8 must-read biography books like What Doesn't Kill You Makes You Blacker: A Memoir in Essays by Damon Young

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What Doesn't Kill You Makes You Blacker: A Memoir in Essays

By: Damon Young

4.14

Format: 9 pages, Audiobook

From the cofounder of VerySmartBrothas.com, and one of the most read writers on race and culture at…

"I thought [...] of all the negotiating and navigating it requires to exist while black and relatively sane. And how, for the rest of them, for my [white] teammates and the [white] guys we just played against and the [white] guys waiting to play next game, this was just another game. Just another week. Just another day. Just another election. Just another president. Just another Thursday. Whiteness in America exists and thrives in that _just another_ space, where things will always be fine. Things will always be all right. Things will always work out. (p. 288)"

-Damon Young, What Doesn't Kill You Makes You Blacker: A Memoir in Essays

"I thought [...] of all the negotiating and navigating it requires to exist while black and relatively sane. And how, for the rest of them, for my [white] teammates and the [white] guys we just played against and the [white] guys waiting to play next game, this was just another game. Just another week. Just another day. Just another election. Just another president. Just another Thursday. Whiteness in America exists and thrives in that _just another_ space, where things will always be fine. Things will always be all right. Things will always work out. (p. 288)"

-Damon Young, What Doesn't Kill You Makes You Blacker: A Memoir in Essays

"White privilege--the idea that whiteness, for white Americans, provides an imperishable benefit of the doubt and a flexible and perpetually renewable get-out-of-jail-free card-- is often dismissed by critics and even spoken of by believers in it as an abstract and academic term with no basis of reality. But it doesn't exist without the cultural, social, political, and legal reinforcement that white people's feelings, thoughts, desires, and opinions matter more than the feelings, thoughts, desires, and opinions of non-white people (black people, specifically). It's not so much that blacks are thought to be subhuman--although that belief festers too. It's that the humanity of whites is the only humanity that matters. Their humanity is the standard all other humanities are judged by. This ceaseless homage toward whiteness also affects how physical pain and discomfort are assessed and treated. (p. 243)"

-Damon Young, What Doesn't Kill You Makes You Blacker: A Memoir in Essays

"White privilege--the idea that whiteness, for white Americans, provides an imperishable benefit of the doubt and a flexible and perpetually renewable get-out-of-jail-free card-- is often dismissed by critics and even spoken of by believers in it as an abstract and academic term with no basis of reality. But it doesn't exist without the cultural, social, political, and legal reinforcement that white people's feelings, thoughts, desires, and opinions matter more than the feelings, thoughts, desires, and opinions of non-white people (black people, specifically). It's not so much that blacks are thought to be subhuman--although that belief festers too. It's that the humanity of whites is the only humanity that matters. Their humanity is the standard all other humanities are judged by. This ceaseless homage toward whiteness also affects how physical pain and discomfort are assessed and treated. (p. 243)"

-Damon Young, What Doesn't Kill You Makes You Blacker: A Memoir in Essays

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1. The Most Defining Moments in Black History According to Dick Gregory

By: Dick Gregory

4.29

Format: 288 pages, ebook

With his trademark acerbic wit, incisive humor, and infectious paranoia, one of our foremost comedi… read more

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  • race
  • nonfiction
  • african american
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2. Eloquent Rage: A Black Feminist Discovers Her Superpower

By: Brittney Cooper

4.43

Format: None pages, Hardcover

Black women are often considered angry and divisive in their interactions with others in both publi… read more

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  • memoir
  • nonfiction
  • social justice
  • essays
  • anti racist
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3. Bowling Alone: The Collapse and Revival of American Community

By: Robert D. Putnam

3.77

Format: 67 pages,

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  • nonfiction

4. Mo' Meta Blues: The World According to Questlove

By: Ben Greenman , Ahmir "Questlove" Thompson

3.47

Format: None pages, Hardcover

"You have to bear in mind that [Questlove] is one of the smartest motherf*****s on the planet. His … read more

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  • biography
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5. The Devil Finds Work

