13 Top queer books like How We Do Family: From Adoption to Trans Pregnancy, What We Learned about Love and LGBTQ Parenthood by Trystan Reese

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How We Do Family: From Adoption to Trans Pregnancy, What We Learned about Love and LGBTQ Parenthood

By: Trystan Reese

4.23

Format: 240 pages, Hardcover

As featured in  People magazine : One LGBTQ family’s inspiring, heartfelt story of the many alterna…

If you liked the queer plot in How We Do Family: From Adoption to Trans Pregnancy, What We Learned about Love and LGBTQ Parenthood by Trystan Reese , here is a list of 13 books like this:

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1. A Midwife's Tale: The Life of Martha Ballard, Based on Her Diary, 1785-1812

By: Laurel Thatcher Ulrich

5.00

Format: 64 pages, Paperback

Drawing on the diaries of a midwife and healer in eighteenth-century Maine, this intimate history i… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • biography

2. Chasing Daylight: How My Forthcoming Death Transformed My Life

By: Eugene O'Kelly

3.62

Format: 320 pages,

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Cover of In the Form of a Question: The Joys and Rewards of a Curious Life by Amy Schneider

3. In the Form of a Question: The Joys and Rewards of a Curious Life

By: Amy Schneider

3.51

Format: 272 pages, Hardcover

An inspirational and bold memoir from the most successful woman ever to compete on Jeopardy! —and a… read more

Similar categories in Amy Schneider's In the Form of a Question: The Joys and Rewards of a Curious Life book and Trystan Reese's How We Do Family: From Adoption to Trans Pregnancy, What We Learned about Love and LGBTQ Parenthood

  • biography
  • memoir
  • transgender
  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • adult
  • queer
"I deprived myself of a joy in my life, because it was a joy only girls were allowed to feel. Life already seemed to be full of joys that one wasn't allowed to feel, so adding one more to the pile cam…"

-Amy Schneider, In the Form of a Question: The Joys and Rewards of a Curious Life

"I grew up with a strong desire for invisibility. In large part, this was due to the ever-present feeling that I was failing at performing my gender. The whole boy thing was just so exhausting, and I …"

-Amy Schneider, In the Form of a Question: The Joys and Rewards of a Curious Life

"I grew up with a strong desire for invisibility. In large part, this was due to the ever-present feeling that I was failing at performing my gender. The whole boy thing was just so exhausting, and I …"

-Amy Schneider, In the Form of a Question: The Joys and Rewards of a Curious Life

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4. Only Say Good Things: Surviving Playboy and Finding Myself

By: Crystal Hefner

3.73

Format: 240 pages, Hardcover

A raw and unflinching look at the objectification and misogyny of the Playboy mansion, a woman’s st… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • biography
  • memoir
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5. Have a Beautiful, Terrible Day!: Daily Meditations for the Ups, Downs & In-Betweens

By: Kate Bowler

4.34

Format: 240 pages, Hardcover

Witty, honest, and wise spiritual reflections that invite readers to embrace the bad, not just the … read more

Similar categories in Kate Bowler's Have a Beautiful, Terrible Day!: Daily Meditations for the Ups, Downs & In-Betweens book and Trystan Reese's How We Do Family: From Adoption to Trans Pregnancy, What We Learned about Love and LGBTQ Parenthood

  • nonfiction
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6. youthjuice

By: E.K. Sathue

3.21

Format: 288 pages, Hardcover

American Psycho meets The Devil Wears Prada: outrageous body horror for the goop generation A 29… read more

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  • adult
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7. Coming Home

By: Brittney Griner

4.43

Format: 320 pages, Hardcover

From the nine-time women’s basketball icon and two-time Olympic gold medalist—a raw, revelatory acc… read more

Similar categories in Brittney Griner's Coming Home book and Trystan Reese's How We Do Family: From Adoption to Trans Pregnancy, What We Learned about Love and LGBTQ Parenthood

  • biography
  • memoir
  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • queer
"When your world is violently upended, you don't just mourn your immediate losses. You also grieve a future that no longer feels possible, the peace that might've been."

