6 Top self help books like Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace by Eris Young

Cover of Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace by Eris Young

Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace

By: Eris Young

3.93

Format: 288 pages, Paperback

How do we experience attraction? What does love mean to us? When did you realise you were ace? …

"There is power in naming yourself, but there is also power in being unnameable."

-Eris Young, Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace

"There is power in naming yourself, but there is also power in being unnameable."

-Eris Young, Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace

"When it comes to romance, we're told, "You'll know it when you see it" Which is fine, unless, of course, you don't."

-Eris Young, Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace

"When it comes to romance, we're told, "You'll know it when you see it" Which is fine, unless, of course, you don't."

-Eris Young, Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace

If you liked the self help plot in Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace by Eris Young , here is a list of 6 books like this:

Cover of The Invisible Orientation: An Introduction to Asexuality by Julie Sondra Decker

1. The Invisible Orientation: An Introduction to Asexuality

By: Julie Sondra Decker

3.99

Format: None pages, Hardcover

What if you weren't sexually attracted to anyone? A growing number of people are identifying as ase… read more

Similar categories in Julie Sondra Decker's The Invisible Orientation: An Introduction to Asexuality book and Eris Young's Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace

  • asexual
  • queer
  • lgbt
  • psychology
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • self help
Cover of How to Be Ace: A Memoir of Growing Up Asexual by Rebecca    Burgess

2. How to Be Ace: A Memoir of Growing Up Asexual

By: Rebecca Burgess

4.15

Format: 208 pages, Paperback

Brave, witty and empowering, this graphic memoir follows Rebecca as she navigates her asexual ident… read more

Similar categories in Rebecca Burgess's How to Be Ace: A Memoir of Growing Up Asexual book and Eris Young's Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace

  • asexual
  • nonfiction
  • lgbt
  • queer
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3. Dear Wendy

By: Ann Zhao

4.01

Format: 368 pages, Hardcover

Dear Wendy's Sophie and Jo, two aromantic and asexual students at Wellesley College, engage in an o… read more

Similar categories in Ann Zhao's Dear Wendy book and Eris Young's Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace

  • asexual
  • lgbt
  • queer
"Nobody talks about breaking up with your friends. It sucks. Especially when that friend ditches you to be with whoever they think is The One."

-Ann Zhao, Dear Wendy

"And still, it's hard to find people like me. The asexual community is small enough as it is; there are fewer aromantic people and even fewer people who are both."

-Ann Zhao, Dear Wendy

"And that really made me think for the first time about how this could happen with any friend who's not also aroace. Like, my person, my closest confidant, will probably always have someone else - a r…"

-Ann Zhao, Dear Wendy

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4. Is Love the Answer?

By: Uta Isaki

4.25

Format: 258 pages, Paperback

A poignant coming-of-age story about a young woman coming into her own as she discovers her identit… read more

Similar categories in Uta Isaki's Is Love the Answer? book and Eris Young's Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace

  • asexual
  • lgbt
  • queer
"Like that club from earlier. Some people appreciate that vibe and some don't. If they force people to join when they don't want to, that's harassment. It's the same with romance."

-Uta Isaki, Is Love the Answer?

"Romance is supposed to be great, and not being able to like anyone isn't normal, because any regular person would definitely-" "But you feel like you don't get it. Then why should you have to do it? …"

-Uta Isaki, Is Love the Answer?

Cover of Being Ace: An Anthology of Queer, Trans, Femme, and Disabled Stories of Asexual Love and Connection by Madeline Dyer

5. Being Ace: An Anthology of Queer, Trans, Femme, and Disabled Stories of Asexual Love and Connection

By: Madeline Dyer

3.98

Format: 352 pages, Hardcover

Discover the infinite realms of asexual love across sci-fi, fantasy, and contemporary storiesFrom a… read more

Similar categories in Madeline Dyer's Being Ace: An Anthology of Queer, Trans, Femme, and Disabled Stories of Asexual Love and Connection book and Eris Young's Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace

  • asexual
  • lgbt
  • queer
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6. Wren Martin Ruins It All

By: Amanda DeWitt

4.25

Format: 352 pages, Kindle Edition

Now that Wren Martin is student council president (on a technicality, but hey, it counts) he’s goin… read more

Similar categories in Amanda DeWitt's Wren Martin Ruins It All book and Eris Young's Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace

  • asexual
  • lgbt
  • queer
"I think I might have a crush. Shit ."

