15 Best memoir books like And Now We Have Everything: On Motherhood Before I Was Ready by Meaghan O'Connell

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And Now We Have Everything: On Motherhood Before I Was Ready

By: Meaghan O'Connell

3.92

Format: 240 pages, Hardcover

And Now We Have Everything is O'Connell's exploration of transitioning into motherhood as a fledgli…

"I don't want to be a mother. I want to be a writer. I want to be taken seriously. I want money. I want more time. I want to lose weight. I want to be beautiful. I want a day completely to myself, though I don't even remember what I used to do with them, when days to myself were a thing I had."

-Meaghan O'Connell, And Now We Have Everything: On Motherhood Before I Was Ready

"I don't want to be a mother. I want to be a writer. I want to be taken seriously. I want money. I want more time. I want to lose weight. I want to be beautiful. I want a day completely to myself, though I don't even remember what I used to do with them, when days to myself were a thing I had."

-Meaghan O'Connell, And Now We Have Everything: On Motherhood Before I Was Ready

"I didn’t know before that when parents talked about 'checking on' their children, they meant checking to make sure they weren’t dead. And when they talked about their love for their children, maybe that’s what they meant too. It was love but keener, with sharper edges, softer undersides. It was love wrapped up with desperate terror, inextricable."

-Meaghan O'Connell, And Now We Have Everything: On Motherhood Before I Was Ready

"I didn’t know before that when parents talked about 'checking on' their children, they meant checking to make sure they weren’t dead. And when they talked about their love for their children, maybe that’s what they meant too. It was love but keener, with sharper edges, softer undersides. It was love wrapped up with desperate terror, inextricable."

-Meaghan O'Connell, And Now We Have Everything: On Motherhood Before I Was Ready

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1. All Joy and No Fun: The Paradox of Modern Parenthood

By: Jennifer Senior

3.89

Format: 320 pages, Hardcover

Thousands of books have examined the effects of parents on their children. Award-winning journalist… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • adult
  • parenting
  • audiobook
"Children live life as a controlled experiment."

-Jennifer Senior, All Joy and No Fun: The Paradox of Modern Parenthood

"What makes a mother? Looking at your child and identifying emotion"

-Jennifer Senior, All Joy and No Fun: The Paradox of Modern Parenthood

"The phrase "having it all" has little to do with having what we want."

-Jennifer Senior, All Joy and No Fun: The Paradox of Modern Parenthood

"Vocabulary for aggravation is large. Vocabulary for transcendence is elusive."

-Jennifer Senior, All Joy and No Fun: The Paradox of Modern Parenthood

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2. The Birth Partner

By: Penny Simkin

4.75

Format: 335 pages, Paperback

Fully updated and revised, this guide covers the time from the last few weeksof pregnancy through t… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • parenting
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3. A Life's Work: On Becoming a Mother

By: Rachel Cusk

4.57

Format: None pages,

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  • parenting
  • biography
  • memoir
  • feminism
  • nonfiction
  • essays
  • womens
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4. After Birth

By: Elisa Albert

3.65

Format: 135 pages, Hardcover

A widely acclaimed young writer's fierce new novel, in which childbirth and new motherhood are as h… read more

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  • feminism
  • parenting
Cover of Waiting for Birdy: A Year of Frantic Tedium, Neurotic Angst, and the Wild Magic of Growing a Family by Catherine Newman

5. Waiting for Birdy: A Year of Frantic Tedium, Neurotic Angst, and the Wild Magic of Growing a Family

By: Catherine Newman

4.10

Format: None pages,

To fifty thousand readers, Catherine Newman is the beloved author of Bringing Up Ben & Birdy,a week… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • adult
  • parenting
  • memoir
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6. The Killer Whale Who Changed The World

By: Mark Leiren-Young

4.01

Format: 30 pages,

The fascinating and heartbreaking account of the first publicly exhibited captive killer whale -- a… read more

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  • adult
  • nonfiction
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7. Operating Instructions: A Journal of My Son's First Year

By: Anne Lamott

3.59

Format: 370 pages, Paperback

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  • parenting
  • biography
  • memoir
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • essays

