18 Best lgbt books like Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture by Sherronda J. Brown

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Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture

By: Sherronda J. Brown

4.53

Format: 240 pages, Paperback

For readers of Ace and Belly of the Beast: A Black queer feminist exploration of asexuality—and an …

If you liked the lgbt plot in Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture by Sherronda J. Brown , here is a list of 18 books like this:

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1. Love Letters for Joy

By: Melissa See

3.64

Format: 320 pages, Kindle Edition

A new LGBTQIA+ romance story by the author of You, Me, and Our Heartstrings. Less than a year away… read more

Similar categories in Melissa See's Love Letters for Joy book and Sherronda J. Brown's Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture

  • asexual
  • lgbt
  • queer
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2. How to Be Ace: A Memoir of Growing Up Asexual

By: Rebecca Burgess

4.15

Format: 208 pages, Paperback

Brave, witty and empowering, this graphic memoir follows Rebecca as she navigates her asexual ident… read more

Similar categories in Rebecca Burgess's How to Be Ace: A Memoir of Growing Up Asexual book and Sherronda J. Brown's Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture

  • asexual
  • nonfiction
  • lgbt
  • queer
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3. Dear Wendy

By: Ann Zhao

4.01

Format: 368 pages, Hardcover

Dear Wendy's Sophie and Jo, two aromantic and asexual students at Wellesley College, engage in an o… read more

Similar categories in Ann Zhao's Dear Wendy book and Sherronda J. Brown's Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture

  • audiobook
  • asexual
  • lgbt
  • queer
"Nobody talks about breaking up with your friends. It sucks. Especially when that friend ditches you to be with whoever they think is The One."

-Ann Zhao, Dear Wendy

"And still, it's hard to find people like me. The asexual community is small enough as it is; there are fewer aromantic people and even fewer people who are both."

-Ann Zhao, Dear Wendy

"And that really made me think for the first time about how this could happen with any friend who's not also aroace. Like, my person, my closest confidant, will probably always have someone else - a r…"

-Ann Zhao, Dear Wendy

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4. Is Love the Answer?

By: Uta Isaki

4.25

Format: 258 pages, Paperback

A poignant coming-of-age story about a young woman coming into her own as she discovers her identit… read more

Similar categories in Uta Isaki's Is Love the Answer? book and Sherronda J. Brown's Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture

  • asexual
  • lgbt
  • queer
"Like that club from earlier. Some people appreciate that vibe and some don't. If they force people to join when they don't want to, that's harassment. It's the same with romance."

-Uta Isaki, Is Love the Answer?

"Romance is supposed to be great, and not being able to like anyone isn't normal, because any regular person would definitely-" "But you feel like you don't get it. Then why should you have to do it? …"

-Uta Isaki, Is Love the Answer?

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5. Being Ace: An Anthology of Queer, Trans, Femme, and Disabled Stories of Asexual Love and Connection

By: Madeline Dyer

3.98

Format: 352 pages, Hardcover

Discover the infinite realms of asexual love across sci-fi, fantasy, and contemporary storiesFrom a… read more

Similar categories in Madeline Dyer's Being Ace: An Anthology of Queer, Trans, Femme, and Disabled Stories of Asexual Love and Connection book and Sherronda J. Brown's Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture

  • asexual
  • lgbt
  • queer
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6. Before We Were Trans: A New History of Gender

By: Kit Heyam

4.30

Format: 343 pages, Hardcover

A groundbreaking global history of gender nonconformity   Today’s narratives about trans people … read more

Similar categories in Kit Heyam's Before We Were Trans: A New History of Gender book and Sherronda J. Brown's Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture

  • history
  • queer
  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • audiobook
"It’s not as simple as saying that ‘while the terminology is new, the experiences are not.’ The advent of new terminology can genuinely shift how we think about gender, as well as what names we give t…"

-Kit Heyam, Before We Were Trans: A New History of Gender

"It's important that we, as historians or as queer people, don't treat gender and sexuality as two things that use to be entangled but have now been teased apart. There can be a tendency in white quee…"

-Kit Heyam, Before We Were Trans: A New History of Gender

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7. The Bruising of Qilwa

By: Naseem Jamnia

3.75

Format: 176 pages, Paperback

In this intricate debut fantasy introducing a queernormative Persian-inspired world, a nonbinary re… read more

Similar categories in Naseem Jamnia's The Bruising of Qilwa book and Sherronda J. Brown's Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture

  • audiobook
  • adult
  • lgbt
  • queer
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8. The Other Significant Others: Reimagining Life with Friendship at the Center

By: Rhaina Cohen

3.95

Format: 320 pages, Hardcover

Why do we place romantic partnership on a pedestal? What do we lose when we expect one person to me… read more

Similar categories in Rhaina Cohen's The Other Significant Others: Reimagining Life with Friendship at the Center book and Sherronda J. Brown's Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture

  • audiobook
  • adult
  • nonfiction
  • queer
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9. Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

By: Angela Chen

4.36

Format: 210 pages, Hardcover

An engaging exploration of what it means to be asexual in a world that's obsessed with sexual attra… read more

Similar categories in Angela Chen's Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex book and Sherronda J. Brown's Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture

  • audiobook
  • lgbt
  • feminism
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • adult
  • queer
"Representation not only reflects, but actually changes reality."

