18 best-selling psychology books like Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships by Dedeker Winston

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Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships

By: Dedeker Winston

4.52

Format: 326 pages, Paperback

Relationships aren't "one-size-fits-all" so why should relationship advice be? Multiamory offers pr…

If you liked the psychology plot in Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships by Dedeker Winston , here is a list of 18 books like this:

Cover of The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities by Dossie Easton, Catherine A. Liszt

1. The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities

By: Dossie Easton , Catherine A. Liszt

3.93

Format: 280 pages, Paperback

The essential guide for singles and couples who want to explore polyamory in ways that are ethicall… read more

Similar categories in Dossie Easton's The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities book and Dedeker Winston's Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships

  • polyamory
  • relationships
  • queer
  • lgbt
  • psychology
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • self help
"Nymphomaniac: a woamn that has more sex than you."

-Dossie Easton, The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities

"When you respect your limits, other will learn to respect them too."

-Dossie Easton, The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities

"A ring around the finger does not cause a nerve block to the genitals."

-Dossie Easton, The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities

"Fighting is the ultimate act of intimacy. (...) Intimacy is based on shared vulnerability."

-Dossie Easton, The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities

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2. The New Topping Book

By: Dossie Easton , Janet W. Hardy

3.74

Format: 410 pages,

Tens of thousands learned the emotional and ethical skills of BDSM topping from the first Topping B… read more

Similar categories in Dossie Easton's The New Topping Book book and Dedeker Winston's Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships

  • relationships
  • queer
  • psychology
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • self help
Cover of The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert by John M. Gottman, Nan Silver

3. The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert

By: John M. Gottman , Nan Silver

3.97

Format: 352 pages, Paperback

John Gottman has revolutionized the study of marriage by using rigorous scientific procedures to ob… read more

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  • relationships
  • nonfiction
  • psychology
  • self help
Cover of Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships by Tristan Taormino

4. Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships

By: Tristan Taormino

4.10

Format: 668 pages,

Relationship expert and bestselling author Tristan Taormino offers a bold new strategy for creating… read more

Similar categories in Tristan Taormino's Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships book and Dedeker Winston's Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships

  • polyamory
  • relationships
  • queer
  • psychology
  • sexuality
  • nonfiction
  • self help
Cover of Designer Relationships: A Guide to Happy Monogamy, Positive Polyamory, and Optimistic Open Relationships by Mark A. Michaels, Patricia  Johnson

5. Designer Relationships: A Guide to Happy Monogamy, Positive Polyamory, and Optimistic Open Relationships

By: Mark A. Michaels , Patricia Johnson

4.07

Format: 242 pages, Paperback

Contemporary relationships are in a state of rapid evolution. These changes can and should empower … read more

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  • polyamory
  • relationships
  • queer
  • psychology
  • sexuality
  • nonfiction
  • self help
Cover of The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton, Janet W. Hardy

6. The New Bottoming Book

By: Dossie Easton , Janet W. Hardy

3.82

Format: 254 pages, Paperback

Almost a decade ago, the first Bottoming Book taught tens of thousands of people that bottoming - b… read more

Similar categories in Dossie Easton's The New Bottoming Book book and Dedeker Winston's Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships

  • relationships
  • self help
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • queer
Cover of No Is Not Enough: Resisting Trump’s Shock Politics and Winning the World We Need by Naomi Klein

7. No Is Not Enough: Resisting Trump’s Shock Politics and Winning the World We Need

By: Naomi Klein

3.79

Format: None pages, Paperback

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Similar categories in Naomi Klein's No Is Not Enough: Resisting Trump’s Shock Politics and Winning the World We Need book and Dedeker Winston's Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships

  • nonfiction

8. Mating in Captivity: Reconciling the Erotic and the Domestic

By: Esther Perel

3.79

Format: 704 pages,

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Cover of Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life by Emily Nagoski

9. Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life

By: Emily Nagoski

4.29

Format: 400 pages, Paperback

An essential exploration of why and how women’s sexuality works—based on groundbreaking research an… read more

Similar categories in Emily Nagoski's Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life book and Dedeker Winston's Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships

  • relationships
  • psychology
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • self help
"What turns us on (or off) is learned from culture, in much the same way children learn vocabulary and accents from culture."

-Emily Nagoski, Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life

"You can't make someone be patient any more than you can make someone have an orgasm. You create a great context, and then allow it to happen."

-Emily Nagoski, Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life

"Please tell everyone you know: If you have responsive desire, you are already normal. No one needs to 'crave' sex out of the blue to be a fully healthy person."

