15 must-read queer books like Against Memoir: Complaints, Confessions & Criticisms by Michelle Tea

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Against Memoir: Complaints, Confessions & Criticisms

By: Michelle Tea

4.15

Format: 300 pages, None

Valerie Solanas, a lesbian gang, recovering alcoholics, and teenagers surviving at a shop: these ar…

"Coming of queer age in the 1990s, to love queers was to love damage. To love damage was a path to loving yourself. ...Queers do not come out of the minefield of homophobia without scars. We do not live through out families' rejection of us, our stunted life options, the violence we've faced, the ways in which we've violated ourselves for survival, our harmful coping mechanisms, our lifesaving delusions, the altered brain chemistry we have sustained as a result of this, the low income and survival states we've endured as a result of society's loathing, unharmed. Whatever of theses wounds I didn't experience firsthand, my lovers did, and so I say that, for a time, it was not possible to have queer love that was not ins some way damaged or defined by damage sustained, even as it desperately fought through that damage to access, hopefully, increasingly frequent moments of sustaining, lifesaving love, true love, and loyalty, and electric sex."

-Michelle Tea, Against Memoir: Complaints, Confessions & Criticisms

"Coming of queer age in the 1990s, to love queers was to love damage. To love damage was a path to loving yourself. ...Queers do not come out of the minefield of homophobia without scars. We do not live through out families' rejection of us, our stunted life options, the violence we've faced, the ways in which we've violated ourselves for survival, our harmful coping mechanisms, our lifesaving delusions, the altered brain chemistry we have sustained as a result of this, the low income and survival states we've endured as a result of society's loathing, unharmed. Whatever of theses wounds I didn't experience firsthand, my lovers did, and so I say that, for a time, it was not possible to have queer love that was not ins some way damaged or defined by damage sustained, even as it desperately fought through that damage to access, hopefully, increasingly frequent moments of sustaining, lifesaving love, true love, and loyalty, and electric sex."

-Michelle Tea, Against Memoir: Complaints, Confessions & Criticisms

If you liked the queer plot in Against Memoir: Complaints, Confessions & Criticisms by Michelle Tea , here is a list of 15 books like this:

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1. Close to the Knives: A Memoir of Disintegration

By: David Wojnarowicz

4.48

Format: 288 pages, Paperback

In Close to the Knives, David Wojnarowicz gives us an important and timely document: a collection o… read more

Similar categories in David Wojnarowicz's Close to the Knives: A Memoir of Disintegration book and Michelle Tea's Against Memoir: Complaints, Confessions & Criticisms

  • biography
  • memoir
  • gay
  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • essays
  • queer
"I carry silence like a blood-filled egg."

-David Wojnarowicz, Close to the Knives: A Memoir of Disintegration

"When they invented the car they invented the collision and the darkness of what time leads the willing body to do."

-David Wojnarowicz, Close to the Knives: A Memoir of Disintegration

"I crawled through the walls of every social taboo I could come across. I wanted to celebrate everything we are denied through structure of laws or physical force. I just did it quietly and anonymousl…"

-David Wojnarowicz, Close to the Knives: A Memoir of Disintegration

"I wanted to be physically erased and start over again. I didn’t want to be here. I didn’t want to be there. I guess I wanted to be nowhere, I wanted to listen to my brain talk inside of nothingness. …"

-David Wojnarowicz, Close to the Knives: A Memoir of Disintegration

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2. Stone Butch Blues

By: Leslie Feinberg

4.43

Format: 230 pages, Hardcover

Woman or man? This internationally acclaimed novel looks at the world through the eyes of Jess Gold… read more

Similar categories in Leslie Feinberg's Stone Butch Blues book and Michelle Tea's Against Memoir: Complaints, Confessions & Criticisms

  • feminism
  • gender
  • queer
  • lgbt
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3. So Sad Today: Personal Essays

By: Melissa Broder

3.50

Format: 304 pages, Paperback

Melissa Broder always struggled with anxiety. In the fall of 2012, she went through a harrowing cyc… read more

Similar categories in Melissa Broder's So Sad Today: Personal Essays book and Michelle Tea's Against Memoir: Complaints, Confessions & Criticisms

  • feminism
  • nonfiction
  • memoir
  • essays

4. The Art of Cruelty: A Reckoning

By: Maggie Nelson

3.99

Format: 244 pages, Hardcover

Today both reality and entertainment crowd our fields of vision with brutal imagery. The pervasiven… read more

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5. Chelsea Girls

By: Eileen Myles

4.27

Format: None pages, Paperback

Available once again for a new generation of readers, the groundbreaking and candid coming-of-age n… read more

