17 best-selling self help books like Secure Love: Create a Relationship That Lasts a Lifetime by Julie Menanno

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Secure Love: Create a Relationship That Lasts a Lifetime

By: Julie Menanno

4.55

Format: 336 pages, Hardcover

Create a lasting and loving attachment with the help of the expert couple’s therapist behind the po…

If you liked the self help plot in Secure Love: Create a Relationship That Lasts a Lifetime by Julie Menanno , here is a list of 17 books like this:

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1. Healing the Shame that Binds You

By: John Bradshaw

4.09

Format: 316 pages, Paperback

“I used to drink,” writes John Bradshaw, “to solve the problems caused by drinking. The more I dran… read more

Similar categories in John Bradshaw's Healing the Shame that Binds You book and Julie Menanno's Secure Love: Create a Relationship That Lasts a Lifetime

  • relationships
  • personal development
  • psychology
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • self help
"Hell, in my opinion, is never finding your true self and never living your own life or knowing who you are."

-John Bradshaw, Healing the Shame that Binds You

"Condemning others as bad or sinful is a way to feel righteous. Such a feeling is a powerful mood alteration and can become highly addictive."

-John Bradshaw, Healing the Shame that Binds You

"True love heals and affects spiritual growth. If we do not grow because of someone else’s love, it’s generally because it is a counterfeit form of love."

-John Bradshaw, Healing the Shame that Binds You

"Shame is internalized when one is abandoned. Abandonment is the precise term to describe how one loses one’s authentic self and ceases to exist psychologically."

-John Bradshaw, Healing the Shame that Binds You

2. After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful

By: Janis Abrahms Spring , Michael Spring

3.86

Format: 302 pages,

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Similar categories in Janis Abrahms Spring's After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful book and Julie Menanno's Secure Love: Create a Relationship That Lasts a Lifetime

  • relationships
  • psychology
  • mental health
  • marriage
  • nonfiction
  • self help

3. Love Me, Don't Leave Me: Overcoming Fear of Abandonment and Building Lasting, Loving Relationships

By: Michelle Skeen , Wendy T. Behary

3.47

Format: 1 pages, Paperback

Everyone thrives on love, comfort, and the safety of family, friends, and community. But if you are… read more

Similar categories in Michelle Skeen's Love Me, Don't Leave Me: Overcoming Fear of Abandonment and Building Lasting, Loving Relationships book and Julie Menanno's Secure Love: Create a Relationship That Lasts a Lifetime

4. Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find -- and Keep -- Love

By: Amir Levine , None

3.76

Format: 234 pages, Hardcover

Is there a science to love? In this groundbreaking book, psychiatrist and neuroscientist Amir Levi… read more

Similar categories in Amir Levine's Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find -- and Keep -- Love book and Julie Menanno's Secure Love: Create a Relationship That Lasts a Lifetime

5. Wired for Love: How Understanding Your Partner's Brain and Attachment Style Can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build a Secure Relationship

By: Harville Hendrix , Stan Tatkin

3.53

Format: None pages, Paperback

""What the heck is my partner thinking?"" is a common refrain in romantic relationships, and with g… read more

Similar categories in Harville Hendrix's Wired for Love: How Understanding Your Partner's Brain and Attachment Style Can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build a Secure Relationship book and Julie Menanno's Secure Love: Create a Relationship That Lasts a Lifetime

6. Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love

By: Sue Johnson

4.50

Format: 158 pages, Hardcover

Heralded by the New York Timesand Timeas the couples therapy with the highest rate of success, Emot… read more

Similar categories in Sue Johnson's Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love book and Julie Menanno's Secure Love: Create a Relationship That Lasts a Lifetime

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7. Fight Right: How Successful Couples Turn Conflict Into Connection

By: Julie Schwartz Gottman

4.57

Format: 352 pages, Hardcover

LEARN THE 5 SECRETS OF SUCCESSFUL COUPLES Conflict is the top reason couples seek help—but it's al… read more

Similar categories in Julie Schwartz Gottman's Fight Right: How Successful Couples Turn Conflict Into Connection book and Julie Menanno's Secure Love: Create a Relationship That Lasts a Lifetime

  • relationships
  • self help
  • personal development
  • love
  • psychology
  • marriage
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
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8. It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People

By: Ramani Durvasula

4.58

Format: 362 pages, Kindle Edition

A transformative guide to protecting and healing yourself from the narcissism you can’t see, from p… read more

Similar categories in Ramani Durvasula's It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People book and Julie Menanno's Secure Love: Create a Relationship That Lasts a Lifetime

  • relationships
  • self help
  • personal development
  • psychology
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
"You may have had the belief that to forgive is divine but have come to learn that to discern may be transcendent."

