5 Top essays books like Dear Memory: Letters on Writing, Silence and Grief by Victoria Chang

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Dear Memory: Letters on Writing, Silence and Grief

By: Victoria Chang

4.50

Format: 136 pages, Hardcover

A collection of literary letters and mementos on the art of remembering across generations. For …

"My mother did so much for me. What I returned to her were empty containers."

-Victoria Chang, Dear Memory: Letters on Writing, Silence and Grief

"My mother did so much for me. What I returned to her were empty containers."

-Victoria Chang, Dear Memory: Letters on Writing, Silence and Grief

"If you saw my poems today, I hope you could see that I heard you even though you couldn't hear me. I have tried to write shorter + shorter + denser + denser + louder + louder poems. They have become so loud that each night I fold them into origamic cigarettes and smoke them so they'll blow away."

-Victoria Chang, Dear Memory: Letters on Writing, Silence and Grief

"If you saw my poems today, I hope you could see that I heard you even though you couldn't hear me. I have tried to write shorter + shorter + denser + denser + louder + louder poems. They have become so loud that each night I fold them into origamic cigarettes and smoke them so they'll blow away."

-Victoria Chang, Dear Memory: Letters on Writing, Silence and Grief

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1. When I Grow Up I Want to Be a List of Further Possibilities

By: Jericho Brown , None , Chen Chen

4.26

Format: 96 pages, Paperback

In this ferocious and tender debut, Chen Chen investigates inherited forms of love and family—the s… read more

Similar categories in Jericho Brown's When I Grow Up I Want to Be a List of Further Possibilities book and Victoria Chang's Dear Memory: Letters on Writing, Silence and Grief

  • asian literature
  • poetry
  • nonfiction
"What is it, to remember nothing, of what one loved?"

-Jericho Brown, When I Grow Up I Want to Be a List of Further Possibilities

"But sometimes no one said anything & I saw him, the local paper boy on his route. His beanstalk frame & fragile bicycle. & I knew: we would be so terribly happy."

-Jericho Brown, When I Grow Up I Want to Be a List of Further Possibilities

"My mother was in the hospital & everyone wanted to be my friend. But I was busy making a list: good dog, bad citizen, short skeleton, tall mocha. Typical Tuesday. My mother was in the hospital & no o…"

-Jericho Brown, When I Grow Up I Want to Be a List of Further Possibilities

2. Ongoingness: The End of a Diary

By: Sarah Manguso

3.98

Format: None pages, Hardcover

"[Manguso] has written the memoir we didn't realize we needed." --The New Yorker In Ongoingness, Sa… read more

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3. Dictee

By: Theresa Hak Kyung Cha

4.57

Format: None pages, Paperback

Dictee is the best-known work of the versatile and important Korean American artist Theresa Hak Kyu… read more

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4. A Horse at Night: On Writing

By: Amina Cain

4.03

Format: 136 pages, Paperback

A virtuosic meditation on literature and life in the tradition of Virginia Woolf’s A Room of One’s … read more

Similar categories in Amina Cain's A Horse at Night: On Writing book and Victoria Chang's Dear Memory: Letters on Writing, Silence and Grief

  • nonfiction
  • memoir
  • essays
  • writing
"For me, fiction is a space of plainness and excess."

-Amina Cain, A Horse at Night: On Writing

"Female solitude is weighted with a particular power in literature."

-Amina Cain, A Horse at Night: On Writing

"I want to leave a chain of images that remain in the reader's mind. I want to write what heightened experience feels like."

-Amina Cain, A Horse at Night: On Writing

"Perhaps solitude is a practice as much as an instinct, its pleasures very much contextual. Sometimes being alone is terrible."