-Angela Chen, Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

"Loving another person should never mean forfeiting bodily autonomy."

-Angela Chen, Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

"It is a failure of society if anyone needs to say “I have a partner"

-Angela Chen, Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

"Aces aren't a puzzle with a missing piece. Everyone is their own full puzzle."

-Angela Chen, Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

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10. Aces Wild: A Heist

By: Amanda DeWitt

3.78

Format: 352 pages, Hardcover

What happens in Vegas when an all-asexual online friend group attempts to break into a high-stakes … read more

Similar categories in Amanda DeWitt's Aces Wild: A Heist book and Sherronda J. Brown's Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture

  • audiobook
  • asexual
  • lgbt
  • queer
"Just because you didn't experience sexual attraction didn't mean you didn't you didn't experience romantic feelings. But those romantic feelings didn't look like they did in the movies because, well,…"

-Amanda DeWitt, Aces Wild: A Heist

"It felt like a puzzle, mostly put together but with a piece missing, waiting to be filled. There were plenty of pieces to fill it- gay, straight, bisexual- but none fit quite right. Sometimes I thoug…"

-Amanda DeWitt, Aces Wild: A Heist

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11. Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture

By: Sherronda J. Brown

4.53

Format: 240 pages, Paperback

For readers of Ace and Belly of the Beast: A Black queer feminist exploration of asexuality—and an … read more

Similar categories in Sherronda J. Brown's Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture book and Sherronda J. Brown's Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture

  • audiobook
  • race
  • history
  • asexual
  • lgbt
  • feminism
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • adult
  • queer
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12. A Quick & Easy Guide to Asexuality

By: Molly Muldoon

4.11

Format: 72 pages, Paperback

This book is for anyone who wants to learn about asexuality, and for Ace people themselves, to vali… read more

Similar categories in Molly Muldoon's A Quick & Easy Guide to Asexuality book and Sherronda J. Brown's Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture

  • asexual
  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • adult
  • queer
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13. Sounds Fake But Okay

By: Sarah Costello

3.65

Format: 160 pages, Paperback

Somehow, over time, we forgot that the rituals behind dating and sex were constructs made up by hum… read more

Similar categories in Sarah Costello's Sounds Fake But Okay book and Sherronda J. Brown's Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture

  • audiobook
  • asexual
  • lgbt
  • feminism
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • adult
  • queer
Cover of Disability Intimacy: Essays on Love, Care, and Desire by Alice  Wong

14. Disability Intimacy: Essays on Love, Care, and Desire

By: Alice Wong

4.30

Format: 384 pages, Paperback

The much-anticipated follow up to the groundbreaking anthology Disability Visibility: another revol… read more

Similar categories in Alice Wong's Disability Intimacy: Essays on Love, Care, and Desire book and Sherronda J. Brown's Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture

  • adult
  • nonfiction
Cover of I Am Ace: Advice on Living Your Best Asexual Life by Cody Daigle-Orians

15. I Am Ace: Advice on Living Your Best Asexual Life

By: Cody Daigle-Orians

4.47

Format: 224 pages, Paperback

How do I know if I'm actually sexual? How do I come out as asexual? What kinds of relationship ca… read more

Similar categories in Cody Daigle-Orians's I Am Ace: Advice on Living Your Best Asexual Life book and Sherronda J. Brown's Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture

  • asexual
  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • adult
  • queer
"Our culture weaponizes wanting or not wanting sex across many different identities and experiences as a way to marginalize them. It's not exclusive to asexuality."

-Cody Daigle-Orians, I Am Ace: Advice on Living Your Best Asexual Life

"When confronted with someone who breaks the norm, some people find it easier to call that person's experience a fiction instead of altering their understanding of the world to include something new."