-Amanda DeWitt, Wren Martin Ruins It All

"Halloween would be . . . okay," she says, with all the deliberation of a somewhat uncertain judge delivering a verdict. "But no sexy catgirls. Or boys. No catpeople."

-Amanda DeWitt, Wren Martin Ruins It All

"You might have saved the Dance," I say loftily, "but I saved this school from Cats ." "Not all heroes wear capes," Ryan says, pushing open the classroom door. "You know, I kind of like Cats ." "You l…"

-Amanda DeWitt, Wren Martin Ruins It All

Cover of Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex by Angela  Chen

7. Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

By: Angela Chen

4.36

Format: 210 pages, Hardcover

An engaging exploration of what it means to be asexual in a world that's obsessed with sexual attra… read more

Similar categories in Angela Chen's Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex book and Eris Young's Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace

  • lgbt
  • psychology
  • sexuality
  • nonfiction
  • adult
  • queer
"Representation not only reflects, but actually changes reality."

-Angela Chen, Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

"It is a failure of society if anyone needs to say “I have a partner"

-Angela Chen, Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

"Loving another person should never mean forfeiting bodily autonomy."

-Angela Chen, Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

"Aces aren't a puzzle with a missing piece. Everyone is their own full puzzle."

-Angela Chen, Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

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8. Aces Wild: A Heist

By: Amanda DeWitt

3.78

Format: 352 pages, Hardcover

What happens in Vegas when an all-asexual online friend group attempts to break into a high-stakes … read more

Similar categories in Amanda DeWitt's Aces Wild: A Heist book and Eris Young's Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace

  • asexual
  • lgbt
  • queer
"Just because you didn't experience sexual attraction didn't mean you didn't you didn't experience romantic feelings. But those romantic feelings didn't look like they did in the movies because, well,…"

-Amanda DeWitt, Aces Wild: A Heist

"It felt like a puzzle, mostly put together but with a piece missing, waiting to be filled. There were plenty of pieces to fill it- gay, straight, bisexual- but none fit quite right. Sometimes I thoug…"

-Amanda DeWitt, Aces Wild: A Heist

Cover of Upside Down by N.R. Walker

9. Upside Down

By: N.R. Walker

4.23

Format: 255 pages, Paperback

Jordan O’Neill isn’t a fan of labels, considering he has a few. Gay, geek, a librarian, socially aw… read more

Similar categories in N.R. Walker's Upside Down book and Eris Young's Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace

  • asexual
  • adult
  • lgbt
  • queer
"He quoted Lewis Carroll,"

-N.R. Walker, Upside Down

"He snorted. “I don’t think your dick is stupid."

-N.R. Walker, Upside Down

"All I want really big and rock-hard on a guy is his IQ, and what I consider to be hardcore porn is a picture of a guy reading a book with a hard cover. Soft-core porn is a paperback, and browsing Ama…"

-N.R. Walker, Upside Down

Cover of Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture by Sherronda J. Brown

10. Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture

By: Sherronda J. Brown

4.53

Format: 240 pages, Paperback

For readers of Ace and Belly of the Beast: A Black queer feminist exploration of asexuality—and an … read more

Similar categories in Sherronda J. Brown's Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture book and Eris Young's Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace

  • asexual
  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • adult
  • queer
Cover of Shameless: A Case for Not Feeling Bad About Feeling Good (About Sex) by Nadia Bolz-Weber

11. Shameless: A Case for Not Feeling Bad About Feeling Good (About Sex)

By: Nadia Bolz-Weber

4.21

Format: 195 pages, Kindle Edition

Annotation: "Nothing gives church folk anxiety quite like the subject of sex. And that's why in Sh… read more

Similar categories in Nadia Bolz-Weber's Shameless: A Case for Not Feeling Bad About Feeling Good (About Sex) book and Eris Young's Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace

  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
"If the teachings of the church are harming the bodies and spirits of people, we should rethink those teachings."

