18 best-selling lgbt books like Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex by Angela Chen

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Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

By: Angela Chen

4.36

Format: 210 pages, Hardcover

An engaging exploration of what it means to be asexual in a world that's obsessed with sexual attra…

"Representation not only reflects, but actually changes reality."

-Angela Chen, Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

"Loving another person should never mean forfeiting bodily autonomy."

-Angela Chen, Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

"It is a failure of society if anyone needs to say “I have a partner"

-Angela Chen, Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

"Aces aren't a puzzle with a missing piece. Everyone is their own full puzzle."

-Angela Chen, Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

If you liked the lgbt plot in Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex by Angela Chen , here is a list of 18 books like this:

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1. The Invisible Orientation: An Introduction to Asexuality

By: Julie Sondra Decker

3.99

Format: None pages, Hardcover

What if you weren't sexually attracted to anyone? A growing number of people are identifying as ase… read more

Similar categories in Julie Sondra Decker's The Invisible Orientation: An Introduction to Asexuality book and Angela Chen's Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

  • lgbt
  • psychology
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • queer

2. Let's Talk About Love

By: Claire Kann

3.37

Format: 200 pages, ebook

Alice had her whole summer planned. Non-stop all-you-can-eat buffets while marathoning her favorite… read more

Similar categories in Claire Kann's Let's Talk About Love book and Angela Chen's Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

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3. How to Be Ace: A Memoir of Growing Up Asexual

By: Rebecca Burgess

4.15

Format: 208 pages, Paperback

Brave, witty and empowering, this graphic memoir follows Rebecca as she navigates her asexual ident… read more

Similar categories in Rebecca Burgess's How to Be Ace: A Memoir of Growing Up Asexual book and Angela Chen's Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • memoir
  • queer
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4. Gender Queer

By: Maia Kobabe

4.28

Format: 240 pages, Paperback

In 2014, Maia Kobabe, who uses e/em/eir pronouns, thought that a comic of reading statistics would … read more

Similar categories in Maia Kobabe's Gender Queer book and Angela Chen's Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • memoir
  • queer
"I don't"

-Maia Kobabe, Gender Queer

"My deepest emotional relationships have always been with women. Did that mean I was a lesbian? But my sexual fantasies involved two male partners. Was I a gay boy tapped in a girl's body? The knowled…"

-Maia Kobabe, Gender Queer

"Some people are born in the mountains, while others are born by the sea. Some people are happy to live in the place they were born, while others must make a journey to reach the climate in which they…"

-Maia Kobabe, Gender Queer

"As I pondered a pronoun change, I began to think of gender less as a scale and more as a landscape. Some people are born in the mountains, while others are born by the sea. Some people are happy to l…"

-Maia Kobabe, Gender Queer

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5. Dear Wendy

By: Ann Zhao

4.01

Format: 368 pages, Hardcover

Dear Wendy's Sophie and Jo, two aromantic and asexual students at Wellesley College, engage in an o… read more

Similar categories in Ann Zhao's Dear Wendy book and Angela Chen's Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

  • audiobook
  • lgbt
  • queer
"Nobody talks about breaking up with your friends. It sucks. Especially when that friend ditches you to be with whoever they think is The One."

-Ann Zhao, Dear Wendy

"And still, it's hard to find people like me. The asexual community is small enough as it is; there are fewer aromantic people and even fewer people who are both."

-Ann Zhao, Dear Wendy

"And that really made me think for the first time about how this could happen with any friend who's not also aroace. Like, my person, my closest confidant, will probably always have someone else - a r…"

-Ann Zhao, Dear Wendy

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6. Is Love the Answer?

By: Uta Isaki

4.25

Format: 258 pages, Paperback

A poignant coming-of-age story about a young woman coming into her own as she discovers her identit… read more

Similar categories in Uta Isaki's Is Love the Answer? book and Angela Chen's Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

  • lgbt
  • queer
"Like that club from earlier. Some people appreciate that vibe and some don't. If they force people to join when they don't want to, that's harassment. It's the same with romance."

-Uta Isaki, Is Love the Answer?