-Emily Nagoski, Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life

"One more thing about women's external genitals. The name for the whole package of female genitalia is "vulva." "Vagina" refers to the internal reproductive canal that leads up to the uterus. People o…"

-Emily Nagoski, Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life

10. You Are The One You've Been Waiting For: Bringing Courageous Love To Intimate Relationships

By: Richard C. Schwartz , None

3.00

Format: None pages, Audiobook

In this new audio version, Richard Schwartz, the developer of the Internal Family Systems Model, ap… read more

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11. Getting the Love You Want : A Guide for Couples

By: Harville Hendrix

3.92

Format: 358 pages,

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12. Stepping Off the Relationship Escalator: Uncommon Love and Life

By: None

4.26

Format: 168 pages,

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13. Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love

By: Sue Johnson

4.50

Format: 158 pages, Hardcover

Heralded by the New York Timesand Timeas the couples therapy with the highest rate of success, Emot… read more

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Cover of More: A Memoir of Open Marriage by Molly Roden Winter

14. More: A Memoir of Open Marriage

By: Molly Roden Winter

3.53

Format: 304 pages, Hardcover

An unputdownable memoir of love, desire, and personal growth that follows a happily married mother'… read more

Similar categories in Molly Roden Winter's More: A Memoir of Open Marriage book and Dedeker Winston's Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships

  • polyamory
  • relationships
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
"There is something pathetic about crying within the first minute of therapy"

-Molly Roden Winter, More: A Memoir of Open Marriage

"I worry that things are going too well, that they're all going to come toppling down."

-Molly Roden Winter, More: A Memoir of Open Marriage

"Why do I keep doing this? Why can't I stop this stupid pleasing everyone bullshit? I'm so fucking sick of myself."

-Molly Roden Winter, More: A Memoir of Open Marriage

Cover of Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy by Jessica Fern

15. Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy

By: Jessica Fern

4.40

Format: 268 pages, Paperback

Attachment theory has entered the mainstream, but most discussions focus on how we can cultivate se… read more

Similar categories in Jessica Fern's Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy book and Dedeker Winston's Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships

  • polyamory
  • relationships
  • queer
  • lgbt
  • psychology
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • self help
"A child with a secure attachment style will likely grow up into an adult who feels worthy of love and seeks to create meaningful, healthy relationships with people who are physically and emotionally …"

-Jessica Fern, Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy

"Commitment can be expressed in many ways. Traditionally it is solidified through marriage, owning property, having kids or wearing certain types of jewelry, but legal, domestic, or ornamental underta…"

-Jessica Fern, Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy

"When someone with a dismissive style starts to work on healing their insecure attachment, they must begin by no longer dismissing and distancing from themselves. This requires that they no longer den…"

-Jessica Fern, Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy

"Approximately 15 to 20 percent of the population has a nervous system wired to be more sensitive. These people are more attuned to the subtleties of their environment and process that information muc…"

-Jessica Fern, Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy

Cover of The Other Significant Others: Reimagining Life with Friendship at the Center by Rhaina Cohen

16. The Other Significant Others: Reimagining Life with Friendship at the Center

By: Rhaina Cohen

3.95

Format: 320 pages, Hardcover

Why do we place romantic partnership on a pedestal? What do we lose when we expect one person to me… read more

Similar categories in Rhaina Cohen's The Other Significant Others: Reimagining Life with Friendship at the Center book and Dedeker Winston's Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships

  • relationships
  • self help
  • psychology
  • nonfiction
  • queer
Cover of Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections by Emily Nagoski

17. Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections

By: Emily Nagoski

4.14

Format: 368 pages, Hardcover

An illuminating exploration of how to maintain a happy sex life in a long-term relationship, from t… read more

Similar categories in Emily Nagoski's Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections book and Dedeker Winston's Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships

  • relationships
  • psychology
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • self help
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18. Magic Pill: The Extraordinary Benefits and Disturbing Risks of the New Weight-Loss Drugs

By: Johann Hari

4.31

Format: 320 pages, Hardcover

The bestselling author of Lost Connections and Stolen Focus offers a revelatory look at the drugs u… read more

Similar categories in Johann Hari's Magic Pill: The Extraordinary Benefits and Disturbing Risks of the New Weight-Loss Drugs book and Dedeker Winston's Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships

  • nonfiction
  • psychology
  • self help
Cover of It's Not Always Depression: Working the Change Triangle to Listen to the Body, Discover Core Emotions, and Connect to Your Authentic Self by Hilary Jacobs Hendel

19. It's Not Always Depression: Working the Change Triangle to Listen to the Body, Discover Core Emotions, and Connect to Your Authentic Self

