23 Top self help books like Unfuck Your Intimacy: Using Science for Better Relationships, Sex, and Dating by Faith G. Harper

Cover of Unfuck Your Intimacy: Using Science for Better Relationships, Sex, and Dating by Faith G. Harper

Unfuck Your Intimacy: Using Science for Better Relationships, Sex, and Dating

By: Faith G. Harper

3.58

Format: 192 pages, Paperback

Explore your relationships and sexuality, with yourself and with others, with this new book by Dr. …

"Love is not a nebulous idea. It's not a vague notion of warm and fuzzy. Its the real daily interactions of sharing our lives with someone, caring for them, and having them care for us in return. Love is what we do, day in day out, not what we profess in our status updates."

-Faith G. Harper, Unfuck Your Intimacy: Using Science for Better Relationships, Sex, and Dating

"Love is not a nebulous idea. It's not a vague notion of warm and fuzzy. Its the real daily interactions of sharing our lives with someone, caring for them, and having them care for us in return. Love is what we do, day in day out, not what we profess in our status updates."

-Faith G. Harper, Unfuck Your Intimacy: Using Science for Better Relationships, Sex, and Dating

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Cover of Doing It!: Let's Talk About Sex by Hannah Witton

1. Doing It!: Let's Talk About Sex

By: Hannah Witton

4.08

Format: 320 pages, Paperback

SEXTING. VIRGINITY. CONSENT. THE BIG O... Sex-positive vlogger Hannah Witton covers it all. Nobo… read more

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  • self help
  • health
  • feminism
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • audiobook
"Sorry if you believe in true love, I'm a hopeless romantic too, but I'm also a realist and wear my cynicism like armour."

-Hannah Witton, Doing It!: Let's Talk About Sex

Cover of Designer Relationships: A Guide to Happy Monogamy, Positive Polyamory, and Optimistic Open Relationships by Mark A. Michaels, Patricia  Johnson

2. Designer Relationships: A Guide to Happy Monogamy, Positive Polyamory, and Optimistic Open Relationships

By: Mark A. Michaels , Patricia Johnson

4.07

Format: 242 pages, Paperback

Contemporary relationships are in a state of rapid evolution. These changes can and should empower … read more

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  • relationships
  • psychology
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • self help
Cover of Wired for Dating: How Understanding Neurobiology and Attachment Style Can Help You Find Your Ideal Mate by Stan Tatkin

3. Wired for Dating: How Understanding Neurobiology and Attachment Style Can Help You Find Your Ideal Mate

By: Stan Tatkin

3.97

Format: 112 pages, Paperback

In the age of online dating, finding a real connection can seem more daunting than ever! So, why no… read more

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  • audiobook
  • relationships
  • psychology
  • nonfiction
  • self help
Cover of Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters—And How to Get It by Laurie Mintz

4. Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters—And How to Get It

By: Laurie Mintz

5.00

Format: 176 pages, ebook

We've been thinking about sex all wrong. Mainstream media, movies, and porn have taught us that sex… read more

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  • health
  • feminism
  • psychology
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • self help
Cover of What Makes Love Last?: How to Build Trust and Avoid Betrayal by John M. Gottman, Nan Silver

5. What Makes Love Last?: How to Build Trust and Avoid Betrayal

By: John M. Gottman , Nan Silver

4.33

Format: None pages, ebook

A world-renowned relationship expert shares his research about love and what it takes to develop a … read more

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  • relationships
  • personal development
  • psychology
  • nonfiction
  • self help

6. Talk to Me Like I'm Someone You Love: Relationship Repair in a Flash

By: Nancy Dreyfus

4.06

Format: 663 pages, Spiral-bound

The most crucial relationship advice book since Men Are from Mars." - Erin Meanley, Glamour.com A … read more

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Cover of Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy by Jessica Fern

7. Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy

By: Jessica Fern

4.40

Format: 268 pages, Paperback

Attachment theory has entered the mainstream, but most discussions focus on how we can cultivate se… read more

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  • relationships
  • self help
  • psychology
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • audiobook
"A child with a secure attachment style will likely grow up into an adult who feels worthy of love and seeks to create meaningful, healthy relationships with people who are physically and emotionally …"

-Jessica Fern, Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy

"Commitment can be expressed in many ways. Traditionally it is solidified through marriage, owning property, having kids or wearing certain types of jewelry, but legal, domestic, or ornamental underta…"

-Jessica Fern, Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy

"When someone with a dismissive style starts to work on healing their insecure attachment, they must begin by no longer dismissing and distancing from themselves. This requires that they no longer den…"

-Jessica Fern, Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy

"Approximately 15 to 20 percent of the population has a nervous system wired to be more sensitive. These people are more attuned to the subtleties of their environment and process that information muc…"

-Jessica Fern, Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy

Cover of Love Worth Making: How to Have Ridiculously Great Sex in a Lasting Relationship by Stephen  Snyder