-Ramani Durvasula, It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People

"Radical acceptance of the injustice is part of this process-it not fair, I cannot change it; I can, however, chart a different and authentic course forward and learn from this. Be kind to yourself, t…"

-Ramani Durvasula, It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People

"I am tired of people calling those of us who get stuck in these cycles "codependent" or "addicted" to the narcissistic relationship. It's not that. If you have any empathy, have normal cognitive func…"

-Ramani Durvasula, It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People

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9. Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections

By: Emily Nagoski

4.14

Format: 368 pages, Hardcover

An illuminating exploration of how to maintain a happy sex life in a long-term relationship, from t… read more

Similar categories in Emily Nagoski's Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections book and Julie Menanno's Secure Love: Create a Relationship That Lasts a Lifetime

  • relationships
  • self help
  • psychology
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
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10. Anxiously Attached: Becoming More Secure in Life and Love

By: Jessica Baum LMHC

4.12

Format: 304 pages, Hardcover

A road map for building strong and secure relationships for those who struggle with anxiety in thei… read more

Similar categories in Jessica Baum LMHC's Anxiously Attached: Becoming More Secure in Life and Love book and Julie Menanno's Secure Love: Create a Relationship That Lasts a Lifetime

  • relationships
  • self help
  • personal development
  • love
  • psychology
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
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11. Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily (No Matter What)

By: Matthew Hussey

4.27

Format: 272 pages, Hardcover

In Love Life, relationship coach and expert Matthew Hussey explores the most important and foundati… read more

Similar categories in Matthew Hussey's Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily (No Matter What) book and Julie Menanno's Secure Love: Create a Relationship That Lasts a Lifetime

  • romance
  • relationships
  • self help
  • personal development
  • love
  • psychology
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
"Attention is not intention."

-Matthew Hussey, Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily (No Matter What)

"In love, we don’t need everyone to want us. We only need one person."

-Matthew Hussey, Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily (No Matter What)

"Don’t invest in someone based on how much you like them, invest in someone based on how much they invest in you."

-Matthew Hussey, Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily (No Matter What)

"The love of your life can only ever be the person who chooses you for their life. It can never be the person who doesn’t choose you."

-Matthew Hussey, Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily (No Matter What)

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12. Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship (Goop Press)

By: Terrence Real

4.26

Format: 352 pages, Hardcover

Stop working on yourself as an individual and start working on your relationship as a couple, with … read more

Similar categories in Terrence Real's Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship (Goop Press) book and Julie Menanno's Secure Love: Create a Relationship That Lasts a Lifetime

  • relationships
  • self help
  • personal development
  • love
  • psychology
  • mental health
  • marriage
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
"So, here's the first tip for working on your partner's core negative image of you: the more you refute it, the more you'll reinforce it. But the more you admit to the kernel of truth within your part…"

-Terrence Real, Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship (Goop Press)

"First, repair is not a two-way street. Almost everyone gets this wrong. When you are faced with an upset partner, this is not your turn. This is not a dialogue. Liz doesn't air all her grievances as …"

-Terrence Real, Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship (Goop Press)

"When you're dissatisfied with an aspect of your relationship, it is critical that you say something rather than sweep it aside. But there's a difference between speaking the way most of us do in this…"

-Terrence Real, Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship (Goop Press)

"When you share your feelings, skip over the emotion that first comes to you, your go-to emotion, and lead with others. ... More specifically, if you are used to leading with big, powerful feelings, l…"

-Terrence Real, Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship (Goop Press)

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13. How to Be the Love You Seek: Break Cycles, Find Peace, and Heal Your Relationships

By: Nicole LePera

3.92

Format: 304 pages, Hardcover

From the creator of The Holistic Psychologist and author of the #1 New York Times bestseller How to… read more

Similar categories in Nicole LePera's How to Be the Love You Seek: Break Cycles, Find Peace, and Heal Your Relationships book and Julie Menanno's Secure Love: Create a Relationship That Lasts a Lifetime

  • relationships
  • self help
  • personal development
  • love
  • psychology
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
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14. Secure Love: Create a Relationship That Lasts a Lifetime

By: Julie Menanno

4.55

Format: 336 pages, Hardcover

Create a lasting and loving attachment with the help of the expert couple’s therapist behind the po… read more

Similar categories in Julie Menanno's Secure Love: Create a Relationship That Lasts a Lifetime book and Julie Menanno's Secure Love: Create a Relationship That Lasts a Lifetime

  • romance
  • relationships
  • self help
  • personal development
  • love
  • psychology
  • mental health
  • marriage
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
Cover of The Covert Passive Aggressive Narcissist: Recognizing the Traits and Finding Healing After Hidden Emotional and Psychological Abuse (The Narcissism Series Book 1) by Debbie Mirza

15. The Covert Passive Aggressive Narcissist: Recognizing the Traits and Finding Healing After Hidden Emotional and Psychological Abuse (The Narcissism Series Book 1)

By: Debbie Mirza

4.29

Format: 228 pages, Kindle Edition

Choosing Therapy selected this book as part of the 2020 Best Books on Narcissism and Narcissistic P… read more

Similar categories in Debbie Mirza's The Covert Passive Aggressive Narcissist: Recognizing the Traits and Finding Healing After Hidden Emotional and Psychological Abuse (The Narcissism Series Book 1) book and Julie Menanno's Secure Love: Create a Relationship That Lasts a Lifetime

  • relationships
  • personal development
  • psychology
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • self help
Cover of Stop People Pleasing: And Find Your Power by Hailey Paige Magee

16. Stop People Pleasing: And Find Your Power

By: Hailey Paige Magee

4.44

Format: 352 pages, Hardcover

A viral life coach offers a practical, empathetic, and inspiring guide to breaking people-pleasing … read more

Similar categories in Hailey Paige Magee's Stop People Pleasing: And Find Your Power book and Julie Menanno's Secure Love: Create a Relationship That Lasts a Lifetime

  • relationships
  • self help
  • personal development
  • psychology
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
"Imagine how different the world would be if little girls were taught to set boundaries as often as they were taught to be polite."