By: Hilary Jacobs Hendel

4.22

Format: 296 pages, Kindle Edition

Fascinating patient stories and dynamic exercises help you connect to healing emotions, ease anxiet… read more

Similar categories in Hilary Jacobs Hendel's It's Not Always Depression: Working the Change Triangle to Listen to the Body, Discover Core Emotions, and Connect to Your Authentic Self book and Dedeker Winston's Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships

  • nonfiction
  • psychology
  • self help
"healing is not just a desired outcome of treatment, it is a potential that is there from the start. We are wired to heal, to right ourselves, to grow and transform. This is not just a metaphor. It is…"

-Hilary Jacobs Hendel, It's Not Always Depression: Working the Change Triangle to Listen to the Body, Discover Core Emotions, and Connect to Your Authentic Self

Cover of Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life by Vanessa Marin

20. Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life

By: Vanessa Marin

4.32

Format: 272 pages, Hardcover

The definitive guide to creating the sex life of your wildest dreams—just by talking about it!—from… read more

Similar categories in Vanessa Marin's Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life book and Dedeker Winston's Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships

  • relationships
  • psychology
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • self help
Cover of Polywise: A Deeper Dive into Navigating Open Relationships by Jessica Fern

21. Polywise: A Deeper Dive into Navigating Open Relationships

By: Jessica Fern

4.38

Format: 336 pages, Paperback

As polyamory continues to make its way into the mainstream, more and more people are exploring cons… read more

Similar categories in Jessica Fern's Polywise: A Deeper Dive into Navigating Open Relationships book and Dedeker Winston's Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships

  • polyamory
  • relationships
  • love
  • queer
  • lgbt
  • psychology
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • self help
Cover of The Anxious Person's Guide to Non-Monogamy: Your Guide to Open Relationships, Polyamory and Letting Go by Lola Phoenix

22. The Anxious Person's Guide to Non-Monogamy: Your Guide to Open Relationships, Polyamory and Letting Go

By: Lola Phoenix

4.09

Format: 208 pages, Paperback

Embarking on a non-monogamous relationship can be a daunting experience, opening old wounds that ca… read more

Similar categories in Lola Phoenix's The Anxious Person's Guide to Non-Monogamy: Your Guide to Open Relationships, Polyamory and Letting Go book and Dedeker Winston's Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships

  • polyamory
  • relationships
  • queer
  • lgbt
  • psychology
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • self help
Cover of Open: An Uncensored Memoir of Love, Liberation, and Non-Monogamy by Rachel  Krantz

23. Open: An Uncensored Memoir of Love, Liberation, and Non-Monogamy

By: Rachel Krantz

3.96

Format: 352 pages, Hardcover

An award-winning journalist delves into the growing trend toward relationships--including her own--… read more

Similar categories in Rachel Krantz's Open: An Uncensored Memoir of Love, Liberation, and Non-Monogamy book and Dedeker Winston's Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships

  • polyamory
  • relationships
  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • queer
Cover of Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships by Dedeker Winston

24. Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships

By: Dedeker Winston

4.52

Format: 326 pages, Paperback

Relationships aren't "one-size-fits-all" so why should relationship advice be? Multiamory offers pr… read more

Similar categories in Dedeker Winston's Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships book and Dedeker Winston's Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships

  • communication
  • relationships
  • polyamory
  • love
  • queer
  • lgbt
  • psychology
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • self help
Cover of The Polyamory Breakup Book: Causes, Prevention, and Survival by Kathy Labriola

25. The Polyamory Breakup Book: Causes, Prevention, and Survival

By: Kathy Labriola

3.95

Format: 264 pages, Paperback

Polyamory is not always easy. With multiple partners often come more complex relationships to navig… read more

Similar categories in Kathy Labriola's The Polyamory Breakup Book: Causes, Prevention, and Survival book and Dedeker Winston's Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships

  • polyamory
  • relationships
  • love
  • queer
  • lgbt
  • psychology
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • self help
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26. The Prospects

By: K.T. Hoffman

4.25

Format: 384 pages, Paperback

The pressure cooker of minor league baseball leads to major chemistry in this exhilarating, sexy, a… read more

Similar categories in K.T. Hoffman's The Prospects book and Dedeker Winston's Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships

  • queer
  • lgbt
"Glasses on or off?" Luis asks. "Off." Gene is nearsighted anyway, and he doesn't plan to let Luis get far enough away that he would need them."