8. Little Labors

By: Rivka Galchen

4.00

Format: None pages, Paperback

Rivka Galchen's Little Labors is a droll and dazzling compendium of observations, stories, lists, a… read more

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9. Expecting Better: Why the Conventional Pregnancy Wisdom is Wrong - and What You Really Need to Know

By: Emily Oster

4.15

Format: 130 pages,

What to Expect When You're Expectingmeets Freakonomics: an award-winning economist disproves standa… read more

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10. The Tower, The Zoo, and The Tortoise

By: Julia Stuart

4.34

Format: 196 pages, Hardcover

Brimming with charm and whimsy, this exquisite novel set in the Tower of London has the transportiv… read more

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11. Natural Hospital Birth: The Best of Both Worlds

By: Cynthia Gabriel

3.25

Format: 198 pages, Paperback

These days, many mothers-to-be find themselves torn between the desire for a natural childbirth wit… read more

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12. Splinters

By: Leslie Jamison

3.86

Format: 272 pages, Hardcover

From the New York Times bestselling author of The Recovering and The Empathy Exams comes the riveti… read more

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  • parenting
  • biography
  • memoir
  • feminism
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • essays
  • audiobook
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13. I'll Show Myself Out: Essays on Midlife and Motherhood

By: Jessi Klein

3.90

Format: 288 pages, Hardcover

The eagerly anticipated second essay collection from Jessi Klein, author of the acclaimed New York … read more

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  • parenting
  • biography
  • memoir
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • essays
  • adult
  • audiobook
"A mother's heroic journey is not about how she leaves, but how she stays."

-Jessi Klein, I'll Show Myself Out: Essays on Midlife and Motherhood

"But becoming a mother alters every ince of your body, your routine, your soul, your heart."

-Jessi Klein, I'll Show Myself Out: Essays on Midlife and Motherhood

"Motherhood leaves you inevitably and profoundly changed; you can be similar to who you were - maybe? - but you'll never be the same."

-Jessi Klein, I'll Show Myself Out: Essays on Midlife and Motherhood

"Because now I know that everything bad can happen, and I am responsible for it not. Because sometimes I feel like keeping us from dying will kill me. Because I am on board, and I'm exhausted. Because…"

-Jessi Klein, I'll Show Myself Out: Essays on Midlife and Motherhood

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14. Sh!t No One Tells You About Pregnancy (Sh!t No One Tells You, 4)

By: Dawn Dais

3.55

Format: 256 pages, Paperback

The fourth book in Dawn Dais' popular Sh!t No One Tells You series covers all the indignities a wom… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • parenting
  • memoir
  • audiobook
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15. Screaming on the Inside: The Unsustainability of American Motherhood

By: Jessica Grose

3.48

Format: 240 pages, Hardcover

"If this book feels like it’s sounding the alarm on the state of American motherhood, well, that’s… read more

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  • parenting
  • memoir
  • feminism
  • nonfiction
  • womens
  • adult
  • audiobook
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16. Mother Brain: How Neuroscience Is Rewriting the Story of Parenthood

By: Chelsea Conaboy

3.62

Format: 368 pages, Hardcover

Health and science journalist Chelsea Conaboy explodes the concept of “maternal instinct” and tells… read more

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  • parenting
  • feminism
  • nonfiction
  • adult
  • audiobook
Cover of Unwifeable: A Memoir by Mandy Stadtmiller

17. Unwifeable: A Memoir

By: Mandy Stadtmiller

3.58

Format: 321 pages, Hardcover

Provocative, fearless, and dizzyingly uncensored, Mandy spills every secret she knows about dating,… read more

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  • biography
  • memoir
  • feminism
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • womens
  • audiobook
Cover of Knocking Myself Up: A Memoir of My (In)Fertility by Michelle Tea

18. Knocking Myself Up: A Memoir of My (In)Fertility

By: Michelle Tea

4.02

Format: 294 pages, Hardcover

From PEN/America Award winner, 2021 Guggenheim fellow, and beloved literary and tarot icon Michelle… read more

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  • parenting
  • biography
  • memoir
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • adult
  • audiobook
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19. The Nursery

By: Szilvia Molnar

3.78

Format: 208 pages, Hardcover

Um casal que vive em Nova York, uma gravidez, o nascimento da primeira filha. O enredo poderia ser … read more

