17 Best lgbt books like Save Yourself by Cameron Esposito

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Save Yourself

By: Cameron Esposito

3.94

Format: 240 pages, Hardcover

From standup comic Cameron Esposito, a memoir that tackles sexuality, gender and equality--and how …

"I'm mad at the religion I grew up in. I'm mad that Catholic doctrine still swims in my mind, that I think in Bible stories, regard Sundays as sacred, and love when radio stations start playing Christmas carols in October. If "O Holy Night" comes on while I drive past the jack-o-lanterns still out on your porches, I will likely blast it, and get taken in by the comfort of things I grew up with. It's like rewatching "Back to the Future" or "Sixteen Candles" as an adult and being like "wait, I think that scene is actual sexual assault" as nostalgia turns into unsettling recognition."

-Cameron Esposito, Save Yourself

"I'm mad at the religion I grew up in. I'm mad that Catholic doctrine still swims in my mind, that I think in Bible stories, regard Sundays as sacred, and love when radio stations start playing Christmas carols in October. If "O Holy Night" comes on while I drive past the jack-o-lanterns still out on your porches, I will likely blast it, and get taken in by the comfort of things I grew up with. It's like rewatching "Back to the Future" or "Sixteen Candles" as an adult and being like "wait, I think that scene is actual sexual assault" as nostalgia turns into unsettling recognition."

-Cameron Esposito, Save Yourself

If you liked the lgbt plot in Save Yourself by Cameron Esposito , here is a list of 17 books like this:

Cover of Forward: A Memoir by Karen Abbott, Abby Wambach

1. Forward: A Memoir

By: Karen Abbott , Abby Wambach

3.24

Format: 0 pages, ebook

Forwardis the powerful story of an athlete who has inspired girls all over the world to believe in … read more

Similar categories in Karen Abbott's Forward: A Memoir book and Cameron Esposito's Save Yourself

  • biography
  • memoir
  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook

2. Surpassing Certainty: What My Twenties Taught Me

By: Janet Mock

3.75

Format: 273 pages, Hardcover

Riveting, rousing, and utterly real, Surpassing Certaintyis a portrait of a young woman searching f… read more

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3. Committed: On Meaning and Madwomen

By: Suzanne Scanlon

4.22

Format: 368 pages, Paperback

A raw and masterful memoir about becoming a woman and going mad—and doing both at once.   When Su… read more

Similar categories in Suzanne Scanlon's Committed: On Meaning and Madwomen book and Cameron Esposito's Save Yourself

  • biography
  • memoir
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
"Only in retrospect might I say I loved it there. I didn't love it. It became familiar. I got used to it. I became dependent upon it. This is not love."

-Suzanne Scanlon, Committed: On Meaning and Madwomen

"I became a writer because I believe in that part of me who is not limited by age or gender or time or disability - yet still I am afraid to say it. Yes, I was ill."

-Suzanne Scanlon, Committed: On Meaning and Madwomen

"I myself have internalized the self-loathing that at times can make me feel ashamed to be writing this book. But I also believe that, as my heroes have shown me, this is where a writer must go."

-Suzanne Scanlon, Committed: On Meaning and Madwomen

"What if, instead of being diagnosed—being called mentally ill—what if I had been able to receive care for its own sake. To be in distress, to ask for care, to receive it. What if there were space in …"

-Suzanne Scanlon, Committed: On Meaning and Madwomen

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4. Sure, I'll Join Your Cult: A Memoir of Mental Illness and the Quest to Belong Anywhere

By: Maria Bamford

3.77

Format: 287 pages, Hardcover

A brutally honest and hilariously frenetic memoir about show business, mental health, and the comfo… read more

Similar categories in Maria Bamford's Sure, I'll Join Your Cult: A Memoir of Mental Illness and the Quest to Belong Anywhere book and Cameron Esposito's Save Yourself

  • biography
  • memoir
  • humor
  • autobiography
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
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5. Ten Steps to Nanette

By: Hannah Gadsby

4.47

Format: 400 pages, Hardcover

Multi-awardwinning Hannah Gadsby transformed comedy with her show Nanette, even as she declared tha… read more

Similar categories in Hannah Gadsby's Ten Steps to Nanette book and Cameron Esposito's Save Yourself

  • audiobook
  • biography
  • memoir
  • lgbt
  • humor
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • queer
"Nanette is basically Eat Pray Love for autistic queer folk."