-Cody Daigle-Orians, I Am Ace: Advice on Living Your Best Asexual Life

"Anyone who asserts they're owed your disclosure is also working from the assumption that they're also owed your sexuality. And you owe no one either of those things. They're yours to share with someo…"

-Cody Daigle-Orians, I Am Ace: Advice on Living Your Best Asexual Life

"Unlike allosexual people who make the assumption that everyone should want and enjoy sex as much as they do, sex-averse and sex-repulsed ace folks are making choices about their own bodies and their …"

-Cody Daigle-Orians, I Am Ace: Advice on Living Your Best Asexual Life

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16. Awakenings (The Chronicles of Nerezia #1)

By: Claudie Arseneault

4.06

Format: 104 pages, ebook

Innkeep, hunter, blacksmith, nurse—Horace has apprenticed for every clan in the domed city of Trena… read more

Similar categories in Claudie Arseneault's Awakenings (The Chronicles of Nerezia #1) book and Sherronda J. Brown's Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture

  • asexual
  • adult
  • queer
  • lgbt
Cover of Hopeless Aromantic: An Affirmative Guide to Aromanticism by Samantha Rendle

17. Hopeless Aromantic: An Affirmative Guide to Aromanticism

By: Samantha Rendle

3.59

Format: 175 pages, Kindle Edition

If you've picked up this book, the chances are you have some doubts about your Happiness 101 assign… read more

Similar categories in Samantha Rendle's Hopeless Aromantic: An Affirmative Guide to Aromanticism book and Sherronda J. Brown's Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture

  • asexual
  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • queer
Cover of Unlearning Shame: How We Can Reject Self-Blame Culture and Reclaim Our Power by Devon  Price

18. Unlearning Shame: How We Can Reject Self-Blame Culture and Reclaim Our Power

By: Devon Price

4.33

Format: 368 pages, Hardcover

Learn to identify—and combat—Systemic Shame, the feeling of self-hatred and disempowerment that com… read more

Similar categories in Devon Price's Unlearning Shame: How We Can Reject Self-Blame Culture and Reclaim Our Power book and Sherronda J. Brown's Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture

  • audiobook
  • nonfiction
  • queer
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19. Ace Notes

By: Michele Kirichanskaya

3.80

Format: 272 pages, Paperback

What is the ace lens? Is my relationship queerplatonic? Am I sex-favorable, sex-averse or sex-rep… read more

Similar categories in Michele Kirichanskaya's Ace Notes book and Sherronda J. Brown's Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture

  • asexual
  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • adult
  • queer
Cover of Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace by Eris Young

20. Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace

By: Eris Young

3.93

Format: 288 pages, Paperback

How do we experience attraction? What does love mean to us? When did you realise you were ace? … read more

Similar categories in Eris Young's Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace book and Sherronda J. Brown's Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture

  • asexual
  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • adult
  • queer
"There is power in naming yourself, but there is also power in being unnameable."

-Eris Young, Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace

"When it comes to romance, we're told, "You'll know it when you see it" Which is fine, unless, of course, you don't."

-Eris Young, Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace

"For many people, being alone symbolises a failure to live up to the aspirational life that society tells them they should want."

-Eris Young, Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace

"And just as asexuality is not a disease to be cured, sex-aversion isn't a pathology unless the person experiencing it decides that it is."

-Eris Young, Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace

Cover of Ace and Aro Journeys: A Guide to Embracing Your Asexual or Aromantic Identity by The Ace and Aro Advocacy Project

21. Ace and Aro Journeys: A Guide to Embracing Your Asexual or Aromantic Identity

By: The Ace and Aro Advocacy Project

3.88

Format: 272 pages, Paperback

What does it mean to be ace or aro? How should I approach the challenges that come with being ace … read more

Similar categories in The Ace and Aro Advocacy Project's Ace and Aro Journeys: A Guide to Embracing Your Asexual or Aromantic Identity book and Sherronda J. Brown's Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture

  • asexual
  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • adult
  • queer

12 Best adult books like Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture by Sherronda J. Brown

Transform Your Habits

The Bruising of Qilwa

Naseem Jamnia

3.75

Transform Your Habits

The Other Significant Others: Reimagining Life with Friendship at the Center

Rhaina Cohen

3.95

Transform Your Habits

Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

Angela Chen

4.36

Transform Your Habits

Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture

Sherronda J. Brown

4.53

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14 best-selling nonfiction books like How to Be Ace: A Memoir of Growing Up Asexual by Rebecca Burgess

Transform Your Habits

The Invisible Orientation: An Introduction to Asexuality

Julie Sondra Decker

3.99

Transform Your Habits

How to Be Ace: A Memoir of Growing Up Asexual

Rebecca Burgess

4.15

Transform Your Habits

Gender Queer

Maia Kobabe

4.28

Transform Your Habits

Welcome to St. Hell: My Trans Teen Misadventure (St. Hell, #1)

Lewis Hancox

4.28

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