19 must-read queer books like Something That May Shock and Discredit You by Daniel Mallory Ortberg

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Something That May Shock and Discredit You

By: Daniel Mallory Ortberg

3.84

Format: 256 pages, Hardcover

From the writer of Slate’s “Dear Prudence” column comes a witty and clever collection of essays and…

"I never know how to refer to previous incarnations of myself in a way that honestly acknowledges the present without sacrificing the past."

-Daniel Mallory Ortberg, Something That May Shock and Discredit You

"But there was a curse on Laius. The curse was Daddy Issues. Only a daddy can have Daddy Issues. The Daddy Issues of Laius include: insisting on taking your children hiking even after they start crying ignoring the collective good and stiffing oracles, who depend on tips refusing to save the city letting four attendants take the hit failing to bring a vehicle to a complete stop before proceeding into the intersection"

-Daniel Mallory Ortberg, Something That May Shock and Discredit You

"I fear—how could I not?—that I will merely replace one error with another, that I will take avowal of desire in itself as an unalloyed, uncomplicated good in all places and in all situations, that no matter what I try to make of my life, I will never be free of that counterweight, whether I ever speak to another member of my family of origin again—always reacting, equally and oppositely, to someone else's commitments."

-Daniel Mallory Ortberg, Something That May Shock and Discredit You

"I mean, if I were thirty years younger—if I were twenty five years younger—if I were eighteen years younger—God, if I were just ten years younger—if I were a year and a day younger—if I were a month younger—if you'd asked me just five minutes ago, four and a half even, if I'd picked up on the first ring instead of the third, I'd transition. Hell, I'd transition. Oh my God, I wish I could transition. Ask me again, but sooner. Come back yesterday. Come back a week ago. What good are you to me now, when I'm—this? Where were you when there was still summer in my heart? Come back a month ago, a decade, but come back to before I had to forgive you. Just come back and ask again; I'll wait if it takes forever this time."

-Daniel Mallory Ortberg, Something That May Shock and Discredit You

If you liked the queer plot in Something That May Shock and Discredit You by Daniel Mallory Ortberg , here is a list of 19 books like this:

Cover of Infect Your Friends and Loved Ones by Torrey Peters

1. Infect Your Friends and Loved Ones

By: Torrey Peters

4.12

Format: None pages,

In the future, everyone will be trans. So says Lexi. She's a charismatic trans woman furious with t… read more

Similar categories in Torrey Peters's Infect Your Friends and Loved Ones book and Daniel Mallory Ortberg's Something That May Shock and Discredit You

  • queer
  • transgender
  • lgbt
Cover of Stone Butch Blues by Leslie Feinberg

2. Stone Butch Blues

By: Leslie Feinberg

4.43

Format: 230 pages, Hardcover

Woman or man? This internationally acclaimed novel looks at the world through the eyes of Jess Gold… read more

Similar categories in Leslie Feinberg's Stone Butch Blues book and Daniel Mallory Ortberg's Something That May Shock and Discredit You

  • gender
  • queer
  • lgbt
Cover of Man Alive: A True Story of Violence, Forgiveness and Becoming a Man by Thomas Page McBee

3. Man Alive: A True Story of Violence, Forgiveness and Becoming a Man

By: Thomas Page McBee

3.91

Format: 160 pages, Paperback

In Man Alive, McBee asks, "What does it really mean to be a man?" by focusing on two of the most im… read more

Similar categories in Thomas Page McBee's Man Alive: A True Story of Violence, Forgiveness and Becoming a Man book and Daniel Mallory Ortberg's Something That May Shock and Discredit You

  • memoir
  • transgender
  • lgbt
  • gender
  • nonfiction
  • queer

4. Texts from Jane Eyre: And Other Conversations with Your Favorite Literary Characters

By: None , Madeline Gobbo

3.71

Format: 76 pages,

Hilariously imagined text conversations--the passive aggressive, the clever, and the strange--from … read more

Similar categories in None's Texts from Jane Eyre: And Other Conversations with Your Favorite Literary Characters book and Daniel Mallory Ortberg's Something That May Shock and Discredit You

5. Coffee Boy

By: Austin Chant

4.32

Format: 80 pages, ebook

After graduation, Kieran expected to go straight into a career of flipping burgers--only to be offe… read more

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6. Hijab Butch Blues

By: Lamya H.