-Brittney Griner, Coming Home

Cover of It’s Never Too Late: Make the Next Act of Your Life the Best Act of Your Life by Kathie Lee Gifford

8. It’s Never Too Late: Make the Next Act of Your Life the Best Act of Your Life

By: Kathie Lee Gifford

4.06

Format: 224 pages, Hardcover

A New York Times bestseller! It’s never too late to unearth your hidden passions, rewrite your stor… read more

Similar categories in Kathie Lee Gifford's It’s Never Too Late: Make the Next Act of Your Life the Best Act of Your Life book and Trystan Reese's How We Do Family: From Adoption to Trans Pregnancy, What We Learned about Love and LGBTQ Parenthood

  • nonfiction
  • adult
  • biography
  • memoir
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9. Beyond the Gender Binary

By: Alok Vaid-Menon

4.49

Format: 64 pages, Paperback

Beyond the Gender Binary, spoken word poet Alok Vaid-Menon challenges the world to see gender not … read more

Similar categories in Alok Vaid-Menon's Beyond the Gender Binary book and Trystan Reese's How We Do Family: From Adoption to Trans Pregnancy, What We Learned about Love and LGBTQ Parenthood

  • memoir
  • transgender
  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • queer
"I learned about gender through shame."

-Alok Vaid-Menon, Beyond the Gender Binary

"Critiquing gender is not the same thing as creating gender."

-Alok Vaid-Menon, Beyond the Gender Binary

"It's a surreal experience to have your personhood be reduced to a prop."

-Alok Vaid-Menon, Beyond the Gender Binary

"The days that I feel most beautiful are the days that I am most afraid."

-Alok Vaid-Menon, Beyond the Gender Binary

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10. A Billion Years: My Escape From a Life in the Highest Ranks of Scientology

By: Mike Rinder

4.31

Format: 336 pages, Hardcover

One of the highest-ranking defectors from Scientology exposes the secret inner workings of the powe… read more

Similar categories in Mike Rinder's A Billion Years: My Escape From a Life in the Highest Ranks of Scientology book and Trystan Reese's How We Do Family: From Adoption to Trans Pregnancy, What We Learned about Love and LGBTQ Parenthood

  • nonfiction
  • biography
  • memoir
"The fear of psychiatry is one of the hardest ideas to shake when you escape from the mind-prison."

-Mike Rinder, A Billion Years: My Escape From a Life in the Highest Ranks of Scientology

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11. How We Do Family: From Adoption to Trans Pregnancy, What We Learned about Love and LGBTQ Parenthood

By: Trystan Reese

4.23

Format: 240 pages, Hardcover

As featured in  People magazine : One LGBTQ family’s inspiring, heartfelt story of the many alterna… read more

Similar categories in Trystan Reese's How We Do Family: From Adoption to Trans Pregnancy, What We Learned about Love and LGBTQ Parenthood book and Trystan Reese's How We Do Family: From Adoption to Trans Pregnancy, What We Learned about Love and LGBTQ Parenthood

  • parenting
  • biography
  • memoir
  • transgender
  • lgbt
  • adoption
  • nonfiction
  • family
  • adult
  • queer
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12. The Love Prescription: Seven Days to More Intimacy, Connection, and Joy

By: John M. Gottman

4.47

Format: 208 pages, Paperback

What makes love last? Why does one couple stay together forever, while another falls apart? And mos… read more

Similar categories in John M. Gottman's The Love Prescription: Seven Days to More Intimacy, Connection, and Joy book and Trystan Reese's How We Do Family: From Adoption to Trans Pregnancy, What We Learned about Love and LGBTQ Parenthood

  • nonfiction
  • adult
  • parenting
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13. Deaf Utopia: A Memoir—And a Love Letter to a Way of Life

By: Nyle DiMarco

4.25

Format: 317 pages, Hardcover

A heartfelt and inspiring memoir and Deaf culture anthem by Nyle DiMarco, actor, producer, two-time… read more

