15 best-selling nonfiction books like Hurts So Good: The Science and Culture of Pain on Purpose by Leigh Cowart

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Hurts So Good: The Science and Culture of Pain on Purpose

By: Leigh Cowart

4.09

Format: 237 pages, Hardcover

An exploration of why people all over the world love to engage in pain on purpose--from dominatrice…

If you liked the nonfiction plot in Hurts So Good: The Science and Culture of Pain on Purpose by Leigh Cowart , here is a list of 15 books like this:

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1. The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities

By: Dossie Easton , Catherine A. Liszt

3.93

Format: 280 pages, Paperback

The essential guide for singles and couples who want to explore polyamory in ways that are ethicall… read more

Similar categories in Dossie Easton's The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities book and Leigh Cowart's Hurts So Good: The Science and Culture of Pain on Purpose

  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • psychology
  • queer
"Nymphomaniac: a woamn that has more sex than you."

-Dossie Easton, The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities

"When you respect your limits, other will learn to respect them too."

-Dossie Easton, The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities

"A ring around the finger does not cause a nerve block to the genitals."

-Dossie Easton, The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities

"Fighting is the ultimate act of intimacy. (...) Intimacy is based on shared vulnerability."

-Dossie Easton, The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities

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2. The New Topping Book

By: Dossie Easton , Janet W. Hardy

3.74

Format: 410 pages,

Tens of thousands learned the emotional and ethical skills of BDSM topping from the first Topping B… read more

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  • psychology
  • nonfiction
  • bdsm
  • sexuality
  • queer
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3. The New Bottoming Book

By: Dossie Easton , Janet W. Hardy

3.82

Format: 254 pages, Paperback

Almost a decade ago, the first Bottoming Book taught tens of thousands of people that bottoming - b… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • bdsm
  • sexuality
  • queer
Cover of Venus in Furs by Leopold von Sacher-Masoch, Joachim Neugroschel, Larry Wolff

4. Venus in Furs

By: Leopold von Sacher-Masoch , Joachim Neugroschel , Larry Wolff

3.59

Format: 370 pages, Paperback

'Venus in Furs' describes the obsessions of Severin von Kusiemski, a European nobleman who desires … read more

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5. Conquer Me: Girl-To-Girl Wisdom About Fulfilling Your Submissive Desires

By: Jay Wiseman , None

3.62

Format: None pages, Paperback

Submissive women have needs just like anybody else. But how can a woman get her needs met when she'… read more

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6. Tiger, Tiger

By: Margaux Fragoso

4.28

Format: 120 pages,

This extraordinary memoir is an unprecedented glimpse into the psyche of a young girl in free fall … read more

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7. Frisk

By: Dennis Cooper

2.50

Format: None pages, Paperback

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8. An Immense World: How Animal Senses Reveal the Hidden Realms Around Us

By: Ed Yong

4.47

Format: 464 pages, Hardcover

A grand tour through the hidden realms of animal senses that will transform the way you perceive th… read more

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  • science
  • nonfiction
  • psychology
  • audiobook
"It's ironic that we associate taste with connoisseurship, subtlety, and fine discrimination when it is among the coarsest of senses."

-Ed Yong, An Immense World: How Animal Senses Reveal the Hidden Realms Around Us

"We are closer than ever to understanding what it is like to be another animal, but we have made it harder than ever for other animals to be."

-Ed Yong, An Immense World: How Animal Senses Reveal the Hidden Realms Around Us

"Earth teems with sights and textures, sounds and vibrations, smells and tastes, electric and magnetic fields. But every animal can only tap into a small fraction of realities fullness. Each is enclos…"

-Ed Yong, An Immense World: How Animal Senses Reveal the Hidden Realms Around Us

"A striking pattern emerged on days with the most intense solar storms, grey whales were 4 times more likely to beach themselves. This correlation doesn't prove that whales have a compass but it stron…"

-Ed Yong, An Immense World: How Animal Senses Reveal the Hidden Realms Around Us

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9. Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy

By: Jessica Fern

4.40

Format: 268 pages, Paperback

Attachment theory has entered the mainstream, but most discussions focus on how we can cultivate se… read more

Similar categories in Jessica Fern's Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy book and Leigh Cowart's Hurts So Good: The Science and Culture of Pain on Purpose

  • audiobook
  • psychology
  • sexuality
  • nonfiction
  • queer
"A child with a secure attachment style will likely grow up into an adult who feels worthy of love and seeks to create meaningful, healthy relationships with people who are physically and emotionally …"

-Jessica Fern, Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy

"Commitment can be expressed in many ways. Traditionally it is solidified through marriage, owning property, having kids or wearing certain types of jewelry, but legal, domestic, or ornamental underta…"

-Jessica Fern, Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy

"When someone with a dismissive style starts to work on healing their insecure attachment, they must begin by no longer dismissing and distancing from themselves. This requires that they no longer den…"

-Jessica Fern, Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy

"Approximately 15 to 20 percent of the population has a nervous system wired to be more sensitive. These people are more attuned to the subtleties of their environment and process that information muc…"

-Jessica Fern, Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy

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10. Amateur: A True Story About What Makes a Man

By: Thomas Page McBee

4.22

Format: 205 pages, Hardcover

Thomas McBee, a trans man, sets out to uncover what makes a man—and what being a “good” man even me… read more

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  • queer
  • nonfiction
  • memoir
  • audiobook
"Most of us experience gender conditioning so young—research shows it begins in infancy—that we misunderstand the relationship between nature and nurture, culture and biology, fitting in and being one…"