4.48

Format: 284 pages, Hardcover

A queer hijabi Muslim immigrant survives her coming-of-age by drawing strength and hope from storie… read more

Similar categories in Lamya H.'s Hijab Butch Blues book and Daniel Mallory Ortberg's Something That May Shock and Discredit You

  • memoir
  • queer
  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
"Sort of?"

-Lamya H., Hijab Butch Blues

"Queer indispensability?"

-Lamya H., Hijab Butch Blues

"I feel tired. Or reckless. Or maybe brave."

-Lamya H., Hijab Butch Blues

"I want to figure her out, this girl, and I want to know everything about her."

-Lamya H., Hijab Butch Blues

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7. We Both Laughed in Pleasure: The Selected Diaries of Lou Sullivan

By: Lou Sullivan

4.76

Format: 440 pages, Paperback

Drawn from Lou Sullivan’s meticulously kept journals, this landmark book records the life of arguab… read more

Similar categories in Lou Sullivan's We Both Laughed in Pleasure: The Selected Diaries of Lou Sullivan book and Daniel Mallory Ortberg's Something That May Shock and Discredit You

  • memoir
  • transgender
  • lgbt
  • gender
  • nonfiction
  • queer
"I don't even know if there was anyone that's ever felt as I do.. how they coped, what they did...how do I find out what someone like me does?"

-Lou Sullivan, We Both Laughed in Pleasure: The Selected Diaries of Lou Sullivan

"A big fear of mine is that I will die before the gender professionals acknowledge that someone like me exists, and then I really won't exist to prove them wrong."

-Lou Sullivan, We Both Laughed in Pleasure: The Selected Diaries of Lou Sullivan

"In a lot of ways I think the problem is I spend too much time seeing myself though other people's eyes and not really being in my body and enjoying myself and relaxing in my image."

-Lou Sullivan, We Both Laughed in Pleasure: The Selected Diaries of Lou Sullivan

"I finally said, "Let's put it this way: I'd rather lose you than stop my shots.""You mean that chemical is more important to you than I am?""No, I am more important to me than you are."

-Lou Sullivan, We Both Laughed in Pleasure: The Selected Diaries of Lou Sullivan

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8. Little Fish

By: Casey Plett

3.86

Format: 320 pages, Paperback

WINNER, Lambda Literary Award; Firecracker Award for Fiction; $60,000 Amazon Canada First Novel Awa… read more

Similar categories in Casey Plett's Little Fish book and Daniel Mallory Ortberg's Something That May Shock and Discredit You

  • queer
  • transgender
  • lgbt
  • gender
  • audiobook
"Maybe living through it isn't the only hard part. Maybe being in the world afterward is also the hard part."

-Casey Plett, Little Fish

"Wendy knew how to deal with looking cis and she knew how to deal with looking trans, but she would never, ever figure out how to be both. How the world could treat her so differently—within days or h…"

-Casey Plett, Little Fish

"What kind of world does the core of your brain expect that you, you personally get to live in? Wendy wanted to be loved. However easily she might have abandoned or ruined her prospects, Wendy did sti…"

-Casey Plett, Little Fish

Cover of Before We Were Trans: A New History of Gender by Kit Heyam

9. Before We Were Trans: A New History of Gender

By: Kit Heyam

4.30

Format: 343 pages, Hardcover

A groundbreaking global history of gender nonconformity   Today’s narratives about trans people … read more

Similar categories in Kit Heyam's Before We Were Trans: A New History of Gender book and Daniel Mallory Ortberg's Something That May Shock and Discredit You

