19 best-selling self help books like It's Not Me, It's You: Break the Blame Cycle. Relationship Better. by John Kim

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It's Not Me, It's You: Break the Blame Cycle. Relationship Better.

By: John Kim

4.28

Format: 288 pages, ebook

Two therapists analyze their own relationship to help untangle the common and frustrating barriers …

If you liked the self help plot in It's Not Me, It's You: Break the Blame Cycle. Relationship Better. by John Kim , here is a list of 19 books like this:

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1. Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters—And How to Get It

By: Laurie Mintz

5.00

Format: 176 pages, ebook

We've been thinking about sex all wrong. Mainstream media, movies, and porn have taught us that sex… read more

Similar categories in Laurie Mintz's Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters—And How to Get It book and John Kim's It's Not Me, It's You: Break the Blame Cycle. Relationship Better.

  • nonfiction
  • self help
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2. What Makes Love Last?: How to Build Trust and Avoid Betrayal

By: John M. Gottman , Nan Silver

4.33

Format: None pages, ebook

A world-renowned relationship expert shares his research about love and what it takes to develop a … read more

Similar categories in John M. Gottman's What Makes Love Last?: How to Build Trust and Avoid Betrayal book and John Kim's It's Not Me, It's You: Break the Blame Cycle. Relationship Better.

  • relationships
  • nonfiction
  • personal development
  • self help

3. The Angry Therapist: A No BS Guide to Finding and Living Your Own Truth

By: None

3.56

Format: 259 pages, Paperback

Tackling relationships, career, and family issues, John Kim, LMFT, thinks of himself as a life-styl… read more

Similar categories in None's The Angry Therapist: A No BS Guide to Finding and Living Your Own Truth book and John Kim's It's Not Me, It's You: Break the Blame Cycle. Relationship Better.

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4. Fight Right: How Successful Couples Turn Conflict Into Connection

By: Julie Schwartz Gottman

4.57

Format: 352 pages, Hardcover

LEARN THE 5 SECRETS OF SUCCESSFUL COUPLES Conflict is the top reason couples seek help—but it's al… read more

Similar categories in Julie Schwartz Gottman's Fight Right: How Successful Couples Turn Conflict Into Connection book and John Kim's It's Not Me, It's You: Break the Blame Cycle. Relationship Better.

  • audiobook
  • relationships
  • personal development
  • nonfiction
  • self help
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5. How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love

By: Logan Ury

4.01

Format: 352 pages, Hardcover

A “must-read” ( The Washington Post ) funny and practical guide to help you find, build, and keep t… read more

Similar categories in Logan Ury's How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love book and John Kim's It's Not Me, It's You: Break the Blame Cycle. Relationship Better.

  • romance
  • relationships
  • self help
  • personal development
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
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6. 8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go

By: Jay Shetty

3.93

Format: 352 pages, Kindle Edition

The author of the #1 New York Times bestseller Think Like a Monk offers a revelatory guide to every… read more

Similar categories in Jay Shetty's 8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go book and John Kim's It's Not Me, It's You: Break the Blame Cycle. Relationship Better.

  • romance
  • relationships
  • self help
  • personal development
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
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7. How to Do the Work: Recognize Your Patterns, Heal from Your Past, and Create Your Self

By: Nicole LePera

4.14

Format: 320 pages, ebook

As a clinical psychologist, Dr. Nicole LePera often found herself frustrated by the limitations of … read more

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  • relationships
  • self help
  • personal development
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
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8. Drama Free: A Guide to Managing Unhealthy Family Relationships

By: Nedra Glover Tawwab

4.29

Format: 288 pages, Hardcover

Instant New York Times Bestseller From the bestselling author of Set Boundaries, Find Peace , a … read more

Similar categories in Nedra Glover Tawwab's Drama Free: A Guide to Managing Unhealthy Family Relationships book and John Kim's It's Not Me, It's You: Break the Blame Cycle. Relationship Better.

  • relationships
  • self help
  • personal development
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
"Visit the past, but don't stay there."

-Nedra Glover Tawwab, Drama Free: A Guide to Managing Unhealthy Family Relationships

"You can love your parents and be upset about how they raised you."

