14 must-read christian books like #ChurchToo: How Purity Culture Upholds Abuse and How to Find Healing by Emily Joy Allison

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#ChurchToo: How Purity Culture Upholds Abuse and How to Find Healing

By: Emily Joy Allison

4.35

Format: 195 pages, Paperback

When Emily Joy Allison outed her abuser on Twitter, she launched #ChurchToo, a movement to expose t…

If you liked the christian plot in #ChurchToo: How Purity Culture Upholds Abuse and How to Find Healing by Emily Joy Allison , here is a list of 14 books like this:

1. The Purity Myth: How America's Obsession with Virginity is Hurting Young Women

By: Jessica Valenti

4.53

Format: 288 pages, Hardcover

The United States is obsessed with virginity -- from the media to schools to government agencies. I… read more

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2. Jesus and John Wayne: How White Evangelicals Corrupted a Faith and Fractured a Nation

By: Kristin Kobes Du Mez

4.30

Format: 356 pages, Hardcover

A scholar of American Christianity presents a seventy-five-year history of evangelicalism that iden… read more

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3. The Making of Biblical Womanhood: How the Subjugation of Women Became Gospel Truth

By: Beth Allison Barr

4.40

Format: 245 pages, Paperback

Biblical womanhood--the belief that God designed women to be submissive wives, virtuous mothers, an… read more

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"Glorifying the past because we like the story better isn't history; it's propaganda."

-Beth Allison Barr, The Making of Biblical Womanhood: How the Subjugation of Women Became Gospel Truth

"When we differentiate women because of their sex, we objectify them and deny them their humanity."

-Beth Allison Barr, The Making of Biblical Womanhood: How the Subjugation of Women Became Gospel Truth

"Like racism, patriarchy is a shapeshifter—conforming to each new era, looking as if it has always belonged."

-Beth Allison Barr, The Making of Biblical Womanhood: How the Subjugation of Women Became Gospel Truth

"Historically, one of the greatest problems for women is that we do not remember our past and we do not work together to change our future. We do not stand together. But what if we did?"

-Beth Allison Barr, The Making of Biblical Womanhood: How the Subjugation of Women Became Gospel Truth

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4. The Woman They Wanted: Shattering the Illusion of the Good Christian Wife

By: Shannon Harris

3.77

Format: 244 pages, Hardcover

"No one is coming to rescue me. I am going to have to rescue me." As a twenty-three-year-old sin… read more

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"But the truth was that church was making me ill. Even the loveliest church in the world couldn't make up for the fact that I had had too much church. My body was rejecting Bible verses with the stren…"

-Shannon Harris, The Woman They Wanted: Shattering the Illusion of the Good Christian Wife

"...the hypocrisy of it all was too much to take. To have heard the words 'forgiveness' and 'grace' in hundreds of sermons, thousands of prayers, in every quote, every song, at every meeting and then …"

-Shannon Harris, The Woman They Wanted: Shattering the Illusion of the Good Christian Wife

"Religion carries with it great potential for good and for harm. It's humans that make it more complicated (and more certain) and heavier than it needs to be. Religion shouldn't be something heavy we …"

-Shannon Harris, The Woman They Wanted: Shattering the Illusion of the Good Christian Wife

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5. The Exvangelicals: Loving, Living, and Leaving the White Evangelical Church

By: Sarah McCammon

4.21

Format: 310 pages, Hardcover

The first definitive book that names the massive social movement of people leaving the white evange… read more

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6. She Deserves Better: Raising Girls to Resist Toxic Teachings on Sex, Self, and Speaking Up

By: Sheila Wray Gregoire

4.49

Format: 272 pages, Paperback

This research-based, biblically informed book helps moms reject harmful teachings from the church a… read more

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7. Talking Back to Purity Culture: Rediscovering Faithful Christian Sexuality

By: Rachel Joy Welcher

4.32

Format: 216 pages, Paperback

It's time to talk back. The generation born into evangelical purity culture has grown up, and many … read more

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8. When Religion Hurts You: Healing from Religious Trauma and the Impact of High-Control Religion

By: Laura E. Anderson

4.38

Format: 240 pages, Paperback

"Anderson strikes a smart, balanced tone. . . . An exemplary guide to an understudied issue."--Publ… read more

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"Rebuilding a worldview and identity likely needs to include space for uncertainty."

-Laura E. Anderson, When Religion Hurts You: Healing from Religious Trauma and the Impact of High-Control Religion

"I have lived far too much of my life with the end goal of eternal life in heaven, and so I missed a lot of life on earth."

