7 best-selling lgbt books like To Name the Bigger Lie: A Memoir in Two Stories by Sarah Viren

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To Name the Bigger Lie: A Memoir in Two Stories

By: Sarah Viren

3.52

Format: 304 pages, Hardcover

Part coming-of-age story, part psychological thriller, part philosophical investigation, this unfor…

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1. Splinters

By: Leslie Jamison

3.86

Format: 272 pages, Hardcover

From the New York Times bestselling author of The Recovering and The Empathy Exams comes the riveti… read more

Similar categories in Leslie Jamison's Splinters book and Sarah Viren's To Name the Bigger Lie: A Memoir in Two Stories

  • biography
  • memoir
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • essays
  • audiobook
Cover of Monsters: A Fan's Dilemma by Claire Dederer

2. Monsters: A Fan's Dilemma

By: Claire Dederer

3.79

Format: 257 pages, Hardcover

From the author of the New York Times best seller Poser and the acclaimed memoir Love and Trouble, … read more

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  • memoir
  • philosophy
  • nonfiction
  • essays
  • audiobook
"Biography used to be something you sought out, yearned for, actively pursued. Now it falls on your head all day long."

-Claire Dederer, Monsters: A Fan's Dilemma

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3. While You Were Out: An Intimate Family Portrait of Mental Illness in an Era of Silence

By: Meg Kissinger

4.28

Format: 320 pages, Hardcover

From award-winning journalist Meg Kissinger, a searing memoir of a family besieged by mental illnes… read more

Similar categories in Meg Kissinger's While You Were Out: An Intimate Family Portrait of Mental Illness in an Era of Silence book and Sarah Viren's To Name the Bigger Lie: A Memoir in Two Stories

  • biography
  • memoir
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
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4. Grief Is for People

By: Sloane Crosley

3.91

Format: 208 pages, Hardcover

Following the death of her closest friend, Sloane Crosley explores multiple kinds of loss in this d… read more

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  • biography
  • memoir
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • essays
  • audiobook
"Grief is for people, not things."

-Sloane Crosley, Grief Is for People

"Suicide is a tax on human consciousness."

-Sloane Crosley, Grief Is for People

"How will he know you loved him," she asks, "unless you try to destroy yourself?"

-Sloane Crosley, Grief Is for People

"Pictures should be of what you see, not of what the world sees when it sees you."

-Sloane Crosley, Grief Is for People

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5. Creep: Accusations and Confessions

By: Myriam Gurba

4.37

Format: 331 pages, Kindle Edition

A ruthless and razor-sharp essay collection that tackles the pervasive, creeping oppression and tox… read more

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  • audiobook
  • memoir
  • lgbt
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • essays
  • adult
  • queer
"Embedded within these systems of family, friendship, and community, these creepy men may appear harmless, their evil obscured by a benign collective presence, a fog of sorts. This softness swaddles a…"

-Myriam Gurba, Creep: Accusations and Confessions

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6. Doppelganger: A Trip into the Mirror World

By: Naomi Klein

4.22

Format: 416 pages, Hardcover

What if you woke up one morning and found you’d acquired another self―a double who was almost you a… read more

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  • biography
  • memoir
  • philosophy
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
"Our role here on earth is not simply to maximize the advantage in our lives. It’s to maximize (protect, regenerate) all of life. We are here not just to make sure we as individuals survive, but to ma…"

-Naomi Klein, Doppelganger: A Trip into the Mirror World

"A state of shock is what happens to us- individually or as a society- when we experience a sudden and unprecedented event for which we do not yet have adequate explanation. At its essence, a shock is…"

-Naomi Klein, Doppelganger: A Trip into the Mirror World

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7. All-Night Pharmacy

By: Ruth Madievsky

3.52

Format: 304 pages, ebook

*An instant national bestseller* Winner of the National Jewish Book Award for Debut Fiction Fin… read more

Similar categories in Ruth Madievsky's All-Night Pharmacy book and Sarah Viren's To Name the Bigger Lie: A Memoir in Two Stories

  • audiobook
  • adult
  • lgbt
  • queer
"You could fall asleep spooning her and wake up with a screwdriver pressed to your throat."

-Ruth Madievsky, All-Night Pharmacy

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8. Without Children: The Long History of Not Being a Mother

By: Peggy O'Donnell Heffington

3.77

Format: 256 pages, Hardcover

A historian explores the complicated relationship between womanhood and motherhood  in this “timely… read more

Similar categories in Peggy O'Donnell Heffington's Without Children: The Long History of Not Being a Mother book and Sarah Viren's To Name the Bigger Lie: A Memoir in Two Stories

  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
"Even after becoming a mother, fulfilling the role society demands of you, you still can't win."

-Peggy O'Donnell Heffington, Without Children: The Long History of Not Being a Mother

"Parenthood is demanded of us, but we are asked to parent in isolated bubbles, supported--to put it crudely--by our bank accounts and little else."

