24 Best lgbt books like Holding Space: Life and Love Through a Queer Lens by Ryan Pfluger

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Holding Space: Life and Love Through a Queer Lens

By: Ryan Pfluger

4.74

Format: 224 pages, Hardcover

Featuring 100 stunning color photographs of queer, interracial couples taken by a renowned photogra…

If you liked the lgbt plot in Holding Space: Life and Love Through a Queer Lens by Ryan Pfluger , here is a list of 24 books like this:

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1. Ayiti

By: Roxane Gay

4.26

Format: None pages, Paperback

The debut collection from the vibrant voice of Roxane Gay is a unique blend of fiction, nonfiction,… read more

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2. Girls Like Girls

By: Hayley Kiyoko

3.74

Format: 320 pages, Hardcover

Trailblazing pop star, actor, and director, Hayley Kiyoko debuts her first novel, a coming-of-age r… read more

Similar categories in Hayley Kiyoko's Girls Like Girls book and Ryan Pfluger's Holding Space: Life and Love Through a Queer Lens

  • queer
  • lgbt
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3. Yerba Buena

By: Nina LaCour

3.87

Format: 304 pages, Hardcover

The debut adult novel by the bestselling and award-winning YA author Nina LaCour, following two wo… read more

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  • queer
  • lgbt
"How special it was, that first sip, and each sip that came after. How it had settled and warmed her, made her feel that she was welcome. That's what Sara did."

-Nina LaCour, Yerba Buena

"I was a vase. The thought struck her as she gazed at the wall of them. She had been a vessel; it was true. She'd stepped into this shop, introduced herself, asked for a job, hoped it would fill her. …"

-Nina LaCour, Yerba Buena

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4. How Far the Light Reaches: A Life in Ten Sea Creatures

By: Sabrina Imbler

4.12

Format: 263 pages, Hardcover

A queer, mixed race writer working in a largely white, male field, science and conservation journal… read more

Similar categories in Sabrina Imbler's How Far the Light Reaches: A Life in Ten Sea Creatures book and Ryan Pfluger's Holding Space: Life and Love Through a Queer Lens

  • nonfiction
  • queer
  • lgbt
"But when I think about ponds infested with gallon-big goldfish, I feel a kind of triumph. I see something that no one expected to live not just alive but impossibly flourishing, and no longer alone. …"

-Sabrina Imbler, How Far the Light Reaches: A Life in Ten Sea Creatures

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5. Roaming

By: Jillian Tamaki

3.77

Format: 443 pages, Paperback

Spring break, 2009. High school best friends Zoe and Dani are now freshman college students, meetin… read more

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  • queer
  • lgbt
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6. In Limbo

By: Deb J.J. Lee

4.18

Format: 348 pages, Hardcover

A debut YA graphic memoir about a Korean-American girl's coming-of-age story—and a coming home stor… read more

Similar categories in Deb J.J. Lee's In Limbo book and Ryan Pfluger's Holding Space: Life and Love Through a Queer Lens

  • nonfiction
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7. Disappearing Earth

By: Julia Phillips

3.84

Format: 312 pages, Hardcover

One August afternoon, on the shoreline of the north-eastern edge of Russia, two sisters are abducte… read more

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"Con la distancia, todo el el mundo parece mejor. Todo el mundo parece más agradable cuando no tienes que escucharlo continuamente. Después de que Yuri colgara, Natasha pasó junto a su hermano, en el …"

-Julia Phillips, Disappearing Earth

"Near him, she couldn't think of anything but him. But when they were a little apart she returned to herself, and she liked that woman she came back to. Someone...capable. Someone who maintained stand…"

-Julia Phillips, Disappearing Earth

"He died and the whole Soviet Union followed. Revmira's country, her young face, the entire course of her life had changed. Since she started at the hospital, she had sat next to more than a hundred p…"

-Julia Phillips, Disappearing Earth

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8. I Keep My Exoskeletons to Myself

By: Marisa Crane

3.93

Format: 352 pages, Hardcover

In a United States not so unlike our own, the Department of Balance has adopted a radical new form … read more

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  • queer
  • lgbt
"My head feels the way watercolor looks when it bleeds."