By: James Baldwin

4.38

Format: 83 pages, Paperback

James Baldwin At The Movies... Provocative, timeless, brilliant. Bette Davis's eyes, Joan Crawford'… read more

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6. Black AF History: The Un-Whitewashed Story of America

By: Michael Harriot

4.59

Format: 432 pages, Hardcover

From acclaimed columnist and political commentator Michael Harriot, a searingly smart and bitingly… read more

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  • race
  • nonfiction
  • social justice
  • african american
  • audiobook
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7. The Blueprint

By: Rae Giana Rashad

3.88

Format: 304 pages, Hardcover

A captivating debut exploring power imbalances, bodily autonomy, love, and the generational legacy … read more

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  • race
  • audiobook
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8. Nothing Personal

By: James Baldwin

4.64

Format: 83 pages, Hardcover

James Baldwin's critique of American society at the height of the civil rights movement brings his … read more

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  • social justice
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  • audiobook
"The longer I live, the more deeply I learn that love — whether we call it friendship or family or romance — is the work of mirroring and magnifying each other's light."

-James Baldwin, Nothing Personal

"If a society permits one portion of its citizenry to be menaced or destroyed, then, very soon, no one in that society is safe. The forces thus released in the people can never be held in check, but r…"

-James Baldwin, Nothing Personal

"The longer I live, the more deeply I learn that love--whether we call it friendship or family or romance--is the work of mirroring each other's light. Gentle work. Steadfast work. Life-saving work in…"

-James Baldwin, Nothing Personal

"If a society permits one portion of its citizenry to be menaced or destroyed, then, very soon, no one in that society is safe. The forces thus released in the people can never be held in check, but r…"

-James Baldwin, Nothing Personal

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9. The Best American Short Stories 2023

By: Min Jin Lee

3.77

Format: 331 pages, Kindle Edition

A collection of the year’s best short stories, selected by National Book Award finalist Min Jin Lee… read more

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  • audiobook
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10. Thank You (Falettinme Be Mice Elf Agin): A Memoir

By: Sly Stone

3.56

Format: 320 pages, Hardcover

Not many memoirs are generational events. But when Sly Stone, one of the few true musical geniuses … read more

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  • biography memoir
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  • audiobook
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11. Punch Me Up to the Gods

By: Brian Broome

4.33

Format: 250 pages, Hardcover

Punch Me Up to the Gods introduces a powerful new talent in Brian Broome, whose early years growing… read more

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  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
"My second baby was a girl. Cutest thing you ever did see. He was happy with a girl. His first born. He liked havin’ a girl. He fell in love with her and played with her and praised her every move. Se…"

-Brian Broome, Punch Me Up to the Gods

"I think about my father and the clarity that comes with age tells me that he must have suffered... He was anxious. He was lonely. And he was insecure. There is no thing on earth more dangerous than a…"

-Brian Broome, Punch Me Up to the Gods

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12. Heavy

By: Kiese Laymon

4.48

Format: 248 pages, Kindle Edition

In this powerful and provocative memoir, genre-bending essayist and novelist Kiese Laymon explores … read more

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  • biography
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  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • social justice
  • essays
  • african american
  • anti racist
  • audiobook
"The violent white backlash to Obama’s victory will still be unlike anything we’d ever seen..."

-Kiese Laymon, Heavy

"Y'all taught me that unacknowledged scars accumulated in battles won often hurt more than battles lost."

-Kiese Laymon, Heavy

"Even when I know you're lying to me, I just feel crazy sorry for you. Why? Because I can just tell you'll never let me carry what you're hiding."

-Kiese Laymon, Heavy

"The nation as it is currently constituted has never dealt with a yesterday or tomorrow where we were radically honest, generous, and tender with each other."