8. Love Worth Making: How to Have Ridiculously Great Sex in a Lasting Relationship

By: Stephen Snyder

4.13

Format: 288 pages, Hardcover

The next Mating in Captivity, this is a paradigm-shifting guide to thinking about and enjoying sex … read more

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  • relationships
  • self help
  • health
  • psychology
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • audiobook
Cover of Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections by Emily Nagoski

9. Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections

By: Emily Nagoski

4.14

Format: 368 pages, Hardcover

An illuminating exploration of how to maintain a happy sex life in a long-term relationship, from t… read more

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  • relationships
  • self help
  • health
  • feminism
  • psychology
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • audiobook
Cover of Anxiously Attached: Becoming More Secure in Life and Love by Jessica Baum LMHC

10. Anxiously Attached: Becoming More Secure in Life and Love

By: Jessica Baum LMHC

4.12

Format: 304 pages, Hardcover

A road map for building strong and secure relationships for those who struggle with anxiety in thei… read more

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  • relationships
  • self help
  • personal development
  • health
  • psychology
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
Cover of Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life by Vanessa Marin

11. Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life

By: Vanessa Marin

4.32

Format: 272 pages, Hardcover

The definitive guide to creating the sex life of your wildest dreams—just by talking about it!—from… read more

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  • relationships
  • self help
  • health
  • psychology
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • audiobook
Cover of Blood Sex Magic: Everyday Magic for the Modern Mystic From the Creator of The Hoodwitch by Bri Luna

12. Blood Sex Magic: Everyday Magic for the Modern Mystic From the Creator of The Hoodwitch

By: Bri Luna

4.26

Format: 224 pages, Hardcover

Unleash your inner witch with this magical spell book, perfect for Halloween! An intimate, illustra… read more

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  • nonfiction
Cover of Our Polyvagal World: How Safety and Trauma Change Us by Stephen W. Porges

13. Our Polyvagal World: How Safety and Trauma Change Us

By: Stephen W. Porges

4.37

Format: 256 pages, Paperback

The creator of the Polyvagal Theory explains the principles in simple terms that are accessible to … read more

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  • health
  • psychology
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • self help
Cover of The Emotionally Exhausted Woman: Why You’re Feeling Depleted and How to Get What You Need by Nancy Colier

14. The Emotionally Exhausted Woman: Why You’re Feeling Depleted and How to Get What You Need

By: Nancy Colier

3.42

Format: 168 pages, Paperback

Are you feeling emotionally exhausted? Do you worry about being likable (at all cost)? Are you tryi… read more

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  • self help
  • personal development
  • health
  • feminism
  • psychology
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
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15. Unfuck Your Intimacy: Using Science for Better Relationships, Sex, and Dating

By: Faith G. Harper

3.58

Format: 192 pages, Paperback

Explore your relationships and sexuality, with yourself and with others, with this new book by Dr. … read more

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  • relationships
  • self help
  • personal development
  • health
  • feminism
  • psychology
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • audiobook
"Love is not a nebulous idea. It's not a vague notion of warm and fuzzy. Its the real daily interactions of sharing our lives with someone, caring for them, and having them care for us in return. Love…"

-Faith G. Harper, Unfuck Your Intimacy: Using Science for Better Relationships, Sex, and Dating

Cover of How Not to Kill Yourself: A Survival Guide for Imaginative Pessimists by Set Sytes

16. How Not to Kill Yourself: A Survival Guide for Imaginative Pessimists

By: Set Sytes

3.94

Format: 192 pages, Paperback

A highly imaginative and relatable guide for anyone who needs the reassurance that suicide is NEVER… read more

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  • self help
  • personal development
  • health
  • psychology
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
"Staying alive with a brain bent on self-annihilation, in a world that doesn't necessarily value your worth, is the ultimate radical act."

-Set Sytes, How Not to Kill Yourself: A Survival Guide for Imaginative Pessimists

"The only things that could be considered wrong with you could also be considered the fault of the world around you. There is little-to-nothing intrinsically wrong with you."

-Set Sytes, How Not to Kill Yourself: A Survival Guide for Imaginative Pessimists

"Laughter really is the best medicine and there are no strict lines to be drawn for its use. You shouldn't assume you understand why someone is joking about something and you should never ever rob som…"

-Set Sytes, How Not to Kill Yourself: A Survival Guide for Imaginative Pessimists

Cover of Mind The Gap: The truth about desire and how to futureproof your sex life by Karen  Gurney

17. Mind The Gap: The truth about desire and how to futureproof your sex life

By: Karen Gurney

4.21

Format: 336 pages, Kindle Edition

'This book taught me so much about female desire. A must read!' Cherry HealeyDid you know that ther… read more

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  • relationships
  • self help
  • health
  • feminism
  • psychology
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • audiobook
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18. Smart Sex

By: Emily Morse

4.05

Format: 305 pages, Kindle Edition

“This is the type of sex talk we need more of!” —Christina Aguilera, Grammy Award-winning musician … read more

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  • relationships
  • self help
  • health
  • feminism
  • psychology
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • audiobook
Cover of Stop Overthinking Your Relationship: Break the Cycle of Anxious Rumination to Nurture Love, Trust, and Connection with Your Partner by Alicia  Muñoz

