city isn't all it's crac… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • memoir
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3. 100 Things We've Lost to the Internet

By: Pamela Paul

3.41

Format: 288 pages, Hardcover

The acclaimed editor of The New York Times Book Review takes readers on a nostalgic tour of the pre… read more

Similar categories in Pamela Paul's 100 Things We've Lost to the Internet book and Kayleen Schaefer's But You're Still So Young: How Thirtysomethings Are Redefining Adulthood

  • self help
  • nonfiction
  • adult
  • sociology
  • audiobook
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4. Saving Time: Discovering a Life Beyond the Clock

By: Jenny Odell

3.61

Format: 400 pages, Hardcover

In her first book, How to Do Nothing, Jenny Odell wrote about the importance of disconnecting from … read more

Similar categories in Jenny Odell's Saving Time: Discovering a Life Beyond the Clock book and Kayleen Schaefer's But You're Still So Young: How Thirtysomethings Are Redefining Adulthood

  • audiobook
  • nonfiction
  • psychology
  • self help
"Most living entities and systems on this planet obviously do not live by the Western human clock (though some, like the crows who memorize a city's daily garbage truck route, do of course adapt to th…"

-Jenny Odell, Saving Time: Discovering a Life Beyond the Clock

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5. Dolls of Our Lives

By: Mary Mahoney

3.53

Format: None pages, None

For Feiwel & Friends, Kat Brzozowski bought world rights to a currently untitled book by Allison Ho… read more

Similar categories in Mary Mahoney's Dolls of Our Lives book and Kayleen Schaefer's But You're Still So Young: How Thirtysomethings Are Redefining Adulthood

  • adult
  • nonfiction
  • memoir
  • audiobook
Cover of Girls and Their Monsters: The Genain Quadruplets and the Making of Madness in America by Audrey Clare Farley

6. Girls and Their Monsters: The Genain Quadruplets and the Making of Madness in America

By: Audrey Clare Farley

3.53

Format: 304 pages, Hardcover

For readers of Hidden Valley Road and Patient H.M., an "intimate and compassionate portrait" (Grace… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • psychology
  • audiobook
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7. Natural Causes: An Epidemic of Wellness, the Certainty of Dying, and Killing Ourselves to Live Longer

By: Barbara Ehrenreich

3.26

Format: None pages, Audiobook

Bestselling author of Nickel and Dimed, Barbara Ehrenreich explores how we are killing ourselves to… read more

Similar categories in Barbara Ehrenreich's Natural Causes: An Epidemic of Wellness, the Certainty of Dying, and Killing Ourselves to Live Longer book and Kayleen Schaefer's But You're Still So Young: How Thirtysomethings Are Redefining Adulthood

  • nonfiction
  • sociology
  • psychology
  • audiobook
"A thing cannot be conscious without having agency, but it can have agency without being conscious."

-Barbara Ehrenreich, Natural Causes: An Epidemic of Wellness, the Certainty of Dying, and Killing Ourselves to Live Longer

"Once I realized I was old enough to die, I decided that I was also old enough not to incur any more suffering, annoyance, or boredom in the pursuit of a longer life."

-Barbara Ehrenreich, Natural Causes: An Epidemic of Wellness, the Certainty of Dying, and Killing Ourselves to Live Longer

"NK, or natural killer, cells, which, like macrophages, attack targets like microbes, do not always kill. A 2013 article reports that about half of the NK cells sit out the fight, leaving a minority o…"

-Barbara Ehrenreich, Natural Causes: An Epidemic of Wellness, the Certainty of Dying, and Killing Ourselves to Live Longer

"Poor whites had always had the comfort of knowing that someone was worse off and more despised than they were; racial subjugation was the ground under their feet, the rock they stood upon, even when …"

-Barbara Ehrenreich, Natural Causes: An Epidemic of Wellness, the Certainty of Dying, and Killing Ourselves to Live Longer

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8. The Perfectionist's Guide to Losing Control: A Path to Peace and Power

By: Katherine Morgan Schafler

4.19

Format: 352 pages, Hardcover

From psychotherapist Katherine Morgan Schafler, an invitation to every “recovering perfectionist” t… read more

Similar categories in Katherine Morgan Schafler's The Perfectionist's Guide to Losing Control: A Path to Peace and Power book and Kayleen Schaefer's But You're Still So Young: How Thirtysomethings Are Redefining Adulthood

  • self help
  • psychology
  • nonfiction
  • adult
  • audiobook
"Energy management beats time management."

-Katherine Morgan Schafler, The Perfectionist's Guide to Losing Control: A Path to Peace and Power

"Feeling less in danger is not the same as feeling safe."

-Katherine Morgan Schafler, The Perfectionist's Guide to Losing Control: A Path to Peace and Power

"Enthusiasm itself will not be enough to sustain an endeavor."

-Katherine Morgan Schafler, The Perfectionist's Guide to Losing Control: A Path to Peace and Power

"Forgiveness is not a line you cross, it's a path you walk on."

