14 best-selling queer books like Nonmonogamy and Neurodiversity: A More Than Two Essentials Guide (3) by Alyssa Gonzalez

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Nonmonogamy and Neurodiversity: A More Than Two Essentials Guide (3)

By: Alyssa Gonzalez

3.69

Format: 104 pages, Paperback

Too often, the neurodivergent community is marginalized, de-sexualized or patronized. Neurodivergen…

If you liked the queer plot in Nonmonogamy and Neurodiversity: A More Than Two Essentials Guide (3) by Alyssa Gonzalez , here is a list of 14 books like this:

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1. The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities

By: Dossie Easton , Catherine A. Liszt

3.93

Format: 280 pages, Paperback

The essential guide for singles and couples who want to explore polyamory in ways that are ethicall… read more

Similar categories in Dossie Easton's The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities book and Alyssa Gonzalez's Nonmonogamy and Neurodiversity: A More Than Two Essentials Guide (3)

  • polyamory
  • relationships
  • lgbt
  • psychology
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • queer
"Nymphomaniac: a woamn that has more sex than you."

-Dossie Easton, The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities

"When you respect your limits, other will learn to respect them too."

-Dossie Easton, The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities

"A ring around the finger does not cause a nerve block to the genitals."

-Dossie Easton, The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities

"Fighting is the ultimate act of intimacy. (...) Intimacy is based on shared vulnerability."

-Dossie Easton, The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities

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2. The Heart of Dominance: A Guide to Practicing Consensual Dominance

By: Anton Fulmen

4.59

Format: 260 pages, Kindle Edition

This book is a how-to guide to the concepts and skills at the heart of consensual dominance. If you… read more

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  • relationships
  • nonfiction
  • psychology
  • sexuality
Cover of More Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory by Tatiana Gill, Franklin Veaux, Eve Rickert, None

3. More Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory

By: Tatiana Gill , Franklin Veaux , Eve Rickert , None

4.22

Format: 480 pages, Paperback

Can you love more than one person? Have multiple romantic partners, without jealousy or cheating? A… read more

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  • polyamory
  • relationships
  • lgbt
  • psychology
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • queer
"Practicing security means continually turning towards the best version of yourself."

-Tatiana Gill, More Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory

"An omission is a lie when it is calculated to conceal information that, where it known to the other party, would be materially relevant to her."

-Tatiana Gill, More Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory

"All of us have done some very bad things. We've all hurt other people when we thought we were doing the right thing, or at least not a bad thing. We were probably trying to get our own needs met-blin…"

-Tatiana Gill, More Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory

"In truth, she was lying: she was concealing information that, if he know about it, would have changed his assessment of their relationship. When we talk about honesty, we will do so from the position…"

-Tatiana Gill, More Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory

Cover of Whipping Girl: A Transsexual Woman on Sexism and the Scapegoating of Femininity by Julia Serano

4. Whipping Girl: A Transsexual Woman on Sexism and the Scapegoating of Femininity

By: Julia Serano

4.26

Format: 390 pages, Paperback

A provocative manifesto, Whipping Girl tells the powerful story of Julia Serano, a transsexual woma… read more

Similar categories in Julia Serano's Whipping Girl: A Transsexual Woman on Sexism and the Scapegoating of Femininity book and Alyssa Gonzalez's Nonmonogamy and Neurodiversity: A More Than Two Essentials Guide (3)

  • nonfiction
  • queer
  • lgbt
"Rather than focusing on “shattering the gender binary,"

-Julia Serano, Whipping Girl: A Transsexual Woman on Sexism and the Scapegoating of Femininity

"It is offensive that so many people feel that it is okay to publicly refer to transsexuals as being “pre-op"

-Julia Serano, Whipping Girl: A Transsexual Woman on Sexism and the Scapegoating of Femininity

"[I]magine what would happen if, instead of centering our beliefs about heterosexual sex around the idea that the man “penetrates"

-Julia Serano, Whipping Girl: A Transsexual Woman on Sexism and the Scapegoating of Femininity

"The most radical thing that any of us can do is to stop projecting our beliefs about gender onto other people's behaviors and bodies"

-Julia Serano, Whipping Girl: A Transsexual Woman on Sexism and the Scapegoating of Femininity

