19 must-read nonfiction books like 101 Defenses: How the Mind Shields Itself by Jerome S. Blackman

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101 Defenses: How the Mind Shields Itself

By: Jerome S. Blackman

4.06

Format: 232 pages, Paperback

Defenses are mental operations that restore or maintain psychic equilibrium when people feel that t…

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1. It Didn't Start with You: How Inherited Family Trauma Shapes Who We Are and How to End the Cycle

By: Mark Wolynn

3.55

Format: 256 pages, Hardcover

A groundbreaking approach to transforming traumatic legacies passed down in families over generatio… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • psychology
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2. The Drama of the Gifted Child: The Search for the True Self

By: Alice Miller , None

4.12

Format: None pages, Paperback

As charming performers who skillfully reflect their parents expectations, far too many children gro… read more

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  • psychoanalysis
  • nonfiction
  • psychology
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3. In the Café of Lost Youth

By: Patrick Modiano , Euan Cameron

3.53

Format: 153 pages, Hardcover

The elegant, haunting story of the forgotten people and places of Paris from the reigning Nobel Lau… read more

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"Quand on aime vraiment quelqu'un, il faut accepter sa part de mystère... et c'est pour ça qu'on l'aime..."

-Patrick Modiano, In the Café of Lost Youth

"Il existait à Paris des zones intermédiaires, des no man's land où l'on était à la lisière de tout, en transit, ou même en suspens."

-Patrick Modiano, In the Café of Lost Youth

"Người ta không già đi. Với những năm tháng trôi qua, nhiều người và nhiều thứ rốt cuộc trở nên hài hước và nực cười đến mức bạn ném vào họ và vào chúng một cái nhìn trẻ con."

-Patrick Modiano, In the Café of Lost Youth

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4. Women Who Love Too Much: When You Keep Wishing and Hoping He'll Change

By: Robin Norwood

4.48

Format: 356 pages, Paperback

This text is suitable for the reader for whom being in love means being in pain. Therapist Robin No… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • psychology
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5. Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ

By: Daniel Goleman

4.05

Format: 352 pages, Hardcover

The groundbreaking book that redefines what it means to be smart, with a new introduction by the au… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • psychology
"In a very real sense we have two minds, one that thinks and one that feels"

-Daniel Goleman, Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ

"Emotional self-control-- delaying gratification and stifling impulsiveness- underlies accomplishment of every sort"

-Daniel Goleman, Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ

"[Sharmayne Williams:]...puoi avere tutte le emozioni possibili, ma non devi permettere che siano loro a manovrarti."

-Daniel Goleman, Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ

"In the calculus of the heart it is the ratio of positive to negative emotions that determines the sense of well- being."

-Daniel Goleman, Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ

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6. The Gift of Therapy: An Open Letter to a New Generation of Therapists and Their Patients

By: Irvin D. Yalom , Nicola Ferguson

3.66

Format: 162 pages,

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  • nonfiction
  • psychology

7. The Art of Loving

By: Erich Fromm , Rainer Funk , Peter D. Kramer

3.45

Format: 94 pages, Paperback

The fiftieth Anniversary Edition of the groundbreaking international bestseller that has shown mill… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • psychology
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8. Maitreyi

By: Mircea Eliade

4.19

Format: 234 pages,

Set in 1930s Calcutta, this is a roman a clefof remarkable intimacy. Originally published in Romani… read more

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9. To Have or to Be? The Nature of the Psyche

By: Erich Fromm

3.47

Format: 288 pages, Paperback

To Have Or to Be? is one of the seminal books of the second half of the 20th century. Nothing less … read more

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  • psychoanalysis
  • nonfiction
  • psychology
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10. Gut Feelings: The Intelligence of the Unconscious

By: Gerd Gigerenzer

3.90

Format: 205 pages,

Why is split second decision-making superior to deliberation? Gut Feelings delivers the science beh… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • psychology

11. Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find -- and Keep -- Love

By: Amir Levine , None

3.76

Format: 234 pages, Hardcover

Is there a science to love? In this groundbreaking book, psychiatrist and neuroscientist Amir Levi… read more

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12. Peak: Secrets from the New Science of Expertise

By: Robert Pool , K. Anders Ericsson

4.03

Format: None pages, ebook

A survey of the psychology of expertise, providing techniques for developing mastery of any skill, … read more

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13. Creatures of a Day: And Other Tales of Psychotherapy

By: Irvin D. Yalom

3.93

Format: None pages, Hardcover

"The publication of Creatures of a Dayis reason to celebrate." --Steven Pinker In this stunning col… read more

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14. The 50 Greatest Love Letters of All Time

By: David H. Lowenherz

3.69

Format: 400 pages, Hardcover

If a picture speaks a thousand words, a love letter speaks a thousand more . . . Even in this age o… read more

