13 best-selling queer books like How We Fight For Our Lives by Saeed Jones

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How We Fight For Our Lives

By: Saeed Jones

4.28

Format: 192 pages, Hardcover

From award-winning poet Saeed Jones, How We Fight for Our Lives is a stunning coming-of-age memoir …

"Some songs take women places men cannot follow."

-Saeed Jones, How We Fight For Our Lives

"Some songs take women places men cannot follow."

-Saeed Jones, How We Fight For Our Lives

"Some songs take women places men cannot follow."

-Saeed Jones, How We Fight For Our Lives

"Everyone has a lie we’re quietly waiting to believe."

-Saeed Jones, How We Fight For Our Lives

If you liked the queer plot in How We Fight For Our Lives by Saeed Jones , here is a list of 13 books like this:

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1. Men We Reaped: A Memoir

By: Jesmyn Ward

4.30

Format: 256 pages, Hardcover

'...And then we heard the rain falling, and that was the drops of blood falling; and when we came t… read more

Similar categories in Jesmyn Ward's Men We Reaped: A Memoir book and Saeed Jones's How We Fight For Our Lives

  • race
  • biography
  • memoir
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
"But this grief, for all its awful weight, insists that he matters."

-Jesmyn Ward, Men We Reaped: A Memoir

"But my father could be dark too. He was attracted to violence, to the basic beauty of fighting, the way it turned his body and those he fought into meticulously constructed machines."

-Jesmyn Ward, Men We Reaped: A Memoir

"Men’s bodies litter my family history. The pain of the women they left behind pulls them from the beyond, makes them appear as ghosts. In death, they transcend he circumstances of this place that I l…"

-Jesmyn Ward, Men We Reaped: A Memoir

"Some of them were my friends, and they never took up for me, for Black people, when I was in the room. And according to what some of them told me in private conversation, they didn't when I wasn't in…"

-Jesmyn Ward, Men We Reaped: A Memoir

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2. Family Meal

By: Bryan Washington

3.56

Format: 320 pages, Hardcover

From the bestselling, award-winning author of Memorial and Lot, an irresistible, intimate novel abo… read more

Similar categories in Bryan Washington's Family Meal book and Saeed Jones's How We Fight For Our Lives

  • audiobook
  • lgbt
  • queer
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3. Poverty, by America

By: Matthew Desmond

4.27

Format: 284 pages, Hardcover

Reimagining the debate on poverty, making a new and bracing argument about why it persists in Ameri… read more

Similar categories in Matthew Desmond's Poverty, by America book and Saeed Jones's How We Fight For Our Lives

  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
"To live and strive in modern America is to participate in a series of morally fraught systems. If a family’s entire financial livelihood depends on the value of its home, it’s not hard to understand …"

-Matthew Desmond, Poverty, by America

"The rest of us, on the ·other hand-we members of the protected classes-have grown increasingly· dependent on our welfare programs. In 2020 the federal government spent more than $193 billion on homeo…"

-Matthew Desmond, Poverty, by America

"In her book The Government-Citizen Disconnect, the political scientist Suzanne Mettler reports that 96 percent of American adults have relied on a major government program at some point in their live…"

-Matthew Desmond, Poverty, by America

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4. Stay True

By: Hua Hsu

4.03

Format: 208 pages, Hardcover

From the New Yorker staff writer Hua Hsu, a gripping memoir on friendship, grief, the search for se… read more

Similar categories in Hua Hsu's Stay True book and Saeed Jones's How We Fight For Our Lives

  • race
  • biography
  • memoir
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
"My parents are great, I said. Unbelievably non-stereotypical."

-Hua Hsu, Stay True

"The first generation thinks about survival; the ones that follow tell the stories."

-Hua Hsu, Stay True

"You were describing people we had not yet met, maybe people we ourselves would become."

-Hua Hsu, Stay True

"It was a sign of personal growth, I thought to myself, that I could be friends with someone who liked Pearl Jam this much."

-Hua Hsu, Stay True

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5. Hijab Butch Blues

By: Lamya H.

4.48

Format: 284 pages, Hardcover

A queer hijabi Muslim immigrant survives her coming-of-age by drawing strength and hope from storie… read more

Similar categories in Lamya H.'s Hijab Butch Blues book and Saeed Jones's How We Fight For Our Lives

  • audiobook
  • biography
  • memoir
  • lgbt
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • queer
"Sort of?"