Similar categories in Nyle DiMarco's Deaf Utopia: A Memoir—And a Love Letter to a Way of Life book and Trystan Reese's How We Do Family: From Adoption to Trans Pregnancy, What We Learned about Love and LGBTQ Parenthood

  • biography
  • memoir
  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • adult
  • queer
Cover of Released: Conversations on the Eve of Freedom by Gypsy-Rose Blanchard

14. Released: Conversations on the Eve of Freedom

By: Gypsy-Rose Blanchard

3.54

Format: 200 pages, Kindle Edition

Gypsy-Rose Blanchard discovered that her whole life was a lie. After eight-and-a-half years of inca… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • biography
  • memoir
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15. Ordinary Heroes: A Memoir of 9/11

By: Joseph Pfeifer

4.55

Format: 256 pages, Hardcover

From the first FDNY chief to respond to the 9/11 attacks, an intimate memoir and a tribute to those… read more

Similar categories in Joseph Pfeifer's Ordinary Heroes: A Memoir of 9/11 book and Trystan Reese's How We Do Family: From Adoption to Trans Pregnancy, What We Learned about Love and LGBTQ Parenthood

  • nonfiction
  • biography
  • memoir
Cover of Forever Boy: A Mother's Memoir of Autism and Finding Joy by Kate Swenson

16. Forever Boy: A Mother's Memoir of Autism and Finding Joy

By: Kate Swenson

4.62

Format: 288 pages, Hardcover

With her popular blog, Finding Cooper's Voice, Kate Swenson has provided hope and comfort for hundr… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • parenting
  • biography
  • memoir
Cover of Amateur: A True Story About What Makes a Man by Thomas Page McBee

17. Amateur: A True Story About What Makes a Man

By: Thomas Page McBee

4.22

Format: 205 pages, Hardcover

Thomas McBee, a trans man, sets out to uncover what makes a man—and what being a “good” man even me… read more

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  • biography
  • memoir
  • transgender
  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • queer
"Most of us experience gender conditioning so young—research shows it begins in infancy—that we misunderstand the relationship between nature and nurture, culture and biology, fitting in and being one…"

-Thomas Page McBee, Amateur: A True Story About What Makes a Man

"Boxing breaks many of the binaries that men are conditioned to believe about our bodies, our genders, ourselves. With its cover of 'realness' and violence, it provides room for what so many men lack:…"

-Thomas Page McBee, Amateur: A True Story About What Makes a Man

"I thought about the advantages thrown at me for an aesthetic that looked like a birthright. I thought about passing, and how it erased a part of me, and how hormones responded to context, and how rac…"

-Thomas Page McBee, Amateur: A True Story About What Makes a Man

"Millennial guys seemed, to the sociologists and anthropologists who studied them, to have attitudes toward women that portended a new era of equity—especially at work. But the reality was, indeed, fa…"

-Thomas Page McBee, Amateur: A True Story About What Makes a Man

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18. Accidental Czar: The Life and Lies of Vladimir Putin

By: Andrew S. Weiss

3.89

Format: 272 pages, Hardcover

This riveting graphic novel biography chronicles Vladimir Putin's rise from a mid-level KGB officer… read more

Similar categories in Andrew S. Weiss's Accidental Czar: The Life and Lies of Vladimir Putin book and Trystan Reese's How We Do Family: From Adoption to Trans Pregnancy, What We Learned about Love and LGBTQ Parenthood

  • nonfiction
  • biography
Cover of Forager: Field Notes for Surviving a Family Cult by Michelle  Dowd

19. Forager: Field Notes for Surviving a Family Cult

By: Michelle Dowd

3.70

Format: 288 pages, Hardcover

A moving, heartbreaking, and inspiring true story of the author’s escape from an apocalyptic cult—a… read more

Similar categories in Michelle Dowd's Forager: Field Notes for Surviving a Family Cult book and Trystan Reese's How We Do Family: From Adoption to Trans Pregnancy, What We Learned about Love and LGBTQ Parenthood