-Amina Cain, A Horse at Night: On Writing

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5. frank: sonnets

By: Diane Seuss

4.50

Format: 137 pages, Paperback

WINNER OF THE 2022 PULITZER PRIZE IN POETRY WINNER OF THE 2021 NATIONAL BOOK CRITICS CIRCLE AWARD … read more

Similar categories in Diane Seuss's frank: sonnets book and Victoria Chang's Dear Memory: Letters on Writing, Silence and Grief

  • poetry
  • nonfiction
  • memoir
"I saw a little movie of a person stroking a small bird with two Q-tips, one held between the forefinger and thumb of each hand. It tipped back its head to receive the minor tenderness, which to the b…"

-Diane Seuss, frank: sonnets

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6. Pilgrim Bell: Poems

By: Kaveh Akbar

4.24

Format: 80 pages, Paperback

Kaveh Akbar’s exquisite, highly anticipated follow-up to Calling a Wolf a Wolf. With formal virtuos… read more

Similar categories in Kaveh Akbar's Pilgrim Bell: Poems book and Victoria Chang's Dear Memory: Letters on Writing, Silence and Grief

  • poetry
  • nonfiction
"Wrath is the desire to repay what you've suffered."

-Kaveh Akbar, Pilgrim Bell: Poems

"Whatever I learn makes me angry to have learned it."

-Kaveh Akbar, Pilgrim Bell: Poems

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7. The World Keeps Ending, and the World Goes On

By: Franny Choi

3.99

Format: 144 pages, Hardcover

From acclaimed poet Franny Choi comes a poetry collection for the ends of worlds--past, present, an… read more

Similar categories in Franny Choi's The World Keeps Ending, and the World Goes On book and Victoria Chang's Dear Memory: Letters on Writing, Silence and Grief

  • asian literature
  • poetry
"I have last year's ashes in my throat, stories stuffed so full of morals they bleed sugar."

-Franny Choi, The World Keeps Ending, and the World Goes On

"How can I explain the things and things and things I did wrong? I was never any good at telling the difference between what wanted me and what wanted me gone"

-Franny Choi, The World Keeps Ending, and the World Goes On

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8. The Hurting Kind: Poems

By: Ada Limon

4.34

Format: 120 pages, Hardcover

An astonishing collection about interconnectedness—between the human and nonhuman, ancestors and ou… read more

Similar categories in Ada Limon's The Hurting Kind: Poems book and Victoria Chang's Dear Memory: Letters on Writing, Silence and Grief

  • poetry
  • nonfiction
"There is a solitude in this world I cannot pierce. I would die for it."

-Ada Limon, The Hurting Kind: Poems

"Before, the only thing I was interested in was love, how it grips you, how it terrifies you, how it annihilates and resuscitates you. I didn’t know then that it wasn’t even love that I was interested…"

-Ada Limon, The Hurting Kind: Poems

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9. All the Flowers Kneeling (Penguin Poets)

By: Paul Tran

3.87

Format: 112 pages, Paperback

A profound meditation on physical, emotional, and psychological transformation in the aftermath of … read more

Similar categories in Paul Tran's All the Flowers Kneeling (Penguin Poets) book and Victoria Chang's Dear Memory: Letters on Writing, Silence and Grief

  • poetry
  • nonfiction
"There is no truth. Only a version. Aversion. A verge. A vengeance."

-Paul Tran, All the Flowers Kneeling (Penguin Poets)

"I see not stars but their light reaching across the distance between us."

-Paul Tran, All the Flowers Kneeling (Penguin Poets)

"I, after so much isolation, so much indifference, kept going even if going meant only waiting, hovering in place. So far below, so far away from the rest of life...."