-Thomas Page McBee, Amateur: A True Story About What Makes a Man

"Boxing breaks many of the binaries that men are conditioned to believe about our bodies, our genders, ourselves. With its cover of 'realness' and violence, it provides room for what so many men lack:…"

-Thomas Page McBee, Amateur: A True Story About What Makes a Man

"I thought about the advantages thrown at me for an aesthetic that looked like a birthright. I thought about passing, and how it erased a part of me, and how hormones responded to context, and how rac…"

-Thomas Page McBee, Amateur: A True Story About What Makes a Man

"Millennial guys seemed, to the sociologists and anthropologists who studied them, to have attitudes toward women that portended a new era of equity—especially at work. But the reality was, indeed, fa…"

-Thomas Page McBee, Amateur: A True Story About What Makes a Man

Cover of Polywise: A Deeper Dive into Navigating Open Relationships by Jessica Fern

11. Polywise: A Deeper Dive into Navigating Open Relationships

By: Jessica Fern

4.38

Format: 336 pages, Paperback

As polyamory continues to make its way into the mainstream, more and more people are exploring cons… read more

Similar categories in Jessica Fern's Polywise: A Deeper Dive into Navigating Open Relationships book and Leigh Cowart's Hurts So Good: The Science and Culture of Pain on Purpose

  • audiobook
  • psychology
  • sexuality
  • nonfiction
  • queer
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12. Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto

By: Zachary Zane

3.82

Format: 240 pages, Hardcover

Named a Most Anticipated LGBTQ+ Book of the Year by Buzzfeed A sex and relationship columnist b… read more

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  • audiobook
  • memoir
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • queer
Cover of Nonmonogamy and Neurodiversity: A More Than Two Essentials Guide (3) by Alyssa Gonzalez

13. Nonmonogamy and Neurodiversity: A More Than Two Essentials Guide (3)

By: Alyssa Gonzalez

3.69

Format: 104 pages, Paperback

Too often, the neurodivergent community is marginalized, de-sexualized or patronized. Neurodivergen… read more

Similar categories in Alyssa Gonzalez's Nonmonogamy and Neurodiversity: A More Than Two Essentials Guide (3) book and Leigh Cowart's Hurts So Good: The Science and Culture of Pain on Purpose

  • nonfiction
  • queer
  • psychology
  • sexuality
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14. Any Person Is the Only Self: Essays

By: Elisa Gabbert

3.97

Format: 240 pages, Paperback

Contagiously curious essays on reading, art, and the life of the mind, from the acclaimed author of… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • psychology
  • audiobook
Cover of Hurts So Good: The Science and Culture of Pain on Purpose by Leigh Cowart

15. Hurts So Good: The Science and Culture of Pain on Purpose

By: Leigh Cowart

4.09

Format: 237 pages, Hardcover

An exploration of why people all over the world love to engage in pain on purpose--from dominatrice… read more

Similar categories in Leigh Cowart's Hurts So Good: The Science and Culture of Pain on Purpose book and Leigh Cowart's Hurts So Good: The Science and Culture of Pain on Purpose

  • audiobook
  • science
  • history
  • memoir
  • psychology
  • nonfiction
  • bdsm
  • sexuality
  • sociology
  • queer
Cover of How Sex Changed the Internet and the Internet Changed Sex: An Unexpected History by Samantha  Cole

16. How Sex Changed the Internet and the Internet Changed Sex: An Unexpected History

By: Samantha Cole

3.54

Format: 288 pages, Hardcover

From the moment there was an “online,” there was sex online. The famous test image used by software… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • history
  • sexuality
  • audiobook
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17. Cuckoo

By: Gretchen Felker-Martin

3.65

Format: 352 pages, Paperback

Cuckoo is a searing new novel from Manhunt author Gretchen Felker-Martin, where a motley crew of ki… read more

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  • queer
  • audiobook
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18. Somatics for Rope Bottoms: 12 embodied inquiries for transforming your experience in rope bondage

By: Bettina Hindes

4.65

Format: 144 pages, Paperback

In rope bondage, what we rope bottoms bring into play is our body, our emotions, our psyche, and so… read more

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  • nonfiction
Cover of Why Are People Into That?: A Cultural Investigation of Kink by Tina Horn

19. Why Are People Into That?: A Cultural Investigation of Kink

By: Tina Horn

4.13

Format: 320 pages, Hardcover

From a #1 Apple podcast host, Lambda Literary fellow, and former dominatrix, a sex-positive, judgem… read more

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  • audiobook
  • history
  • psychology
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • sociology
  • queer
Cover of Entwined: Essays on Polyamory and Creating Home by Alex Alberto

20. Entwined: Essays on Polyamory and Creating Home

By: Alex Alberto

4.51

Format: 280 pages, Paperback

In a series of genre-blending essays, Entwined tells the story of Alex Alberto’s decade-long polya… read more

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  • memoir
  • queer
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • audiobook

11 must-read audiobook books like Hurts So Good: The Science and Culture of Pain on Purpose by Leigh Cowart

Transform Your Habits

An Immense World: How Animal Senses Reveal the Hidden Realms Around Us

Ed Yong

4.47

Transform Your Habits

Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy

Jessica Fern

4.40

Transform Your Habits

Amateur: A True Story About What Makes a Man

Thomas Page McBee

4.22

Transform Your Habits

Polywise: A Deeper Dive into Navigating Open Relationships

Jessica Fern

4.38

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5 best-selling audiobook books like Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy by Jessica Fern

Transform Your Habits

More Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory

Tatiana Gill , Franklin Veaux , Eve Rickert , None

4.22

Transform Your Habits

Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life

Emily Nagoski

4.29

Transform Your Habits

Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy

Jessica Fern

4.40

Transform Your Habits

Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections

Emily Nagoski

4.14

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