  • audiobook
  • transgender
  • lgbt
  • gender
  • nonfiction
  • queer
"It’s not as simple as saying that ‘while the terminology is new, the experiences are not.’ The advent of new terminology can genuinely shift how we think about gender, as well as what names we give t…"

-Kit Heyam, Before We Were Trans: A New History of Gender

"It's important that we, as historians or as queer people, don't treat gender and sexuality as two things that use to be entangled but have now been teased apart. There can be a tendency in white quee…"

-Kit Heyam, Before We Were Trans: A New History of Gender

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10. Nevada

By: Imogen Binnie

3.97

Format: 290 pages, Paperback

A beloved and blistering cult classic and finalist for the Lambda Literary Award for Transgender Fi… read more

Similar categories in Imogen Binnie's Nevada book and Daniel Mallory Ortberg's Something That May Shock and Discredit You

  • transgender
  • lgbt
  • gender
  • adult
  • queer
"James does what anybody would do when they see somebody they'd like to know: he ignores the shit out of her."

-Imogen Binnie, Nevada

"It's like I got drunk all the time not because I'm a total addict but because it was a coping mechanism to deal with being unhappy"

-Imogen Binnie, Nevada

"Oh, Williamsburg. There was a point when you seemed like a scary, tough neighborhood, but now it's obvious that the graffiti on your walls gets put there by art students."

-Imogen Binnie, Nevada

"Eventually you can't help but figure out that, while gender is a construct, so is a traffic light, and if you ignore either of them, you get hit by cars. Which, also, are constructs."

-Imogen Binnie, Nevada

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11. Dykette

By: Jenny Fran Davis

2.96

Format: 320 pages, Hardcover

An addictive, absurd, and darkly hilarious debut novel about a young woman who embarks on a ten-day… read more

Similar categories in Jenny Fran Davis's Dykette book and Daniel Mallory Ortberg's Something That May Shock and Discredit You

  • audiobook
  • adult
  • lgbt
  • queer
Cover of Something That May Shock and Discredit You by Daniel Mallory Ortberg

12. Something That May Shock and Discredit You

By: Daniel Mallory Ortberg

3.84

Format: 256 pages, Hardcover

From the writer of Slate’s “Dear Prudence” column comes a witty and clever collection of essays and… read more

Similar categories in Daniel Mallory Ortberg's Something That May Shock and Discredit You book and Daniel Mallory Ortberg's Something That May Shock and Discredit You

  • audiobook
  • memoir
  • transgender
  • lgbt
  • gender
  • humor
  • nonfiction
  • essays
  • adult
  • queer
"I never know how to refer to previous incarnations of myself in a way that honestly acknowledges the present without sacrificing the past."

-Daniel Mallory Ortberg, Something That May Shock and Discredit You

"But there was a curse on Laius. The curse was Daddy Issues. Only a daddy can have Daddy Issues. The Daddy Issues of Laius include: insisting on taking your children hiking even after they start cryin…"

-Daniel Mallory Ortberg, Something That May Shock and Discredit You

"I fear—how could I not?—that I will merely replace one error with another, that I will take avowal of desire in itself as an unalloyed, uncomplicated good in all places and in all situations, that no…"

-Daniel Mallory Ortberg, Something That May Shock and Discredit You

"I mean, if I were thirty years younger—if I were twenty five years younger—if I were eighteen years younger—God, if I were just ten years younger—if I were a year and a day younger—if I were a month …"

-Daniel Mallory Ortberg, Something That May Shock and Discredit You

Cover of Amateur: A True Story About What Makes a Man by Thomas Page McBee

13. Amateur: A True Story About What Makes a Man

By: Thomas Page McBee

4.22

Format: 205 pages, Hardcover

Thomas McBee, a trans man, sets out to uncover what makes a man—and what being a “good” man even me… read more

Similar categories in Thomas Page McBee's Amateur: A True Story About What Makes a Man book and Daniel Mallory Ortberg's Something That May Shock and Discredit You