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  • adult
  • parenting
  • audiobook
"I want you as much as I fear you"

-Szilvia Molnar, The Nursery

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20. Oh My Mother!: A Memoir in Nine Adventures

By: Connie Wang

3.70

Format: 240 pages, Hardcover

"Hilarious, candid, and heartfelt . . . It's like Eat Pray Love meets The Amazing Race with hints o… read more

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  • biography
  • memoir
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • essays
  • audiobook
Cover of Hollywood's Eve: Eve Babitz and the Secret History of L.A. by Lili Anolik

21. Hollywood's Eve: Eve Babitz and the Secret History of L.A.

By: Lili Anolik

3.58

Format: 288 pages, Hardcover

Los Angeles in the 1960s and 70s was the pop culture capital of the world—a movie factory, a music … read more

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  • biography
  • memoir
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • womens
  • audiobook
Cover of Like a Mother: A Feminist Journey Through the Science and Culture of Pregnancy by Angela Garbes

22. Like a Mother: A Feminist Journey Through the Science and Culture of Pregnancy

By: Angela Garbes

4.22

Format: 256 pages, ebook

What to read after What to Expect . . . . A badass, feminist, and personal deep-dive into the scie… read more

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  • parenting
  • memoir
  • feminism
  • nonfiction
  • womens
  • adult
  • audiobook
"The origins of the placenta can be traced back to a virus."

-Angela Garbes, Like a Mother: A Feminist Journey Through the Science and Culture of Pregnancy

"Her enthusiasm for the organ is contagious. Enough to convince you that the alphabet posters in kindergarten classrooms should declare that "P" is for 'placenta'..."

-Angela Garbes, Like a Mother: A Feminist Journey Through the Science and Culture of Pregnancy

"The foundation of the female pelvis is composed of two hip bones, which come together to form a deep bowl that is filled by the uterus, ovaries, bladder, urethra, vagina, and colon."

-Angela Garbes, Like a Mother: A Feminist Journey Through the Science and Culture of Pregnancy

"Throughout pregnancy, I liked to lie in bed and imagine all the changes happening inside me: cells splitting, fingernails and eyelashes growing, veins spreading, brain and gray matter forming and fol…"

-Angela Garbes, Like a Mother: A Feminist Journey Through the Science and Culture of Pregnancy

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23. No One Tells You This

By: Glynnis MacNicol

3.91

Format: 294 pages, Hardcover

If the story doesn’t end with marriage or a child, what then?This question plagued Glynnis MacNicol… read more

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  • biography
  • memoir
  • feminism
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • womens
  • audiobook
"We're always drawn to the clearest articulation of what we think we lack."

-Glynnis MacNicol, No One Tells You This

"And I knew the simple act of reading would give my mind a certain sort of peace nothing else could."

-Glynnis MacNicol, No One Tells You This

"We're the first generation that can make enough of our own money to live the way we want. I feel like we have a responsibility to figure out what this means."

-Glynnis MacNicol, No One Tells You This

"This is why people have babies...because it's exhausting not to know what you're supposed to do next. A baby is basically a nonnegotiable map for the next two decades."

-Glynnis MacNicol, No One Tells You This

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24. The Baby Decision: How to Make the Most Important Choice of Your Life

By: Merle Bombardieri

4.22

Format: 352 pages, Kindle Edition

“A Warmly Empathic, Wide-Ranging Manual” – Kirkus Reviews"This valuable unbiased book skillfully sh… read more

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  • feminism
  • nonfiction
  • parenting
  • audiobook
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25. Reproduction

By: Louisa Hall

3.82

Format: 224 pages, Hardcover

A lucid, genre-defying novel that explores the surreality of pregnancy, childbirth, and motherhood … read more

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  • feminism
  • adult
  • parenting
  • audiobook
Cover of Enough About the Baby: A Brutally Honest Guide to Surviving the First Year of Motherhood by Becky Vieira

26. Enough About the Baby: A Brutally Honest Guide to Surviving the First Year of Motherhood

By: Becky Vieira

3.90

Format: 336 pages, Paperback

An unapologetic guide to the first year of motherhood, Enough About the Baby is a newborn book for … read more