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6. How to Be Both

By: Ali Smith

4.10

Format: None pages, Kindle Edition

Passionate, compassionate, vitally inventive and scrupulously playful, Ali Smith's novels are like … read more

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7. Perfume & Pain

By: Anna Dorn

4.06

Format: 352 pages, Paperback

A controversial Los Angeles author attempts to revive her career and finally find true love in this… read more

Similar categories in Anna Dorn's Perfume & Pain book and Michelle Tea's Against Memoir: Complaints, Confessions & Criticisms

  • lesbian
  • queer
  • lgbt
"I sit down wanting to write the great lesbian love story, but wacko bitches just keep coming out."

-Anna Dorn, Perfume & Pain

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8. Funny Weather: Art in an Emergency

By: Olivia Laing

4.01

Format: 272 pages, Hardcover

“One of the finest writers of the new non-fiction” (Harper’s Bazaar) explores the role of art in th… read more

Similar categories in Olivia Laing's Funny Weather: Art in an Emergency book and Michelle Tea's Against Memoir: Complaints, Confessions & Criticisms

  • feminism
  • nonfiction
  • essays
  • queer
"Empathy is not something that happens to us when we read Dickens. It’s work. What art does is provide material with which to think: new registers, new spaces. After that, friend, it’s up to you."

-Olivia Laing, Funny Weather: Art in an Emergency

"The Argonauts is about these small, miraculous domestic dramas, and the acts of readjustment and care that they require, but it is also a reconsideration of what the institutions established around s…"

-Olivia Laing, Funny Weather: Art in an Emergency

"Fiction can do that: can make a space for reflecting, for generating novel ways of responding and reacting to lies and guns and walls alike. The mere act of cracking open a book, Smith thinks, is cre…"

-Olivia Laing, Funny Weather: Art in an Emergency

"These narratives are interesting in and of themselves, but Nelson isn’t just airing her feelings out. She’s bent on using these experiences as ways of prying the culture open, of investigating what i…"

-Olivia Laing, Funny Weather: Art in an Emergency

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9. Paul Takes the Form of a Mortal Girl

By: Andrea Lawlor

3.87

Format: 354 pages, Paperback

It’s 1993 and Paul Polydoris tends bar at the only gay club in a university town thrumming with pol… read more

Similar categories in Andrea Lawlor's Paul Takes the Form of a Mortal Girl book and Michelle Tea's Against Memoir: Complaints, Confessions & Criticisms

  • gender
  • queer
  • lgbt
"Inside Paul something tight released: a rusted nut turned finally around its old bolt. White sheets were thrown off moldering couches with a fanfare of dust and sunlight."

-Andrea Lawlor, Paul Takes the Form of a Mortal Girl

"It was June, and like everyone else Paul made himself extremely busy going to queer art openings and queer punk shows and queer spoken word showcases and queer evenings of performance art. He was exh…"

-Andrea Lawlor, Paul Takes the Form of a Mortal Girl

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10. Dykette

By: Jenny Fran Davis

2.96

Format: 320 pages, Hardcover

An addictive, absurd, and darkly hilarious debut novel about a young woman who embarks on a ten-day… read more

Similar categories in Jenny Fran Davis's Dykette book and Michelle Tea's Against Memoir: Complaints, Confessions & Criticisms

  • lesbian
  • queer
  • gay
  • lgbt
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11. Greta & Valdin

By: Rebecca K. Reilly

4.05

Format: 352 pages, Hardcover

An irresistible and bighearted international bestseller that follows a brother and sister as they n… read more

Similar categories in Rebecca K. Reilly's Greta & Valdin book and Michelle Tea's Against Memoir: Complaints, Confessions & Criticisms

  • lesbian
  • queer
  • lgbt
"I wonder what plant I would be, if I were a plant. Maybe something with big leaves that droop sulkily if not provided with the exact right amount of water and light."

-Rebecca K. Reilly, Greta & Valdin

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12. Greasepaint

By: Hannah Levene

3.85

Format: 172 pages, Paperback

Set against a backdrop of 1950s New York, this experimental novel follows an ensemble cast of all-s… read more

Similar categories in Hannah Levene's Greasepaint book and Michelle Tea's Against Memoir: Complaints, Confessions & Criticisms

  • lesbian
  • queer
  • gay
  • lgbt
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13. Sarahland

By: Sam Cohen

3.95

Format: 199 pages, Hardcover

"Queer, dirty, insightful, and so funny" (Andrea Lawlor), this coyly revolutionary debut story coll… read more

Similar categories in Sam Cohen's Sarahland book and Michelle Tea's Against Memoir: Complaints, Confessions & Criticisms

  • lesbian
  • queer
  • gay
  • lgbt
"That's how it is with nations," we hear Mother Nature croak from her deathbed. "Nations war."