-Peggy O'Donnell Heffington, Without Children: The Long History of Not Being a Mother

"COVID-19 exposed what women with children and without both already knew: that despite the expectation we all become mothers, we receive little support once we do."

-Peggy O'Donnell Heffington, Without Children: The Long History of Not Being a Mother

"In light of our failure to account for the pressures, anxieties, and dangers of modern life, it's possible to argue that the decision to opt out of parenthood is perfectly rational. The decision to h…"

-Peggy O'Donnell Heffington, Without Children: The Long History of Not Being a Mother

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9. The Best Minds: A Story of Friendship, Madness, and the Tragedy of Good Intentions

By: Jonathan Rosen

4.07

Format: 576 pages, Hardcover

“Brave and nuanced…an act of tremendous compassion and a literary triumph.” — The New York Times … read more

Similar categories in Jonathan Rosen's The Best Minds: A Story of Friendship, Madness, and the Tragedy of Good Intentions book and Sarah Viren's To Name the Bigger Lie: A Memoir in Two Stories

  • biography
  • memoir
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
"It's true I didn't love the job, but I did want the money. If I was too incompetent for ordinary work, I would have to do something extraordinary or face destruction."

-Jonathan Rosen, The Best Minds: A Story of Friendship, Madness, and the Tragedy of Good Intentions

"Money had replaced community mental healthcare the way medication had replaced state hospitals. Medication did not go looking for those who resisted taking it, and money could not administer itself. …"

-Jonathan Rosen, The Best Minds: A Story of Friendship, Madness, and the Tragedy of Good Intentions

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10. Sure, I'll Join Your Cult: A Memoir of Mental Illness and the Quest to Belong Anywhere

By: Maria Bamford

3.77

Format: 287 pages, Hardcover

A brutally honest and hilariously frenetic memoir about show business, mental health, and the comfo… read more

Similar categories in Maria Bamford's Sure, I'll Join Your Cult: A Memoir of Mental Illness and the Quest to Belong Anywhere book and Sarah Viren's To Name the Bigger Lie: A Memoir in Two Stories

  • biography
  • memoir
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
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11. We Were Once a Family: A Story of Love, Death, and Child Removal in America

By: Roxanna Asgarian

4.32

Format: 320 pages, Hardcover

The shocking, deeply reported story of a murder-suicide that claimed the lives of six children—and … read more

Similar categories in Roxanna Asgarian's We Were Once a Family: A Story of Love, Death, and Child Removal in America book and Sarah Viren's To Name the Bigger Lie: A Memoir in Two Stories

  • adult
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
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12. Biography of X

By: Catherine Lacey

3.85

Format: 416 pages, Hardcover

From one of our fiercest stylists, a roaring epic chronicling the life, times, and secrets of a not… read more

Similar categories in Catherine Lacey's Biography of X book and Sarah Viren's To Name the Bigger Lie: A Memoir in Two Stories

  • audiobook
  • adult
  • lgbt
  • queer
"One of the armed guards smiled and said, “God bless,"

-Catherine Lacey, Biography of X

"Who can say who I are, how many I are, which I is the most I of my I’s?"

-Catherine Lacey, Biography of X

"She could not hurt me. I had no more space, at the time, to hold any new hurts."

-Catherine Lacey, Biography of X

"She kept losing track of the people she loved, and losing track of herself along with them."

-Catherine Lacey, Biography of X

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13. The Vaster Wilds

By: Lauren Groff

3.77

Format: 272 pages, Hardcover

A taut and electrifying novel from celebrated bestselling author Lauren Groff, about one spirited g… read more

Similar categories in Lauren Groff's The Vaster Wilds book and Sarah Viren's To Name the Bigger Lie: A Memoir in Two Stories

  • adult
  • audiobook
"For what is a girl but a vessel made to hold the desires of men."

-Lauren Groff, The Vaster Wilds

"O put the memory away, girl, she told herself sternly. For the sorrow could eat you entire."

-Lauren Groff, The Vaster Wilds

"And humans were not made to be always alone; humans survive only in the company of other humans."

-Lauren Groff, The Vaster Wilds

"Against the resistance of other minds, one's thoughts are pulled out of their comfortable shapes, and true thinking begins."