"Romance is supposed to be great, and not being able to like anyone isn't normal, because any regular person would definitely-" "But you feel like you don't get it. Then why should you have to do it? …"

-Uta Isaki, Is Love the Answer?

Cover of Being Ace: An Anthology of Queer, Trans, Femme, and Disabled Stories of Asexual Love and Connection by Madeline Dyer

7. Being Ace: An Anthology of Queer, Trans, Femme, and Disabled Stories of Asexual Love and Connection

By: Madeline Dyer

3.98

Format: 352 pages, Hardcover

Discover the infinite realms of asexual love across sci-fi, fantasy, and contemporary storiesFrom a… read more

Similar categories in Madeline Dyer's Being Ace: An Anthology of Queer, Trans, Femme, and Disabled Stories of Asexual Love and Connection book and Angela Chen's Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

  • lgbt
  • queer
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8. Hijab Butch Blues

By: Lamya H.

4.48

Format: 284 pages, Hardcover

A queer hijabi Muslim immigrant survives her coming-of-age by drawing strength and hope from storie… read more

Similar categories in Lamya H.'s Hijab Butch Blues book and Angela Chen's Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

  • audiobook
  • memoir
  • lgbt
  • feminism
  • nonfiction
  • queer
"Sort of?"

-Lamya H., Hijab Butch Blues

"Queer indispensability?"

-Lamya H., Hijab Butch Blues

"I feel tired. Or reckless. Or maybe brave."

-Lamya H., Hijab Butch Blues

"I want to figure her out, this girl, and I want to know everything about her."

-Lamya H., Hijab Butch Blues

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9. The Other Significant Others: Reimagining Life with Friendship at the Center

By: Rhaina Cohen

3.95

Format: 320 pages, Hardcover

Why do we place romantic partnership on a pedestal? What do we lose when we expect one person to me… read more

Similar categories in Rhaina Cohen's The Other Significant Others: Reimagining Life with Friendship at the Center book and Angela Chen's Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

  • audiobook
  • psychology
  • nonfiction
  • adult
  • sociology
  • queer
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10. Loveless

By: Alice Oseman

4.20

Format: 433 pages, Paperback

It was all sinking in. I’d never had a crush on anyone. No boys, no girls, not a single person I ha… read more

Similar categories in Alice Oseman's Loveless book and Angela Chen's Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

  • audiobook
  • lgbt
  • queer
"God, I am sad gay and alone"

-Alice Oseman, Loveless

" Some little comedy play? Apologize to Oscar Wilde right the fuck now!"

-Alice Oseman, Loveless

"I wasn’t going to die alone. I was going to try harder. I wanted forever love. I didn’t want to be loveless."

-Alice Oseman, Loveless

"Give your friendships the magic you would give a romance. Because they're just as important. Actually, for us, they're way more important."

-Alice Oseman, Loveless

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11. Unmasking Autism: Discovering the New Faces of Neurodiversity

By: Devon Price

4.44

Format: 304 pages, Hardcover

A deep dive into the spectrum of Autistic experience and the phenomenon of masked Autism, giving in… read more

Similar categories in Devon Price's Unmasking Autism: Discovering the New Faces of Neurodiversity book and Angela Chen's Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

  • audiobook
  • nonfiction
  • psychology
  • queer
"Therapy that is focused on battling “irrational beliefs,"

-Devon Price, Unmasking Autism: Discovering the New Faces of Neurodiversity

"Refusing to perform neurotypicality is a revolutionary act of disability justice. It's also a radical act of self-love."

-Devon Price, Unmasking Autism: Discovering the New Faces of Neurodiversity

"Much of what we call maturity is a silly pantomime of independence and unfeeling, not a real quality of unbreakable strength."

-Devon Price, Unmasking Autism: Discovering the New Faces of Neurodiversity

"We have to keep other people at arm's length, because letting them see our hyperfixations, meltdowns, obsessions, and outbursts could mean losing their respect. But locking ourselves away means we ca…"

-Devon Price, Unmasking Autism: Discovering the New Faces of Neurodiversity

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12. Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

By: Angela Chen

4.36

Format: 210 pages, Hardcover

An engaging exploration of what it means to be asexual in a world that's obsessed with sexual attra… read more

Similar categories in Angela Chen's Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex book and Angela Chen's Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

  • audiobook
  • memoir
  • lgbt
  • feminism
  • psychology
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • adult
  • sociology
  • queer
"Representation not only reflects, but actually changes reality."

