13 Best queer books like Sexed Up: How Society Sexualizes Us, and How We Can Fight Back by Julia Serano

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Sexed Up: How Society Sexualizes Us, and How We Can Fight Back

By: Julia Serano

4.25

Format: 320 pages, Hardcover

The author of landmark manifesto  Whipping Girl  exposes the violent ways we are all sexualized–the…

"In other words, sexualization is a more general tactic to delegitimize and dehumanize people. This helps to explain why there is often so much shame, reluctance, and secrecy surrounding discussions of sexuality, as even broaching the subject can lead a person to become stigmatized."

-Julia Serano, Sexed Up: How Society Sexualizes Us, and How We Can Fight Back

"However, the answer "Some people simply are transgender" doesn't seem to satisfy certain people, so they may feel compelled to seek out some kind of alternative explanation. Once again, this isn't the result of pure curiosity- after all, we don't actually understand why most people turn out to be cisgender, yet very few people ever inquire about that outcome!"

-Julia Serano, Sexed Up: How Society Sexualizes Us, and How We Can Fight Back

If you liked the queer plot in Sexed Up: How Society Sexualizes Us, and How We Can Fight Back by Julia Serano , here is a list of 13 books like this:

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1. Conflict Is Not Abuse: Overstating Harm, Community Responsibility, and the Duty of Repair

By: Sarah Schulman

3.74

Format: 336 pages, Paperback

From intimate relationships to global politics, Sarah Schulman observes a continuum: that inflated … read more

Similar categories in Sarah Schulman's Conflict Is Not Abuse: Overstating Harm, Community Responsibility, and the Duty of Repair book and Julia Serano's Sexed Up: How Society Sexualizes Us, and How We Can Fight Back

  • feminism
  • politics
  • nonfiction
  • social justice
  • queer
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2. Infect Your Friends and Loved Ones

By: Torrey Peters

4.12

Format: None pages,

In the future, everyone will be trans. So says Lexi. She's a charismatic trans woman furious with t… read more

Similar categories in Torrey Peters's Infect Your Friends and Loved Ones book and Julia Serano's Sexed Up: How Society Sexualizes Us, and How We Can Fight Back

  • queer
  • transgender
  • lgbt
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3. Feminism is for Everybody: Passionate Politics

By: bell hooks

4.18

Format: None pages,

Acclaimed cultural critic bell hooks offers an open-hearted and welcoming vision of gender, sexuali… read more

Similar categories in bell hooks's Feminism is for Everybody: Passionate Politics book and Julia Serano's Sexed Up: How Society Sexualizes Us, and How We Can Fight Back

  • feminism
  • politics
  • gender
  • nonfiction
  • social justice
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4. A Safe Girl to Love

By: Casey Plett

4.07

Format: 242 pages, Paperback

Eleven unique short stories that stretch from a rural Canadian Mennonite town to a hipster gay bar … read more

Similar categories in Casey Plett's A Safe Girl to Love book and Julia Serano's Sexed Up: How Society Sexualizes Us, and How We Can Fight Back

  • gender
  • queer
  • transgender
  • lgbt
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5. Gender Outlaw: On Men, Women and the Rest of Us

By: Kate Bornstein

4.33

Format: None pages, Paperback

Part coming-of-age story, part mind-altering manifesto on gender and sexuality, coming directly to … read more

Similar categories in Kate Bornstein's Gender Outlaw: On Men, Women and the Rest of Us book and Julia Serano's Sexed Up: How Society Sexualizes Us, and How We Can Fight Back

  • transgender
  • lgbt
  • feminism
  • gender
  • nonfiction
  • queer
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6. Delusions of Gender: How Our Minds, Society, and Neurosexism Create Difference

By: Cordelia Fine

4.22

Format: 72 pages, Hardcover

It's the twenty-first century, and although we tried to rear unisex children--boys who play with do… read more

Similar categories in Cordelia Fine's Delusions of Gender: How Our Minds, Society, and Neurosexism Create Difference book and Julia Serano's Sexed Up: How Society Sexualizes Us, and How We Can Fight Back

  • feminism
  • gender
  • nonfiction
  • sociology

7. The Will to Change: Men, Masculinity, and Love

By: bell hooks

3.90

Format: 256 pages, Paperback

Everyone needs to love and be loved -- even men. But to know love, men must be able to look at the … read more

Similar categories in bell hooks's The Will to Change: Men, Masculinity, and Love book and Julia Serano's Sexed Up: How Society Sexualizes Us, and How We Can Fight Back

8. How Can I Get Through to You? Closing the Intimacy Gap Between Men and Women

By: Terrence Real

4.36

Format: 209 pages, Paperback

"What happened to the passion we started with? Why aren't we as close as we used to be?" PROBLEM:If… read more

