9 must-read memoir books like The House of Being by Natasha Trethewey

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The House of Being

By: Natasha Trethewey

4.47

Format: 96 pages, Hardcover

An exquisite meditation on the geographies we inherit and the metaphors we inhabit, from Pulitzer P…

"To have dominion over oneself, to be the sovereign of the nation of the self, one must be the writer of the story."

-Natasha Trethewey, The House of Being

"To have dominion over oneself, to be the sovereign of the nation of the self, one must be the writer of the story."

-Natasha Trethewey, The House of Being

"Writing is a way of creating order out of chaos, of taking charge of one's own story, being the sovereign of the self by pushing back against received knowledge and guarding the sanctity of the dwelling place of the imagination, that place of first permission."

-Natasha Trethewey, The House of Being

"Writing is a way of creating order out of chaos, of taking charge of one's own story, being the sovereign of the self by pushing back against received knowledge and guarding the sanctity of the dwelling place of the imagination, that place of first permission."

-Natasha Trethewey, The House of Being

If you liked the memoir plot in The House of Being by Natasha Trethewey , here is a list of 9 books like this:

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1. The Writing Life

By: Annie Dillard

3.26

Format: 212 pages, Paperback

Annie Dillard has written eleven books, including the memoir of her parents, An American Childhood;… read more

Similar categories in Annie Dillard's The Writing Life book and Natasha Trethewey's The House of Being

  • nonfiction
  • memoir
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2. Troubled

By: Rob Henderson

4.26

Format: 336 pages, Hardcover

In this raw coming-of-age memoir, in the vein of The Short and Tragic Life of Robert Peace, The Oth… read more

Similar categories in Rob Henderson's Troubled book and Natasha Trethewey's The House of Being

  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • memoir
"Successful people tell the world they got lucky, then tell their loved ones about the importance of hard work and sacrifice. Critics of successful people tell the world those successful people got lu…"

-Rob Henderson, Troubled

"People don't need motivation; they need self-discipline. Motivation is just a feeling. Self-discipline is: 'I'm going to do this regardless of how I feel.' Seldom do people relish doing something har…"

-Rob Henderson, Troubled

"Mom's friends were worried that their son isn't talking as much as other six-year-olds. They, like many parents, were concerned with how "smart" their kid is. "Should we be reading to him more?" they…"

-Rob Henderson, Troubled

"You should keep your expectations in line with reality. If you view the military as a job, you will be miserable. It's not a job, it's a lot more than that. As long as you wear that uniform, it is yo…"

-Rob Henderson, Troubled

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3. The Backyard Bird Chronicles

By: Amy Tan

4.14

Format: 320 pages, Flexibound

A gorgeous, witty account of birding, nature, and the beauty around us that hides in plain sight. … read more

Similar categories in Amy Tan's The Backyard Bird Chronicles book and Natasha Trethewey's The House of Being

  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • memoir
"If there is anything I have learned these past six years, it is this: Each bird is surprising and thrilling in its own way. But the most special is the bird that pauses when it is eating, looks and a…"

-Amy Tan, The Backyard Bird Chronicles

"The (Anna's Hummingbird) males are deadbeat dads that contribute nothing to making the nest, or to feeding either the female or the nestlings. They are off to find other females they can impress with…"

-Amy Tan, The Backyard Bird Chronicles

"During daylight hours, they (Anna's Hummingbirds) feed every 15 minutes, be it tiny insects or nectar from flowers or feeders. If they don't consume food often enough, they can die during the day. If…"

-Amy Tan, The Backyard Bird Chronicles

"I asked Bernd Heinrich if he knew why feeder birds, like finches, discard so many seeds. It turns out he and other scientiests did research on this back in the 1990s - of course, he did -measuring di…"

-Amy Tan, The Backyard Bird Chronicles

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4. Somehow: Thoughts on Love

By: Anne Lamott

3.95

Format: 204 pages, Hardcover

From the bestselling author of Dusk, Night, Dawn and Help, Thanks, Wow , a joyful celebration of lo… read more

Similar categories in Anne Lamott's Somehow: Thoughts on Love book and Natasha Trethewey's The House of Being

  • nonfiction
  • memoir
"I don’t know"

-Anne Lamott, Somehow: Thoughts on Love

"…nobody in isolation becomes who they were designed to be."