Cover of Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy by Jessica Fern

5. Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy

By: Jessica Fern

4.40

Format: 268 pages, Paperback

Attachment theory has entered the mainstream, but most discussions focus on how we can cultivate se… read more

Similar categories in Jessica Fern's Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy book and Alyssa Gonzalez's Nonmonogamy and Neurodiversity: A More Than Two Essentials Guide (3)

  • polyamory
  • relationships
  • lgbt
  • psychology
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • queer
"A child with a secure attachment style will likely grow up into an adult who feels worthy of love and seeks to create meaningful, healthy relationships with people who are physically and emotionally …"

-Jessica Fern, Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy

"Commitment can be expressed in many ways. Traditionally it is solidified through marriage, owning property, having kids or wearing certain types of jewelry, but legal, domestic, or ornamental underta…"

-Jessica Fern, Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy

"When someone with a dismissive style starts to work on healing their insecure attachment, they must begin by no longer dismissing and distancing from themselves. This requires that they no longer den…"

-Jessica Fern, Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy

"Approximately 15 to 20 percent of the population has a nervous system wired to be more sensitive. These people are more attuned to the subtleties of their environment and process that information muc…"

-Jessica Fern, Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy

Cover of Tomorrow Sex Will Be Good Again: Women and Desire in the Age of Consent by Katherine Angel

6. Tomorrow Sex Will Be Good Again: Women and Desire in the Age of Consent

By: Katherine Angel

4.08

Format: 160 pages, Hardcover

A provocative, elegantly written analysis of female desire, consent, and sexuality in the age of Me… read more

Similar categories in Katherine Angel's Tomorrow Sex Will Be Good Again: Women and Desire in the Age of Consent book and Alyssa Gonzalez's Nonmonogamy and Neurodiversity: A More Than Two Essentials Guide (3)

  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
"The fantasy of total autonomy, and of total self-knowledge, is not only a fantasy; it’s a nightmare."

-Katherine Angel, Tomorrow Sex Will Be Good Again: Women and Desire in the Age of Consent

"Any model of consent can prove itself worthless if a man is not open to his sexual partner's no, or her changing desires, and if he responds to either of these with a rage borne of humiliation."

-Katherine Angel, Tomorrow Sex Will Be Good Again: Women and Desire in the Age of Consent

"Why not aim for sex itself as being deeply mutually pleasurable? Why not aim for a culture that embraces and enables women’s sexual pleasure, in all its complexity, and admits the complexity of male …"

-Katherine Angel, Tomorrow Sex Will Be Good Again: Women and Desire in the Age of Consent

"Instead of resigning ourselves to the inevitability of bad sex, and even romanticizing it as merely youthful misadventure, we should subject it to sustained scrutiny. Bad sex emerges from gender norm…"

-Katherine Angel, Tomorrow Sex Will Be Good Again: Women and Desire in the Age of Consent

Cover of Divergent Mind: Thriving in a World That Wasn't Designed for You by Jenara Nerenberg

7. Divergent Mind: Thriving in a World That Wasn't Designed for You

By: Jenara Nerenberg

3.84

Format: 244 pages, ebook

A paradigm-shifting study of neurodivergent women—those with ADHD, autism, synesthesia, high sensit… read more

Similar categories in Jenara Nerenberg's Divergent Mind: Thriving in a World That Wasn't Designed for You book and Alyssa Gonzalez's Nonmonogamy and Neurodiversity: A More Than Two Essentials Guide (3)

  • disability
  • nonfiction
  • psychology
  • mental health
"What happens when we stop pathologizing difference?"

-Jenara Nerenberg, Divergent Mind: Thriving in a World That Wasn't Designed for You

"Many women latch onto language from popular psychology, such as "panic attack," when often they are instead experiencing sensory overwhelm."

-Jenara Nerenberg, Divergent Mind: Thriving in a World That Wasn't Designed for You

"Despite what the words "attention deficit" imply, ADHD is not a deficit of attention, but rather a challenge of regulating it at will or on demand."

-Jenara Nerenberg, Divergent Mind: Thriving in a World That Wasn't Designed for You

"High stimulation is both exciting and confusing for people with ADHD, because they can get overwhelmed and overstimulated easily without realizing they are approaching that point."