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9. Female Masculinity

By: J. Jack Halberstam

3.73

Format: None pages, Paperback

Masculinity without men. In Female Masculinity Jack Halberstam takes aim at the protected status of… read more

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10. Seeing Like a State: How Certain Schemes to Improve the Human Condition Have Failed

By: James C. Scott

4.20

Format: 461 pages, Paperback

Compulsory ujamaa villages in Tanzania, collectivization in Russia, Le Corbusier’s urban planning t… read more

Similar categories in James C. Scott's Seeing Like a State: How Certain Schemes to Improve the Human Condition Have Failed book and Julia Serano's Sexed Up: How Society Sexualizes Us, and How We Can Fight Back

  • nonfiction
  • sociology
"An urban space where the police are the sole agents of order is a very dangerous place."

-James C. Scott, Seeing Like a State: How Certain Schemes to Improve the Human Condition Have Failed

"Just as the general design of the city militates against an autonomous public life, so the design of the residential city militates against individuality."

-James C. Scott, Seeing Like a State: How Certain Schemes to Improve the Human Condition Have Failed

"The authorized histories of revolutions, as Milovan Djilas points out, “describe the revolution as if it were the fruit of the previously planned action of its leaders."

-James C. Scott, Seeing Like a State: How Certain Schemes to Improve the Human Condition Have Failed

"After seizing state power, the victors have a powerful interest in moving the revolution out of the streets and into the museums and schoolbooks as quick as possible, lest the people decide to repeat…"

-James C. Scott, Seeing Like a State: How Certain Schemes to Improve the Human Condition Have Failed

11. Transgender History

By: Susan Stryker

3.96

Format: 236 pages, Paperback

Covering American transgender history from the mid-twentieth century to today, Transgender Historyt… read more

Similar categories in Susan Stryker's Transgender History book and Julia Serano's Sexed Up: How Society Sexualizes Us, and How We Can Fight Back

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12. Before We Were Trans: A New History of Gender

By: Kit Heyam

4.30

Format: 343 pages, Hardcover

A groundbreaking global history of gender nonconformity   Today’s narratives about trans people … read more

Similar categories in Kit Heyam's Before We Were Trans: A New History of Gender book and Julia Serano's Sexed Up: How Society Sexualizes Us, and How We Can Fight Back

  • transgender
  • lgbt
  • gender
  • nonfiction
  • queer
"It’s not as simple as saying that ‘while the terminology is new, the experiences are not.’ The advent of new terminology can genuinely shift how we think about gender, as well as what names we give t…"

-Kit Heyam, Before We Were Trans: A New History of Gender

"It's important that we, as historians or as queer people, don't treat gender and sexuality as two things that use to be entangled but have now been teased apart. There can be a tendency in white quee…"

-Kit Heyam, Before We Were Trans: A New History of Gender

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13. Nevada

By: Imogen Binnie

3.97

Format: 290 pages, Paperback

A beloved and blistering cult classic and finalist for the Lambda Literary Award for Transgender Fi… read more

Similar categories in Imogen Binnie's Nevada book and Julia Serano's Sexed Up: How Society Sexualizes Us, and How We Can Fight Back

  • gender
  • queer
  • transgender
  • lgbt
"James does what anybody would do when they see somebody they'd like to know: he ignores the shit out of her."

-Imogen Binnie, Nevada

"It's like I got drunk all the time not because I'm a total addict but because it was a coping mechanism to deal with being unhappy"

-Imogen Binnie, Nevada

"Oh, Williamsburg. There was a point when you seemed like a scary, tough neighborhood, but now it's obvious that the graffiti on your walls gets put there by art students."

-Imogen Binnie, Nevada

"Eventually you can't help but figure out that, while gender is a construct, so is a traffic light, and if you ignore either of them, you get hit by cars. Which, also, are constructs."

-Imogen Binnie, Nevada

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14. A Dream of a Woman

By: Casey Plett

4.31

Format: 279 pages, Paperback

Casey Plett's 2018 novel Little Fish won a Lambda Literary Award, the Firecracker Award for Fiction… read more

Similar categories in Casey Plett's A Dream of a Woman book and Julia Serano's Sexed Up: How Society Sexualizes Us, and How We Can Fight Back

  • queer
  • transgender
  • lgbt
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15. Who's Afraid of Gender?

By: Judith Butler

4.02

Format: 320 pages, Hardcover

From a global icon, a bold, essential account of how a fear of gender is fueling reactionary politi… read more

Similar categories in Judith Butler's Who's Afraid of Gender? book and Julia Serano's Sexed Up: How Society Sexualizes Us, and How We Can Fight Back

  • lgbt
  • feminism
  • politics
  • gender
  • nonfiction
  • sociology
  • queer
"Imagine if you were Jewish and someone tells you that you are not. Imagine if you are lesbian and someone laughs in your face and says you are confused since you are really heterosexual. Imagine if y…"

-Judith Butler, Who's Afraid of Gender?

