8 Best romance books like This Is Supposed to Be Fun: How to Find Joy in Hooking Up, Settling Down, and Everything in Between by Myisha Battle

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This Is Supposed to Be Fun: How to Find Joy in Hooking Up, Settling Down, and Everything in Between

By: Myisha Battle

3.74

Format: 288 pages, Hardcover

A certified clinical sexologist’s radically inclusive guide to sex and dating  Swipe. Match. Get g…

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Cover of Platonic: How the Science of Attachment Can Help You Make—and Keep—Friends by Marisa G. Franco

1. Platonic: How the Science of Attachment Can Help You Make—and Keep—Friends

By: Marisa G. Franco

4.06

Format: 336 pages, Hardcover

A lively, data-driven guide to finding your people from psychologist Dr. Marisa G. Franco about the… read more

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  • relationships
  • nonfiction
  • self help
  • audiobook
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2. Exhibit

By: R.O. Kwon

3.24

Format: 224 pages, Hardcover

From bestselling author R. O. Kwon, an exhilarating, blazing-hot novel about a woman caught between… read more

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  • romance
  • audiobook
Cover of Ejaculate Responsibly: A Whole New Way to Think About Abortion by Gabrielle Stanley Blair

3. Ejaculate Responsibly: A Whole New Way to Think About Abortion

By: Gabrielle Stanley Blair

4.51

Format: 137 pages, Paperback

In Ejaculate Responsibly, Gabrielle Blair offers a provocative reframing of the abortion issue in p… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
Cover of Saving Time: Discovering a Life Beyond the Clock by Jenny Odell

4. Saving Time: Discovering a Life Beyond the Clock

By: Jenny Odell

3.61

Format: 400 pages, Hardcover

In her first book, How to Do Nothing, Jenny Odell wrote about the importance of disconnecting from … read more

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  • self help
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
"Most living entities and systems on this planet obviously do not live by the Western human clock (though some, like the crows who memorize a city's daily garbage truck route, do of course adapt to th…"

-Jenny Odell, Saving Time: Discovering a Life Beyond the Clock

Cover of Without Children: The Long History of Not Being a Mother by Peggy O'Donnell Heffington

5. Without Children: The Long History of Not Being a Mother

By: Peggy O'Donnell Heffington

3.77

Format: 256 pages, Hardcover

A historian explores the complicated relationship between womanhood and motherhood  in this “timely… read more

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  • self help
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
"Even after becoming a mother, fulfilling the role society demands of you, you still can't win."

-Peggy O'Donnell Heffington, Without Children: The Long History of Not Being a Mother

"Parenthood is demanded of us, but we are asked to parent in isolated bubbles, supported--to put it crudely--by our bank accounts and little else."

-Peggy O'Donnell Heffington, Without Children: The Long History of Not Being a Mother

"COVID-19 exposed what women with children and without both already knew: that despite the expectation we all become mothers, we receive little support once we do."

-Peggy O'Donnell Heffington, Without Children: The Long History of Not Being a Mother

"In light of our failure to account for the pressures, anxieties, and dangers of modern life, it's possible to argue that the decision to opt out of parenthood is perfectly rational. The decision to h…"

-Peggy O'Donnell Heffington, Without Children: The Long History of Not Being a Mother

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6. Except for Palestine: The Limits of Progressive Politics

By: Marc Lamont Hill

4.21

Format: 227 pages, Hardcover

A bold call for the American Left to extend their politics to the issues of Israel-Palestine, from … read more

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  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
Cover of 8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go by Jay Shetty

7. 8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go

By: Jay Shetty

3.93

Format: 352 pages, Kindle Edition

The author of the #1 New York Times bestseller Think Like a Monk offers a revelatory guide to every… read more

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  • romance
  • relationships
  • audiobook
  • nonfiction
  • self help
Cover of Plantains and Our Becoming: Poems by Melania Luisa Marte