-Katherine Morgan Schafler, The Perfectionist's Guide to Losing Control: A Path to Peace and Power

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9. America the Beautiful?: One Woman in a Borrowed Prius on the Road Most Traveled

By: Blythe Roberson

3.76

Format: 304 pages, Paperback

For writer and comedian Blythe Roberson, there are only so many Mary Oliver poems you can read abou… read more

Similar categories in Blythe Roberson's America the Beautiful?: One Woman in a Borrowed Prius on the Road Most Traveled book and Kayleen Schaefer's But You're Still So Young: How Thirtysomethings Are Redefining Adulthood

  • nonfiction
  • memoir
  • audiobook
"It sometimes feels like men feel the need to assert their dominance over nature. Rich white men, who have no problems, climb mountains to see what having problems feels like."

-Blythe Roberson, America the Beautiful?: One Woman in a Borrowed Prius on the Road Most Traveled

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10. Off the Clock: Feel Less Busy While Getting More Done

By: Laura Vanderkam

3.95

Format: 256 pages, Kindle Edition

"I well recall a conversation with an executive I hoped to interview about her astonishing producti… read more

Similar categories in Laura Vanderkam's Off the Clock: Feel Less Busy While Getting More Done book and Kayleen Schaefer's But You're Still So Young: How Thirtysomethings Are Redefining Adulthood

  • self help
  • psychology
  • nonfiction
  • adult
  • audiobook
"Time is elastic. It stretches to accommodate what we choose to put into it."

-Laura Vanderkam, Off the Clock: Feel Less Busy While Getting More Done

"Strategizing boosts efficiency; planning your toughest work for the time when you have the most energy means a task might take one hour instead of two."

-Laura Vanderkam, Off the Clock: Feel Less Busy While Getting More Done

"Being off the clock implies time freedom, yet time freedom stems from time discipline. You must know where the time goes in order to transcend the ceaseless ticking."

-Laura Vanderkam, Off the Clock: Feel Less Busy While Getting More Done

"Conscious fun takes effort. This seeming paradox—Why should fun be work?—stops us in our tracks. So we overindulge in effortless fun (scrolling through Instagram . . .) It is the effortful fun that m…"

-Laura Vanderkam, Off the Clock: Feel Less Busy While Getting More Done

Cover of Do You Mind If I Cancel?: Things That Still Annoy Me by Gary Janetti

11. Do You Mind If I Cancel?: Things That Still Annoy Me

By: Gary Janetti

3.50

Format: 159 pages, Hardcover

Gary Janetti, the writer and producer for some of the most popular television comedies of all time,… read more

Similar categories in Gary Janetti's Do You Mind If I Cancel?: Things That Still Annoy Me book and Kayleen Schaefer's But You're Still So Young: How Thirtysomethings Are Redefining Adulthood

  • nonfiction
  • memoir
  • audiobook
Cover of Welcome to the United States of Anxiety: Observations from a Reforming Neurotic by Jen Lancaster

12. Welcome to the United States of Anxiety: Observations from a Reforming Neurotic

By: Jen Lancaster

3.36

Format: 288 pages, Kindle Edition

New York Times bestselling author Jen Lancaster is here to help you chill the hell out. When did… read more

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  • self help
  • memoir
  • psychology
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
Cover of The Editor: How Publishing Legend Judith Jones Shaped Culture in America by Sara B. Franklin

13. The Editor: How Publishing Legend Judith Jones Shaped Culture in America

By: Sara B. Franklin

4.26

Format: 336 pages, Hardcover

The woman behind some of the most important authors of the 20th century—including Julia Child, Anne… read more

Similar categories in Sara B. Franklin's The Editor: How Publishing Legend Judith Jones Shaped Culture in America book and Kayleen Schaefer's But You're Still So Young: How Thirtysomethings Are Redefining Adulthood

  • nonfiction
  • memoir
  • audiobook
Cover of The Gospel of Wellness: Gyms, Gurus, Goop, and the False Promise of Self-Care by Rina Raphael

14. The Gospel of Wellness: Gyms, Gurus, Goop, and the False Promise of Self-Care

By: Rina Raphael

3.74

Format: 352 pages, Hardcover

Journalist Rina Raphael looks at the explosion of the wellness how it stems from legitimate compla… read more

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  • self help
  • psychology
  • nonfiction
  • sociology
  • audiobook
Cover of College Girl, Missing: The True Story of How a Young Woman Disappeared in Plain Sight by Shawn Cohen

15. College Girl, Missing: The True Story of How a Young Woman Disappeared in Plain Sight

By: Shawn Cohen

3.69

Format: 272 pages, Paperback

A gripping true crime book about a college girl who disappeared in plain sight When Lauren Spierer―… read more

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  • adult
  • nonfiction
  • memoir
  • audiobook
Cover of A Career in Books: A Novel about Friends, Money, and the Occasional Duck Bun by Kate Gavino

16. A Career in Books: A Novel about Friends, Money, and the Occasional Duck Bun

By: Kate Gavino

3.92

Format: 288 pages, Hardcover

A Career in Books is a graphic novel for everyone who's wanted to work with books and had no idea w… read more

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  • adult
  • contemporary
Cover of The Shower Habit: 10 Steps to Increase Energy, Boost Confidence, and Achieve Your Goals Without Waking Up Earlier (Optimize Your Life Series, #1) by Stephanie Ewing