-Kiese Laymon, Heavy

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13. Flipping Boxcars

By: Cedric The Entertainer

3.57

Format: 336 pages, Hardcover

The first novel from one of the original Kings of Comedy, Cedric “The Entertainer,” an engaging and… read more

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  • audiobook
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14. Hip-Hop Is History

By: Questlove

4.00

Format: 352 pages, Hardcover

In Hip-Hop is History, Questlove, one of the major and most revolutionary figures of that genre, un… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • biography
  • memoir
  • audiobook
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15. Sometimes I Trip On How Happy We Could Be

By: Nichole Perkins

3.86

Format: 272 pages, Paperback

Pop culture is the Pandora’s Box of our lives. Racism, wealth, poverty, beauty, inclusion, exclusio… read more

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  • essays
  • audiobook
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16. Call Them by Their True Names: American Crises (and Essays)

By: Rebecca Solnit

4.19

Format: 188 pages, Paperback

Rebecca Solnit is the author of more than twenty books including the international bestseller Men E… read more

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  • social justice
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"Cynicism is, first of all, a style of presenting oneself, and more than anything, cynics take pride in not being fooled and not being foolish. But in the forms in which I encounter it, cynicism is fr…"

-Rebecca Solnit, Call Them by Their True Names: American Crises (and Essays)

"The current President's verbal abuse of language itself - with his slurred, sloshing semi-coherent word salad and his insistence that truth and fact are whatever he wants them to be, even if he wants…"

-Rebecca Solnit, Call Them by Their True Names: American Crises (and Essays)

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17. Heads of the Colored People

By: Nafissa Thompson-Spires

4.11

Format: 224 pages, Hardcover

Calling to mind the best works of Paul Beatty and Junot Díaz, this collection of moving, timely, an… read more

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  • african american
  • race
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  • audiobook
"As a funeral singer, she had more gigs than she wanted and paid for the fertility treatments on her own with the profits, though it seemed wrong to call them that."

-Nafissa Thompson-Spires, Heads of the Colored People

"Marjorie was only thirty-seven, but she felt older than her peers; some of them would say she felt better than them, too. But that wasn't true. If anything, she felt inferior for all the many ways sh…"

-Nafissa Thompson-Spires, Heads of the Colored People

"She did not want to be one of those people who went to therapy for the rest of their lives, blathering on about what "my therapist said" or "what we uncovered in therapy." It struck Marjorie that tho…"

-Nafissa Thompson-Spires, Heads of the Colored People

"She knew that she should feel discontentment, connected to a large chain of disenfranchisement or systemic persecution--it's not that black death and the news of the world didn't touch her spirit--bu…"

-Nafissa Thompson-Spires, Heads of the Colored People

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18. Oye

By: Melissa Mogollon

3.68

Format: 336 pages, Hardcover

A coming-of-age comedy. A telenovela-worthy drama. A moving family saga. All in a phone call you wo… read more

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  • audiobook
Cover of The Black Guy Dies First: Black Horror Cinema from Fodder to Oscar by Robin R. Means Coleman

19. The Black Guy Dies First: Black Horror Cinema from Fodder to Oscar

By: Robin R. Means Coleman

4.05

Format: 336 pages, Paperback

A definitive and surprising exploration of the history of Black horror films, after the rising succ… read more

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20. How Not to Get Shot: And Other Advice From White People

By: D.L. Hughley

4.04

Format: 260 pages, Hardcover

A cutting satire of race relations in the age of Trump and Black Lives Matter from the hugely popul… read more

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"That's the essence of being profiled: judging someone on first impressions. So again, you are being asked to do better than the cop who pulled you over for the "broken taillight". Don't you go around…"

-D.L. Hughley, How Not to Get Shot: And Other Advice From White People

"Be patient; don't judge a book by its racist, oppressive cover. Any police shooting is bound to be investigated, so wait for all the facts to be known and dismissed. In the end, it might be that whit…"

-D.L. Hughley, How Not to Get Shot: And Other Advice From White People

"Every few months, white people trot out a new title in a series called Cops Keep Killing People. Each new release has the latest tragic scene on the cover. It sure seems to be the same book recycled …"

-D.L. Hughley, How Not to Get Shot: And Other Advice From White People

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21. Tightwads and Spendthrifts: Navigating the Money Minefield in Real Relationships

By: Scott Rick

3.90

Format: 230 pages, Kindle Edition

A revolutionary guide to navigating the financial aspects of real relationshipsHave you ever asked … read more

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22. Reaper of Souls (Kingdom of Souls, #2)

By: Rena Barron

4.03

Format: 464 pages, ebook

After so many years yearning for the gift of magic, Arrah has the one thing she’s always wanted—at … read more

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"One who milks his neighbor's goat does not do it for glory... To truly help, one does not need recognition in return."