-Laura E. Anderson, When Religion Hurts You: Healing from Religious Trauma and the Impact of High-Control Religion

"A marker of healing from religious trauma is not simply the process of deconstructing one’s worldview and identity and rebuilding a new one; it is also the willingness to remain open to shifting and …"

-Laura E. Anderson, When Religion Hurts You: Healing from Religious Trauma and the Impact of High-Control Religion

"Religious trauma resides in our bodies and nervous systems in the same way that trauma from war, developmental trauma, or sexualized trauma live inside us. Though the triggers and environment of the …"

-Laura E. Anderson, When Religion Hurts You: Healing from Religious Trauma and the Impact of High-Control Religion

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9. Field Notes for the Wilderness: Practices for an Evolving Faith

By: Sarah Bessey

4.49

Format: 256 pages, Hardcover

A nurturing and hopeful collection of practices to help an emerging generation of Christians reconn… read more

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"And yet religion in our modern era seems mostly concerned with systematizing theology, charting time lines, answering questions, and making God small and knowable. We have created a God we can regula…"

-Sarah Bessey, Field Notes for the Wilderness: Practices for an Evolving Faith

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10. Mary Magdalene Revealed: The First Apostle, Her Feminist Gospel & the Christianity We Haven't Tried Yet

By: Meggan Watterson

4.25

Format: 264 pages, Hardcover

--WALL STREET JOURNAL BESTSELLER-- The Gospel of Mary Magdalene reveals a very different love story… read more

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11. Shameless: A Case for Not Feeling Bad About Feeling Good (About Sex)

By: Nadia Bolz-Weber

4.21

Format: 195 pages, Kindle Edition

Annotation: "Nothing gives church folk anxiety quite like the subject of sex. And that's why in Sh… read more

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"If the teachings of the church are harming the bodies and spirits of people, we should rethink those teachings."

-Nadia Bolz-Weber, Shameless: A Case for Not Feeling Bad About Feeling Good (About Sex)

"In my pastoral work I've started to suspect that the more someone was exposed to religious messages about controlling their desires, avoiding sexual thoughts, and not lusting in their hearts, the les…"

-Nadia Bolz-Weber, Shameless: A Case for Not Feeling Bad About Feeling Good (About Sex)

"To God, everyone is different but no one is special. You're not special for being straight. Or gay. Or male. Or cis. Or trans. Or asexual. Or married. Or sexually prodigious. Or a virgin. We all have…"

-Nadia Bolz-Weber, Shameless: A Case for Not Feeling Bad About Feeling Good (About Sex)

"Holiness is the union we experience with one another and with God. Holiness is when more than one become one, when what is fractured is made whole. Singing in harmony. Breastfeeding a baby. Collectiv…"

-Nadia Bolz-Weber, Shameless: A Case for Not Feeling Bad About Feeling Good (About Sex)

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12. Heavy Burdens: Seven Ways LGBTQ Christians Experience Harm in the Church

By: Bridget Eileen Rivera

4.50

Format: 240 pages, Paperback

Foreword INDIES 2021 Finalist for Religion Religious faith reduces the risk of suicide for virtu… read more

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"It would seem counterintuitive for Christians to embrace a word that prioritizes sex as the focal point of identity (homosexual) over a word that intentionally decenters the importance of sex (gay). …"

-Bridget Eileen Rivera, Heavy Burdens: Seven Ways LGBTQ Christians Experience Harm in the Church

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13. Non-Toxic Masculinity: Recovering Healthy Male Sexuality

By: Zachary Wagner

4.26

Format: 208 pages, Paperback

Dismissals such as "boys will be boys" and "not all men" are ingrained in our world. And the purity… read more

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"Both parties can consent to one-sided sex, but that should not be the bar set for a healthy relationship. Just because it's not rape doesn't mean it isn't dehumanizing."

-Zachary Wagner, Non-Toxic Masculinity: Recovering Healthy Male Sexuality

"Why is the superficial, legalistic approach of purity culture often so ineffective in curbing toxic masculinity in Christian men? Because it deals in a truncated, false gospel. Rules and regulations …"

-Zachary Wagner, Non-Toxic Masculinity: Recovering Healthy Male Sexuality

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14. Cassandra Speaks: When Women Are the Storytellers, the Human Story Changes

By: Elizabeth Lesser

4.07

Format: 304 pages, Hardcover

What story would Eve have told about picking the apple? Why is Pandora blamed for opening the box? … read more

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"When it no longer would destroy a boy to be likened to a girl, when a girl feels vital doing the things she values, when it's considered as brave to be womanly as it is to be manly, than boys and gir…"

-Elizabeth Lesser, Cassandra Speaks: When Women Are the Storytellers, the Human Story Changes

"The basic belief of feminism is not that women are right and men are wrong; It is merely that women are people and therefor their voices matter, their values matter and their stories matter. It's tim…"

-Elizabeth Lesser, Cassandra Speaks: When Women Are the Storytellers, the Human Story Changes