-Hailey Paige Magee, Stop People Pleasing: And Find Your Power

"As concepts like people-pleasing and self-care become more mainstream, complex ideas like boundaries are often diluted in ways that ultimately discourage us from building healthy relationships. We’re…"

-Hailey Paige Magee, Stop People Pleasing: And Find Your Power

"This healing isn’t a one-time event; it is a process of rededicating ourselves to ourselves, over and over again. Every time we redirect our attention back to our feelings, our desires, and our dream…"

-Hailey Paige Magee, Stop People Pleasing: And Find Your Power

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17. Fierce Intimacy: Standing Up to One Another with Love

By: Terry Real

4.53

Format: None pages, Audio CD

Proven Skills for Navigating the Real Challenges of Intimate Relationships What does it take for co… read more

Similar categories in Terry Real's Fierce Intimacy: Standing Up to One Another with Love book and Julie Menanno's Secure Love: Create a Relationship That Lasts a Lifetime

  • relationships
  • self help
  • love
  • psychology
  • mental health
  • marriage
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
Cover of Your Pocket Therapist: Break Free from Old Patterns and Transform Your Life by Annie Zimmerman

18. Your Pocket Therapist: Break Free from Old Patterns and Transform Your Life

By: Annie Zimmerman

4.41

Format: 336 pages, Hardcover

From psychotherapist and TikTok personality Dr. Annie Zimmerman comes a toolkit to transform yourse… read more

Similar categories in Annie Zimmerman's Your Pocket Therapist: Break Free from Old Patterns and Transform Your Life book and Julie Menanno's Secure Love: Create a Relationship That Lasts a Lifetime

  • self help
  • personal development
  • psychology
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
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19. How to Love Someone Without Losing Your Mind: Forget the Fairy Tale and Get Real

By: Todd Baratz

4.22

Format: 272 pages, Hardcover

A brutally honest guide that cuts through the bullsh*t and sky-high expectations of modern love to … read more

Similar categories in Todd Baratz's How to Love Someone Without Losing Your Mind: Forget the Fairy Tale and Get Real book and Julie Menanno's Secure Love: Create a Relationship That Lasts a Lifetime

  • relationships
  • self help
  • love
  • psychology
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
Cover of The Anxious Hearts Guide: Rising Above Anxious Attachment by Rikki Cloos

20. The Anxious Hearts Guide: Rising Above Anxious Attachment

By: Rikki Cloos

4.19

Format: 238 pages, Kindle Edition

It’s been three days with no call or text back...you can’t eat, sleep, or work. You’re going to die… read more

Similar categories in Rikki Cloos's The Anxious Hearts Guide: Rising Above Anxious Attachment book and Julie Menanno's Secure Love: Create a Relationship That Lasts a Lifetime

  • relationships
  • self help
  • psychology
  • mental health
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
Cover of Big Dating Energy: How to Create Lasting Love by Tapping Into Your Authentic Self by Jeff Guenther

21. Big Dating Energy: How to Create Lasting Love by Tapping Into Your Authentic Self

By: Jeff Guenther

4.43

Format: 288 pages, Hardcover

How to Do the Work meets Tinx's The Shift for modern relationship advice, from a licensed professio… read more

Similar categories in Jeff Guenther's Big Dating Energy: How to Create Lasting Love by Tapping Into Your Authentic Self book and Julie Menanno's Secure Love: Create a Relationship That Lasts a Lifetime

  • audiobook
  • relationships
  • nonfiction
  • self help

14 Best audiobook books like Secure Love: Create a Relationship That Lasts a Lifetime by Julie Menanno

Transform Your Habits

Fight Right: How Successful Couples Turn Conflict Into Connection

Julie Schwartz Gottman

4.57

Transform Your Habits

It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People

Ramani Durvasula

4.58

Transform Your Habits

Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections

Emily Nagoski

4.14

Transform Your Habits

Anxiously Attached: Becoming More Secure in Life and Love

Jessica Baum LMHC

4.12

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14 must-read audiobook books like Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship (Goop Press) by Terrence Real

Transform Your Habits

How to Know a Person: The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen

David Brooks

4.14

Transform Your Habits

Outlive: The Science & Art of Longevity

Peter Attia

4.37

Transform Your Habits

Good Inside: A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be

Becky Kennedy

4.55

Transform Your Habits

Fight Right: How Successful Couples Turn Conflict Into Connection

Julie Schwartz Gottman

4.57

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