-Angela Chen, Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

"It is a failure of society if anyone needs to say “I have a partner"

-Angela Chen, Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

"Loving another person should never mean forfeiting bodily autonomy."

-Angela Chen, Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

"Aces aren't a puzzle with a missing piece. Everyone is their own full puzzle."

-Angela Chen, Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

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13. Aces Wild: A Heist

By: Amanda DeWitt

3.78

Format: 352 pages, Hardcover

What happens in Vegas when an all-asexual online friend group attempts to break into a high-stakes … read more

Similar categories in Amanda DeWitt's Aces Wild: A Heist book and Angela Chen's Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

  • audiobook
  • lgbt
  • queer
"Just because you didn't experience sexual attraction didn't mean you didn't you didn't experience romantic feelings. But those romantic feelings didn't look like they did in the movies because, well,…"

-Amanda DeWitt, Aces Wild: A Heist

"It felt like a puzzle, mostly put together but with a piece missing, waiting to be filled. There were plenty of pieces to fill it- gay, straight, bisexual- but none fit quite right. Sometimes I thoug…"

-Amanda DeWitt, Aces Wild: A Heist

Cover of Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture by Sherronda J. Brown

14. Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture

By: Sherronda J. Brown

4.53

Format: 240 pages, Paperback

For readers of Ace and Belly of the Beast: A Black queer feminist exploration of asexuality—and an … read more

Similar categories in Sherronda J. Brown's Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture book and Angela Chen's Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

  • audiobook
  • lgbt
  • feminism
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • adult
  • queer
Cover of Bi: The Hidden Culture, History, and Science of Bisexuality: The Hidden Culture, History, and Science of Bisexuality by Julia  Shaw

15. Bi: The Hidden Culture, History, and Science of Bisexuality: The Hidden Culture, History, and Science of Bisexuality

By: Julia Shaw

4.14

Format: 240 pages, Hardcover

Despite all the welcome changes that have happened in our culture and laws over the past few decade… read more

Similar categories in Julia Shaw's Bi: The Hidden Culture, History, and Science of Bisexuality: The Hidden Culture, History, and Science of Bisexuality book and Angela Chen's Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

  • audiobook
  • lgbt
  • feminism
  • psychology
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • queer
"Rather than being 'this not that' I am this *and* that... I've felt like a blossoming flower. As I become more fully me and as I'm more comfortable with each petal of my identity, I open myself up an…"

-Julia Shaw, Bi: The Hidden Culture, History, and Science of Bisexuality: The Hidden Culture, History, and Science of Bisexuality

Cover of Sounds Fake But Okay by Sarah Costello

16. Sounds Fake But Okay

By: Sarah Costello

3.65

Format: 160 pages, Paperback

Somehow, over time, we forgot that the rituals behind dating and sex were constructs made up by hum… read more

Similar categories in Sarah Costello's Sounds Fake But Okay book and Angela Chen's Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

  • audiobook
  • lgbt
  • feminism
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • adult
  • queer
Cover of I Am Ace: Advice on Living Your Best Asexual Life by Cody Daigle-Orians

17. I Am Ace: Advice on Living Your Best Asexual Life

By: Cody Daigle-Orians

4.47

Format: 224 pages, Paperback

How do I know if I'm actually sexual? How do I come out as asexual? What kinds of relationship ca… read more

Similar categories in Cody Daigle-Orians's I Am Ace: Advice on Living Your Best Asexual Life book and Angela Chen's Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • adult
  • queer
"Our culture weaponizes wanting or not wanting sex across many different identities and experiences as a way to marginalize them. It's not exclusive to asexuality."

-Cody Daigle-Orians, I Am Ace: Advice on Living Your Best Asexual Life

"When confronted with someone who breaks the norm, some people find it easier to call that person's experience a fiction instead of altering their understanding of the world to include something new."