-Nadia Bolz-Weber, Shameless: A Case for Not Feeling Bad About Feeling Good (About Sex)

"In my pastoral work I've started to suspect that the more someone was exposed to religious messages about controlling their desires, avoiding sexual thoughts, and not lusting in their hearts, the les…"

-Nadia Bolz-Weber, Shameless: A Case for Not Feeling Bad About Feeling Good (About Sex)

"To God, everyone is different but no one is special. You're not special for being straight. Or gay. Or male. Or cis. Or trans. Or asexual. Or married. Or sexually prodigious. Or a virgin. We all have…"

-Nadia Bolz-Weber, Shameless: A Case for Not Feeling Bad About Feeling Good (About Sex)

"Holiness is the union we experience with one another and with God. Holiness is when more than one become one, when what is fractured is made whole. Singing in harmony. Breastfeeding a baby. Collectiv…"

-Nadia Bolz-Weber, Shameless: A Case for Not Feeling Bad About Feeling Good (About Sex)

Cover of A Quick & Easy Guide to Asexuality by Molly Muldoon

12. A Quick & Easy Guide to Asexuality

By: Molly Muldoon

4.11

Format: 72 pages, Paperback

This book is for anyone who wants to learn about asexuality, and for Ace people themselves, to vali… read more

Similar categories in Molly Muldoon's A Quick & Easy Guide to Asexuality book and Eris Young's Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace

  • asexual
  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • adult
  • queer
Cover of Sounds Fake But Okay by Sarah Costello

13. Sounds Fake But Okay

By: Sarah Costello

3.65

Format: 160 pages, Paperback

Somehow, over time, we forgot that the rituals behind dating and sex were constructs made up by hum… read more

Similar categories in Sarah Costello's Sounds Fake But Okay book and Eris Young's Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace

  • asexual
  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • essays
  • adult
  • queer
Cover of First Test Graphic Novel (Protector of the Small, #1) by Devin Grayson

14. First Test Graphic Novel (Protector of the Small, #1)

By: Devin Grayson

4.25

Format: 160 pages, Hardcover

This eagerly awaited graphic novel adaptation of the iconic fantasy novel, First Test, reimagines t… read more

Similar categories in Devin Grayson's First Test Graphic Novel (Protector of the Small, #1) book and Eris Young's Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace

Cover of I Am Ace: Advice on Living Your Best Asexual Life by Cody Daigle-Orians

15. I Am Ace: Advice on Living Your Best Asexual Life

By: Cody Daigle-Orians

4.47

Format: 224 pages, Paperback

How do I know if I'm actually sexual? How do I come out as asexual? What kinds of relationship ca… read more

Similar categories in Cody Daigle-Orians's I Am Ace: Advice on Living Your Best Asexual Life book and Eris Young's Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace

  • self help
  • asexual
  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • social justice
  • adult
  • queer
"Our culture weaponizes wanting or not wanting sex across many different identities and experiences as a way to marginalize them. It's not exclusive to asexuality."

-Cody Daigle-Orians, I Am Ace: Advice on Living Your Best Asexual Life

"When confronted with someone who breaks the norm, some people find it easier to call that person's experience a fiction instead of altering their understanding of the world to include something new."

-Cody Daigle-Orians, I Am Ace: Advice on Living Your Best Asexual Life

"Anyone who asserts they're owed your disclosure is also working from the assumption that they're also owed your sexuality. And you owe no one either of those things. They're yours to share with someo…"

-Cody Daigle-Orians, I Am Ace: Advice on Living Your Best Asexual Life

"Unlike allosexual people who make the assumption that everyone should want and enjoy sex as much as they do, sex-averse and sex-repulsed ace folks are making choices about their own bodies and their …"

-Cody Daigle-Orians, I Am Ace: Advice on Living Your Best Asexual Life

Cover of Hopeless Aromantic: An Affirmative Guide to Aromanticism by Samantha Rendle

16. Hopeless Aromantic: An Affirmative Guide to Aromanticism

By: Samantha Rendle

3.59

Format: 175 pages, Kindle Edition

If you've picked up this book, the chances are you have some doubts about your Happiness 101 assign… read more