-K.T. Hoffman, The Prospects

Cover of Recovering from Emotionally Immature Parents: Practical Tools to Establish Boundaries & Reclaim Your Emotional Autonomy by Lindsay C. Gibson

27. Recovering from Emotionally Immature Parents: Practical Tools to Establish Boundaries & Reclaim Your Emotional Autonomy

By: Lindsay C. Gibson

4.42

Format: 224 pages, Paperback

In this important sequel to Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents, author Lindsay Gibson o… read more

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  • relationships
  • nonfiction
  • psychology
  • self help
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28. Triple Sec

By: T.J. Alexander

3.95

Format: 320 pages, Paperback

A jaded bartender is wooed by a charmingly quirky couple in this fresh and sizzling polyamorous rom… read more

Similar categories in T.J. Alexander's Triple Sec book and Dedeker Winston's Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships

  • polyamory
  • queer
  • lgbt
Cover of Nonbinary: Memoirs of Gender and Identity by Micah Rajunov

29. Nonbinary: Memoirs of Gender and Identity

By: Micah Rajunov

4.29

Format: 286 pages, Kindle Edition

What happens when your gender doesn’t fit neatly into the categories of male or female? Even mundan… read more

Similar categories in Micah Rajunov's Nonbinary: Memoirs of Gender and Identity book and Dedeker Winston's Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships

  • nonfiction
  • queer
  • lgbt
"The woman in me cannot be researched."

-Micah Rajunov, Nonbinary: Memoirs of Gender and Identity

"The dress code of "business casual" is highly gendered, and I have to decide which "drag" to wear to work."

-Micah Rajunov, Nonbinary: Memoirs of Gender and Identity

"We are dreaming things that a previous generation never imagined, but those dreams are sometimes night terrors too, frustrated visions of our oppression."

-Micah Rajunov, Nonbinary: Memoirs of Gender and Identity

"Perhaps all my shifts from room to room were just social camouflage, but that wouldn't convey the magic of catharsis. Every bed-bound woman saw in me what they needed most, mistaking a single part fo…"

-Micah Rajunov, Nonbinary: Memoirs of Gender and Identity

Cover of Love's Not Color Blind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Communities by Kevin A. Patterson

30. Love's Not Color Blind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Communities

By: Kevin A. Patterson

4.39

Format: 184 pages, Paperback

The issues that make monogamous dating daunting for people of color—shaming and exclusion by white … read more

Similar categories in Kevin A. Patterson's Love's Not Color Blind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Communities book and Dedeker Winston's Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships

  • polyamory
  • relationships
  • love
  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • queer
"Don't let discomfort silence you when your voice can lead to a better situation for all of us."

-Kevin A. Patterson, Love's Not Color Blind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Communities

"I didn't want to be the kind of privileged person who tells oppressed people what their version of diversity should look like."

-Kevin A. Patterson, Love's Not Color Blind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Communities

"Inclusivity has to be seen as a benefit to the community. The lack of diversity has to be seen as a detriment to that community."

-Kevin A. Patterson, Love's Not Color Blind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Communities

"No group wants to be known locally or widely as "the group that is thoughtlessly, carelessly or intentionally unwelcoming to people of color."

-Kevin A. Patterson, Love's Not Color Blind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Communities

Cover of This Is How Your Marriage Ends: A Hopeful Approach to Saving Relationships by Matthew Fray

31. This Is How Your Marriage Ends: A Hopeful Approach to Saving Relationships

By: Matthew Fray

3.99

Format: 304 pages, Hardcover

A thoughtful, down-to-earth, contemporary guide to help partners identify and address relationship-… read more

Similar categories in Matthew Fray's This Is How Your Marriage Ends: A Hopeful Approach to Saving Relationships book and Dedeker Winston's Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships

  • relationships
  • love
  • psychology
  • nonfiction
  • self help

16 Top queer books like Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships by Dedeker Winston

Transform Your Habits

The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities

Dossie Easton , Catherine A. Liszt

3.93

Transform Your Habits

The New Topping Book

Dossie Easton , Janet W. Hardy

3.74

Transform Your Habits

Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships

Tristan Taormino

4.10

Transform Your Habits

Designer Relationships: A Guide to Happy Monogamy, Positive Polyamory, and Optimistic Open Relationships

Mark A. Michaels , Patricia Johnson

4.07

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5 best-selling audiobook books like Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy by Jessica Fern

Transform Your Habits

More Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory

Tatiana Gill , Franklin Veaux , Eve Rickert , None

4.22

Transform Your Habits

Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life

Emily Nagoski

4.29

Transform Your Habits

Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy

Jessica Fern

4.40

Transform Your Habits

Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections

Emily Nagoski

4.14

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