-Anne Lamott, Somehow: Thoughts on Love

"Sometimes it all just sucks, as Jesus says somewhere in the Gospels (although off the top of my head I can’t recall chapter and verse."

-Anne Lamott, Somehow: Thoughts on Love

"When I first got sober, a man told me that upon waking every morning, instead of reciting the standard flowery recovery prayer, he said, “Whatever,“ and at night when he turned off his lights to go t…"

-Anne Lamott, Somehow: Thoughts on Love

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5. Roman Stories

By: Jhumpa Lahiri

3.80

Format: 224 pages, Hardcover

Rome—metropolis and monument, suspended between past and future, multi-faceted and metaphysical—is … read more

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6. Also a Poet: Frank O'Hara, My Father, and Me

By: Ada Calhoun

4.02

Format: 272 pages, Hardcover

A staggering memoir from New York Times bestselling author Ada Calhoun tracing her fraught relation… read more

Similar categories in Ada Calhoun's Also a Poet: Frank O'Hara, My Father, and Me book and Natasha Trethewey's The House of Being

  • poetry
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • memoir
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7. Great Expectations

By: Vinson Cunningham

3.35

Format: 272 pages, Hardcover

A historic presidential campaign changes the trajectory of a young Black man’s life in the highly a… read more

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"For him, identity had been a kind of curation or collation—he picked up aspects as he went, freestyle."

-Vinson Cunningham, Great Expectations

"It had always struck me as a place to be lost, experienced passage by passage in a series of unfolding images—not something you could take in in one possessive glance."

-Vinson Cunningham, Great Expectations

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8. Whale Fall

By: Elizabeth O'Connor

3.87

Format: 224 pages, Hardcover

A stunning debut from an award-winning writer, about loss, isolation, folklore, and the joy and dis… read more

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9. Clear

By: Carys Davies

3.92

Format: 196 pages, Hardcover

A stunning, exquisite novel from an award-winning writer about a minister dispatched to a remote is… read more

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10. The Cemetery of Untold Stories

By: Julia Alvarez

3.68

Format: 243 pages, Hardcover

Literary icon Julia Alvarez returns with an inventive and emotional novel about storytelling itself… read more

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11. Indian Burial Ground

By: Nick Medina

3.63

Format: 384 pages, Hardcover

All Noemi Broussard wanted was a fresh start. With a new boyfriend who actually treats her right an… read more

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"What happened in the cemetery causes us pain, not her. You understand that, don’t you?"

-Nick Medina, Indian Burial Ground

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12. My Cousin Maria Schneider: A Memoir

By: Vanessa Schneider

3.67

Format: 160 pages, Hardcover

A spare, heartbreaking memoir and tribute to Maria Schneider, the 1970s movie starlet who catapulte… read more

Similar categories in Vanessa Schneider's My Cousin Maria Schneider: A Memoir book and Natasha Trethewey's The House of Being

  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • memoir
Cover of You Are Here: Poetry in the Natural World by Ada Limon

13. You Are Here: Poetry in the Natural World

By: Ada Limon

4.11

Format: 176 pages, Hardcover

Published association  with the Library of Congress and edited by the twenty-fourth Poet Laureate o… read more

Similar categories in Ada Limon's You Are Here: Poetry in the Natural World book and Natasha Trethewey's The House of Being

  • poetry
  • nonfiction
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14. For Now (Why I Write)

By: Eileen Myles

4.16

Format: 96 pages, Hardcover

In this raucous meditation, Eileen Myles offers an intimate glimpse into creativity’s immediacy. Wi… read more

Similar categories in Eileen Myles's For Now (Why I Write) book and Natasha Trethewey's The House of Being