8. Plantains and Our Becoming: Poems

By: Melania Luisa Marte

4.36

Format: 160 pages, Paperback

A rousing, beautifully observed, and tender-hearted debut poetry collection about identity, culture… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
"Unclench your fist and roll out the beauty in your fragile palm. In your genes are a paper trail. You will find a map back to yourself. // We may all have the same God but we don't have the same moth…"

-Melania Luisa Marte, Plantains and Our Becoming: Poems

"mashing plátanos: coddle them with praying hands remember they were born //hanging// not like fruit but like bodies dragged into boats & shipped like cargo propped crates, bonded limbs groups of 5 or…"

-Melania Luisa Marte, Plantains and Our Becoming: Poems

Cover of Boys Weekend by Mattie Lubchansky

9. Boys Weekend

By: Mattie Lubchansky

4.03

Format: 232 pages, Hardcover

From the award-winning cartoonist and editor at The Nib, a hilarious trans-"final girl" horror grap… read more

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Cover of Existential Kink: Unmask Your Shadow and Embrace Your Power by Carolyn Elliott

10. Existential Kink: Unmask Your Shadow and Embrace Your Power

By: Carolyn Elliott

3.86

Format: 202 pages, Paperback

A smart, sexy guide to embracing the repressed, tabooed, and often unwanted aspects of ourselves so… read more

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  • audiobook
  • relationships
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • self help
Cover of The Other Significant Others: Reimagining Life with Friendship at the Center by Rhaina Cohen

11. The Other Significant Others: Reimagining Life with Friendship at the Center

By: Rhaina Cohen

3.95

Format: 320 pages, Hardcover

Why do we place romantic partnership on a pedestal? What do we lose when we expect one person to me… read more

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  • relationships
  • nonfiction
  • self help
  • audiobook
Cover of The Art of Scandal by Regina Black

12. The Art of Scandal

By: Regina Black

3.82

Format: 304 pages, Hardcover

"Love would be so much easier if it were perfect..." On the night of her husband Matt’s fortiet… read more

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  • romance
  • audiobook
Cover of Microjoys: Finding Hope (Especially) When Life Is Not Okay by Cyndie Spiegel

13. Microjoys: Finding Hope (Especially) When Life Is Not Okay

By: Cyndie Spiegel

3.78

Format: 288 pages, Hardcover

Bighearted and hopeful. Unflinchingly honest and healing. A profound compendium of intimate, inspir… read more

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  • self help
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
Cover of Quietly Hostile: Essays by Samantha Irby

14. Quietly Hostile: Essays

By: Samantha Irby

3.70

Format: 290 pages, Paperback

Samantha Irby invites us to share in the gory particulars of her real life, all that festers behind… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
"[...] and my face is sore from smiling so hard in an effort to appear friendly and nonthreatening."

-Samantha Irby, Quietly Hostile: Essays

"I'm so embarrassed by everything all the time, humiliated even by the need to breathe air where other people can see me"

-Samantha Irby, Quietly Hostile: Essays

"I want to push back against this idea that it's not real love if you're not passionately chattering at each other all the time, that it's just as valid (and romantic!) to know instinctively when to s…"

-Samantha Irby, Quietly Hostile: Essays

"I lived in blissful solitude for a long time...and you learn a lot about yourself and what you require for life when it's just you that you have to think about...You can buy frozen fish sticks and ea…"

-Samantha Irby, Quietly Hostile: Essays

Cover of Sugar, Baby by Celine Saintclare

15. Sugar, Baby

By: Celine Saintclare

3.49

Format: 304 pages, Hardcover

In the vein of Luster and Queenie , an unflinching portrayal of high-paid sex work in the age of th… read more

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  • romance
  • audiobook
"It's so deeply entrenched in me, the Fear of God, so much more strongly than the belief."

-Celine Saintclare, Sugar, Baby

"The thought of having a relationship with my kids like the one I have with my mum, a scam on both sides, makes me want to vomit."