  • audiobook
  • memoir
  • transgender
  • lgbt
  • gender
  • nonfiction
  • queer
"Most of us experience gender conditioning so young—research shows it begins in infancy—that we misunderstand the relationship between nature and nurture, culture and biology, fitting in and being one…"

-Thomas Page McBee, Amateur: A True Story About What Makes a Man

"Boxing breaks many of the binaries that men are conditioned to believe about our bodies, our genders, ourselves. With its cover of 'realness' and violence, it provides room for what so many men lack:…"

-Thomas Page McBee, Amateur: A True Story About What Makes a Man

"I thought about the advantages thrown at me for an aesthetic that looked like a birthright. I thought about passing, and how it erased a part of me, and how hormones responded to context, and how rac…"

-Thomas Page McBee, Amateur: A True Story About What Makes a Man

"Millennial guys seemed, to the sociologists and anthropologists who studied them, to have attitudes toward women that portended a new era of equity—especially at work. But the reality was, indeed, fa…"

-Thomas Page McBee, Amateur: A True Story About What Makes a Man

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14. Idlewild

By: James Frankie Thomas

4.14

Format: 389 pages, Hardcover

James Frankie Thomas’s Idlewild is a darkly funny story of two adults looking back on their intense… read more

Similar categories in James Frankie Thomas's Idlewild book and Daniel Mallory Ortberg's Something That May Shock and Discredit You

  • queer
  • transgender
  • lgbt
  • adult
  • audiobook
"What we mean to say, but what Ms Spider is not equipped to understand, is that Iago is gay in the way that all the best fictional murderers are gay. Norman Bates, Tom Ripely, The titular Third Man, a…"

-James Frankie Thomas, Idlewild

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15. Confessions of the Fox

By: Jordy Rosenberg

3.79

Format: 352 pages, Hardcover

Set in the eighteenth century London underworld, this bawdy, genre-bending novel reimagines the lif… read more

Similar categories in Jordy Rosenberg's Confessions of the Fox book and Daniel Mallory Ortberg's Something That May Shock and Discredit You

  • transgender
  • lgbt
  • gender
  • adult
  • queer
Cover of Everyone on the Moon Is Essential Personnel by Julian K.  Jarboe

16. Everyone on the Moon Is Essential Personnel

By: Julian K. Jarboe

3.93

Format: 222 pages, Paperback

In this debut collection of body-horror fairy tales and mid-apocalyptic Catholic cyberpunk, memory … read more

Similar categories in Julian K. Jarboe's Everyone on the Moon Is Essential Personnel book and Daniel Mallory Ortberg's Something That May Shock and Discredit You

  • lgbt
  • transgender
  • queer
"Eventually, even Pavlov found that when he heard a bell he had the overwhelming urge to feed a dog."

-Julian K. Jarboe, Everyone on the Moon Is Essential Personnel

"God blessed me by making me transsexual for the same reason he made wheat but not bread and fruit but not wine: so that humanity might share in the act of creation."

-Julian K. Jarboe, Everyone on the Moon Is Essential Personnel

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17. A Year Without a Name: A Memoir

By: Cyrus Grace Dunham

3.66

Format: 176 pages, Hardcover

How do you know if you are transgender? How do you know if what you want and feel is real? How do y… read more

Similar categories in Cyrus Grace Dunham's A Year Without a Name: A Memoir book and Daniel Mallory Ortberg's Something That May Shock and Discredit You

  • audiobook
  • memoir
  • transgender
  • lgbt
  • gender
  • nonfiction
  • queer
"I was a cloud stuck inside a person I didn't choose to be."

-Cyrus Grace Dunham, A Year Without a Name: A Memoir

"Calling something a lie implies that one has the truth in one's mouth and swallows it. What if one can only speak -- only think -- what one suspects another person wants to hear? Then where is the tr…"

-Cyrus Grace Dunham, A Year Without a Name: A Memoir

Cover of Time Is the Thing a Body Moves Through by T. Fleischmann

18. Time Is the Thing a Body Moves Through

By: T. Fleischmann

4.01

Format: 152 pages, Paperback

How do the bodies we inhabit affect our relationship with art? How does art affect our relationship… read more

Similar categories in T. Fleischmann's Time Is the Thing a Body Moves Through book and Daniel Mallory Ortberg's Something That May Shock and Discredit You

  • memoir
  • transgender
  • lgbt
  • gender
  • nonfiction
  • essays
  • queer
"Is beauty panacean, able to instill in us moments of transcendence? Or does the sun just melt the ice, beauty appreciated only when it is the constituent hum of a thing that fades?"