19. Stop Overthinking Your Relationship: Break the Cycle of Anxious Rumination to Nurture Love, Trust, and Connection with Your Partner

By: Alicia Muñoz

3.90

Format: 200 pages, Paperback

It’s time to stop overthinking your relationship! The four-step approach in this book will help you… read more

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  • audiobook
  • relationships
  • psychology
  • nonfiction
  • self help
Cover of Gay Science: The Totally Scientific Examination of LGBTQ+ Culture, Myths, and Stereotypes by Rob      Anderson

20. Gay Science: The Totally Scientific Examination of LGBTQ+ Culture, Myths, and Stereotypes

By: Rob Anderson

4.23

Format: 240 pages, Hardcover

Comedian Rob Anderson examines queer stereotypes and LGBTQ+ culture with humorous explanations borr… read more

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Cover of The Autism Relationships Handbook: How to Thrive in Friendships, Dating, and Love by Joe Biel

21. The Autism Relationships Handbook: How to Thrive in Friendships, Dating, and Love

By: Joe Biel

3.64

Format: 159 pages, Paperback

Ever since he came out as autistic, people have been contacting Joe to share their stories and ask … read more

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  • relationships
  • self help
  • personal development
  • psychology
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
Cover of The Worthy Project by Meadow DeVor

22. The Worthy Project

By: Meadow DeVor

3.78

Format: None pages, Audiobook

From internationally recognized inquiry teacher and life coach Meadow DeVor comes the invitation yo… read more

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  • audiobook
  • nonfiction
  • self help
Cover of So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex: Laying Bare and Learning to Repair Our Love Lives by Ian Kerner

23. So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex: Laying Bare and Learning to Repair Our Love Lives

By: Ian Kerner

4.07

Format: 368 pages, Hardcover

Renowned sex therapist Ian Kerner shares the unique and indispensable methodology he uses to help t… read more

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  • relationships
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  • psychology
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • audiobook
Cover of Better Sex Through Mindfulness: How Women Can Cultivate Desire by Lori A. Brotto

24. Better Sex Through Mindfulness: How Women Can Cultivate Desire

By: Lori A. Brotto

4.04

Format: 272 pages, Paperback

AS SEEN IN “THE PRINCIPLES OF PLEASURE” ON NETFLIX ALSO FEATURED IN BUSTLE • DAN SAVAGE LOVECAST • … read more

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  • relationships
  • personal development
  • health
  • feminism
  • psychology
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • self help
Cover of Naked: On Sex, Work, and Other Burlesques (-) by Fancy Feast

25. Naked: On Sex, Work, and Other Burlesques (-)

By: Fancy Feast

4.38

Format: 256 pages, Paperback

In Naked , a celebrated burlesque performer, sex educator, and social worker bares it all, with inc… read more

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  • feminism
  • nonfiction
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  • audiobook
Cover of Get Honest or Die Lying: Why Small Talk Sucks by Charlamagne Tha God

26. Get Honest or Die Lying: Why Small Talk Sucks

By: Charlamagne Tha God

3.91

Format: 240 pages, Hardcover

An Atria Book. Atria Books has a great book for every reader. read more

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  • self help
  • nonfiction
  • psychology
  • audiobook
Cover of The Dominance Playbook: Ways to Play With Power in Scenes and Relationships by Anton Fulmen

27. The Dominance Playbook: Ways to Play With Power in Scenes and Relationships

By: Anton Fulmen

4.40

Format: 359 pages, Kindle Edition

In The Dominance Playbook, kink educator and lifelong power exchange fanatic Anton Fulmen builds on… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • psychology
  • sexuality

28. Savage Love from A to Z: Advice on Sex and Relationships, Dating and Mating, Exes and Extras

By: Dan Savage

4.23

Format: None pages, Unknown Binding

America's premier sex advice columnist takes on edgier-than-ever sex-positive topics with his signa… read more

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  • relationships
  • nonfiction
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  • self help
Cover of The Coldest Case: The Past Has a Long Memory (Billy Harney #0.6) by James  Patterson

29. The Coldest Case: The Past Has a Long Memory (Billy Harney #0.6)

By: James Patterson

3.66

Format: 4 pages, Audible Audio

The follow-up to the number one smash hit The Coldest Case: A Black Book Audio Drama. Someone is… read more

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  • audiobook
Cover of Second Tide's the Charm by Chandra Blumberg

30. Second Tide's the Charm

By: Chandra Blumberg

3.55

Format: 336 pages, Paperback

Love puts you in uncharted waters. At first glance, Hope Evans just landed the perfect spending… read more

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  • audiobook
Cover of Authentic Diversity: How to Change the Workplace for Good by Michelle Silverthorn

31. Authentic Diversity: How to Change the Workplace for Good

By: Michelle Silverthorn

4.29

Format: 172 pages, Kindle Edition

America is about to become a minority-majority nation. And yet, companies across the country do not… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • audiobook

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