-Celine Saintclare, Sugar, Baby

"It is all beginning to make sense; the gifts he gives like offerings, the golden temple of a Miami house. Oracles, orgies, lusty Greek and Roman gods, apples and pomegranates. Ceremonial robes as des…"

-Celine Saintclare, Sugar, Baby

"You're young and that counts for a lot,' she says. 'And you're pretty. It's like currency, like...a bunch of casino chips in the game of life. You can keep them locked up in the back of a drawer and …"

-Celine Saintclare, Sugar, Baby

Cover of Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily (No Matter What) by Matthew Hussey

16. Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily (No Matter What)

By: Matthew Hussey

4.27

Format: 272 pages, Hardcover

In Love Life, relationship coach and expert Matthew Hussey explores the most important and foundati… read more

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  • romance
  • relationships
  • audiobook
  • nonfiction
  • self help
"Attention is not intention."

-Matthew Hussey, Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily (No Matter What)

"In love, we don’t need everyone to want us. We only need one person."

-Matthew Hussey, Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily (No Matter What)

"Don’t invest in someone based on how much you like them, invest in someone based on how much they invest in you."

-Matthew Hussey, Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily (No Matter What)

"The love of your life can only ever be the person who chooses you for their life. It can never be the person who doesn’t choose you."

-Matthew Hussey, Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily (No Matter What)

Cover of Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life by Vanessa Marin

17. Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life

By: Vanessa Marin

4.32

Format: 272 pages, Hardcover

The definitive guide to creating the sex life of your wildest dreams—just by talking about it!—from… read more

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  • audiobook
  • relationships
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • self help
Cover of Edible Economics: A Hungry Economist Explains the World by Ha-Joon Chang

18. Edible Economics: A Hungry Economist Explains the World

By: Ha-Joon Chang

3.84

Format: 224 pages, Hardcover

Edible Economics brings the sort of creative fusion that spices up a great kitchen to the often too… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
Cover of Thinning Blood: A Memoir of Family, Myth, and Identity by Leah Myers

19. Thinning Blood: A Memoir of Family, Myth, and Identity

By: Leah Myers

3.81

Format: 170 pages, Hardcover

Named a Most Anticipated Book of 2023 by The Millions A vibrant new voice blends Native folklore… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
"I wonder if I will ever feel Native enough."

-Leah Myers, Thinning Blood: A Memoir of Family, Myth, and Identity

"You don't have the right to define my identity."

-Leah Myers, Thinning Blood: A Memoir of Family, Myth, and Identity

"She gave up herself and her identity for security."

-Leah Myers, Thinning Blood: A Memoir of Family, Myth, and Identity

"My home is in Georgia, but my soul is at home here."

-Leah Myers, Thinning Blood: A Memoir of Family, Myth, and Identity

Cover of Fine: A Comic About Gender by Rhea Ewing

20. Fine: A Comic About Gender

By: Rhea Ewing

4.28

Format: 319 pages, Paperback

Washington Post • 10 Best Graphic Novels of 2022 A vibrant and informative debut with “great doc… read more

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  • nonfiction
"Gender affects everybody, so whether you're trans or not, gender is fucking you up. -Jac, 2013"

-Rhea Ewing, Fine: A Comic About Gender

Cover of The Night Guest by Hildur Knútsdóttir

21. The Night Guest

By: Hildur Knútsdóttir

3.67

Format: 208 pages, Hardcover

Hildur Knutsdottir's The Night Guest is an eerie and ensnaring story set in contemporary Reykjavík … read more

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  • audiobook
Cover of How We Show Up: Reclaiming Family, Friendship, and Community by Mia Birdsong

22. How We Show Up: Reclaiming Family, Friendship, and Community

By: Mia Birdsong

4.26

Format: 272 pages, Paperback

An Invitation to Community and Models for Connection After almost every presentation activist a… read more

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  • relationships
  • nonfiction
  • self help
  • audiobook
Cover of The Last Days of the Midnight Ramblers by Sarah  Tomlinson

23. The Last Days of the Midnight Ramblers

By: Sarah Tomlinson

3.10

Format: 304 pages, Hardcover

Perfect for fans of Daisy Jones & The Six and Almost Famous , a gripping debut about the complicate… read more

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  • audiobook
Cover of Ours Was the Shining Future: The Story of the American Dream by David Leonhardt

24. Ours Was the Shining Future: The Story of the American Dream

By: David Leonhardt

4.28

Format: 528 pages, Hardcover

The clear-eyed, definitive history of the modern American economy and the decline of the American D… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
Cover of The Shift by Tinx

25. The Shift

By: Tinx

3.96

Format: 288 pages, Hardcover

The lifestyle creator, advice expert, and host of the It’s Me, Tinx podcast shares her hilarious an… read more

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  • romance
  • self help
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
"I was in dicksand. I was dicknotized."