-Sam Cohen, Sarahland

"It seemed like everyone was wrapping themselves in chrysali and having late-in-life emergences as different kinds of creatures, and what this made clear was that we weren't becoming anything. We felt…"

-Sam Cohen, Sarahland

"Being a tree, affirmation would feel different. Love would feel different. We would be happiest if our soil was full of microbes chatting. We would be happiest if the soil was rich enough to contain …"

-Sam Cohen, Sarahland

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14. On Freedom: Four Songs of Care and Constraint

By: Maggie Nelson

4.01

Format: 288 pages, Hardcover

Named a Most Anticipated/Best Book of the Month NPR * USA Today * Time * Washington Post * Vulture… read more

Similar categories in Maggie Nelson's On Freedom: Four Songs of Care and Constraint book and Michelle Tea's Against Memoir: Complaints, Confessions & Criticisms

  • feminism
  • nonfiction
  • essays
  • queer
"Nothing stays avant-garde forever; you have to keep moving."

-Maggie Nelson, On Freedom: Four Songs of Care and Constraint

"As we think, we might remember that it matters not only with whom and what we choose to think; it also matters what spirit we choose to think with."

-Maggie Nelson, On Freedom: Four Songs of Care and Constraint

"This is one of the things I’ve learned about happiness: when you feel it, it’s good to say so. That way, if and when you say later in depression or despair, “I’ve just never been happy,"

-Maggie Nelson, On Freedom: Four Songs of Care and Constraint

"The reparative turn, as applied to art, is in many ways a continuation of the orthopedic aesthetic, with the difference being that the twentieth-century model imagined the audience as numb, constrict…"

-Maggie Nelson, On Freedom: Four Songs of Care and Constraint

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15. Content Warning: Everything

By: Akwaeke Emezi

3.94

Format: 64 pages, Paperback

In their bold debut poetry collection, Akwaeke Emezi—award-winning author of Freshwater, PET, The D… read more

Similar categories in Akwaeke Emezi's Content Warning: Everything book and Michelle Tea's Against Memoir: Complaints, Confessions & Criticisms

  • queer
  • nonfiction
  • memoir
  • lgbt
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16. Body Grammar

By: Jules Ohman

3.81

Format: 320 pages, Paperback

A coming-of-age queer love story set in the glamorous but grueling world of international modeling … read more

Similar categories in Jules Ohman's Body Grammar book and Michelle Tea's Against Memoir: Complaints, Confessions & Criticisms

  • lesbian
  • queer
  • gay
  • lgbt
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17. Ponyboy

By: Eliot Duncan

3.64

Format: 240 pages, Paperback

An evocative debut novel of trans-masculinity, addiction, and the pain and joy of becoming. In t… read more

Similar categories in Eliot Duncan's Ponyboy book and Michelle Tea's Against Memoir: Complaints, Confessions & Criticisms

  • queer
  • gay
  • lgbt
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18. Little Rot

By: Akwaeke Emezi

3.67

Format: 288 pages, Hardcover

A thrilling new novel from the bestselling, award-winning Akwaeke Emezi, about five friends trying … read more

Similar categories in Akwaeke Emezi's Little Rot book and Michelle Tea's Against Memoir: Complaints, Confessions & Criticisms

  • queer
  • lgbt
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19. Against Memoir: Complaints, Confessions & Criticisms

By: Michelle Tea

4.15

Format: 300 pages, None

Valerie Solanas, a lesbian gang, recovering alcoholics, and teenagers surviving at a shop: these ar… read more

Similar categories in Michelle Tea's Against Memoir: Complaints, Confessions & Criticisms book and Michelle Tea's Against Memoir: Complaints, Confessions & Criticisms

  • lesbian
  • biography
  • memoir
  • gay
  • lgbt
  • feminism
  • gender
  • nonfiction
  • essays
  • queer
"Coming of queer age in the 1990s, to love queers was to love damage. To love damage was a path to loving yourself. ...Queers do not come out of the minefield of homophobia without scars. We do not li…"

-Michelle Tea, Against Memoir: Complaints, Confessions & Criticisms

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20. Kill For Love

By: Laura Picklesimer

3.64

Format: 244 pages, Hardcover

The boys on the row are only after one thing, but that bullshit’s for pledges. Tiffany’s on the hun… read more

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4.48

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4.01

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4.07

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