  • poetry
  • nonfiction
  • memoir
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15. Prairie, Dresses, Art, Other

By: Danielle Dutton

4.05

Format: 176 pages, Paperback

From the "strikingly smart and daringly feminist" (Jenny Offill) author of Margaret the First and S… read more

Similar categories in Danielle Dutton's Prairie, Dresses, Art, Other book and Natasha Trethewey's The House of Being

  • nonfiction
Cover of Consent: A Memoir by Jill Ciment

16. Consent: A Memoir

By: Jill Ciment

3.96

Format: 145 pages, Hardcover

In this unflinching account of the ardent love affair between the author and her painting teacher, … read more

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  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • memoir
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17. Liars

By: Sarah Manguso

3.89

Format: 272 pages, Hardcover

A searing novel about being a wife, a mother, and an artist, and how marriage makes liars out of us… read more

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"I was in charge of everything and in control of nothing."

-Sarah Manguso, Liars

"I needed my suffering to be acknowledged. After that, maybe I’d think about getting through it."

-Sarah Manguso, Liars

Cover of When the Clock Broke: Con Men, Conspiracists, and How America Cracked Up in the Early 1990s by John Ganz

18. When the Clock Broke: Con Men, Conspiracists, and How America Cracked Up in the Early 1990s

By: John Ganz

4.23

Format: 432 pages, Hardcover

A lively, revelatory look back at the convulsions at the end of the Reagan era―and their dark legac… read more

Similar categories in John Ganz's When the Clock Broke: Con Men, Conspiracists, and How America Cracked Up in the Early 1990s book and Natasha Trethewey's The House of Being

  • nonfiction
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19. The House of Being

By: Natasha Trethewey

4.47

Format: 96 pages, Hardcover

An exquisite meditation on the geographies we inherit and the metaphors we inhabit, from Pulitzer P… read more

Similar categories in Natasha Trethewey's The House of Being book and Natasha Trethewey's The House of Being

  • poetry
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • memoir
"To have dominion over oneself, to be the sovereign of the nation of the self, one must be the writer of the story."

-Natasha Trethewey, The House of Being

"Writing is a way of creating order out of chaos, of taking charge of one's own story, being the sovereign of the self by pushing back against received knowledge and guarding the sanctity of the dwell…"

-Natasha Trethewey, The House of Being

"The act of writing is a way to create another world in language, a dwelling place for the psyche wherein the chaos of the external world is transformed, shaped into a made thing, and ordered. It is a…"

-Natasha Trethewey, The House of Being

Cover of The Quiet Damage: QAnon and the Destruction of the American Family by Jesselyn Cook

20. The Quiet Damage: QAnon and the Destruction of the American Family

By: Jesselyn Cook

4.45

Format: 272 pages, Hardcover

The riveting story of five families shattered by pernicious, pervasive conspiracy theories, and how… read more

Similar categories in Jesselyn Cook's The Quiet Damage: QAnon and the Destruction of the American Family book and Natasha Trethewey's The House of Being

  • nonfiction
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21. Five-Star Stranger

By: Kat Tang

3.36

Format: 240 pages, Hardcover

In Kat Tang’s exciting and resonant debut, a “Rental Stranger”—a companion hired under various guis… read more

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13 must-read nonfiction books like The House of Being by Natasha Trethewey

Transform Your Habits

The Writing Life

Annie Dillard

3.26

Transform Your Habits

Troubled

Rob Henderson

4.26

Transform Your Habits

The Backyard Bird Chronicles

Amy Tan

4.14

Transform Your Habits

Somehow: Thoughts on Love

Anne Lamott

3.95

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Transform Your Habits

All Fours

Miranda July

3.81

Transform Your Habits

Tell Me Everything (Amgash, #5)

Elizabeth Strout

4.46

Transform Your Habits

Bear

Julia Phillips

3.38

Transform Your Habits

Same As It Ever Was

Claire Lombardo

4.00

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