Similar categories in Samantha Rendle's Hopeless Aromantic: An Affirmative Guide to Aromanticism book and Eris Young's Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace

  • asexual
  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • queer
Cover of Ace Notes by Michele Kirichanskaya

17. Ace Notes

By: Michele Kirichanskaya

3.80

Format: 272 pages, Paperback

What is the ace lens? Is my relationship queerplatonic? Am I sex-favorable, sex-averse or sex-rep… read more

Similar categories in Michele Kirichanskaya's Ace Notes book and Eris Young's Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace

  • asexual
  • queer
  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • adult
  • self help
Cover of Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace by Eris Young

18. Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace

By: Eris Young

3.93

Format: 288 pages, Paperback

How do we experience attraction? What does love mean to us? When did you realise you were ace? … read more

Similar categories in Eris Young's Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace book and Eris Young's Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace

  • self help
  • asexual
  • lgbt
  • psychology
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • essays
  • social justice
  • adult
  • queer
"There is power in naming yourself, but there is also power in being unnameable."

-Eris Young, Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace

"When it comes to romance, we're told, "You'll know it when you see it" Which is fine, unless, of course, you don't."

-Eris Young, Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace

"For many people, being alone symbolises a failure to live up to the aspirational life that society tells them they should want."

-Eris Young, Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace

"And just as asexuality is not a disease to be cured, sex-aversion isn't a pathology unless the person experiencing it decides that it is."

-Eris Young, Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace

Cover of Ace and Aro Journeys: A Guide to Embracing Your Asexual or Aromantic Identity by The Ace and Aro Advocacy Project

19. Ace and Aro Journeys: A Guide to Embracing Your Asexual or Aromantic Identity

By: The Ace and Aro Advocacy Project

3.88

Format: 272 pages, Paperback

What does it mean to be ace or aro? How should I approach the challenges that come with being ace … read more

Similar categories in The Ace and Aro Advocacy Project's Ace and Aro Journeys: A Guide to Embracing Your Asexual or Aromantic Identity book and Eris Young's Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace

  • self help
  • asexual
  • lgbt
  • psychology
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • adult
  • queer
Cover of I Want to Be a Wall, Vol. 3 (I Want to Be a Wall, #3) by Honami Shirono

20. I Want to Be a Wall, Vol. 3 (I Want to Be a Wall, #3)

By: Honami Shirono

4.38

Format: 176 pages, Paperback

Gaku and Yuriko prepare to face the final hurdle of their newlywed life―meeting Gaku’s grandmother!… read more

Similar categories in Honami Shirono's I Want to Be a Wall, Vol. 3 (I Want to Be a Wall, #3) book and Eris Young's Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace

  • lgbt
  • queer
Cover of Amazing Ace, Awesome Aro: An Illustrated Exploration by Victoria Barron

21. Amazing Ace, Awesome Aro: An Illustrated Exploration

By: Victoria Barron

4.39

Format: 87 pages, Hardcover

The split attraction model? Alterous Love? Queerplatonic relationships?From the creator of Perfectl… read more

Similar categories in Victoria Barron's Amazing Ace, Awesome Aro: An Illustrated Exploration book and Eris Young's Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace

  • queer
  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • self help

9 Best adult books like Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace by Eris Young

Transform Your Habits

Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

Angela Chen

4.36

Transform Your Habits

Upside Down

N.R. Walker

4.23

Transform Your Habits

Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture

Sherronda J. Brown

4.53

Transform Your Habits

A Quick & Easy Guide to Asexuality

Molly Muldoon

4.11

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14 best-selling nonfiction books like How to Be Ace: A Memoir of Growing Up Asexual by Rebecca Burgess

Transform Your Habits

The Invisible Orientation: An Introduction to Asexuality

Julie Sondra Decker

3.99

Transform Your Habits

How to Be Ace: A Memoir of Growing Up Asexual

Rebecca Burgess

4.15

Transform Your Habits

Gender Queer

Maia Kobabe

4.28

Transform Your Habits

Welcome to St. Hell: My Trans Teen Misadventure (St. Hell, #1)

Lewis Hancox

4.28

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