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15. The Body Never Lies: The Lingering Effects of Cruel Parenting

By: Alice Miller , None

4.20

Format: 172 pages, Paperback

Never before has world-renowned psychoanalyst Alice Miller examined so persuasively the long-range … read more

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16. The Narcissist You Know: Defending Yourself Against Extreme Narcissists in an All-About-Me Age

By: None

5.00

Format: 32 pages, Hardcover

In the tradition of The Sociopath Next Door, clinical psychologist Joseph Burgo's The Narcissist Yo… read more

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17. Felicidade Clandestina

By: Clarice Lispector

3.69

Format: 121 pages, Paperback

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18. The Conquest of Happiness

By: Bertrand Russell , None

4.20

Format: None pages,

The books of Bertrand Russell are a modern substitute for the Bible. - TIME "The Conquest of Happin… read more

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19. Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life

By: Henry Cloud , None

3.00

Format: None pages, Hardcover

Having clear boundaries is essential to a healthy, balanced lifestyle. A boundary is a personal pro… read more

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20. Good Morning, Monster: A Therapist Shares Five Heroic Stories of Emotional Recovery

By: Catherine Gildiner

4.46

Format: 368 pages, Hardcover

In this fascinating narrative, therapist Catherine Gildiner's presents five of what she calls her m… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • psychology
"Anger is a defense, not a feeling, ....analyze what feeling the anger was covering."

-Catherine Gildiner, Good Morning, Monster: A Therapist Shares Five Heroic Stories of Emotional Recovery

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21. Dopamine Nation: Finding Balance in the Age of Indulgence

By: Anna Lembke

3.91

Format: 304 pages, ebook

This book is about pleasure. It's also about pain. Most important, it's about how to find the delic… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • psychology
"The reason we’re all so miserable may be because we’re working so hard to avoid being miserable."

-Anna Lembke, Dopamine Nation: Finding Balance in the Age of Indulgence

"The paradox is that hedonism, the pursuit of pleasure for its own sake, leads to anhedonia, which is the inability to enjoy pleasure of any kind."

-Anna Lembke, Dopamine Nation: Finding Balance in the Age of Indulgence

"With prolonged and repeated exposure to pleasurable stimuli, our capacity to tolerate pain decreases, and our threshold for experiencing pleasure increases."

-Anna Lembke, Dopamine Nation: Finding Balance in the Age of Indulgence

"Beyond extreme examples of running from pain, we’ve lost the ability to tolerate even minor forms of discomfort. We’re constantly seeking to distract ourselves from the present moment, to be entertai…"

-Anna Lembke, Dopamine Nation: Finding Balance in the Age of Indulgence

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22. Set Boundaries, Find Peace: A Guide to Reclaiming Yourself

By: Nedra Glover Tawwab

4.28

Format: 282 pages, ebook

End the struggle, speak up for what you need, and experience the freedom of being truly yourself. … read more

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  • nonfiction
  • psychology
"We don't naturally fall into perfect relationship; we create them"

-Nedra Glover Tawwab, Set Boundaries, Find Peace: A Guide to Reclaiming Yourself

"I’m not doing this to disrespect you. I’m doing this to respect myself."

-Nedra Glover Tawwab, Set Boundaries, Find Peace: A Guide to Reclaiming Yourself

"Assume that people know only what you tell them, honor only what you request, and can't read your mind."

-Nedra Glover Tawwab, Set Boundaries, Find Peace: A Guide to Reclaiming Yourself

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23. Clear Thinking: Turning Ordinary Moments into Extraordinary Results

By: Shane Parrish

4.21

Format: 284 pages, Kindle Edition

AN INSTANT NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLERFew things will change your trajectory in life or business as m… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • psychology
"Our desire to feel right overpowers our desire to be right."

-Shane Parrish, Clear Thinking: Turning Ordinary Moments into Extraordinary Results

"The social rewards for going with the crowd are felt long before the benefits of going against it are gained."

-Shane Parrish, Clear Thinking: Turning Ordinary Moments into Extraordinary Results

"Most people go through life assuming that we’re right about everything all the time and that people who don’t see things our way are wrong. We mistake how we want the world to be with how it actually…"

-Shane Parrish, Clear Thinking: Turning Ordinary Moments into Extraordinary Results

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24. The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture

By: Gabor Maté

4.32

Format: 576 pages, Hardcover

By the acclaimed author of In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts, a groundbreaking investigation into the c… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • psychology
Cover of The Molecule of More: How a Single Chemical in Your Brain Drives Love, Sex, and Creativity—and Will Determine the Fate of the Human Race by Daniel Z. Lieberman

25. The Molecule of More: How a Single Chemical in Your Brain Drives Love, Sex, and Creativity—and Will Determine the Fate of the Human Race

By: Daniel Z. Lieberman

4.15

Format: 240 pages, Hardcover

Why are we obsessed with the things we want and bored when we get them? Why is addiction "perfect… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • psychology
"It’s better to be smart than strong."