  • nonfiction
  • adult
  • biography
  • memoir
Cover of Chef's Choice (Chef's Kiss, #2) by T.J.   Alexander

20. Chef's Choice (Chef's Kiss, #2)

By: T.J. Alexander

4.04

Format: 336 pages, Paperback

“Urgent and intimate.” — The New York Times Book Review A fake dating arrangement turns to real … read more

Similar categories in T.J. Alexander's Chef's Choice (Chef's Kiss, #2) book and Trystan Reese's How We Do Family: From Adoption to Trans Pregnancy, What We Learned about Love and LGBTQ Parenthood

  • adult
  • queer
  • transgender
  • lgbt
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21. Yours for the Taking

By: Gabrielle Korn

3.66

Format: 336 pages, Hardcover

The year is 2050. Ava and her girlfriend live in what's left of Brooklyn, and though they love each… read more

Similar categories in Gabrielle Korn's Yours for the Taking book and Trystan Reese's How We Do Family: From Adoption to Trans Pregnancy, What We Learned about Love and LGBTQ Parenthood

  • adult
  • queer
  • lgbt
Cover of He/She/They: How We Talk About Gender and Why It Matters by Schuyler Bailar

22. He/She/They: How We Talk About Gender and Why It Matters

By: Schuyler Bailar

4.62

Format: 384 pages, Hardcover

Go‑to expert on gender identity, Schuyler Bailar, offers an essential, urgent guide that changes th… read more

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  • biography
  • memoir
  • transgender
  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • adult
  • queer
Cover of Tomorrow Will Be Different: Love, Loss, and the Fight for Trans Equality by Sarah McBride

23. Tomorrow Will Be Different: Love, Loss, and the Fight for Trans Equality

By: Sarah McBride

4.44

Format: 272 pages, Hardcover

A timely and captivating memoir about gender identity set against the backdrop of the transgender e… read more

Similar categories in Sarah McBride's Tomorrow Will Be Different: Love, Loss, and the Fight for Trans Equality book and Trystan Reese's How We Do Family: From Adoption to Trans Pregnancy, What We Learned about Love and LGBTQ Parenthood

  • memoir
  • transgender
  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • queer
"It's impossible for our rights to remain abstract when a person is, quite literally, sitting across from you."

-Sarah McBride, Tomorrow Will Be Different: Love, Loss, and the Fight for Trans Equality

"Compromise is often necessary [in politics], but entire marginalized identities are not expendable chess pieces."

-Sarah McBride, Tomorrow Will Be Different: Love, Loss, and the Fight for Trans Equality

"When you've never felt like you really belonged somewhere, it's almost impossible to know what it will feel like to finally feel at home."

-Sarah McBride, Tomorrow Will Be Different: Love, Loss, and the Fight for Trans Equality

"As trans activist Faye Seidler quipped, more Americans said they had seen a ghost than knew a transgender person, according to some polls."

-Sarah McBride, Tomorrow Will Be Different: Love, Loss, and the Fight for Trans Equality

Cover of Brain-Body Parenting: How to Stop Managing Behavior and Start Raising Joyful, Resilient Kids by Mona Delahooke

24. Brain-Body Parenting: How to Stop Managing Behavior and Start Raising Joyful, Resilient Kids

By: Mona Delahooke

4.28

Format: 352 pages, Hardcover

NATIONAL BESTSELLER From a leading child psychologist comes this groundbreaking new understanding o… read more

Similar categories in Mona Delahooke's Brain-Body Parenting: How to Stop Managing Behavior and Start Raising Joyful, Resilient Kids book and Trystan Reese's How We Do Family: From Adoption to Trans Pregnancy, What We Learned about Love and LGBTQ Parenthood

  • nonfiction
  • parenting
  • family
Cover of Modern Friendship: How to Nurture Our Most Valued Connections by Anna Goldfarb