-Marisa Crane, I Keep My Exoskeletons to Myself

"Maybe we wanted another person to join us while we watched the world burn."

-Marisa Crane, I Keep My Exoskeletons to Myself

"Here I was thinking my tears might move her enough to forgive me for not turning my body into a home."

-Marisa Crane, I Keep My Exoskeletons to Myself

"We argued so often we thought we’d made a mistake marrying for love when there were things like fear and loneliness to bind you."

-Marisa Crane, I Keep My Exoskeletons to Myself

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9. I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes from the End of the World

By: Kai Cheng Thom

4.44

Format: 155 pages, Paperback

What can we hope for at the end of the world? What can we trust in when community has broken our he… read more

Similar categories in Kai Cheng Thom's I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes from the End of the World book and Ryan Pfluger's Holding Space: Life and Love Through a Queer Lens

  • nonfiction
  • queer
  • lgbt
"When you live in a community of queers, anarchists, & activists, crisis is the baseline and stability an outlier."

-Kai Cheng Thom, I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes from the End of the World

"Models of justice that centre punishment do not prevent abuse but only react to it, and they don't offer a pathway toward healing for either perpetrators or survivors. Nor do they acknowledge the dua…"

-Kai Cheng Thom, I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes from the End of the World

"That in a loving place, I am able to hear a friend disagree with me and know that they still care for me. That I can receive their advice and know that I don't have to follow it. That there is enough…"

-Kai Cheng Thom, I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes from the End of the World

"Transition is a fundamental right that all trans people, of all ages, should have access to. But I believe that transition, ideally, should be offered to us as one option of many for bodily autonomy …"

-Kai Cheng Thom, I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes from the End of the World

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10. Pageboy

By: Elliot Page

3.75

Format: 271 pages, None

Pageboy is a groundbreaking coming-of-age memoir from the Academy Award-nominated actor Elliot Page… read more

Similar categories in Elliot Page's Pageboy book and Ryan Pfluger's Holding Space: Life and Love Through a Queer Lens

  • nonfiction
  • queer
  • lgbt
"Her visibility meant the world to me. I think about this as I walk through the world now."

-Elliot Page, Pageboy

"How do people do it? How do they shut off the noise? And I don't mean "happy", they may not be happy, but they seem to be able to exist at least."

-Elliot Page, Pageboy

"In a world where queerness all too often alienates us from blood, I am grateful to Julia, and the family I have chosen. Without them, I wouldn't be here."

-Elliot Page, Pageboy

"I could block myself out, I was a person I didn't know, I'd gaze into what felt like the universe, my eye a planet of its own. I must be somewhere in there, I'd think."

-Elliot Page, Pageboy

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11. Rosewater

By: Liv Little

3.67

Format: 320 pages, Hardcover

For fans of Queenie and Such a Fun Age comes a deliciously gritty and strikingly bold debut novel a… read more

Similar categories in Liv Little's Rosewater book and Ryan Pfluger's Holding Space: Life and Love Through a Queer Lens

  • queer
  • lgbt
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12. Screaming on the Inside: The Unsustainability of American Motherhood

By: Jessica Grose

3.48

Format: 240 pages, Hardcover

"If this book feels like it’s sounding the alarm on the state of American motherhood, well, that’s… read more

Similar categories in Jessica Grose's Screaming on the Inside: The Unsustainability of American Motherhood book and Ryan Pfluger's Holding Space: Life and Love Through a Queer Lens

  • nonfiction
Cover of Rest Is Resistance: A Manifesto by Tricia Hersey

13. Rest Is Resistance: A Manifesto

By: Tricia Hersey

4.08

Format: 224 pages, Hardcover

Far too many of us have claimed productivity as the cornerstone of success. Brainwashed by capitali… read more