-Hannah Gadsby, Ten Steps to Nanette

"So, I will just share it here, because I truly believe that the only universal “body"

-Hannah Gadsby, Ten Steps to Nanette

"It really is something when you can make collecting and organising objects boring to a young kid with autism spectrum disorder (but that’s exactly what Stamp Explorer managed to do)."

-Hannah Gadsby, Ten Steps to Nanette

"And I needed my audience to trust me because I needed my audience to feel safe, and I needed my audience to feel safe so that I could take that safety away and not give it back. Why? Because that is …"

-Hannah Gadsby, Ten Steps to Nanette

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6. Dolls of Our Lives

By: Mary Mahoney

3.53

Format: None pages, None

For Feiwel & Friends, Kat Brzozowski bought world rights to a currently untitled book by Allison Ho… read more

Similar categories in Mary Mahoney's Dolls of Our Lives book and Cameron Esposito's Save Yourself

  • humor
  • nonfiction
  • memoir
  • audiobook
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7. Hijab Butch Blues

By: Lamya H.

4.48

Format: 284 pages, Hardcover

A queer hijabi Muslim immigrant survives her coming-of-age by drawing strength and hope from storie… read more

Similar categories in Lamya H.'s Hijab Butch Blues book and Cameron Esposito's Save Yourself

  • lesbian
  • audiobook
  • biography
  • memoir
  • lgbt
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • queer
"Sort of?"

-Lamya H., Hijab Butch Blues

"Queer indispensability?"

-Lamya H., Hijab Butch Blues

"I feel tired. Or reckless. Or maybe brave."

-Lamya H., Hijab Butch Blues

"I want to figure her out, this girl, and I want to know everything about her."

-Lamya H., Hijab Butch Blues

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8. Pageboy

By: Elliot Page

3.75

Format: 271 pages, None

Pageboy is a groundbreaking coming-of-age memoir from the Academy Award-nominated actor Elliot Page… read more

Similar categories in Elliot Page's Pageboy book and Cameron Esposito's Save Yourself

  • audiobook
  • biography
  • memoir
  • lgbt
  • autobiography
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • queer
"Her visibility meant the world to me. I think about this as I walk through the world now."

-Elliot Page, Pageboy

"How do people do it? How do they shut off the noise? And I don't mean "happy", they may not be happy, but they seem to be able to exist at least."

-Elliot Page, Pageboy

"In a world where queerness all too often alienates us from blood, I am grateful to Julia, and the family I have chosen. Without them, I wouldn't be here."

-Elliot Page, Pageboy

"I could block myself out, I was a person I didn't know, I'd gaze into what felt like the universe, my eye a planet of its own. I must be somewhere in there, I'd think."

-Elliot Page, Pageboy

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9. Broken Horses

By: Brandi Carlile

4.40

Format: 336 pages, Hardcover

The critically acclaimed singer-songwriter, producer, and six-time Grammy winner opens up about a l… read more

Similar categories in Brandi Carlile's Broken Horses book and Cameron Esposito's Save Yourself

  • audiobook
  • biography
  • memoir
  • lgbt
  • autobiography
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • queer
"Love isn't a feeling. It's something we do, and a promise that we keep."

-Brandi Carlile, Broken Horses

"I understand who I am as an artist because I understand that I don’t understand who I am as an artist."

-Brandi Carlile, Broken Horses

"The people and events that had come along and healed me never went unnoticed. My dad pointed out recently that after my botched baptism, I started to gather people--congregants, squads, cheerleaders.…"

-Brandi Carlile, Broken Horses

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10. Quietly Hostile: Essays

By: Samantha Irby

3.70

Format: 290 pages, Paperback

Samantha Irby invites us to share in the gory particulars of her real life, all that festers behind… read more

Similar categories in Samantha Irby's Quietly Hostile: Essays book and Cameron Esposito's Save Yourself

  • audiobook
  • memoir
  • lgbt
  • humor
  • nonfiction
  • queer
"[...] and my face is sore from smiling so hard in an effort to appear friendly and nonthreatening."