-Cody Daigle-Orians, I Am Ace: Advice on Living Your Best Asexual Life

"Anyone who asserts they're owed your disclosure is also working from the assumption that they're also owed your sexuality. And you owe no one either of those things. They're yours to share with someo…"

-Cody Daigle-Orians, I Am Ace: Advice on Living Your Best Asexual Life

"Unlike allosexual people who make the assumption that everyone should want and enjoy sex as much as they do, sex-averse and sex-repulsed ace folks are making choices about their own bodies and their …"

-Cody Daigle-Orians, I Am Ace: Advice on Living Your Best Asexual Life

Cover of Hopeless Aromantic: An Affirmative Guide to Aromanticism by Samantha Rendle

18. Hopeless Aromantic: An Affirmative Guide to Aromanticism

By: Samantha Rendle

3.59

Format: 175 pages, Kindle Edition

If you've picked up this book, the chances are you have some doubts about your Happiness 101 assign… read more

Similar categories in Samantha Rendle's Hopeless Aromantic: An Affirmative Guide to Aromanticism book and Angela Chen's Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

  • nonfiction
  • queer
  • sexuality
  • lgbt
Cover of Asexual Erotics: Intimate Readings of Compulsory Sexuality (Abnormativities: Queer/Gender/Embodiment) by Ela Przybylo

19. Asexual Erotics: Intimate Readings of Compulsory Sexuality (Abnormativities: Queer/Gender/Embodiment)

By: Ela Przybylo

3.89

Format: 210 pages, Hardcover

Challenging what she sees as an obsession with sex and sexuality, Ela Przybylo examines the silence… read more

Similar categories in Ela Przybylo's Asexual Erotics: Intimate Readings of Compulsory Sexuality (Abnormativities: Queer/Gender/Embodiment) book and Angela Chen's Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

  • lgbt
  • feminism
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • queer
Cover of Ace Notes by Michele Kirichanskaya

20. Ace Notes

By: Michele Kirichanskaya

3.80

Format: 272 pages, Paperback

What is the ace lens? Is my relationship queerplatonic? Am I sex-favorable, sex-averse or sex-rep… read more

Similar categories in Michele Kirichanskaya's Ace Notes book and Angela Chen's Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

  • lgbt
  • nonfiction
  • sexuality
  • adult
  • queer
Cover of Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace by Eris Young

21. Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace

By: Eris Young

3.93

Format: 288 pages, Paperback

How do we experience attraction? What does love mean to us? When did you realise you were ace? … read more

Similar categories in Eris Young's Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace book and Angela Chen's Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

  • lgbt
  • psychology
  • sexuality
  • nonfiction
  • adult
  • queer
"There is power in naming yourself, but there is also power in being unnameable."

-Eris Young, Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace

"When it comes to romance, we're told, "You'll know it when you see it" Which is fine, unless, of course, you don't."

-Eris Young, Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace

"For many people, being alone symbolises a failure to live up to the aspirational life that society tells them they should want."

-Eris Young, Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace

"And just as asexuality is not a disease to be cured, sex-aversion isn't a pathology unless the person experiencing it decides that it is."

-Eris Young, Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace

7 Best adult books like Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex by Angela Chen

Transform Your Habits

The Other Significant Others: Reimagining Life with Friendship at the Center

Rhaina Cohen

3.95

Transform Your Habits

Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

Angela Chen

4.36

Transform Your Habits

Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture

Sherronda J. Brown

4.53

Transform Your Habits

Sounds Fake But Okay

Sarah Costello

3.65

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14 Best audiobook books like Bi: The Hidden Culture, History, and Science of Bisexuality: The Hidden Culture, History, and Science of Bisexuality by Julia Shaw

Transform Your Habits

None of the Above: Reflections on Life Beyond the Binary

Travis Alabanza

4.38

Transform Your Habits

Pageboy

Elliot Page

3.75

Transform Your Habits

Before We Were Trans: A New History of Gender

Kit Heyam

4.30

Transform Your Habits

The Transgender Issue: An Argument for Justice

Shon Faye

4.55

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