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  • parenting
  • memoir
  • nonfiction
  • adult
  • audiobook
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27. The Golden State

By: Lydia Kiesling

3.68

Format: 304 pages, Hardcover

In Lydia Kiesling’s razor-sharp debut novel, The Golden State, we accompany Daphne, a young mother … read more

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  • womens
  • parenting
  • audiobook
"It’s not very comforting,"

-Lydia Kiesling, The Golden State

"...motherhood is not a house you live in but a warren of beautiful rooms, something like Topkapi … some well-trod but magnificent place you’re only allowed to sit in for a minute and snap a photo bef…"

-Lydia Kiesling, The Golden State

"The drive is supposed to take six and a half hours but somehow we have been on the road for eight when we come to the wooden sign sunk into grass that signifies the entrance to Deakins Park, and alth…"

-Lydia Kiesling, The Golden State

Cover of And Now We Have Everything: On Motherhood Before I Was Ready by Meaghan O'Connell

28. And Now We Have Everything: On Motherhood Before I Was Ready

By: Meaghan O'Connell

3.92

Format: 240 pages, Hardcover

And Now We Have Everything is O'Connell's exploration of transitioning into motherhood as a fledgli… read more

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  • parenting
  • biography
  • memoir
  • feminism
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • essays
  • womens
  • adult
  • audiobook
"I don't want to be a mother. I want to be a writer. I want to be taken seriously. I want money. I want more time. I want to lose weight. I want to be beautiful. I want a day completely to myself, tho…"

-Meaghan O'Connell, And Now We Have Everything: On Motherhood Before I Was Ready

"I didn’t know before that when parents talked about 'checking on' their children, they meant checking to make sure they weren’t dead. And when they talked about their love for their children, maybe t…"

-Meaghan O'Connell, And Now We Have Everything: On Motherhood Before I Was Ready

"Who wanted to be a mother, anyway? Mom called to mind a relationship with someone, not an individual...There was no mother I wanted to be. I wanted to be myself, but better...To me, this was what a m…"

-Meaghan O'Connell, And Now We Have Everything: On Motherhood Before I Was Ready

Cover of The Nurture Revolution: Grow Your Baby’s Brain and Transform Their Mental Health through the Art of Nurtured Parenting by Greer Kirshenbaum

29. The Nurture Revolution: Grow Your Baby’s Brain and Transform Their Mental Health through the Art of Nurtured Parenting

By: Greer Kirshenbaum

4.45

Format: 336 pages, Hardcover

The latest research in neuroscience and parenting come together in this groundbreaking book, which … read more

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  • nonfiction
  • parenting
  • audiobook
Cover of How to Care for a Human Girl by Ashley Wurzbacher

30. How to Care for a Human Girl

By: Ashley Wurzbacher

3.43

Format: 352 pages, Hardcover

From “a writer at the top of her game” ( The New York Times ) comes a bighearted and sharply funny … read more

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  • adult
  • audiobook
Cover of Rebirth: The Journey of Pregnancy After a Loss by Joey Miller MSW  LCSW

31. Rebirth: The Journey of Pregnancy After a Loss

By: Joey Miller MSW LCSW

4.28

Format: 288 pages, Paperback

From an expert counselor, a compassionate, comprehensive guide to healing, conception, and pregnanc… read more

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  • parenting

8 Best womens books like And Now We Have Everything: On Motherhood Before I Was Ready by Meaghan O'Connell

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A Life's Work: On Becoming a Mother

Rachel Cusk

4.57

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Screaming on the Inside: The Unsustainability of American Motherhood

Jessica Grose

3.48

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Unwifeable: A Memoir

Mandy Stadtmiller

3.58

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Hollywood's Eve: Eve Babitz and the Secret History of L.A.

Lili Anolik

3.58

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Golda Meir

4.04

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Natalie: A Memoir by Her Sister

Lana Wood , Lana Wood

4.26

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The Butterfly Mosque: A Young American Woman's Journey to Love and Islam

G. Willow Wilson

4.12

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Monique and the Mango Rains: Two Years with a Midwife in Mali

John Bidwell , Kris Holloway

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