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16. Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture

By: Sherronda J. Brown

4.53

Format: 240 pages, Paperback

For readers of Ace and Belly of the Beast: A Black queer feminist exploration of asexuality—and an … read more

Similar categories in Sherronda J. Brown's Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture book and Julia Serano's Sexed Up: How Society Sexualizes Us, and How We Can Fight Back

  • lgbt
  • feminism
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • queer
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17. A Short History of Trans Misogyny

By: Jules Gill-Peterson

4.47

Format: 182 pages, Hardcover

An accessible, bold new vision for the future of intersectional trans feminism, called "one of the … read more

Similar categories in Jules Gill-Peterson's A Short History of Trans Misogyny book and Julia Serano's Sexed Up: How Society Sexualizes Us, and How We Can Fight Back

  • transgender
  • lgbt
  • feminism
  • politics
  • gender
  • nonfiction
  • queer
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18. Females

By: Andrea Long Chu

3.59

Format: 106 pages, Paperback

Everyone is female "When I say that everyone is female, I mean very simply that everyone wants to b… read more

Similar categories in Andrea Long Chu's Females book and Julia Serano's Sexed Up: How Society Sexualizes Us, and How We Can Fight Back

  • transgender
  • lgbt
  • feminism
  • gender
  • nonfiction
  • queer
"Femaleness is a universal sex defined by self-negation, against which all politics, even feminist politics, rebels. Put more simply: Everyone is female, and everyone hates it."

-Andrea Long Chu, Females

"Gender is not just the misogynistic expectations a female internalizes but also the process of internalizing itself, the self's gentle suicide in the name of someone else's desires, someone else's na…"

-Andrea Long Chu, Females

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19. Vagina Obscura: An Anatomical Voyage

By: Rachel E. Gross

4.42

Format: 336 pages, Hardcover

A scientific journey to the center of the new female body. The Latin term for the female genital… read more

Similar categories in Rachel E. Gross's Vagina Obscura: An Anatomical Voyage book and Julia Serano's Sexed Up: How Society Sexualizes Us, and How We Can Fight Back

  • feminism
  • nonfiction
"Medicine is supposed to be unbiased," she says. "But when we look at the bigger picture of it, we can see that it is far from that."

-Rachel E. Gross, Vagina Obscura: An Anatomical Voyage

"Darwin's attitudes toward women were a direct outgrowth of his ideas about other animals—or, rather, each reinforced the other. Throughout his career, he insisted that female animals were less capabl…"

-Rachel E. Gross, Vagina Obscura: An Anatomical Voyage

"Your vagina is another planet. If you could shrink down to the size of a grain of sand and go between your own legs, you'd find a wondrous realm of humid jungles, cool caves, and viscous pits of mucu…"

-Rachel E. Gross, Vagina Obscura: An Anatomical Voyage

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20. The Tragedy of Heterosexuality

By: Jane Ward

4.16

Format: 216 pages, Hardcover

A troubling account of heterosexual desire in the era of #MeToo Heterosexuality is in crisis. Re… read more

Similar categories in Jane Ward's The Tragedy of Heterosexuality book and Julia Serano's Sexed Up: How Society Sexualizes Us, and How We Can Fight Back

  • lgbt
  • feminism
  • gender
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • sociology
  • queer
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21. Sexed Up: How Society Sexualizes Us, and How We Can Fight Back

By: Julia Serano

4.25

Format: 320 pages, Hardcover

The author of landmark manifesto  Whipping Girl  exposes the violent ways we are all sexualized–the… read more

Similar categories in Julia Serano's Sexed Up: How Society Sexualizes Us, and How We Can Fight Back book and Julia Serano's Sexed Up: How Society Sexualizes Us, and How We Can Fight Back

  • transgender
  • lgbt
  • feminism
  • politics
  • gender
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • social justice
  • sociology
  • queer
"In other words, sexualization is a more general tactic to delegitimize and dehumanize people. This helps to explain why there is often so much shame, reluctance, and secrecy surrounding discussions o…"

-Julia Serano, Sexed Up: How Society Sexualizes Us, and How We Can Fight Back

"However, the answer "Some people simply are transgender" doesn't seem to satisfy certain people, so they may feel compelled to seek out some kind of alternative explanation. Once again, this isn't th…"

-Julia Serano, Sexed Up: How Society Sexualizes Us, and How We Can Fight Back

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Judith Butler

4.02

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