-Daniel Z. Lieberman, The Molecule of More: How a Single Chemical in Your Brain Drives Love, Sex, and Creativity—and Will Determine the Fate of the Human Race

"Success inspired confidence; confidence produced success."

-Daniel Z. Lieberman, The Molecule of More: How a Single Chemical in Your Brain Drives Love, Sex, and Creativity—and Will Determine the Fate of the Human Race

"Having a confident expectation of success can make obstacles melt before your eyes."

-Daniel Z. Lieberman, The Molecule of More: How a Single Chemical in Your Brain Drives Love, Sex, and Creativity—and Will Determine the Fate of the Human Race

"As the German philosopher Arthur Schoppenhauer wrote, "Dreams are brief madness and madness a long dreams."

-Daniel Z. Lieberman, The Molecule of More: How a Single Chemical in Your Brain Drives Love, Sex, and Creativity—and Will Determine the Fate of the Human Race

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26. Mă găsești când vrei

By: Lavinia Braniște

3.80

Format: 200 pages, Paperback

Într-un aeroport se întîlnesc un bărbat și o femeie care descoperă, întîmplător, că au aceeași dest… read more

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  • psychology
"Poate că în zilele noastre ne despărțim așa ușor pentru că avem impresia că merităm ceva mai bun și că acel ceva e foarte accesibil."

-Lavinia Braniște, Mă găsești când vrei

"Beția aceasta de început e întotdeauna necesară, pentru că în puține cazuri din multe chiar devine o bază pe care se construiesc vieți împreună. Atfel nu se pot închide ochii, nu se pot depăși barier…"

-Lavinia Braniște, Mă găsești când vrei

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27. Wanting: The Power of Mimetic Desire in Everyday Life

By: Luke Burgis

3.81

Format: 304 pages, Hardcover

A groundbreaking exploration of why we want what we want, and a toolkit for freeing ourselves from … read more

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  • nonfiction
  • psychology
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28. 101 Defenses: How the Mind Shields Itself

By: Jerome S. Blackman

4.06

Format: 232 pages, Paperback

Defenses are mental operations that restore or maintain psychic equilibrium when people feel that t… read more

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  • psychoanalysis
  • nonfiction
  • psychology
Cover of Trauma and Dissociation Informed Psychotherapy: Relational Healing and the Therapeutic Connection by Elizabeth F. Howell

29. Trauma and Dissociation Informed Psychotherapy: Relational Healing and the Therapeutic Connection

By: Elizabeth F. Howell

4.31

Format: 264 pages, Hardcover

A fresh look at the importance of dissociation in understanding trauma. A new model of therapeutic … read more

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  • psychoanalysis
  • nonfiction
  • psychology
Cover of Unf*ck Your Grief: Using Science to Heal Yourself and Support Others by Faith G. Harper

30. Unf*ck Your Grief: Using Science to Heal Yourself and Support Others

By: Faith G. Harper

3.90

Format: 1 pages, Audio CD

MP3 CD Format Bestselling author Dr. Faith G. Harper adds to her series of zines, writing this time… read more

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  • nonfiction
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31. Healing Conversations: What to Say When You Don't Know What to Say

By: Nance Guilmartin

3.78

Format: 352 pages, Paperback

Whether it's the loss of a job, a marriage, or a life, in today's 24/7 world we're increasingly fac… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • psychology

19 best-selling psychology books like 101 Defenses: How the Mind Shields Itself by Jerome S. Blackman

Transform Your Habits

It Didn't Start with You: How Inherited Family Trauma Shapes Who We Are and How to End the Cycle

Mark Wolynn

3.55

Transform Your Habits

The Drama of the Gifted Child: The Search for the True Self

Alice Miller , None

4.12

Transform Your Habits

Women Who Love Too Much: When You Keep Wishing and Hoping He'll Change

Robin Norwood

4.48

Transform Your Habits

Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ

Daniel Goleman

4.05

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8 must-read nonfiction books like Healing Conversations: What to Say When You Don't Know What to Say by Nance Guilmartin

Transform Your Habits

The Body Remembers: The Psychophysiology of Trauma and Trauma Treatment

Babette Rothschild

4.29

The Emotionally Absent Mother: A Guide to Self-Healing and Getting the Love You Missed

Jasmin Lee Cori

4.18

Transform Your Habits

Women Who Love Too Much: When You Keep Wishing and Hoping He'll Change

Robin Norwood

4.48

Transform Your Habits

Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ

Daniel Goleman

4.05

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