-Samantha Irby, Quietly Hostile: Essays

"I'm so embarrassed by everything all the time, humiliated even by the need to breathe air where other people can see me"

-Samantha Irby, Quietly Hostile: Essays

"I want to push back against this idea that it's not real love if you're not passionately chattering at each other all the time, that it's just as valid (and romantic!) to know instinctively when to s…"

-Samantha Irby, Quietly Hostile: Essays

"I lived in blissful solitude for a long time...and you learn a lot about yourself and what you require for life when it's just you that you have to think about...You can buy frozen fish sticks and ea…"

-Samantha Irby, Quietly Hostile: Essays

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11. One Life

By: Megan Rapinoe

4.20

Format: 224 pages, Hardcover

An instant New York Times bestseller! “Rapinoe's 'signature pose' from the 2019 FIFA Women's World… read more

Similar categories in Megan Rapinoe's One Life book and Cameron Esposito's Save Yourself

  • audiobook
  • biography
  • memoir
  • lgbt
  • autobiography
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • queer
Cover of Margaret and the Mystery of the Missing Body by Megan Milks

12. Margaret and the Mystery of the Missing Body

By: Megan Milks

3.98

Format: 256 pages, Paperback

Meet Margaret. At age twelve, she was head detective of the mystery club Girls Can Solve Anything. … read more

Similar categories in Megan Milks's Margaret and the Mystery of the Missing Body book and Cameron Esposito's Save Yourself

  • lgbt
  • queer
Cover of Save Yourself by Cameron Esposito

13. Save Yourself

By: Cameron Esposito

3.94

Format: 240 pages, Hardcover

From standup comic Cameron Esposito, a memoir that tackles sexuality, gender and equality--and how … read more

Similar categories in Cameron Esposito's Save Yourself book and Cameron Esposito's Save Yourself

  • lesbian
  • audiobook
  • biography
  • memoir
  • lgbt
  • humor
  • autobiography
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • queer
"I'm mad at the religion I grew up in. I'm mad that Catholic doctrine still swims in my mind, that I think in Bible stories, regard Sundays as sacred, and love when radio stations start playing Christ…"

-Cameron Esposito, Save Yourself

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14. Moby Dyke: An Obsessive Quest to Track Down the Last Remaining Lesbian Bars in America

By: Krista Burton

3.86

Format: 320 pages, ebook

A former Rookie contributor and creator of the popular blog Effing Dykes investigates the disappear… read more

Similar categories in Krista Burton's Moby Dyke: An Obsessive Quest to Track Down the Last Remaining Lesbian Bars in America book and Cameron Esposito's Save Yourself

  • lesbian
  • audiobook
  • memoir
  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • queer
"While I appreciate the freedom to live anywhere we want, and I love visiting those places, I do feel a sharp sense of loss knowing I can't see the people I consider my queer family on a daily basis. …"

-Krista Burton, Moby Dyke: An Obsessive Quest to Track Down the Last Remaining Lesbian Bars in America

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15. High School

By: Tegan Quin

4.29

Format: 384 pages, Hardcover

High School is the revelatory and unique coming-of-age story of Sara and Tegan Quin, identical twin… read more

Similar categories in Tegan Quin's High School book and Cameron Esposito's Save Yourself

  • audiobook
  • biography
  • memoir
  • lgbt
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • queer
"I had never considered what it would be like to be in love until I was in it."

-Tegan Quin, High School

Cover of I Might Regret This: Essays, Drawings, Vulnerabilities, and Other Stuff by Abbi Jacobson

16. I Might Regret This: Essays, Drawings, Vulnerabilities, and Other Stuff

By: Abbi Jacobson

3.81

Format: 320 pages, Hardcover

From the co-creator and co-star of the hit series Broad City, a "poignant, funny, and beautifully u… read more

Similar categories in Abbi Jacobson's I Might Regret This: Essays, Drawings, Vulnerabilities, and Other Stuff book and Cameron Esposito's Save Yourself

  • audiobook
  • biography
  • memoir
  • lgbt
  • humor
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • queer
"Love revealed how covered up I was, but heartache broke me open."

-Abbi Jacobson, I Might Regret This: Essays, Drawings, Vulnerabilities, and Other Stuff

"Real life is like a constant Yelp review, everyone has notes on how the experience could be improved."

-Abbi Jacobson, I Might Regret This: Essays, Drawings, Vulnerabilities, and Other Stuff

"I thought about how pain is also a symptom of transformation. I thought about bouncing back. How we can start again. And again."