Similar categories in Tricia Hersey's Rest Is Resistance: A Manifesto book and Ryan Pfluger's Holding Space: Life and Love Through a Queer Lens

  • nonfiction
Cover of Opinions: A Decade of Arguments, Criticism, and Minding Other People's Business by Roxane Gay

14. Opinions: A Decade of Arguments, Criticism, and Minding Other People's Business

By: Roxane Gay

4.01

Format: 320 pages, Hardcover

From beloved and bestselling author Roxane Gay, “a strikingly fresh cultural critic” (Washington Po… read more

Similar categories in Roxane Gay's Opinions: A Decade of Arguments, Criticism, and Minding Other People's Business book and Ryan Pfluger's Holding Space: Life and Love Through a Queer Lens

  • nonfiction
  • lgbt
Cover of Better Living Through Birding: Notes from a Black Man in the Natural World by Christian Cooper

15. Better Living Through Birding: Notes from a Black Man in the Natural World

By: Christian Cooper

4.25

Format: 304 pages, Hardcover

NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • Central Park birder Christian Cooper takes us beyond the viral video th… read more

Similar categories in Christian Cooper's Better Living Through Birding: Notes from a Black Man in the Natural World book and Ryan Pfluger's Holding Space: Life and Love Through a Queer Lens

  • nonfiction
  • lgbt
"Nor did I know back then that McCartney had written the song as an ode to Black women ("bird" being British slang for a pretty girl) at the pivotal moment of the civil rights struggle. That would onl…"

-Christian Cooper, Better Living Through Birding: Notes from a Black Man in the Natural World

"Writing a memoir is akin to taking off one's clothes in public, and as I learned years ago in the amateur strip contest as Darren and the go-go boys cheered me on, success at such an endeavor can onl…"

-Christian Cooper, Better Living Through Birding: Notes from a Black Man in the Natural World

"Beginning around 1910, The Great Migration saw some 6 million black people surge Northward, out of the states of the former Confederacy, spurred by the same thing that lies behind the yearly migratio…"

-Christian Cooper, Better Living Through Birding: Notes from a Black Man in the Natural World

"What makes birding such a phenomenon? Why not "mammaling" or insecting? Certainly those pursuits have their adherents, as the thousands who visit Africa on safari or who catalog butterflies can attes…"

-Christian Cooper, Better Living Through Birding: Notes from a Black Man in the Natural World

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16. The Family Outing: A Memoir

By: Jessi Hempel

3.97

Format: 320 pages, Hardcover

A striking and remarkable literary memoir about one family's transformation, with almost all of the… read more

Similar categories in Jessi Hempel's The Family Outing: A Memoir book and Ryan Pfluger's Holding Space: Life and Love Through a Queer Lens

  • nonfiction
  • queer
  • lgbt
"As an adult, I'll come to understand that the price of belonging to a church community, or to any community, is accepting beliefs that you don't hold. Sometimes these beliefs are so incongruous with …"

-Jessi Hempel, The Family Outing: A Memoir

"You'll know, even as I use the word "Evan," that Evan had a name before this. It's a name I won't tell you. To utter it would be to disrespect all the work he has done to find his way to Evan. The mo…"

-Jessi Hempel, The Family Outing: A Memoir

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17. Thieves

By: Lucie Bryon

4.21

Format: 208 pages, Paperback

Ella can’t seem to remember a single thing from the party the night before at a mysterious stranger… read more

Similar categories in Lucie Bryon's Thieves book and Ryan Pfluger's Holding Space: Life and Love Through a Queer Lens

  • queer
  • lgbt
"I'm not just your friend when everything is going well. I'm your friend through the crappy times too."

-Lucie Bryon, Thieves

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18. Garlic and the Witch

By: Bree Paulsen

4.36

Format: 160 pages, Hardcover

Bree Paulsen's brave little protagonist, Garlic, is back in this charmingly illustrated standalone … read more

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19. Quietly Hostile: Essays

By: Samantha Irby

3.70

Format: 290 pages, Paperback

Samantha Irby invites us to share in the gory particulars of her real life, all that festers behind… read more

Similar categories in Samantha Irby's Quietly Hostile: Essays book and Ryan Pfluger's Holding Space: Life and Love Through a Queer Lens

  • nonfiction
  • queer
  • lgbt
"[...] and my face is sore from smiling so hard in an effort to appear friendly and nonthreatening."