-Jenara Nerenberg, Divergent Mind: Thriving in a World That Wasn't Designed for You

Cover of Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex by Angela  Chen

8. Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

By: Angela Chen

4.36

Format: 210 pages, Hardcover

An engaging exploration of what it means to be asexual in a world that's obsessed with sexual attra… read more

Similar categories in Angela Chen's Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex book and Alyssa Gonzalez's Nonmonogamy and Neurodiversity: A More Than Two Essentials Guide (3)

  • lgbt
  • psychology
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • queer
"Representation not only reflects, but actually changes reality."

-Angela Chen, Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

"Loving another person should never mean forfeiting bodily autonomy."

-Angela Chen, Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

"It is a failure of society if anyone needs to say “I have a partner"

-Angela Chen, Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

"Aces aren't a puzzle with a missing piece. Everyone is their own full puzzle."

-Angela Chen, Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

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9. In Charm's Way (The Witches of Thistle Grove, #4)

By: Lana Harper

3.56

Format: 304 pages, Paperback

A witch struggling to regain what she has lost casts a forbidden spell—only to discover much more t… read more

Similar categories in Lana Harper's In Charm's Way (The Witches of Thistle Grove, #4) book and Alyssa Gonzalez's Nonmonogamy and Neurodiversity: A More Than Two Essentials Guide (3)

  • queer
  • lgbt
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10. Bury Your Gays

By: Chuck Tingle

4.29

Format: 295 pages, Hardcover

From Chuck Tingle, author of the USA Today bestselling Camp Damascus, comes a new heart-pounding st… read more

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  • queer
  • lgbt
"The studio might be a ruthless capitalist machine," he opines, "but we're not evil."

-Chuck Tingle, Bury Your Gays

"Your stories aren't worth your life." My stories are my life, I think, but I don't say this."

-Chuck Tingle, Bury Your Gays

"I'm honestly kind of surprised. You've got a flair for drama, Misha. I thought you might get hard over some final sacrifice for love, or whatever. I mean, you're the writer, not me, but that's got Em…"

-Chuck Tingle, Bury Your Gays

"The path I've been led down is one of senseless catastrophe, a classic Hollywood tale of the man who plummets to rock bottom just moments before he would have crested the peak. [...] I'm living out t…"

-Chuck Tingle, Bury Your Gays

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11. Polywise: A Deeper Dive into Navigating Open Relationships

By: Jessica Fern

4.38

Format: 336 pages, Paperback

As polyamory continues to make its way into the mainstream, more and more people are exploring cons… read more

Similar categories in Jessica Fern's Polywise: A Deeper Dive into Navigating Open Relationships book and Alyssa Gonzalez's Nonmonogamy and Neurodiversity: A More Than Two Essentials Guide (3)

  • polyamory
  • relationships
  • lgbt
  • psychology
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • queer
Cover of The Anxious Person's Guide to Non-Monogamy: Your Guide to Open Relationships, Polyamory and Letting Go by Lola Phoenix

12. The Anxious Person's Guide to Non-Monogamy: Your Guide to Open Relationships, Polyamory and Letting Go

By: Lola Phoenix

4.09

Format: 208 pages, Paperback

Embarking on a non-monogamous relationship can be a daunting experience, opening old wounds that ca… read more

Similar categories in Lola Phoenix's The Anxious Person's Guide to Non-Monogamy: Your Guide to Open Relationships, Polyamory and Letting Go book and Alyssa Gonzalez's Nonmonogamy and Neurodiversity: A More Than Two Essentials Guide (3)

  • polyamory
  • relationships
  • lgbt
  • psychology
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • queer
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13. Open: An Uncensored Memoir of Love, Liberation, and Non-Monogamy

By: Rachel Krantz

3.96

Format: 352 pages, Hardcover

An award-winning journalist delves into the growing trend toward relationships--including her own--… read more

Similar categories in Rachel Krantz's Open: An Uncensored Memoir of Love, Liberation, and Non-Monogamy book and Alyssa Gonzalez's Nonmonogamy and Neurodiversity: A More Than Two Essentials Guide (3)

  • polyamory
  • relationships
  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • queer
Cover of The Polyamory Breakup Book: Causes, Prevention, and Survival by Kathy Labriola