-Paul Tran, All the Flowers Kneeling (Penguin Poets)

"...an actualized poem requires the actualization, or radical transformation, of the poet - that a poem is the discovery and enactment of an emotional and psychological investigation into the vexed in…"

-Paul Tran, All the Flowers Kneeling (Penguin Poets)

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10. Bluest Nude: Poems

By: Ama Codjoe

4.48

Format: 120 pages, Paperback

Finalist for the NAACP Image Award for Outstanding Literary Work Ama Codjoe’s highly anticipated de… read more

Similar categories in Ama Codjoe's Bluest Nude: Poems book and Victoria Chang's Dear Memory: Letters on Writing, Silence and Grief

  • poetry
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11. Body Work: The Radical Power of Personal Narrative

By: Melissa Febos

4.24

Format: 171 pages, Paperback

Memoir meets craft masterclass in this “daring, honest, psychologically insightful” exploration of … read more

Similar categories in Melissa Febos's Body Work: The Radical Power of Personal Narrative book and Victoria Chang's Dear Memory: Letters on Writing, Silence and Grief

  • nonfiction
  • memoir
  • essays
  • writing
"Writing is a form of freedom more accessible than many"

-Melissa Febos, Body Work: The Radical Power of Personal Narrative

"...The more we believe we ought to be something that we are not, the more money we will spend in that mission."

-Melissa Febos, Body Work: The Radical Power of Personal Narrative

"Every single thing I have created worth a damn has been a practice of love, healing, and redemption. I know this process to be divine."

-Melissa Febos, Body Work: The Radical Power of Personal Narrative

"I have found that a fulfilling writing life is one in which the creative process merges with the other necessary processes of good living, which only the individual can define."

-Melissa Febos, Body Work: The Radical Power of Personal Narrative

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12. The Crying Book

By: Heather Christle

3.80

Format: 208 pages, Paperback

Award-winning poet Heather Christle has just lost a dear friend to suicide and must reckon with her… read more

Similar categories in Heather Christle's The Crying Book book and Victoria Chang's Dear Memory: Letters on Writing, Silence and Grief

  • poetry
  • nonfiction
  • memoir
  • essays
"Tears are a sign of powerlessness, a "woman's weapon." It has been a long war."

-Heather Christle, The Crying Book

"Almost all my understanding is from books...Sometimes it seems there are more pages in me than breaths."

-Heather Christle, The Crying Book

"Some people think of reading poems and stories as a way to practice responding to imagined circumstances, without having to risk dangers of real life."

-Heather Christle, The Crying Book

"They say perhaps we cry when language fails, when words can no longer adequately convey our hurt. When my crying is not wordless enough I beat my head with my fists."

-Heather Christle, The Crying Book

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13. Modern Poetry: Poems

By: Diane Seuss

4.53

Format: 112 pages, Hardcover

Diane Seuss’s signature voice―audacious in its honesty, virtuosic in its artistry, outsider in its … read more

Similar categories in Diane Seuss's Modern Poetry: Poems book and Victoria Chang's Dear Memory: Letters on Writing, Silence and Grief

  • poetry
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14. Customs: Poems

By: Solmaz Sharif

4.21

Format: 86 pages, Paperback

In Customs , Solmaz Sharif examines what it means to exist in the nowhere of the arrivals terminal,… read more

Similar categories in Solmaz Sharif's Customs: Poems book and Victoria Chang's Dear Memory: Letters on Writing, Silence and Grief

  • poetry
  • womens
  • nonfiction
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15. Soft Science

By: Franny Choi

3.93

Format: 100 pages, Paperback

Soft Science explores queer, Asian American femininity. A series of Turing Test-inspired poems grou… read more

Similar categories in Franny Choi's Soft Science book and Victoria Chang's Dear Memory: Letters on Writing, Silence and Grief

  • asian literature
  • poetry
"having been hurt before"

-Franny Choi, Soft Science

"fiended; fell for another"

-Franny Choi, Soft Science

"it's too late to stop smiling."