-Tinx, The Shift

Cover of Young and Restless: The Girls Who Sparked America's Revolutions by Mattie Kahn

26. Young and Restless: The Girls Who Sparked America's Revolutions

By: Mattie Kahn

3.77

Format: 368 pages, Hardcover

Glamour's "The 15 Best Nonfiction Books of 2023, So Far" Vogue's " Best Books of 2023 (So Far)" … read more

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  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
Cover of Smart Sex by Emily Morse

27. Smart Sex

By: Emily Morse

4.05

Format: 305 pages, Kindle Edition

“This is the type of sex talk we need more of!” —Christina Aguilera, Grammy Award-winning musician … read more

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  • audiobook
  • relationships
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • self help
Cover of Laid and Confused: Why We Tolerate Bad Sex and How to Stop by Maria Yagoda

28. Laid and Confused: Why We Tolerate Bad Sex and How to Stop

By: Maria Yagoda

3.91

Format: 256 pages, Hardcover

A refreshingly honest, deeply researched, and frequently hilarious deep-dive into the cultural cris… read more

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  • audiobook
  • relationships
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • self help
Cover of This Is Supposed to Be Fun: How to Find Joy in Hooking Up, Settling Down, and Everything in Between by Myisha Battle

29. This Is Supposed to Be Fun: How to Find Joy in Hooking Up, Settling Down, and Everything in Between

By: Myisha Battle

3.74

Format: 288 pages, Hardcover

A certified clinical sexologist’s radically inclusive guide to sex and dating  Swipe. Match. Get g… read more

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  • romance
  • relationships
  • self help
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • audiobook
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30. Grown Women

By: Sarai Johnson

4.28

Format: 400 pages, Hardcover

In this stunning debut novel, four generations of complex Black women contend with motherhood and d… read more

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  • audiobook
"I don’t think you’re ever really grown."

-Sarai Johnson, Grown Women

"We can learn from trauma. We can become better, more efficient, if we do the work."

-Sarai Johnson, Grown Women

"Similarly, I owe a great deal to my female ancestors and the women who mothered me."

-Sarai Johnson, Grown Women

"Sometimes the best thing you can do for someone you love is stay the hell away from them."

-Sarai Johnson, Grown Women

Cover of But Like Maybe Don't?: What Not to Do When Dating: An Illustrated Guide by Arianna Margulis

31. But Like Maybe Don't?: What Not to Do When Dating: An Illustrated Guide

By: Arianna Margulis

3.83

Format: 176 pages, Hardcover

A hilarious, hopeful guide to what you need to get wrong in love before you get it right. Ariann… read more

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  • romance
  • nonfiction
  • self help

28 Best audiobook books like This Is Supposed to Be Fun: How to Find Joy in Hooking Up, Settling Down, and Everything in Between by Myisha Battle

Transform Your Habits

Platonic: How the Science of Attachment Can Help You Make—and Keep—Friends

Marisa G. Franco

4.06

Transform Your Habits

Exhibit

R.O. Kwon

3.24

Transform Your Habits

Ejaculate Responsibly: A Whole New Way to Think About Abortion

Gabrielle Stanley Blair

4.51

Transform Your Habits

Saving Time: Discovering a Life Beyond the Clock

Jenny Odell

3.61

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Swift River

Essie J. Chambers

3.54

Transform Your Habits

Skin & Bones

Renée Watson

4.39

Transform Your Habits

Long After We Are Gone

Terah Shelton Harris

3.88

Transform Your Habits

Sweetness in the Skin

Ishi Robinson

4.29

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