-Rena Barron, Reaper of Souls (Kingdom of Souls, #2)

"My sister Koré once told me that a god's love is a dangerous thing. I know that now. I don't want to die, but I deserve my fate."

-Rena Barron, Reaper of Souls (Kingdom of Souls, #2)

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23. What Doesn't Kill You Makes You Blacker: A Memoir in Essays

By: Damon Young

4.14

Format: 9 pages, Audiobook

From the cofounder of VerySmartBrothas.com, and one of the most read writers on race and culture at… read more

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  • african american
  • anti racist
  • audiobook
"I thought [...] of all the negotiating and navigating it requires to exist while black and relatively sane. And how, for the rest of them, for my [white] teammates and the [white] guys we just played…"

-Damon Young, What Doesn't Kill You Makes You Blacker: A Memoir in Essays

"White privilege--the idea that whiteness, for white Americans, provides an imperishable benefit of the doubt and a flexible and perpetually renewable get-out-of-jail-free card-- is often dismissed by…"

-Damon Young, What Doesn't Kill You Makes You Blacker: A Memoir in Essays

Cover of Rejection: Fiction by Tony Tulathimutte

24. Rejection: Fiction

By: Tony Tulathimutte

4.34

Format: 272 pages, Hardcover

From the Whiting and O. Henry–winning author of Private Citizens (“the first great millennial novel… read more

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"Identity is diet history, single serving sociology; at its worst, a partriotism of trauma, or a prothesis of personality. Privilege discourse a well-meaning attempt to balance scales that have become…"

-Tony Tulathimutte, Rejection: Fiction

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25. I'm Telling the Truth, but I'm Lying: Essays

By: Bassey Ikpi

4.31

Format: 257 pages, Paperback

A deeply personal collection of essays exploring Nigerian-American author Bassey Ikpi’s experiences… read more

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"Yoga was still terrible, like a game of Simon Says with no winner."

-Bassey Ikpi, I'm Telling the Truth, but I'm Lying: Essays

"Ha, ha, ha. You will laugh to make sure the bitterness doesn’t escape and burn your throat on its way out."

-Bassey Ikpi, I'm Telling the Truth, but I'm Lying: Essays

"The restlessness has begun, like a low hum in my belly. It follows me through my days. I am sleepless nights. The comfort found only in quiet."

-Bassey Ikpi, I'm Telling the Truth, but I'm Lying: Essays

"It makes you feel unfinished, like in your family's eyes you will never be completely whole. And in your eyes, you have never been completely whole."

-Bassey Ikpi, I'm Telling the Truth, but I'm Lying: Essays

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26. The Memo: What Women of Color Need to Know to Secure a Seat at the Table

By: Minda Harts

4.21

Format: 240 pages, Hardcover

From microaggressions to the wage gap, The Memo empowers women of color with actionable advice on c… read more

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Cover of Get Honest or Die Lying: Why Small Talk Sucks by Charlamagne Tha God

27. Get Honest or Die Lying: Why Small Talk Sucks

By: Charlamagne Tha God

3.91

Format: 240 pages, Hardcover

An Atria Book. Atria Books has a great book for every reader. read more

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  • biography
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28. On the Edge: The Art of Risking Everything

By: Nate Silver

3.84

Format: 576 pages, Hardcover

From the New York Times bestselling author of The Signal and the Noise, the definitive guide to our… read more

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29. Sky Full of Elephants

By: Cebo Campbell

4.01

Format: 304 pages, Hardcover

In this exquisite speculative novel set in a world where white people no longer exist, college prof… read more

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  • race
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30. Breath of Dust & Dawn (Earthsinger Chronicles, #1.5)

By: L. Penelope

4.03

Format: 105 pages, ebook

This novella begins after the events of Song of Blood & Stone—it’s both an extended epilogue AND a … read more

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