-Lamya H., Hijab Butch Blues

"Queer indispensability?"

-Lamya H., Hijab Butch Blues

"I feel tired. Or reckless. Or maybe brave."

-Lamya H., Hijab Butch Blues

"I want to figure her out, this girl, and I want to know everything about her."

-Lamya H., Hijab Butch Blues

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6. Pageboy

By: Elliot Page

3.75

Format: 271 pages, None

Pageboy is a groundbreaking coming-of-age memoir from the Academy Award-nominated actor Elliot Page… read more

Similar categories in Elliot Page's Pageboy book and Saeed Jones's How We Fight For Our Lives

  • audiobook
  • biography
  • memoir
  • lgbt
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • queer
"Her visibility meant the world to me. I think about this as I walk through the world now."

-Elliot Page, Pageboy

"How do people do it? How do they shut off the noise? And I don't mean "happy", they may not be happy, but they seem to be able to exist at least."

-Elliot Page, Pageboy

"In a world where queerness all too often alienates us from blood, I am grateful to Julia, and the family I have chosen. Without them, I wouldn't be here."

-Elliot Page, Pageboy

"I could block myself out, I was a person I didn't know, I'd gaze into what felt like the universe, my eye a planet of its own. I must be somewhere in there, I'd think."

-Elliot Page, Pageboy

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7. All Boys Aren’t Blue

By: George M. Johnson

4.20

Format: 304 pages, Hardcover

In a series of personal essays, prominent journalist and LGBTQIA+ activist George M. Johnson explor… read more

Similar categories in George M. Johnson's All Boys Aren’t Blue book and Saeed Jones's How We Fight For Our Lives

  • audiobook
  • race
  • biography
  • memoir
  • lgbt
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • queer
"History has an interesting way of painting."

-George M. Johnson, All Boys Aren’t Blue

"The first person you are ever an activist for is yourself."

-George M. Johnson, All Boys Aren’t Blue

"We are not as different as you think, and all our stories deserve to be celebrated and told."

-George M. Johnson, All Boys Aren’t Blue

"When people ask me how I got into activism, I often say, “The first person you are ever an activist for is yourself."

-George M. Johnson, All Boys Aren’t Blue

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8. In the Dream House

By: Carmen Maria Machado

4.42

Format: 251 pages, Hardcover

For years Carmen Maria Machado has struggled to articulate her experiences in an abusive same-sex r… read more

Similar categories in Carmen Maria Machado's In the Dream House book and Saeed Jones's How We Fight For Our Lives

  • audiobook
  • biography
  • memoir
  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • queer
"But this story? This one's mine."

-Carmen Maria Machado, In the Dream House

"I thought you died, but writing this, I'm not sure you did."

-Carmen Maria Machado, In the Dream House

"Your heart launches itself against your rib cage like an animal."

-Carmen Maria Machado, In the Dream House

"You tried to tell your story to people who didn't know how to listen."

-Carmen Maria Machado, In the Dream House

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9. How to Say Babylon

By: Safiya Sinclair

4.47

Format: 352 pages, Hardcover

With echoes of Educated and Born a Crime, How to Say Babylon is the stunning story of the author’s … read more

Similar categories in Safiya Sinclair's How to Say Babylon book and Saeed Jones's How We Fight For Our Lives

  • poetry
  • biography
  • memoir
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
"As I grew older, I knew I would never be his perfect Rasta daughter. I was too headstrong, too curious. Too much of myself, and not enough of him."

-Safiya Sinclair, How to Say Babylon

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10. My Government Means to Kill Me

By: Rasheed Newson

4.25

Format: 276 pages, Hardcover

A fierce and riveting queer coming-of-age story following the personal and political awakening of a… read more

Similar categories in Rasheed Newson's My Government Means to Kill Me book and Saeed Jones's How We Fight For Our Lives

  • audiobook
  • race
  • lgbt
  • queer
"So I loved my sister, but held that love loosely in my arms, anticipating its death and mourning it as it lived"

-Rasheed Newson, My Government Means to Kill Me

"...Generations of black men had been frequenting Mt. Morris since the Harlem Renaissance. Rumor had it that Countee Cullen ditched his wife after he and Harold Jackman made Mt. Morris their regular r…"