17. The Shower Habit: 10 Steps to Increase Energy, Boost Confidence, and Achieve Your Goals Without Waking Up Earlier (Optimize Your Life Series, #1)

By: Stephanie Ewing

3.66

Format: 76 pages, Kindle Edition

The Shower Habit will teach you how to: Start your day with confidence without getting up earlie… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • self help
Cover of The Art of Showing Up: How to Be There for Yourself and Your People by Rachel Wilkerson Miller

18. The Art of Showing Up: How to Be There for Yourself and Your People

By: Rachel Wilkerson Miller

3.78

Format: 304 pages, Paperback

A modern roadmap to true connection—first by showing up for yourself and then for others If you’re … read more

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  • self help
  • psychology
  • nonfiction
  • adult
  • audiobook
"When you are firmly rooted, you can fully stand up for others."

-Rachel Wilkerson Miller, The Art of Showing Up: How to Be There for Yourself and Your People

Cover of This Is What America Looks Like: My Journey from Refugee to Congresswoman by Ilhan Omar

19. This Is What America Looks Like: My Journey from Refugee to Congresswoman

By: Ilhan Omar

4.26

Format: 288 pages, ebook

Ilhan Omar was eight years old when war broke out in Somalia. The youngest of seven children, her … read more

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  • autobiography
  • nonfiction
  • memoir
  • audiobook
"I grew up knowing that hard things only get harder when you don’t have real conversations about them."

-Ilhan Omar, This Is What America Looks Like: My Journey from Refugee to Congresswoman

"The more we listen to and learn from those with different backgrounds and present circumstances from our own, the more we can find connections to our own lived experience."

-Ilhan Omar, This Is What America Looks Like: My Journey from Refugee to Congresswoman

"As a refugee who fled civil war as a child, I am still trying to figure out where I fit in - which is perhaps why the most important note I found sticking to the wall outside my office had only three…"

-Ilhan Omar, This Is What America Looks Like: My Journey from Refugee to Congresswoman

"As we continue to perfect our union, citizens, neighbors, coworkers, and family must keep expanding our circles of self-interest to learn and relearn the fundamental truth that we are all connected. …"

-Ilhan Omar, This Is What America Looks Like: My Journey from Refugee to Congresswoman

Cover of Burn It Down: Women Writing about Anger by Lilly Dancyger

20. Burn It Down: Women Writing about Anger

By: Lilly Dancyger

4.30

Format: 257 pages, Hardcover

A rich, nuanced exploration of women's anger from a diverse group of writers Women are angry, and … read more

Similar categories in Lilly Dancyger's Burn It Down: Women Writing about Anger book and Kayleen Schaefer's But You're Still So Young: How Thirtysomethings Are Redefining Adulthood

  • nonfiction
  • memoir
  • psychology
"When she looked down at me, though terrified, I felt more seen than I'd ever felt under another person's gaze. I have since learned that recognizing the invisible parts of oneself in another person c…"

-Lilly Dancyger, Burn It Down: Women Writing about Anger

"As sure as she is becoming a woman, she is also being indoctrinated into a system I recognize- one that rewards female martyrdom with adoration and gratitude but leaves little room for her to air her…"

-Lilly Dancyger, Burn It Down: Women Writing about Anger

"Everything I've learned from the time I was born is essentially some form of control. Basic lessons: how to control my hands, my body. Advanced lessons: how to control my volume, my appearance. Havin…"

-Lilly Dancyger, Burn It Down: Women Writing about Anger

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21. But You're Still So Young: How Thirtysomethings Are Redefining Adulthood

By: Kayleen Schaefer

3.32

Format: 240 pages, Hardcover

From the author of Text Me When You Get Home, an investigation into what it means to be in your th… read more

Similar categories in Kayleen Schaefer's But You're Still So Young: How Thirtysomethings Are Redefining Adulthood book and Kayleen Schaefer's But You're Still So Young: How Thirtysomethings Are Redefining Adulthood

  • audiobook
  • memoir
  • research
  • psychology
  • autobiography
  • nonfiction
  • contemporary
  • adult
  • sociology
  • self help
"There is this delay of the full implementation of adulthood at the beginning of the life cycle, but there is also an extension at the end...The proportion of the population living to 80 or 90 is cont…"

-Kayleen Schaefer, But You're Still So Young: How Thirtysomethings Are Redefining Adulthood

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100 Things We've Lost to the Internet

Pamela Paul

3.41

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Dolls of Our Lives

Mary Mahoney

3.53

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The Perfectionist's Guide to Losing Control: A Path to Peace and Power

Katherine Morgan Schafler

4.19

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Off the Clock: Feel Less Busy While Getting More Done

Laura Vanderkam

3.95

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Noble Heart: A Self-Guided Retreat on Befriending Your Obstacles

Pema Chödrön

4.36

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Still the Mind: An Introduction to Meditation

Alan W. Watts , Mark Watts

3.75

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Raw Dog: The Naked Truth About Hot Dogs

Jamie Loftus

3.92

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4.45

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