Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship (Goop Press)
By: Terrence Real
4.26
Format: 352 pages, Hardcover
Stop working on yourself as an individual and start working on your relationship as a couple, with …
Want to Read $ 13.99"So, here's the first tip for working on your partner's core negative image of you: the more you refute it, the more you'll reinforce it. But the more you admit to the kernel of truth within your partner's exaggeration, the greater the odds that the exaggeration will relax. Try it. Don't defend yourself - yield. Yielding can work as a core negative image buster."-Terrence Real, Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship (Goop Press)
"So, here's the first tip for working on your partner's core negative image of you: the more you refute it, the more you'll reinforce it. But the more you admit to the kernel of truth within your partner's exaggeration, the greater the odds that the exaggeration will relax. Try it. Don't defend yourself - yield. Yielding can work as a core negative image buster."-Terrence Real, Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship (Goop Press)
"First, repair is not a two-way street. Almost everyone gets this wrong. When you are faced with an upset partner, this is not your turn. This is not a dialogue. Liz doesn't air all her grievances as an invitation for Phil to then air his. You must take turns. Repair goes in one direction. When your partner is in a state of disrepair, your only job is to help them get back into harmony with you, to deal with their upset, and to support them in reconnecting."-Terrence Real, Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship (Goop Press)
"First, repair is not a two-way street. Almost everyone gets this wrong. When you are faced with an upset partner, this is not your turn. This is not a dialogue. Liz doesn't air all her grievances as an invitation for Phil to then air his. You must take turns. Repair goes in one direction. When your partner is in a state of disrepair, your only job is to help them get back into harmony with you, to deal with their upset, and to support them in reconnecting."-Terrence Real, Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship (Goop Press)
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1. The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert
By: John M. Gottman , Nan Silver
3.97
Format: 352 pages, Paperback
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2. The High-Conflict Couple: A Dialectical Behavior Therapy Guide to Finding Peace, Intimacy, and Validation
By: Marsha M. Linehan , Alan E. Fruzzetti
4.18
Format: None pages, Paperback
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3. Mating in Captivity: Reconciling the Erotic and the Domestic
By: Esther Perel
3.79
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4. You Are The One You've Been Waiting For: Bringing Courageous Love To Intimate Relationships
By: Richard C. Schwartz , None
3.00
Format: None pages, Audiobook
In this new audio version, Richard Schwartz, the developer of the Internal Family Systems Model, ap… read more
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5. Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love
By: Sue Johnson
4.50
Format: 158 pages, Hardcover
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6. How to Know a Person: The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen
By: David Brooks
4.14
Format: 304 pages, Hardcover
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"Being open-hearted is a prerequisite for being a full, kind, and wise human being."-David Brooks, How to Know a Person: The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen
"A person who is looking for beauty is likely to find wonders, while a person looking for threats will find danger. A person who beams warmth brings out the glowing sides of the people she meets, whil…"-David Brooks, How to Know a Person: The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen
7. Outlive: The Science & Art of Longevity
By: Peter Attia
4.37
Format: 496 pages, Hardcover
#1 NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • A groundbreaking manifesto on living better and longer that challeng… read more
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8. Good Inside: A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be
By: Becky Kennedy
4.55
Format: 336 pages, Hardcover
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9. Fight Right: How Successful Couples Turn Conflict Into Connection
By: Julie Schwartz Gottman
4.57
Format: 352 pages, Hardcover
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10. No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with the Internal Family Systems Model
By: Richard C. Schwartz
4.15
Format: 216 pages, Paperback
Discover an empowering new way of understanding your multifaceted mind—and healing the many parts t… read more
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"The big insight was that giving a troubled person a psychiatric diagnosis and seeing that as the sole or main cause of their symptoms was unnecessarily limiting, pathologizing, and could become self-…"-Richard C. Schwartz, No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with the Internal Family Systems Model
"IFS can be seen as attachment theory taken inside, in the sense that the client’s Self becomes the good attachment figure to their insecure or avoidant parts. I was initially amazed to discover that …"-Richard C. Schwartz, No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with the Internal Family Systems Model
11. It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People
By: Ramani Durvasula
4.58
Format: 362 pages, Kindle Edition
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"You may have had the belief that to forgive is divine but have come to learn that to discern may be transcendent."-Ramani Durvasula, It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People
"Radical acceptance of the injustice is part of this process-it not fair, I cannot change it; I can, however, chart a different and authentic course forward and learn from this. Be kind to yourself, t…"-Ramani Durvasula, It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People
"I am tired of people calling those of us who get stuck in these cycles "codependent" or "addicted" to the narcissistic relationship. It's not that. If you have any empathy, have normal cognitive func…"-Ramani Durvasula, It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People
12. Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections
By: Emily Nagoski
4.14
Format: 368 pages, Hardcover
An illuminating exploration of how to maintain a happy sex life in a long-term relationship, from t… read more
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13. The Perfectionist's Guide to Losing Control: A Path to Peace and Power
By: Katherine Morgan Schafler
4.19
Format: 352 pages, Hardcover
From psychotherapist Katherine Morgan Schafler, an invitation to every “recovering perfectionist” t… read more
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"Energy management beats time management."-Katherine Morgan Schafler, The Perfectionist's Guide to Losing Control: A Path to Peace and Power
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14. The Love Prescription: Seven Days to More Intimacy, Connection, and Joy
By: John M. Gottman
4.47
Format: 208 pages, Paperback
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15. Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship (Goop Press)
By: Terrence Real
4.26
Format: 352 pages, Hardcover
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"So, here's the first tip for working on your partner's core negative image of you: the more you refute it, the more you'll reinforce it. But the more you admit to the kernel of truth within your part…"-Terrence Real, Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship (Goop Press)
"First, repair is not a two-way street. Almost everyone gets this wrong. When you are faced with an upset partner, this is not your turn. This is not a dialogue. Liz doesn't air all her grievances as …"-Terrence Real, Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship (Goop Press)
"When you're dissatisfied with an aspect of your relationship, it is critical that you say something rather than sweep it aside. But there's a difference between speaking the way most of us do in this…"-Terrence Real, Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship (Goop Press)
"When you share your feelings, skip over the emotion that first comes to you, your go-to emotion, and lead with others. ... More specifically, if you are used to leading with big, powerful feelings, l…"-Terrence Real, Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship (Goop Press)
16. Secure Love: Create a Relationship That Lasts a Lifetime
By: Julie Menanno
4.55
Format: 336 pages, Hardcover
Create a lasting and loving attachment with the help of the expert couple’s therapist behind the po… read more
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17. Fierce Intimacy: Standing Up to One Another with Love
By: Terry Real
4.53
Format: None pages, Audio CD
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18. Desire: An Inclusive Guide to Navigating Libido Differences in Relationships
By: Lauren Fogel Mersy
4.41
Format: 380 pages, Hardcover
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19. Somatic Internal Family Systems Therapy: Awareness, Breath, Resonance, Movement and Touch in Practice
By: Susan McConnell
4.00
Format: 278 pages, Kindle Edition
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20. The Retirement Savings Time Bomb . . . and How to Defuse It: A Five-Step Action Plan for Protecting Your IRAs, 401(k)s, and Other Retirement Plans from Near Annihilation by the Taxman
By: Ed Slott
3.82
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21. In Each Other's Care: A Guide to the Most Common Relationship Conflicts and How to Work Through Them
By: Stan Tatkin
4.27
Format: 360 pages, Hardcover
Break the Cycle: A Comprehensive Guide to Overcome Chronic Relationship Struggles Few things are… read more
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