14. The Polyamory Breakup Book: Causes, Prevention, and Survival

By: Kathy Labriola

3.95

Format: 264 pages, Paperback

Polyamory is not always easy. With multiple partners often come more complex relationships to navig… read more

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  • polyamory
  • relationships
  • lgbt
  • psychology
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • queer
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15. Nonmonogamy and Neurodiversity: A More Than Two Essentials Guide (3)

By: Alyssa Gonzalez

3.69

Format: 104 pages, Paperback

Too often, the neurodivergent community is marginalized, de-sexualized or patronized. Neurodivergen… read more

Similar categories in Alyssa Gonzalez's Nonmonogamy and Neurodiversity: A More Than Two Essentials Guide (3) book and Alyssa Gonzalez's Nonmonogamy and Neurodiversity: A More Than Two Essentials Guide (3)

  • polyamory
  • relationships
  • lgbt
  • psychology
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • disability
  • queer
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16. Radical Intimacy

By: Sophie K. Rosa

4.23

Format: 208 pages, Paperback

An impassioned discussion about the alternative ways to form relationships and resist capitalism. … read more

Similar categories in Sophie K. Rosa's Radical Intimacy book and Alyssa Gonzalez's Nonmonogamy and Neurodiversity: A More Than Two Essentials Guide (3)

  • relationships
  • nonfiction
  • queer
Cover of Unfuck Your Boundaries: Build Better Relationships Through Consent, Communication, and Expressing Your Needs (5-Minute Therapy) by Faith G. Harper

17. Unfuck Your Boundaries: Build Better Relationships Through Consent, Communication, and Expressing Your Needs (5-Minute Therapy)

By: Faith G. Harper

4.01

Format: 192 pages, Paperback

Boundaries are the ways we communicate our needs. They are what allow us to feel safe among strange… read more

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  • relationships
  • nonfiction
  • psychology
  • mental health
Cover of The Dominance Playbook: Ways to Play With Power in Scenes and Relationships by Anton Fulmen

18. The Dominance Playbook: Ways to Play With Power in Scenes and Relationships

By: Anton Fulmen

4.40

Format: 359 pages, Kindle Edition

In The Dominance Playbook, kink educator and lifelong power exchange fanatic Anton Fulmen builds on… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • psychology
  • sexuality
Cover of Entwined: Essays on Polyamory and Creating Home by Alex Alberto

19. Entwined: Essays on Polyamory and Creating Home

By: Alex Alberto

4.51

Format: 280 pages, Paperback

In a series of genre-blending essays, Entwined tells the story of Alex Alberto’s decade-long polya… read more

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  • polyamory
  • relationships
  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • queer
Cover of Sensory: Life on the Spectrum by Bex Ollerton

20. Sensory: Life on the Spectrum

By: Bex Ollerton

4.27

Format: 176 pages, Paperback

A colorful and eclectic comics anthology exploring a wide range of autistic experiences—from diagno… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • disability
  • mental health
Cover of Polyamory and Jealousy: A More Than Two Essentials Guide by Eve Rickert

21. Polyamory and Jealousy: A More Than Two Essentials Guide

By: Eve Rickert

4.24

Format: 50 pages, Kindle Edition

The essential quick guide for coping with jealousy in polyamorous relationships,adapted from materi… read more

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  • polyamory
  • relationships
  • psychology
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality

19 Best nonfiction books like Nonmonogamy and Neurodiversity: A More Than Two Essentials Guide (3) by Alyssa Gonzalez

Transform Your Habits

The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities

Dossie Easton , Catherine A. Liszt

3.93

Transform Your Habits

The Heart of Dominance: A Guide to Practicing Consensual Dominance

Anton Fulmen

4.59

Transform Your Habits

More Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory

Tatiana Gill , Franklin Veaux , Eve Rickert , None

4.22

Transform Your Habits

Whipping Girl: A Transsexual Woman on Sexism and the Scapegoating of Femininity

Julia Serano

4.26

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5 best-selling audiobook books like Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy by Jessica Fern

Transform Your Habits

More Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory

Tatiana Gill , Franklin Veaux , Eve Rickert , None

4.22

Transform Your Habits

Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life

Emily Nagoski

4.29

Transform Your Habits

Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy

Jessica Fern

4.40

Transform Your Habits

Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections

Emily Nagoski

4.14

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