-Rasheed Newson, My Government Means to Kill Me

"Zee had only grinned at me when I was valuable to her. I'd go on to tangle with other bosses and authority figures, and that dynamic never changed. Affection never outlasted need. This was the first …"

-Rasheed Newson, My Government Means to Kill Me

"The theory goes that governmental agencies don't accidentally make accessing information or resources difficult. They do this shit on purpose. The forms are confusing, and the record keeping is ass-b…"

-Rasheed Newson, My Government Means to Kill Me

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11. The Late Americans

By: Brandon Taylor

3.38

Format: 303 pages, Hardcover

A deeply involving new novel of young men and women at a crossroads In the shared and private sp… read more

Similar categories in Brandon Taylor's The Late Americans book and Saeed Jones's How We Fight For Our Lives

  • audiobook
  • lgbt
  • queer
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12. We Have Always Been Here: A Queer Muslim Memoir

By: Samra Habib

4.16

Format: 220 pages, Kindle Edition

CANADA READS 2020 WINNER SHORTLISTED FOR THE 2020 EDNA STAEBLER AWARD FOR CREATIVE NON-FICTION NA… read more

Similar categories in Samra Habib's We Have Always Been Here: A Queer Muslim Memoir book and Saeed Jones's How We Fight For Our Lives

  • audiobook
  • biography
  • memoir
  • lgbt
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • queer
"Being surrounded by people who fuel you is intentional."

-Samra Habib, We Have Always Been Here: A Queer Muslim Memoir

"For me, a wedding was an act of necessity, not a fairy tale."

-Samra Habib, We Have Always Been Here: A Queer Muslim Memoir

"The joy of discovery is one of the biggest pleasures you'll ever know."

-Samra Habib, We Have Always Been Here: A Queer Muslim Memoir

"Closure, for me, would mean accepting my circumstances rather than trying to alter them to serve me best."

-Samra Habib, We Have Always Been Here: A Queer Muslim Memoir

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13. Heavy

By: Kiese Laymon

4.48

Format: 248 pages, Kindle Edition

In this powerful and provocative memoir, genre-bending essayist and novelist Kiese Laymon explores … read more

Similar categories in Kiese Laymon's Heavy book and Saeed Jones's How We Fight For Our Lives

  • race
  • biography
  • memoir
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • anti racist
  • audiobook
"The violent white backlash to Obama’s victory will still be unlike anything we’d ever seen..."

-Kiese Laymon, Heavy

"Y'all taught me that unacknowledged scars accumulated in battles won often hurt more than battles lost."

-Kiese Laymon, Heavy

"Even when I know you're lying to me, I just feel crazy sorry for you. Why? Because I can just tell you'll never let me carry what you're hiding."

-Kiese Laymon, Heavy

"The nation as it is currently constituted has never dealt with a yesterday or tomorrow where we were radically honest, generous, and tender with each other."

-Kiese Laymon, Heavy

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14. Who's Afraid of Gender?

By: Judith Butler

4.02

Format: 320 pages, Hardcover

From a global icon, a bold, essential account of how a fear of gender is fueling reactionary politi… read more

Similar categories in Judith Butler's Who's Afraid of Gender? book and Saeed Jones's How We Fight For Our Lives

  • audiobook
  • nonfiction
  • lgbt
  • queer
"Imagine if you were Jewish and someone tells you that you are not. Imagine if you are lesbian and someone laughs in your face and says you are confused since you are really heterosexual. Imagine if y…"

-Judith Butler, Who's Afraid of Gender?

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15. How We Fight For Our Lives

By: Saeed Jones

4.28

Format: 192 pages, Hardcover

From award-winning poet Saeed Jones, How We Fight for Our Lives is a stunning coming-of-age memoir … read more

Similar categories in Saeed Jones's How We Fight For Our Lives book and Saeed Jones's How We Fight For Our Lives

  • audiobook
  • poetry
  • race
  • biography
  • memoir
  • lgbt
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • anti racist
  • queer
"Some songs take women places men cannot follow."

-Saeed Jones, How We Fight For Our Lives

"Everyone has a lie we’re quietly waiting to believe."

-Saeed Jones, How We Fight For Our Lives

"I will say for myself: America, I did the best I could with what I was given."

-Saeed Jones, How We Fight For Our Lives

"The only thing worse than being a disaster is being a disaster with a witness."