25. Modern Friendship: How to Nurture Our Most Valued Connections

By: Anna Goldfarb

4.01

Format: 288 pages, Hardcover

From the “New York Times friendship correspondent,” a definitive step-by-step guide to understandin… read more

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  • nonfiction
Cover of The Long Covid Survival Guide: How to Take Care of Yourself and What Comes Next by Fiona Lowenstein

26. The Long Covid Survival Guide: How to Take Care of Yourself and What Comes Next

By: Fiona Lowenstein

4.28

Format: 288 pages, Paperback

The first patient-to-patient guide for people living with Long COVID—with expert advice on getting … read more

Similar categories in Fiona Lowenstein's The Long Covid Survival Guide: How to Take Care of Yourself and What Comes Next book and Trystan Reese's How We Do Family: From Adoption to Trans Pregnancy, What We Learned about Love and LGBTQ Parenthood

  • nonfiction
Cover of Queer Conception: The Complete Fertility Guide for Queer and Trans Parents-to-Be by Kristin Liam Kali

27. Queer Conception: The Complete Fertility Guide for Queer and Trans Parents-to-Be

By: Kristin Liam Kali

4.66

Format: 320 pages, Paperback

Making a baby through love and science? Get the guidance you need to navigate the conception proce… read more

Similar categories in Kristin Liam Kali's Queer Conception: The Complete Fertility Guide for Queer and Trans Parents-to-Be book and Trystan Reese's How We Do Family: From Adoption to Trans Pregnancy, What We Learned about Love and LGBTQ Parenthood

  • nonfiction
  • parenting
  • queer
  • lgbt
Cover of Choosing Family: A Memoir of Queer Motherhood and Black Resistance by Francesca Royster

28. Choosing Family: A Memoir of Queer Motherhood and Black Resistance

By: Francesca Royster

4.09

Format: 288 pages, Hardcover

Choosing Family: A Memoir of Queer Motherhood and Black Resistance is a brilliant literary memoir o… read more

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  • memoir
  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • adult
  • queer
Cover of The Doula's Guide to Empowering Your Birth: A Complete Labor and Childbirth Companion for Parents to Be by Lindsey Bliss

29. The Doula's Guide to Empowering Your Birth: A Complete Labor and Childbirth Companion for Parents to Be

By: Lindsey Bliss

3.75

Format: 208 pages, Kindle Edition

Experienced doula, Lindsey Bliss, shows you how to prepare physically and mentally for every elemen… read more

Similar categories in Lindsey Bliss's The Doula's Guide to Empowering Your Birth: A Complete Labor and Childbirth Companion for Parents to Be book and Trystan Reese's How We Do Family: From Adoption to Trans Pregnancy, What We Learned about Love and LGBTQ Parenthood

  • nonfiction
  • parenting
Cover of Raising Them: Our Adventure in Gender Creative Parenting by Kyl Myers

30. Raising Them: Our Adventure in Gender Creative Parenting

By: Kyl Myers

4.16

Format: 237 pages, Kindle Edition

“What did you have? A boy or a girl?” Kyl and Brent imagined it would be years before their child w… read more

Similar categories in Kyl Myers's Raising Them: Our Adventure in Gender Creative Parenting book and Trystan Reese's How We Do Family: From Adoption to Trans Pregnancy, What We Learned about Love and LGBTQ Parenthood

  • parenting
  • biography
  • memoir
  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • queer
Cover of As We Exist: A Postcolonial Autobiography by Kaoutar Harchi

31. As We Exist: A Postcolonial Autobiography

By: Kaoutar Harchi

3.67

Format: None pages, Paperback

In this thoughtful coming-of-age memoir, a young sociologist reflects on her Moroccan immigrant par… read more

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  • nonfiction
  • memoir

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Amy Schneider

3.51

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E.K. Sathue

3.21

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It’s Never Too Late: Make the Next Act of Your Life the Best Act of Your Life

Kathie Lee Gifford

4.06

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Laura Kate Dale

4.11

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Kai Cheng Thom

4.18

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Elliot Page

3.75

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Curtis Chin

3.80

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