-Samantha Irby, Quietly Hostile: Essays

"I'm so embarrassed by everything all the time, humiliated even by the need to breathe air where other people can see me"

-Samantha Irby, Quietly Hostile: Essays

"I want to push back against this idea that it's not real love if you're not passionately chattering at each other all the time, that it's just as valid (and romantic!) to know instinctively when to s…"

-Samantha Irby, Quietly Hostile: Essays

"I lived in blissful solitude for a long time...and you learn a lot about yourself and what you require for life when it's just you that you have to think about...You can buy frozen fish sticks and ea…"

-Samantha Irby, Quietly Hostile: Essays

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20. The Ride of Her Life

By: Jennifer Dugan

3.68

Format: 352 pages, Paperback

From the author of Love at First Set, a new irresistible enemies-to-lovers, grumpy/sunshine queer r… read more

Similar categories in Jennifer Dugan's The Ride of Her Life book and Ryan Pfluger's Holding Space: Life and Love Through a Queer Lens

  • queer
  • lgbt
"She's coming undone right in front of me and it's turning me on. It should not be turning me on."

-Jennifer Dugan, The Ride of Her Life

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21. Satisfaction Guaranteed

By: Karelia Stetz-Waters

3.84

Format: 336 pages, Paperback

For fans of Casey McQuiston and Abby Jimenez comes a bold, hilarious, and out-of-the-box novel abou… read more

Similar categories in Karelia Stetz-Waters's Satisfaction Guaranteed book and Ryan Pfluger's Holding Space: Life and Love Through a Queer Lens

  • queer
  • lgbt
"Love. How had it happened so quickly? Maybe because her soul had been searching for Selena her whole life without even knowing it."

-Karelia Stetz-Waters, Satisfaction Guaranteed

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22. You Exist Too Much

By: Zaina Arafat

3.64

Format: 272 pages, Hardcover

On a hot day in Bethlehem, a 12-year-old Palestinian-American girl is yelled at by a group of men o… read more

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  • queer
  • lgbt
"When you don’t want to lose someone, it’s so tempting to deceive them."

-Zaina Arafat, You Exist Too Much

"Appetite is embarrassing enough; visibly trying to satiate it, utterly mortifying."

-Zaina Arafat, You Exist Too Much

Cover of Moby Dyke: An Obsessive Quest to Track Down the Last Remaining Lesbian Bars in America by Krista Burton

23. Moby Dyke: An Obsessive Quest to Track Down the Last Remaining Lesbian Bars in America

By: Krista Burton

3.86

Format: 320 pages, ebook

A former Rookie contributor and creator of the popular blog Effing Dykes investigates the disappear… read more

Similar categories in Krista Burton's Moby Dyke: An Obsessive Quest to Track Down the Last Remaining Lesbian Bars in America book and Ryan Pfluger's Holding Space: Life and Love Through a Queer Lens

  • nonfiction
  • queer
  • lgbt
"While I appreciate the freedom to live anywhere we want, and I love visiting those places, I do feel a sharp sense of loss knowing I can't see the people I consider my queer family on a daily basis. …"

-Krista Burton, Moby Dyke: An Obsessive Quest to Track Down the Last Remaining Lesbian Bars in America

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24. Just as You Are

By: Camille Kellogg

3.75

Format: 320 pages, Paperback

Equal parts witty and steamy, this debut rom-com brings a healthy dose of queerness and a whole lot… read more

Similar categories in Camille Kellogg's Just as You Are book and Ryan Pfluger's Holding Space: Life and Love Through a Queer Lens

  • queer
  • lgbt
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25. Slip

By: Marika McCoola

3.54

Format: 208 pages, Paperback

From Eisner-Award nominated writer Marika McCoola and debut artist Aatmaja Pandya, an emotional com… read more