-Abbi Jacobson, I Might Regret This: Essays, Drawings, Vulnerabilities, and Other Stuff

"From that poorly lit room on the top floor of a tiny mini mall in Sedona, a stranger told me exactly what I knew already. I guess that's what I was looking for, someone to see me and my fears and my …"

-Abbi Jacobson, I Might Regret This: Essays, Drawings, Vulnerabilities, and Other Stuff

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17. Experienced

By: Kate Young

4.03

Format: 384 pages, Paperback

“A fizzing, lip-chewing, collar-bone biting, palm-sweating roller-coaster of a rom-com that is both… read more

Similar categories in Kate Young's Experienced book and Cameron Esposito's Save Yourself

  • lesbian
  • audiobook
  • lgbt
  • queer
Cover of Everybody (Else) Is Perfect: How I Survived Hypocrisy, Beauty, Clicks, and Likes by Gabrielle  Korn

18. Everybody (Else) Is Perfect: How I Survived Hypocrisy, Beauty, Clicks, and Likes

By: Gabrielle Korn

3.59

Format: 271 pages, Kindle Edition

From the former editor-in-chief of Nylon comes a provocative and intimate collection of personal an… read more

Similar categories in Gabrielle Korn's Everybody (Else) Is Perfect: How I Survived Hypocrisy, Beauty, Clicks, and Likes book and Cameron Esposito's Save Yourself

  • audiobook
  • memoir
  • lgbt
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • queer
Cover of Mae Martin's Guide to 21st Century Addiction and Sexuality by Mae Martin

19. Mae Martin's Guide to 21st Century Addiction and Sexuality

By: Mae Martin

4.38

Format: 2 pages, Audiobook

Mae Martin is an award-winning Canadian comedian, writer and presenter of podcast GrownUp Land. In … read more

Similar categories in Mae Martin's Mae Martin's Guide to 21st Century Addiction and Sexuality book and Cameron Esposito's Save Yourself

  • audiobook
  • nonfiction
  • lgbt
Cover of Dinner on Monster Island: Essays by Tania De Rozario

20. Dinner on Monster Island: Essays

By: Tania De Rozario

4.18

Format: 190 pages, Paperback

“A penetrating series of personal essays… a memoir that scratches a layer deeper than expected. The… read more

Similar categories in Tania De Rozario's Dinner on Monster Island: Essays book and Cameron Esposito's Save Yourself

  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • memoir
  • queer
"No wonder they come to your house looking for ghosts. Ghosts are spilling out of the walls."

-Tania De Rozario, Dinner on Monster Island: Essays

"What they do not understand when they come to your house is that you have lived your whole life with ghosts."

-Tania De Rozario, Dinner on Monster Island: Essays

"But her smile is vacant. Placid. A Stepford Wife smile. The tears fall but there is nothing behind them. She’s a mannequin crying on command."

-Tania De Rozario, Dinner on Monster Island: Essays

"There is nothing like a horror film to reveal the cultural anxieties of one’s time and place. And if horror has taught me anything, it is that nothing has been as enduringly terrifying across time an…"

-Tania De Rozario, Dinner on Monster Island: Essays

Cover of Free to Be: Understanding Kids & Gender Identity by Jack Turban

21. Free to Be: Understanding Kids & Gender Identity

By: Jack Turban

4.55

Format: 304 pages, Hardcover

An authoritative guide to understanding and navigating gender identity from an acclaimed expert on … read more

Similar categories in Jack Turban's Free to Be: Understanding Kids & Gender Identity book and Cameron Esposito's Save Yourself

  • nonfiction
  • queer
  • lgbt

17 must-read audiobook books like Save Yourself by Cameron Esposito

Transform Your Habits

Forward: A Memoir

Karen Abbott , Abby Wambach

3.24

Transform Your Habits

Committed: On Meaning and Madwomen

Suzanne Scanlon

4.22

Transform Your Habits

Sure, I'll Join Your Cult: A Memoir of Mental Illness and the Quest to Belong Anywhere

Maria Bamford

3.77

Transform Your Habits

Ten Steps to Nanette

Hannah Gadsby

4.47

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Transform Your Habits

Uncomfortable Conversations with a Jew

Emmanuel Acho

4.53

Transform Your Habits

Leg: The Story of a Limb and the Boy Who Grew from It

Greg Marshall

3.97

Transform Your Habits

Sunshine: A Graphic Novel

Jarrett J. Krosoczka

4.55

Transform Your Habits

Who's Afraid of Gender?

Judith Butler

4.02

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