-Saeed Jones, How We Fight For Our Lives

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16. No Ashes in the Fire: Coming of Age Black and Free in America

By: Darnell L. Moore

4.15

Format: 243 pages, Hardcover

From a leading journalist and activist comes a brave, beautifully wrought survival story of navigat… read more

Similar categories in Darnell L. Moore's No Ashes in the Fire: Coming of Age Black and Free in America book and Saeed Jones's How We Fight For Our Lives

  • audiobook
  • race
  • biography
  • memoir
  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • anti racist
  • queer
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17. Pig: Poems

By: Sam Sax

4.32

Format: 112 pages, Paperback

From the brilliantly talented National Poetry Series and James Laughlin Award winner comes a third … read more

Similar categories in Sam Sax's Pig: Poems book and Saeed Jones's How We Fight For Our Lives

  • poetry
  • queer
  • lgbt
  • audiobook
Cover of Another Word for Love: A Memoir by Carvell Wallace

18. Another Word for Love: A Memoir

By: Carvell Wallace

4.35

Format: 272 pages, Hardcover

A transformative memoir that reimagines the conventions of love and posits a radical vision for hea… read more

Similar categories in Carvell Wallace's Another Word for Love: A Memoir book and Saeed Jones's How We Fight For Our Lives

  • race
  • biography
  • memoir
  • lgbt
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
Cover of How We Do It: Black Writers on Craft, Practice, and Skill by Jericho Brown

19. How We Do It: Black Writers on Craft, Practice, and Skill

By: Jericho Brown

4.44

Format: 352 pages, Paperback

More than 30 acclaimed writers—including diverse voices such as Nikki Giovanni, David Omotosho Blac… read more

Similar categories in Jericho Brown's How We Do It: Black Writers on Craft, Practice, and Skill book and Saeed Jones's How We Fight For Our Lives

  • poetry
  • nonfiction
Cover of ¡Hola Papi!: How to Come Out in a Walmart Parking Lot and Other Life Lessons by John Paul Brammer

20. ¡Hola Papi!: How to Come Out in a Walmart Parking Lot and Other Life Lessons

By: John Paul Brammer

4.05

Format: 214 pages, Hardcover

From popular LGBTQ advice columnist and writer John Paul Brammer comes a hilarious, heartwarming me… read more

Similar categories in John Paul Brammer's ¡Hola Papi!: How to Come Out in a Walmart Parking Lot and Other Life Lessons book and Saeed Jones's How We Fight For Our Lives

  • audiobook
  • biography
  • memoir
  • lgbt
  • biography memoir
  • nonfiction
  • queer
"I thought of myself more as "a person with unique difficulty accessing heterosexuality."

-John Paul Brammer, ¡Hola Papi!: How to Come Out in a Walmart Parking Lot and Other Life Lessons

"All those years of remembering, carrying, and suffering over this person, and he probably hadn't thought about me at all since I'd moved away. I was willing to bet all my tormentors were also sufferi…"

-John Paul Brammer, ¡Hola Papi!: How to Come Out in a Walmart Parking Lot and Other Life Lessons

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21. Father's Day

By: Simon Van Booy

3.90

Format: 291 pages, Kindle Edition

When devastating news shatters the life of six-year-old Harvey, she finds herself in the care of a … read more

Similar categories in Simon Van Booy's Father's Day book and Saeed Jones's How We Fight For Our Lives

  • audiobook
"That's truth, Harvey, not what's written on a piece of paper or in blood too small to see - but the memory of how it felt being together."

-Simon Van Booy, Father's Day

16 Best nonfiction books like How We Fight For Our Lives by Saeed Jones

Transform Your Habits

Men We Reaped: A Memoir

Jesmyn Ward

4.30

Transform Your Habits

Poverty, by America

Matthew Desmond

4.27

Transform Your Habits

Stay True

Hua Hsu

4.03

Transform Your Habits

Hijab Butch Blues

Lamya H.

4.48

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17 Top audiobook books like Who's Afraid of Gender? by Judith Butler

Transform Your Habits

The Garden Against Time: In Search of a Common Paradise

Olivia Laing

4.07

Transform Your Habits

Doppelganger: A Trip into the Mirror World

Naomi Klein

4.22

Transform Your Habits

Candy Darling: Dreamer, Icon, Superstar

Cynthia Carr

4.27

Transform Your Habits

I Heard Her Call My Name: A Memoir of Transition

Lucy Sante

3.70

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