-T. Fleischmann, Time Is the Thing a Body Moves Through

"If the aliens do show up, I hope they’ll see people they want to save. Friends and magnificent sluts, smashing the walls of the prisons and burning all the money, running around with signs that decla…"

-T. Fleischmann, Time Is the Thing a Body Moves Through

"Anyway, you never get there, you just keep going. Things are repeated, and sometimes we mistake the fact of their repetition for their value. It can make it seem like we aren’t supposed to change, or…"

-T. Fleischmann, Time Is the Thing a Body Moves Through

"The best version of me isn't the person who falls in love, but the person who takes love squarely for what it is, as an occasion to know someone else, to learn about their desires, to be each a bette…"

-T. Fleischmann, Time Is the Thing a Body Moves Through

Cover of Beyond Shame: Creating a Healthy Sex Life on Your Own Terms by Matthias Roberts

19. Beyond Shame: Creating a Healthy Sex Life on Your Own Terms

By: Matthias Roberts

4.11

Format: 187 pages, Paperback

We all carry sexual shame. Whether we grew up in the repressive purity culture of American Evangeli… read more

Similar categories in Matthias Roberts's Beyond Shame: Creating a Healthy Sex Life on Your Own Terms book and Daniel Mallory Ortberg's Something That May Shock and Discredit You

  • nonfiction
  • lgbt
  • queer
Cover of A Trans Man Walks into a Gay Bar by Harry  Nicholas

20. A Trans Man Walks into a Gay Bar

By: Harry Nicholas

4.07

Format: 224 pages, Paperback

‘On the bookshelves, there was plenty of stuff on being gay, and much needed, joyous accounts of wh… read more

Similar categories in Harry Nicholas's A Trans Man Walks into a Gay Bar book and Daniel Mallory Ortberg's Something That May Shock and Discredit You

  • memoir
  • transgender
  • lgbt
  • gender
  • nonfiction
  • adult
  • queer
Cover of Dear Prudence: Liberating Lessons from Slate.com's Beloved Advice Column by Daniel M. Lavery

21. Dear Prudence: Liberating Lessons from Slate.com's Beloved Advice Column

By: Daniel M. Lavery

3.80

Format: 336 pages, Hardcover

Based on the long-running Slate advice column, a collection of the most eye-opening, illuminating, … read more

Similar categories in Daniel M. Lavery's Dear Prudence: Liberating Lessons from Slate.com's Beloved Advice Column book and Daniel Mallory Ortberg's Something That May Shock and Discredit You

  • audiobook
  • memoir
  • nonfiction
  • essays
  • adult
  • queer

7 Best adult books like Something That May Shock and Discredit You by Daniel Mallory Ortberg

Transform Your Habits

Nevada

Imogen Binnie

3.97

Transform Your Habits

Dykette

Jenny Fran Davis

2.96

Transform Your Habits

Something That May Shock and Discredit You

Daniel Mallory Ortberg

3.84

Transform Your Habits

Idlewild

James Frankie Thomas

4.14

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14 Best adult books like Dear Prudence: Liberating Lessons from Slate.com's Beloved Advice Column by Daniel M. Lavery

Transform Your Habits

The Talk

Darrin Bell

4.65

Transform Your Habits

A Living Remedy: A Memoir

Nicole Chung

4.01

Transform Your Habits

In the Form of a Question: The Joys and Rewards of a Curious Life

Amy Schneider

3.51

Transform Your Habits

Quietly Hostile: Essays

Samantha Irby

3.70

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