-Lauren Groff, The Vaster Wilds

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14. Blackouts

By: Justin Torres

3.77

Format: 306 pages, Hardcover

From the bestselling author of We the Animals, Blackouts mines lost histories--personal and collect… read more

Similar categories in Justin Torres's Blackouts book and Sarah Viren's To Name the Bigger Lie: A Memoir in Two Stories

  • audiobook
  • lgbt
  • queer
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15. Sociopath: A Memoir

By: Patric Gagne

3.84

Format: 368 pages, Hardcover

A fascinating, revelatory memoir revealing the author’s struggle to come to terms with her own soci… read more

Similar categories in Patric Gagne's Sociopath: A Memoir book and Sarah Viren's To Name the Bigger Lie: A Memoir in Two Stories

  • biography
  • memoir
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • adult
  • audiobook
"In a universe where everything seemed to be associated with everything else, jazz was in a world all its own. The untethered notes didn't propel me backward in time or force me into imaginations of t…"

-Patric Gagne, Sociopath: A Memoir

"Regardless of whether they realized it, my parents, my friends, my teachers, my lovers—everyone, on some level—was uncomfortable with my limited emotion. Because it meant something sinister. Because,…"

-Patric Gagne, Sociopath: A Memoir

"I loved people. I truly did. But the way I loved was different than most. And, if I was being honest, not all that compatible. I didn’t need to get love in order to give love. I never had. I preferre…"

-Patric Gagne, Sociopath: A Memoir

"The more I paid attention, the more I noticed just how often 'apathy,' 'lack of feeling,' and the word 'sociopath' were associated with evil. Everywhere. From celebrated books like East of Eden and T…"

-Patric Gagne, Sociopath: A Memoir

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16. Women We Buried, Women We Burned: A Memoir

By: Rachel Louise Snyder

3.94

Format: 272 pages, Hardcover

For decades, Rachel Louise Snyder has been a fierce advocate reporting on the darkest social issues… read more

Similar categories in Rachel Louise Snyder's Women We Buried, Women We Burned: A Memoir book and Sarah Viren's To Name the Bigger Lie: A Memoir in Two Stories

  • biography
  • memoir
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • adult
  • audiobook
"I didn't intentionally gravitate towards stories of women. I was interested in human rights, which often boiled down to this question: who was winning and who was losing? And over and over again, cou…"

-Rachel Louise Snyder, Women We Buried, Women We Burned: A Memoir

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17. Owner of a Lonely Heart: A Memoir

By: Beth Nguyen

3.63

Format: 256 pages, Hardcover

From the award-winning author of Stealing Buddha’s Dinner, a powerful memoir of a mother-daughter r… read more

Similar categories in Beth Nguyen's Owner of a Lonely Heart: A Memoir book and Sarah Viren's To Name the Bigger Lie: A Memoir in Two Stories

  • biography
  • memoir
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
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18. When the World Didn't End: A Memoir

By: Guinevere Turner

3.74

Format: 336 pages, Hardcover

In this immersive, spell-binding memoir, an acclaimed screenwriter tells the story of her childhood… read more

Similar categories in Guinevere Turner's When the World Didn't End: A Memoir book and Sarah Viren's To Name the Bigger Lie: A Memoir in Two Stories

  • biography
  • memoir
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
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19. Mobility

By: Lydia Kiesling

3.71

Format: 352 pages, Hardcover

A propulsive novel about class, power, politics, and desire by the celebrated author of The Golden … read more

Similar categories in Lydia Kiesling's Mobility book and Sarah Viren's To Name the Bigger Lie: A Memoir in Two Stories

  • audiobook
Cover of Leg: The Story of a Limb and the Boy Who Grew from It by Greg  Marshall

20. Leg: The Story of a Limb and the Boy Who Grew from It

By: Greg Marshall

3.97

Format: 304 pages, Hardcover

A hilarious and poignant memoir grappling with family, disability, and coming of age in two closets… read more

Similar categories in Greg Marshall's Leg: The Story of a Limb and the Boy Who Grew from It book and Sarah Viren's To Name the Bigger Lie: A Memoir in Two Stories

  • audiobook
  • biography
  • memoir
  • lgbt
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • adult
  • queer
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21. The Country of the Blind: A Memoir at the End of Sight

By: Andrew Leland

4.14

Format: 368 pages, Hardcover

A witty, winning, and revelatory personal narrative of the author’s transition from sightedness to … read more

Similar categories in Andrew Leland's The Country of the Blind: A Memoir at the End of Sight book and Sarah Viren's To Name the Bigger Lie: A Memoir in Two Stories

  • biography
  • memoir
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
"The problem arises, as [Adrienne] Asch observed, when "a single trait stands in for the whole, the trait obliterates the whole." Disabled people, like African Americans or any other marginalized grou…"

-Andrew Leland, The Country of the Blind: A Memoir at the End of Sight

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22. My Murder

By: Katie Williams

3.66

Format: 304 pages, Hardcover

What if the murder you had to solve was your own? Lou is a happily married mother of an adorable… read more

Similar categories in Katie Williams's My Murder book and Sarah Viren's To Name the Bigger Lie: A Memoir in Two Stories

  • adult
  • audiobook
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23. Everything/Nothing/Someone

By: Alice Carrière

4.02

Format: 277 pages, Hardcover

A powerful literary debut that tells of a young woman’s coming-of-age in the bohemian ’90s, as her … read more