Similar categories in Marika McCoola's Slip book and Ryan Pfluger's Holding Space: Life and Love Through a Queer Lens

  • queer
  • lgbt
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26. Housemates

By: Emma Copley Eisenberg

3.66

Format: 352 pages, Hardcover

Two young housemates embark on a road trip to discover themselves in a fractured America in this sp… read more

Similar categories in Emma Copley Eisenberg's Housemates book and Ryan Pfluger's Holding Space: Life and Love Through a Queer Lens

  • queer
  • lgbt
"Teaching? When it’s good? A marvel. A fucking miracle. They live, and then they turn to you to tell you about it."

-Emma Copley Eisenberg, Housemates

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27. Kitty Language: An Illustrated Guide to Understanding Your Cat

By: Lili Chin

4.43

Format: 160 pages, Hardcover

Learn to identify every meow, tail swish, and slow blink in this fun, informative, illustrated guid… read more

Similar categories in Lili Chin's Kitty Language: An Illustrated Guide to Understanding Your Cat book and Ryan Pfluger's Holding Space: Life and Love Through a Queer Lens

  • nonfiction
Cover of The Old Gays Guide to the Good Life: Lessons Learned About Love and Death, Sex and Sin, and Saving the Best for Last by Mick Peterson

28. The Old Gays Guide to the Good Life: Lessons Learned About Love and Death, Sex and Sin, and Saving the Best for Last

By: Mick Peterson

3.91

Format: 256 pages, Hardcover

From America’s most beloved foursome—the TikTok sensation @theoldgays—a book of unexpected aspirati… read more

Similar categories in Mick Peterson's The Old Gays Guide to the Good Life: Lessons Learned About Love and Death, Sex and Sin, and Saving the Best for Last book and Ryan Pfluger's Holding Space: Life and Love Through a Queer Lens

  • nonfiction
  • queer
  • lgbt
Cover of 300,000 Kisses: Tales of Queer Love from the Ancient World by Seán Hewitt

29. 300,000 Kisses: Tales of Queer Love from the Ancient World

By: Seán Hewitt

3.83

Format: 208 pages, Hardcover

A landmark illustrated anthology of queer Greek and Roman love stories that reclaim and celebrate h… read more

Similar categories in Seán Hewitt's 300,000 Kisses: Tales of Queer Love from the Ancient World book and Ryan Pfluger's Holding Space: Life and Love Through a Queer Lens

  • nonfiction
  • queer
  • lgbt
Cover of Holding Space: Life and Love Through a Queer Lens by Ryan Pfluger

30. Holding Space: Life and Love Through a Queer Lens

By: Ryan Pfluger

4.74

Format: 224 pages, Hardcover

Featuring 100 stunning color photographs of queer, interracial couples taken by a renowned photogra… read more

Similar categories in Ryan Pfluger's Holding Space: Life and Love Through a Queer Lens book and Ryan Pfluger's Holding Space: Life and Love Through a Queer Lens

  • art
  • lgbt
  • photography
  • nonfiction
  • queer
Cover of Young Queer America: Real Stories and Faces of LGBTQ+ Youth by Maxwell Poth

31. Young Queer America: Real Stories and Faces of LGBTQ+ Youth

By: Maxwell Poth

4.55

Format: 288 pages, Paperback

Get to know real queer kids from all over the country—these inspiring stories of LGBTQ+ youth, writ… read more

Similar categories in Maxwell Poth's Young Queer America: Real Stories and Faces of LGBTQ+ Youth book and Ryan Pfluger's Holding Space: Life and Love Through a Queer Lens

  • nonfiction
  • lgbt
  • queer

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Sabrina Imbler

4.12

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Deb J.J. Lee

4.18

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I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes from the End of the World

Kai Cheng Thom

4.44

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3.75

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Anna Dorn

4.06

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Miranda July

3.81

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R.O. Kwon

3.24

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3.97

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