-Nedra Glover Tawwab, Drama Free: A Guide to Managing Unhealthy Family Relationships

"Critical thinking is a threat to unhealthy systems, and questions make people think."

-Nedra Glover Tawwab, Drama Free: A Guide to Managing Unhealthy Family Relationships

"When you don't want to participate in gossiping: "I’d like to hear more about what’s happening with you"

-Nedra Glover Tawwab, Drama Free: A Guide to Managing Unhealthy Family Relationships

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9. It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People

By: Ramani Durvasula

4.58

Format: 362 pages, Kindle Edition

A transformative guide to protecting and healing yourself from the narcissism you can’t see, from p… read more

Similar categories in Ramani Durvasula's It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People book and John Kim's It's Not Me, It's You: Break the Blame Cycle. Relationship Better.

  • relationships
  • self help
  • personal development
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
"You may have had the belief that to forgive is divine but have come to learn that to discern may be transcendent."

-Ramani Durvasula, It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People

"Radical acceptance of the injustice is part of this process-it not fair, I cannot change it; I can, however, chart a different and authentic course forward and learn from this. Be kind to yourself, t…"

-Ramani Durvasula, It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People

"I am tired of people calling those of us who get stuck in these cycles "codependent" or "addicted" to the narcissistic relationship. It's not that. If you have any empathy, have normal cognitive func…"

-Ramani Durvasula, It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People

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10. Anxiously Attached: Becoming More Secure in Life and Love

By: Jessica Baum LMHC

4.12

Format: 304 pages, Hardcover

A road map for building strong and secure relationships for those who struggle with anxiety in thei… read more

Similar categories in Jessica Baum LMHC's Anxiously Attached: Becoming More Secure in Life and Love book and John Kim's It's Not Me, It's You: Break the Blame Cycle. Relationship Better.

  • relationships
  • self help
  • personal development
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
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11. Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily (No Matter What)

By: Matthew Hussey

4.27

Format: 272 pages, Hardcover

In Love Life, relationship coach and expert Matthew Hussey explores the most important and foundati… read more

Similar categories in Matthew Hussey's Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily (No Matter What) book and John Kim's It's Not Me, It's You: Break the Blame Cycle. Relationship Better.

  • romance
  • relationships
  • self help
  • personal development
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
"Attention is not intention."

-Matthew Hussey, Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily (No Matter What)

"In love, we don’t need everyone to want us. We only need one person."

-Matthew Hussey, Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily (No Matter What)

"Don’t invest in someone based on how much you like them, invest in someone based on how much they invest in you."

-Matthew Hussey, Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily (No Matter What)

"The love of your life can only ever be the person who chooses you for their life. It can never be the person who doesn’t choose you."

-Matthew Hussey, Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily (No Matter What)

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12. The Origins of You: How Breaking Family Patterns Can Liberate the Way We Live and Love

By: Vienna Pharaon

4.43

Format: 304 pages, Hardcover

NATIONAL BESTSELLER From licensed therapist and popular Instagram relationship expert Vienna Phara… read more

Similar categories in Vienna Pharaon's The Origins of You: How Breaking Family Patterns Can Liberate the Way We Live and Love book and John Kim's It's Not Me, It's You: Break the Blame Cycle. Relationship Better.

  • relationships
  • self help
  • personal development
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
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13. How to Meet Your Self: The Workbook for Self-Discovery

By: Nicole LePera

4.13

Format: 256 pages, Paperback

Most people are stuck living life on autopilot. Are you ready to break free? At the root of all… read more

Similar categories in Nicole LePera's How to Meet Your Self: The Workbook for Self-Discovery book and John Kim's It's Not Me, It's You: Break the Blame Cycle. Relationship Better.

  • audiobook
  • personal development
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • self help
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14. How to Be the Love You Seek: Break Cycles, Find Peace, and Heal Your Relationships

By: Nicole LePera

3.92

Format: 304 pages, Hardcover

From the creator of The Holistic Psychologist and author of the #1 New York Times bestseller How to… read more

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  • relationships
  • self help
  • personal development
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
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15. Hello I Want to Die Please Fix Me: Depression in the First Person

By: Anna Mehler Paperny

3.95

Format: 352 pages, Paperback

A vibrant, compelling memoir that bravely reveals the real-life havoc the depression wreaks and an … read more

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  • self help
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
"Depression affects everyone on the planet, directly or indirectly, in every possible sphere. its very ubiquity robs it of sexiness but not urgency."