-Franny Choi, Soft Science

"shouldn't a god have blood to lose"

-Franny Choi, Soft Science

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16. You Are Here: Poetry in the Natural World

By: Ada Limon

4.11

Format: 176 pages, Hardcover

Published association  with the Library of Congress and edited by the twenty-fourth Poet Laureate o… read more

Similar categories in Ada Limon's You Are Here: Poetry in the Natural World book and Victoria Chang's Dear Memory: Letters on Writing, Silence and Grief

  • poetry
  • nonfiction
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17. Your Emergency Contact Has Experienced an Emergency

By: Chen Chen

4.15

Format: 128 pages, Paperback

What happens when everything falls away, when those you call on in times of need are themselves cal… read more

Similar categories in Chen Chen's Your Emergency Contact Has Experienced an Emergency book and Victoria Chang's Dear Memory: Letters on Writing, Silence and Grief

  • asian literature
  • poetry
"If we could communicate fully, there would be no need to communicate. If we could love perfectly, there would be no need to love. If we could finish grieving, there would be no need to live. If we co…"

-Chen Chen, Your Emergency Contact Has Experienced an Emergency

"You climb back in bed & touch my face. You climb back in bed to touch my face. You wrap your arms around me & it’s like you’re the patron saint if touch as well as soft sunlight & soothed dogs. Or yo…"

-Chen Chen, Your Emergency Contact Has Experienced an Emergency

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18. DMZ Colony

By: Don Mee Choi

4.31

Format: 128 pages, Hardcover

Woven from poems, prose, photographs, and drawings, Don Mee Choi's DMZ Colony is a tour de force of… read more

Similar categories in Don Mee Choi's DMZ Colony book and Victoria Chang's Dear Memory: Letters on Writing, Silence and Grief

  • poetry
  • memoir
  • nonfiction
  • essays
  • asian literature
"It can take billions of years for light to reach us through the galaxies, which is to say, History is ever arriving. So it's most likely that the decision, seemingly all mine, was already made years …"

-Don Mee Choi, DMZ Colony

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19. Ghost Of

By: Diana Khoi Nguyen

4.36

Format: 88 pages, Paperback

Ghost Of elegizes a brother lost via suicide, is a mourning song for the idea of family, a family h… read more

Similar categories in Diana Khoi Nguyen's Ghost Of book and Victoria Chang's Dear Memory: Letters on Writing, Silence and Grief

  • poetry
  • memoir
  • nonfiction
  • family
  • asian literature
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20. Guillotine: Poems

By: Eduardo C. Corral

4.34

Format: 72 pages, Paperback

The astonishing second collection by the author of Slow Lightning, winner of the Yale Younger Poets… read more

Similar categories in Eduardo C. Corral's Guillotine: Poems book and Victoria Chang's Dear Memory: Letters on Writing, Silence and Grief

  • poetry
  • nonfiction
Cover of Dear Memory: Letters on Writing, Silence and Grief by Victoria Chang

21. Dear Memory: Letters on Writing, Silence and Grief

By: Victoria Chang

4.50

Format: 136 pages, Hardcover

A collection of literary letters and mementos on the art of remembering across generations. For … read more

Similar categories in Victoria Chang's Dear Memory: Letters on Writing, Silence and Grief book and Victoria Chang's Dear Memory: Letters on Writing, Silence and Grief

  • poetry
  • biography
  • memoir
  • research
  • nonfiction
  • essays
  • writing
  • asian literature
  • womens
  • family
"My mother did so much for me. What I returned to her were empty containers."

-Victoria Chang, Dear Memory: Letters on Writing, Silence and Grief

"If you saw my poems today, I hope you could see that I heard you even though you couldn't hear me. I have tried to write shorter + shorter + denser + denser + louder + louder poems. They have become …"

-Victoria Chang, Dear Memory: Letters on Writing, Silence and Grief

"What's the rush?", you said about publishing. I added: "Does the world need another competent book of poems?" Most times, we wouldn't answer our own questions because what did we know? We only knew t…"

-Victoria Chang, Dear Memory: Letters on Writing, Silence and Grief

"Maybe I am staring into a piece of paper like it is a pond, hoping one day that what looks back is not my own reflection, but my great-grandmother's face. Maybe poetry is the distance between my face…"

-Victoria Chang, Dear Memory: Letters on Writing, Silence and Grief

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