"That's why we tell the stories. To ease the anxiety of being soft-skinned mortals. To inspire the soul to fathom eternity. To give order to what feels out of control. To guide, to blame, to warn, to …"

-Elizabeth Lesser, Cassandra Speaks: When Women Are the Storytellers, the Human Story Changes

"What if our myths and teaching tales had purposely led humanity to believe that it was the ultimate sign of strength to nurture and love? What if the urge to care for children and nature and each oth…"

-Elizabeth Lesser, Cassandra Speaks: When Women Are the Storytellers, the Human Story Changes

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15. Pure: Inside the Evangelical Movement That Shamed a Generation of Young Women and How I Broke Free

By: Linda Kay Klein

4.17

Format: 341 pages, Hardcover

From a woman who has been there and back, the first inside look at the devastating effects evangeli… read more

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"The purity message nestles neatly into the larger “us"

-Linda Kay Klein, Pure: Inside the Evangelical Movement That Shamed a Generation of Young Women and How I Broke Free

"Surviving gives you a very unique set of skills. It costs a lot. But it also makes you powerful."

-Linda Kay Klein, Pure: Inside the Evangelical Movement That Shamed a Generation of Young Women and How I Broke Free

"This illustration is picture-perfect purity culture. In short, women's sexuality must be just right, so that men can spiritually thrive."

-Linda Kay Klein, Pure: Inside the Evangelical Movement That Shamed a Generation of Young Women and How I Broke Free

"[T]he church had embedded the notion that sex was shameful so deeply into her brain that she couldn't shake it now that she was married and it was suddenly supposed to be okay."

-Linda Kay Klein, Pure: Inside the Evangelical Movement That Shamed a Generation of Young Women and How I Broke Free

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16. #ChurchToo: How Purity Culture Upholds Abuse and How to Find Healing

By: Emily Joy Allison

4.35

Format: 195 pages, Paperback

When Emily Joy Allison outed her abuser on Twitter, she launched #ChurchToo, a movement to expose t… read more

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17. You Are Your Own: A Reckoning with the Religious Trauma of Evangelical Christianity

By: Jamie Lee Finch

4.06

Format: 82 pages, ebook

Rooted in her experiences growing up in an Evangelical Christian family, Jamie Lee Finch’s “You Are… read more

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Cover of Disobedient Women: How a Small Group of Faithful Women Exposed Abuse, Brought Down Powerful Pastors, and Ignited an Evangelical Reckoning by Sarah Stankorb

18. Disobedient Women: How a Small Group of Faithful Women Exposed Abuse, Brought Down Powerful Pastors, and Ignited an Evangelical Reckoning

By: Sarah Stankorb

4.06

Format: 336 pages, Hardcover

Journalist Sarah Stankorb outlines how access to the internet—its networks, freedom of expression, … read more

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19. A Well-Trained Wife: My Escape from Christian Patriarchy

By: Tia Levings

4.48

Format: 304 pages, Hardcover

“Today it hit me when he hit me, blood shaking in my brain. Maybe there wasn’t a savior coming. May… read more

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Cover of Beyond Shame: Creating a Healthy Sex Life on Your Own Terms by Matthias Roberts

20. Beyond Shame: Creating a Healthy Sex Life on Your Own Terms

By: Matthias Roberts

4.11

Format: 187 pages, Paperback

We all carry sexual shame. Whether we grew up in the repressive purity culture of American Evangeli… read more

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21. God's Ex-Girlfriend: A Memoir About Loving and Leaving the Evangelical Jesus

By: Gloria Beth Amodeo

4.18

Format: 261 pages, Paperback

Gloria Beth Amodeo was a freshman in college when she met someone who would change the trajectory o… read more

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15 Top audiobook books like #ChurchToo: How Purity Culture Upholds Abuse and How to Find Healing by Emily Joy Allison

Transform Your Habits

Jesus and John Wayne: How White Evangelicals Corrupted a Faith and Fractured a Nation

Kristin Kobes Du Mez

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The Making of Biblical Womanhood: How the Subjugation of Women Became Gospel Truth

Beth Allison Barr

4.40

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The Woman They Wanted: Shattering the Illusion of the Good Christian Wife

Shannon Harris

3.77

Transform Your Habits

The Exvangelicals: Loving, Living, and Leaving the White Evangelical Church

Sarah McCammon

4.21

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The Dance of the Dissident Daughter: A Woman's Journey from Christian Tradition to the Sacred Feminine

Sue Monk Kidd

3.98

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In Defense of Witches: The Legacy of the Witch Hunts and Why Women Are Still on Trial

Mona Chollet

4.10

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On Our Best Behavior: The Seven Deadly Sins and the Price Women Pay to Be Good

Elise Loehnen

3.80

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Jess Zimmerman

3.73

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