-Anna Mehler Paperny, Hello I Want to Die Please Fix Me: Depression in the First Person

"Suicidality and curiosity are anathema to each other: You can’t want to know things if you want to die. As long as I had questions I had reason to live, and when I was overwhelmed by a desire for dea…"

-Anna Mehler Paperny, Hello I Want to Die Please Fix Me: Depression in the First Person

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16. The 12-Hour Walk: Invest One Day, Conquer Your Mind, and Unlock Your Best Life

By: Colin O'Brady

3.82

Format: 256 pages, ebook

“A master class in athleticism, resilience, and human potential.” —Hoda Kotb, Today From the New Yo… read more

Similar categories in Colin O'Brady's The 12-Hour Walk: Invest One Day, Conquer Your Mind, and Unlock Your Best Life book and John Kim's It's Not Me, It's You: Break the Blame Cycle. Relationship Better.

  • audiobook
  • personal development
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • self help
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17. Smart Sex

By: Emily Morse

4.05

Format: 305 pages, Kindle Edition

“This is the type of sex talk we need more of!” —Christina Aguilera, Grammy Award-winning musician … read more

Similar categories in Emily Morse's Smart Sex book and John Kim's It's Not Me, It's You: Break the Blame Cycle. Relationship Better.

  • relationships
  • nonfiction
  • self help
  • audiobook
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18. You All Grow Up and Leave Me: A Memoir of Teenage Obsession

By: Piper Weiss

3.27

Format: 368 pages, ebook

A highly unsettling blend of true crime and coming-of-age memoir— The Stranger Beside Me meets Prep… read more

Similar categories in Piper Weiss's You All Grow Up and Leave Me: A Memoir of Teenage Obsession book and John Kim's It's Not Me, It's You: Break the Blame Cycle. Relationship Better.

  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
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19. 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life: Identifying and Dealing with Narcissists, Sociopaths, and Other High-Conflict Personalities

By: Bill Eddy

3.93

Format: 197 pages, Paperback

Some difficult people aren't just hard to deal with--they're dangerous. Do you know someone whose m… read more

Similar categories in Bill Eddy's 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life: Identifying and Dealing with Narcissists, Sociopaths, and Other High-Conflict Personalities book and John Kim's It's Not Me, It's You: Break the Blame Cycle. Relationship Better.

  • relationships
  • self help
  • personal development
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
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20. It's Not Me, It's You: Break the Blame Cycle. Relationship Better.

By: John Kim

4.28

Format: 288 pages, ebook

Two therapists analyze their own relationship to help untangle the common and frustrating barriers … read more

Similar categories in John Kim's It's Not Me, It's You: Break the Blame Cycle. Relationship Better. book and John Kim's It's Not Me, It's You: Break the Blame Cycle. Relationship Better.

  • romance
  • relationships
  • self help
  • personal development
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
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21. What Women Want: A Therapist, Her Patients, and Their True Stories of Desire, Power, and Love

By: Maxine Mei-Fung Chung

3.98

Format: 305 pages, Paperback

A profound and intimate exploration of female desire and identity, as studied through the lives of … read more

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  • self help
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook

18 must-read audiobook books like It's Not Me, It's You: Break the Blame Cycle. Relationship Better. by John Kim

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Fight Right: How Successful Couples Turn Conflict Into Connection

Julie Schwartz Gottman

4.57

Transform Your Habits

How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love

Logan Ury

4.01

Transform Your Habits

8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go

Jay Shetty

3.93

Transform Your Habits

How to Do the Work: Recognize Your Patterns, Heal from Your Past, and Create Your Self

Nicole LePera

4.14

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14 Best audiobook books like How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love by Logan Ury

Transform Your Habits

Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough

Lori Gottlieb

3.83

Transform Your Habits

Get the Guy: How to Find, Attract, and Keep Your Ideal Mate

Matthew Hussey

3.77

Transform Your Habits

The Psychology of Money

Morgan Housel

4.30

Transform Your Habits

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Logan Ury

4.01

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