Similar categories in Alice Carrière's Everything/Nothing/Someone book and Sarah Viren's To Name the Bigger Lie: A Memoir in Two Stories

  • biography
  • memoir
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
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24. To Name the Bigger Lie: A Memoir in Two Stories

By: Sarah Viren

3.52

Format: 304 pages, Hardcover

Part coming-of-age story, part psychological thriller, part philosophical investigation, this unfor… read more

Similar categories in Sarah Viren's To Name the Bigger Lie: A Memoir in Two Stories book and Sarah Viren's To Name the Bigger Lie: A Memoir in Two Stories

  • audiobook
  • biography
  • memoir
  • lgbt
  • philosophy
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • essays
  • adult
  • queer
Cover of Directions to Myself: A Memoir of Four Years by Heidi Julavits

25. Directions to Myself: A Memoir of Four Years

By: Heidi Julavits

3.74

Format: 304 pages, Hardcover

A sharply observed memoir of motherhood and the self, and a love letter to Maine, by a writer Eula … read more

Similar categories in Heidi Julavits's Directions to Myself: A Memoir of Four Years book and Sarah Viren's To Name the Bigger Lie: A Memoir in Two Stories

  • biography
  • memoir
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
Cover of Adult Drama: And Other Essays by Natalie Beach

26. Adult Drama: And Other Essays

By: Natalie Beach

3.14

Format: 272 pages, Hardcover

Named a Most Anticipated Book in... Harper’s Bazaar Elle Bookpage Vulture’s “Into It” From the wri… read more

Similar categories in Natalie Beach's Adult Drama: And Other Essays book and Sarah Viren's To Name the Bigger Lie: A Memoir in Two Stories

  • biography
  • memoir
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • essays
  • adult
  • audiobook
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27. Pulling the Chariot of the Sun: A Memoir of a Kidnapping

By: Shane McCrae

3.29

Format: 272 pages, Hardcover

An unforgettable memoir by an award-winning poet about being kidnapped from his Black father and ra… read more

Similar categories in Shane McCrae's Pulling the Chariot of the Sun: A Memoir of a Kidnapping book and Sarah Viren's To Name the Bigger Lie: A Memoir in Two Stories

  • biography
  • memoir
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
"When she told me why she was divorcing my grandfather, I was surprised - all my life, I had thought he could do anything he wanted. But after a few long moments of silence, I realized: he had only ev…"

-Shane McCrae, Pulling the Chariot of the Sun: A Memoir of a Kidnapping

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28. Liars

By: Sarah Manguso

3.89

Format: 272 pages, Hardcover

A searing novel about being a wife, a mother, and an artist, and how marriage makes liars out of us… read more

Similar categories in Sarah Manguso's Liars book and Sarah Viren's To Name the Bigger Lie: A Memoir in Two Stories

  • adult
  • audiobook
"I was in charge of everything and in control of nothing."

-Sarah Manguso, Liars

"I needed my suffering to be acknowledged. After that, maybe I’d think about getting through it."

-Sarah Manguso, Liars

Cover of I See You, Survivor: Life Inside (and Outside) the Totally F*cked-Up Troubled Teen Industry by Liz Ianelli

29. I See You, Survivor: Life Inside (and Outside) the Totally F*cked-Up Troubled Teen Industry

By: Liz Ianelli

4.06

Format: None pages, Audiobook

A survivor of the Troubled Teen Industry exposes the truth about the dark side of a billion-dollar … read more

Similar categories in Liz Ianelli's I See You, Survivor: Life Inside (and Outside) the Totally F*cked-Up Troubled Teen Industry book and Sarah Viren's To Name the Bigger Lie: A Memoir in Two Stories

  • nonfiction
  • biography
  • memoir
Cover of Lesbian Love Story by Amelia Possanza

30. Lesbian Love Story

By: Amelia Possanza

3.78

Format: 288 pages, Hardcover

For readers of Saidiya Hartman and Jeanette Winterson, Lesbian Love Story is an intimate journey in… read more

Similar categories in Amelia Possanza's Lesbian Love Story book and Sarah Viren's To Name the Bigger Lie: A Memoir in Two Stories

  • biography
  • memoir
  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • adult
  • queer
"Lesbians, in my eyes, are defined as the ones who invent their own systems of love: Romantic love. Family love. Friend love. A love for community, and for strangers too. They love when there is nothi…"

-Amelia Possanza, Lesbian Love Story

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Creep: Accusations and Confessions

Myriam Gurba

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Ruth Madievsky

3.52

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We Were Once a Family: A Story of Love, Death, and Child Removal in America

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4.32

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On Our Best Behavior: The Seven Deadly Sins and the Price Women Pay to Be Good

Elise Loehnen

3.80

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Suzanne Scanlon

4.22

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3.99

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